FabSwingers.com forum: Ass slapping

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We were out drinking Friday night and called a guy we know to come and have a drink with us. He arrived with a couple of friends but at the end of the night he asked if we could drop him home.

Long story short, as soon as we got in the car he suggested we go to a motel (sex hotels here in Brazil) and we thought why not.

Anyway we got there, stripped off and got straight down to the business which involved quite a bit of ass slapping on Aurelia whilst he was fucking her.

After we eventually dropped him home, I asked Aurelia what she thought of the ass slapping and she said she didn't like it too much but didn't want to kill the vibe by telling him.

I guess it's something we need to set straight from the outset when things like that happen in the future.

What do you guys think? Do you like it or not?

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By *rsmith21zMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

Love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes please

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By *eaSlutsCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

It can be very fun but also totally kill the vibe if you're not feeling it. That's why it's always good to check first

C x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a rule I wouldn't do it unless it's something we had discussed previously or have been asked to do during, yes some like it but there are others that it is a complete no go, consent is key

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Just shows how women feel dis-empowered even with a partner present. It's sad she did not feel able to stop it for fear of "killing the vibe" - whose vibe, the male vibe sadly.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"As a rule I wouldn't do it unless it's something we had discussed previously or have been asked to do during, yes some like it but there are others that it is a complete no go, consent is key "

This is the thing I guess.

All of our meets are unplanned and happen when out drinking so we get caught up in the moment.

We need to be more aware in future just to set a couple of boundaries.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just shows how women feel dis-empowered even with a partner present. It's sad she did not feel able to stop it for fear of "killing the vibe" - whose vibe, the male vibe sadly."

True and I will know in future to establish that before any fun starts.

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By *irty-pairCouple
over a year ago

South Essex

We love it (check out our video!), but we’d never assume others do because impact play isn’t for everyone x

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By *.T.Man
over a year ago

the Dromara hills

It's one of those things that when in the heat of the moment can be erotic, but consent is key. He should have picked up cues as you shouldn't have to kill your vibe to protect his.

When the fun stops, stop.

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By *arry monk40Man
over a year ago

Telford

I don't like to see it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm likely to slap whoever slapped me if they hadn't asked first

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By *rsmith21zMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

Lol

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane

A bit of ass slapping is good...but not too much.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm likely to slap whoever slapped me if they hadn't asked first

Ha ha something for everyone to take note of.

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

I wouldn't have tolerated someone slapping or doing something I didn't like. Such a shame she wasn't able to say something like "that's great, but I'm not into slapping", or give you a look so that you knew there was a problem.

Maybe you need a code word for future incidents.

I'd not put up with something I didn't like.

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By *altyMouthsCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

We do it together.If it's heat of the moment meets, I would check if I were to do it to someone else and we would be out of there in a flash if a meet did it without checking.

Consent is sexy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I wouldn't have tolerated someone slapping or doing something I didn't like. Such a shame she wasn't able to say something like "that's great, but I'm not into slapping", or give you a look so that you knew there was a problem.

Maybe you need a code word for future incidents.

I'd not put up with something I didn't like.

No, it's definitely something we will learn from as we hadn't really experienced it before in previous bits of fun.

We'll discuss exactly that for anything in the future.

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By *nselfishpleaserMan
over a year ago

kent

Bit of arse slapping and hair pulling is good, not too hard though.

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By *aite5793Man
over a year ago

stockton

Slap or whip, love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m yet to experience it

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By *eastXMan
over a year ago

London

It is a personal preference. She shouldve said something. She doesnt have to maintain the vibe if she is not comfortable.

Be safe and enjoy it!

Me personally I can get both gentle and rough depending on the vibe and connection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it and it's not something I'd expect to be asked first

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By *nonymous95-2Woman
over a year ago

Northwich

I've found it common and I don't mind it but most guys don't ask. I had one guy the slaps at a time, then pause, then again on my hip bone continually.

Seems a porn move, but if I'm asked, one of the hottest things if done right.

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By *kinandbonesCouple
over a year ago

dublin

We both love it as it adds to the Dom aspect of meeting a guy

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By *lueFireCouple
over a year ago

just somewhere around here

I have never understood why men feel that all of us females want our arse to be slapped when having sex? Unless it is something I have asked for i feel it is so cheesy and cliched.

I have had guys do it to me and it really does spoil the moment, it is like they think they are in some porn film and that all women love it.

I think I will start slapping them back now each time they do it without asking

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By *ornyhungforfilthyfunMan
over a year ago

London

Say it how it is! If you don’t like it tell them straight, if they’re cool they’ll understand if their a dick they won’t and sling em simples ...

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By *ttentiveRabbitMan
over a year ago

Lymington

Not for me.

But I echo the fact you should of felt safe enough to say no thank you.

Isn’t this what the whole safe word thing is for, so things can stop without making it unpleasant for all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Porn has a lot to answer for.

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By *ifeOnMarsCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there

"I have never understood why men feel that all of us females want our arse to be slapped when having sex? Unless it is something I have asked for i feel it is so cheesy and cliched.

I have had guys do it to me and it really does spoil the moment, it is like they think they are in some porn film and that all women love it.

I think I will start slapping them back now each time they do it without asking

Exactly this

I hate having my arse slapped!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally never liked it or the thought about it... I wouldn't want a big red hand mark on my arse....

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

LOVE IT!

But I do find it weird if they haven't asked. And some guys really overdo it.

A x

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

taunton somerset

if a guy has me at a peak state of horny the i love my bum being slapped ..but within reason

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Make me weep.

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By *ubcdverykinkyMan
over a year ago

Bourne lincs

I love being spanked and canned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a good spanking

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By *.T.Man
over a year ago

the Dromara hills

"Porn has a lot to answer for. "

Yep, you can get a plumber within minutes and nurses always take your temperature by sucking you cock, right?

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By *ensualMan
over a year ago

Sutton

No impact (including hair pulling , hands on throat) should be done without clear verbal consent. If a person has not got the confidence or interpersonal skills to ask, they should not be doing it.

No-one should put up or tolerate such behavior.

Also it is so much hotter being given explicit, enthusiastic consent.

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

I prefer a good strong grab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you need to state what you like/don’t like.

Personally, I really enjoy it, as well as hair pulling, but the husband can tell what kind of mood I’m in.

Mrs

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By *vilgasamWoman
over a year ago

The dot in the i

I’d have said something, the way they react to my no would tell me a lot

If they blow up, I got out in time

If they’re not bothered, shrug and we continue, they’re the type I can relax with

It’s a good way to find out sooner rather than later

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

"We were out drinking Friday night and called a guy we know to come and have a drink with us. He arrived with a couple of friends but at the end of the night he asked if we could drop him home.

Long story short, as soon as we got in the car he suggested we go to a motel (sex hotels here in Brazil) and we thought why not.

Anyway we got there, stripped off and got straight down to the business which involved quite a bit of ass slapping on Aurelia whilst he was fucking her.

After we eventually dropped him home, I asked Aurelia what she thought of the ass slapping and she said she didn't like it too much but didn't want to kill the vibe by telling him.

I guess it's something we need to set straight from the outset when things like that happen in the future.

What do you guys think? Do you like it or not?"

If anyone slaps my ass it's the end of play. It's far too presumptuous to assume that a new partner is going to enjoy your particular kink or porn movie scene before asking them.

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By *ritIndianCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

I love arse slapping and hair pulling but would never assume anyone else does. If I wasn’t into it I hope I would be comfortable to say so and if I did and it ruined the mood so be it.

Mrs

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By *ldFashionedGentMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

"We were out drinking Friday night and called a guy we know to come and have a drink with us. He arrived with a couple of friends but at the end of the night he asked if we could drop him home.

Long story short, as soon as we got in the car he suggested we go to a motel (sex hotels here in Brazil) and we thought why not.

Anyway we got there, stripped off and got straight down to the business which involved quite a bit of ass slapping on Aurelia whilst he was fucking her.

After we eventually dropped him home, I asked Aurelia what she thought of the ass slapping and she said she didn't like it too much but didn't want to kill the vibe by telling him.

I guess it's something we need to set straight from the outset when things like that happen in the future.

What do you guys think? Do you like it or not?"

Something I like (not too hard and anticipation is key) but only after checking in with her first. And would hope that she would say yes or no

Goal is to make sure she’s enjoying so definitely would recommend letting him know next time. He won’t mind and you can do it gently

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By *ertslady1984Woman
over a year ago

Herts

Oh yes some impact play can be fun but never feel you can't say something out of fear it's going to kill the moment. I've let someone carry on with something they where really enjoying, I ended up really hurt by it.

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By *ddfellowMan
over a year ago

Newferry, wirral

I enjoy a bit ass slapping both ways but would never presume

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't do this with someone I didn't know unless it was specifically brought up at the time. The vibe has to work for everyone.

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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago

Wirral

For us personally it's a

. I love seeing/listening to Rach being handspanked.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

"It is a personal preference. She shouldve said something. She doesnt have to maintain the vibe if she is not comfortable.

Be safe and enjoy it!

Me personally I can get both gentle and rough depending on the vibe and connection. "

How about, he should have gained consent.

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By *lice AgainTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Urgh, hate it.

It's an awful thing when you've got a guy deep inside you and you're loving it and then he slaps your ass and brings you right out of the moment.

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By *ustylouWoman
over a year ago

Aylesbury

I do like it at times. But guys please vary where you slap. My arse is big enough you dont have to keep in the same spot. It's fun until it becomes painful and then watch out one day I will slap back. Rubbing it better is just as fun.

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By *inx and NymphCouple
over a year ago

bristol

I dunno I feel like him asking if he can slap my ass takes a bit of something away from it . I’ve never felt like it was ever out of place . Even if it was a bit of a shock or a bit harder than I’m used to, it’s never taken me out of the situation mentally or emotionally. But I guess everyone has a different tolerance or expectation to that kind of thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dunno I feel like him asking if he can slap my ass takes a bit of something away from it . I’ve never felt like it was ever out of place . Even if it was a bit of a shock or a bit harder than I’m used to, it’s never taken me out of the situation mentally or emotionally. But I guess everyone has a different tolerance or expectation to that kind of thing "

Exactly how I feel! I'd be turned off if he asked me first.

I think we have to be ok with people trying things during sex that we might not like, I mean you cant expect a man to ask every time he wants to do something to you. Consent doesn't need to be explicit for every act.

If he does something you don't enjoy and you want him to stop just tell him, or of it's not that bad you let him and then you ask he doesn't do it next time.

It's the same for women on men!

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight

"I have never understood why men feel that all of us females want our arse to be slapped when having sex? Unless it is something I have asked for i feel it is so cheesy and cliched.

I have had guys do it to me and it really does spoil the moment, it is like they think they are in some porn film and that all women love it.

I think I will start slapping them back now each time they do it without asking

Suspect that porn is the root of this. But have never seen slapping back in one...

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By *inx and NymphCouple
over a year ago

bristol

Exactly how I feel! I'd be turned off if he asked me first.

If he does something you don't enjoy and you want him to stop just tell him, or of it's not that bad you let him and then you ask he doesn't do it next time.

It's the same for women on men!"

Yeah I feel the same way

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Exactly how I feel! I'd be turned off if he asked me first.

If he does something you don't enjoy and you want him to stop just tell him, or of it's not that bad you let him and then you ask he doesn't do it next time.

It's the same for women on men!"

Wtf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Latest pic does it warrant a ass slap

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By *REEPALESTINEMan
over a year ago

derby

Love it creates a spark

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin

"We were out drinking Friday night and called a guy we know to come and have a drink with us. He arrived with a couple of friends but at the end of the night he asked if we could drop him home.

Long story short, as soon as we got in the car he suggested we go to a motel (sex hotels here in Brazil) and we thought why not.

Anyway we got there, stripped off and got straight down to the business which involved quite a bit of ass slapping on Aurelia whilst he was fucking her.

After we eventually dropped him home, I asked Aurelia what she thought of the ass slapping and she said she didn't like it too much but didn't want to kill the vibe by telling him.

I guess it's something we need to set straight from the outset when things like that happen in the future.

What do you guys think? Do you like it or not?"

Fair play to her. She was a champ for taking it. She can let him know in advance next time to ease off and all is sorted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I absolutely love it. Next time make she is clear from the get go she doesn't like it like that x

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