Dominant. Yet submissive.

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By *eastX OP Man
over a year ago

London

Good Afternoon everyone.

I am very dominant usually. However, in some scenarios with a very specific type of ladies, I feel the urge to bend the knee.

That doesn't make me identify as a sub, but also makes people question my dominant nature.

I am aware of the term "switch" but I don't think it describes me as I don't change sides within the same connection/dynamic.

Any thoughts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any thoughts?"

No, sorry

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I might not identify as a sub, but that doesn't mean it's not an appropriate term in the right circumstances with the right people.

I'd worry less about labelling it and just enjoy myself if I were you.

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By *eastX OP Man
over a year ago

London

That's what I do. I am just struggling with people who are trying too hard to label me!

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

"That's what I do. I am just struggling with people who are trying too hard to label me!

Just tell them to go fuck themselves

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Why would people question your dominant nature? Sexuality is such a fluid, nuanced thing, different people can bring out different responses to us.

Keep identifying as you do, I know a couple of men like you and I don't know. It's good to explore things sometimes isn't it? Don't get hung up on the whole switch/dominant thing.

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