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Are you jealous if your fwb plays elsewhere?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Amsers on the back of a postcard (thread)

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By *enonlyMan
over a year ago

Stoke On Trent

Its a free world nobody has any control over anyone else

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Absolutely!... Tho come across a few who don't like it

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By *xposedInTheSunCouple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

Isn't that the difference between a FWB and a relationship???

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By *drenaline rushMan
over a year ago

Burnley

To be fair I’d encourage it if it was keeping a smile on her face why would I stop it naughtier the better for me

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By *irtyKittenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton


"Isn't that the difference between a FWB and a relationship???"

FWB is just satisfying each others sexual needs and relationship is more daily girlfriend/wife things.

So it's just sex and nothing else no emotional attachment.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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No, I like their happiness.

That doesn't mean sometimes I don't think oh I wish I was doing x with them, we'd have so much fun. But they're not mine. If it brings other people joy, I'm happy.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

We like each other to be happy and enjoy life which is what swinging is all about. Never amy jealousy involved

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By *olden PoleMan
over a year ago

London

I like hearing when she’s met others….turns me on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would be very annoyed.

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By *ilverGent1Man
over a year ago

Livingston

I’m neither jealous nor possessive & would expect the same in return. Unless a mutually agreed arrangement was in place, to stay exclusive to each other. So, it’s really a question of having good communication, agreeing boundaries & establishing trust. All of which is fundamentally key, to any swinging partnership of course.

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By *ellaluaWoman
over a year ago

Camberley

Yes!

I know he's not "mine," but I do.

I hate it, and it's coming between us.

I don't have the same issue with married men but with this fwb it's different and difficult

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all, I kinda like it, we have a chatter about our separate meets while we drive to swing clubs, it’s fun and hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Absolutely!... Tho come across a few who don't like it "

When yo say come across a few is that a euphemism?

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By *uke23559Man
over a year ago

Mansfield

I'm just jealous you guys have got one to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I wouldn't be, a FWB is not a relationship, while I am with that person I have their attention and they have mine, checking in between meeting, sending silly pictures or some other random communication is fine, I like that, but that's as far as it goes for me at this time x

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By *burns7Man
over a year ago

walsall

If you jealous that your fwb sees other people then that’s called feelings not fuck buddies

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Sometimes I get that fear of missing out kind of jealousy.

When one of my partners goes to a club or a different city with someone else while I'm stuck in Cumbria I definitely get a little jealousy. But if they're just seeing their other partners or hooking up with someone new I enjoy knowing that they're having fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not jealous but I do like to know some details, partly as turned on by then and partly for safety purposes.

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By *ldFashionedGentMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford


"Sometimes I get that fear of missing out kind of jealousy.

When one of my partners goes to a club or a different city with someone else while I'm stuck in Cumbria I definitely get a little jealousy. But if they're just seeing their other partners or hooking up with someone new I enjoy knowing that they're having fun."

Summed up very well. I’m 49% ohhh that’s exciting, 49% tell me more (as I’m nosey and always fun to talk about) and 2% jealous but more in a ‘ohhh that sounds fun I would have loved to be there/see that/would love to do that’ kind of way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say most women on here initially are cool with the idea but once they get to know the gent and subsequently find out he's been elsewhere they inwardly can't handle it. Wouldn't bother a man so much .. it's just the way men and women are wired. I think a lot of women on here (despite saying they aren't) are actually looking for a relationship but lure a guy in with the Fwb chat to start with. It's kinda the same out with fab in my experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not in the slightest, whatever he gets up to is his own business.

Jealousy will never enter the equation on my part. That’s not my style.

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By *edstockings2Couple
over a year ago

Ilfracombe

I don't mind at if he plays elsewhere, what he gets up to is his business x

I am playing so why shouldn't he x

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

As long as I keep my throne, I don’t mind

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By *pinningfasterWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Yes!

I know he's not "mine," but I do.

I hate it, and it's coming between us.

I don't have the same issue with married men but with this fwb it's different and difficult "

I feel this

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By *burns7Man
over a year ago

walsall

Gotta be fine if it’s mutual

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"Amsers on the back of a postcard (thread) "
no.. they are fwb.. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No because they are just a friend that scratches an itch and I for them. Not exclusive and not dating.

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By *ORBCouple
over a year ago

Dundalk

It hasn't happened yet due to circumstances.

We aren't meeting at the moment on this account or our single accounts.

If and when it does happen there will probably be a certain amount of envy rather than out and out jealousy and that will be tempered with reclaim sex.

Yes we are FWB's but we don't have a large circle of friends on here and neither of us have a desire to have multiple FWB's.

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