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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do I think about sex too much? Any feedback will help me diagnose if I’m an addict.

On average I wank 3/4 times each day….at most it can hit 7/8 within a 24hr period…at the very least it’s twice within that period.

Even when I’m not single, I always need 2/3/4 solos per day.

Partners that I’ve previously dated have only stayed with me for max 18 months as they say my sex drive is affecting their day to day lives as they are exhausted with me giving them multiple O after multiple O…a few even explained to me that they nearly had a heart attack during one O (orgasm) and left me!!

Am I normal and if not, is there any medication to stop me feeling the urge all day every day?

Thankyou friends xx

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

I would suggest seeing your Gp and getting some blood tests done

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would suggest seeing your Gp and getting some blood tests done"

Thankyou

Your kind advice is much appreciated xx

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By *winging_couple300Couple
over a year ago

Doncaster

Sounds like an above average sex drive, particularly if it’s affecting a long term relationship

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

As people are talking about blood tests, this was just in the paper.

"Kisspeptin is a natural hormone"

"Brain scans from the trial participants suggest that the hormone can dampen down hyperactivity in regions linked to HSDD while boosting activity in key sexual regions of the brain."

https://www.theguardian.com/society/2023/feb/03/hormone-shots-treatment-low-sex-drive-kisspeptin

Whilst the discovery is to boost low libido it seems the hormone can too be over active - say Dr internet.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I think there are two issues here.

Your concerns about your sex drive could be addressed with a GP. While a few partners nearly having a heart attack during orgasm then leaving you because of it is another issue altogether possibly solved by a visit to a GP and communication with you and the individual partner.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think there are two issues here.

Your concerns about your sex drive could be addressed with a GP. While a few partners nearly having a heart attack during orgasm then leaving you because of it is another issue altogether possibly solved by a visit to a GP and communication with you and the individual partner."

The comments about addressing this with a GP….well here goes….I actually did but unfortunately it was a female GP…we got on really well and I accidentally bumped into her on a local night out with friends.

She stayed over at my house and one thing led to another….good job it was a bank holiday weekend and wasnt back in work for 3 days…she nicknamed me ‘the machine’

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I think there are two issues here.

Your concerns about your sex drive could be addressed with a GP. While a few partners nearly having a heart attack during orgasm then leaving you because of it is another issue altogether possibly solved by a visit to a GP and communication with you and the individual partner.

The comments about addressing this with a GP….well here goes….I actually did but unfortunately it was a female GP…we got on really well and I accidentally bumped into her on a local night out with friends.

She stayed over at my house and one thing led to another….good job it was a bank holiday weekend and wasnt back in work for 3 days…she nicknamed me ‘the machine’ "

Is that right...you do have a problem then.

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

Consult with your doctor he/she will give you the best advice. There is no point asking on here we aren't doctors. Best of luck.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton


"I would suggest seeing your Gp and getting some blood tests done

Thankyou

Your kind advice is much appreciated xx"

You're welcome.. good luck...

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I'm suprised your GP was willing to risk her career for one night of sex with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm suprised your GP was willing to risk her career for one night of sex with you "

I get the feeling she didn't at all.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I'm suprised your GP was willing to risk her career for one night of sex with you "

It seems to be a cross he has to bear

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I'm suprised your GP was willing to risk her career for one night of sex with you

It seems to be a cross he has to bear "

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I think about sex constantly. And having some always just makes me need more.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"I think there are two issues here.

Your concerns about your sex drive could be addressed with a GP. While a few partners nearly having a heart attack during orgasm then leaving you because of it is another issue altogether possibly solved by a visit to a GP and communication with you and the individual partner.

The comments about addressing this with a GP….well here goes….I actually did but unfortunately it was a female GP…we got on really well and I accidentally bumped into her on a local night out with friends.

She stayed over at my house and one thing led to another….good job it was a bank holiday weekend and wasnt back in work for 3 days…she nicknamed me ‘the machine’ "

Could always see a male gp?

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By *illloganMan
over a year ago

Essex

Not sure if serious or satire.

If serious, you have a problem, how do you hold down a job bashing 1 out up to 8 times a day?!

I literally havent wanked 8 times in the past 12 months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm suprised your GP was willing to risk her career for one night of sex with you

I get the feeling she didn't at all."

Oh... I thought I was in the stories and fantasies section fourm for a minute

Miss S x

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By *ebwizMan
over a year ago

Clevedon

It does sound a bit excessive. My mrs classes me as obsessed, but i do solo orgasms maybe once twice a day but not always, i can have a few days off too. I'll take sex or mutual play when i can, depends on work patterns as to frequency, but I've not felt the need to climax that often and i dont strive to get her to orgasm as its something she isn't concerned about happening. Probably need to talk to an expert, sex with the doctor not really the best idea, but guess it takes 2.

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By *orkshrCplCouple
over a year ago

Ripon

Maybe ask for a referral to a pycho-sexual therapist x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think there are two issues here.

Your concerns about your sex drive could be addressed with a GP. While a few partners nearly having a heart attack during orgasm then leaving you because of it is another issue altogether possibly solved by a visit to a GP and communication with you and the individual partner.

The comments about addressing this with a GP….well here goes….I actually did but unfortunately it was a female GP…we got on really well and I accidentally bumped into her on a local night out with friends.

She stayed over at my house and one thing led to another….good job it was a bank holiday weekend and wasnt back in work for 3 days…she nicknamed me ‘the machine’

Could always see a male gp? "

How many times do I have to say this for the love Jesus stop talking sense and being rational.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

[Removed by poster at 04/02/23 13:53:13]

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

I've always found it more difficult to cum if I swapped hands. You could try that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it affecting your life ? Are you saying no to doing things because you need to wank, or wanking at inappropriate times ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't tell if this is a serious post or not but when I went on certain meds my sex drive took a nose dive (and not the good kind).

Now I'm on different ones it's a bit better but still happy to go without.

The main issue being that when I do have sex, I then need more and more which can get excessive.

Good luck with your possibly fictional problem

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By *ikerjohn123Man
over a year ago

Whickham

…a few even explained to me that they nearly had a heart attack during one O (orgasm) and left me!!

LOL!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly?

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By *ady CurvaceousWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Just lol.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

If it's not an issue, live with it, it's standard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahhhhh, OP, you've been caught out.

Some of the wiser Forumites have used 'tineye' on your profile photo.

Taken from a gay calendar 2018??

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By *ady CurvaceousWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"Ahhhhh, OP, you've been caught out.

Some of the wiser Forumites have used 'tineye' on your profile photo.

Taken from a gay calendar 2018??"

Yep, I right clicked and Google image searched and he's definitely pinched his profile photo off the internet. Just another fantasist posting made up stories for kicks.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

With my lifestyle I'm way too busy to even wank once a day regardless how much i love an orgasm. Get a second job or hobby?

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By *ormalfornorfolkMan
over a year ago

Norwich

I have no idea how you’d find the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have no idea how you’d find the time."

Ha ha ha ha ........

Sussed!

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