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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’m a huge, huge fan of women squirting and over the years I’ve been with many women who say they ‘can’t’

However, I don’t believe in ‘can’t squirt’ but instead ‘haven’t squirted yet’.

Now I’m not saying I’m a ‘sex genius’ (although yes I do have a few tricks) but in my experience (certainly with women I’ve been lucky enough to have more than one encounter with) I’d say 80% have gone from ‘can’t’ to ‘have’.

Agree? Or are there any folk on here who have tried and tried without success?

Poor loves.

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By *xtrafun2Couple
over a year ago

Rochdale

No joy yet

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By *riendly older leggy wifeCouple
over a year ago

london

I never tried to piss myself

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

All women squirt just not all naturally, fingers inside cup your hand over the vulva pump to a vacuum, downside this technique often causes a water infection.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Why do you assume they all want to and why are they "poor loves" if they haven't or can't?

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By *riendly older leggy wifeCouple
over a year ago

london

All women squirt ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m a huge, huge fan of women squirting and over the years I’ve been with many women who say they ‘can’t’

However, I don’t believe in ‘can’t squirt’ but instead ‘haven’t squirted yet’.

Now I’m not saying I’m a ‘sex genius’ (although yes I do have a few tricks) but in my experience (certainly with women I’ve been lucky enough to have more than one encounter with) I’d say 80% have gone from ‘can’t’ to ‘have’.

Agree? Or are there any folk on here who have tried and tried without success?

Poor loves."

Just because you squirt doesn't mean you orgasm, in my experience they are not mutually inclusive.

It is both a blessing and a curse because of the mess and the stigma, so I wish I didn't, on balance.

I worry about becoming incontinent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m a huge, huge fan of women squirting and over the years I’ve been with many women who say they ‘can’t’

However, I don’t believe in ‘can’t squirt’ but instead ‘haven’t squirted yet’.

Now I’m not saying I’m a ‘sex genius’ (although yes I do have a few tricks) but in my experience (certainly with women I’ve been lucky enough to have more than one encounter with) I’d say 80% have gone from ‘can’t’ to ‘have’.

Agree? Or are there any folk on here who have tried and tried without success?

Poor loves."

I don't quite get the obsession some folk have with it. Also not keen on guys who reckon they have a great 'technique', and it's mostly just painful

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well I wouldn’t want to cause that!

With my partners I’ve found the best way is (after heavy foreplay) to give a strong fingering whilst standing up.

In my experience, once it’s happened once or twice it’s then way easier to make it happen in other positions such as hard missionary.

Maybe I’ve just been lucky.

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By *nonymous95-2Woman
over a year ago

Northwich


"Why do you assume they all want to and why are they "poor loves" if they haven't or can't? "

I haven't ever properly squirted (gotten wetter but not squirted) and I despise those who try. It gets uncomfortable for me after a while and it means that I won't cum on the meet as that's all they want.

However I've met women who do, and it's always a shock when they do.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why do you assume they all want to and why are they "poor loves" if they haven't or can't? "

Because, as the thread started ‘have tried and tried’

I’ve been with partners who’ve actively wanted to.

Not all I grant you that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m a huge, huge fan of women squirting and over the years I’ve been with many women who say they ‘can’t’

However, I don’t believe in ‘can’t squirt’ but instead ‘haven’t squirted yet’.

Now I’m not saying I’m a ‘sex genius’ (although yes I do have a few tricks) but in my experience (certainly with women I’ve been lucky enough to have more than one encounter with) I’d say 80% have gone from ‘can’t’ to ‘have’.

Agree? Or are there any folk on here who have tried and tried without success?

Poor loves.

Just because you squirt doesn't mean you orgasm, in my experience they are not mutually inclusive.

It is both a blessing and a curse because of the mess and the stigma, so I wish I didn't, on balance.

I worry about becoming incontinent."

I’ve been with a couple who have insisted that we use the spare bed!!

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Why do you assume they all want to and why are they "poor loves" if they haven't or can't?

Because, as the thread started ‘have tried and tried’

I’ve been with partners who’ve actively wanted to.

Not all I grant you that."

So you don't think the term poor loves is a little patronising?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do you assume they all want to and why are they "poor loves" if they haven't or can't? "

Yeah why poor loves? It doesn't mean they can't reach climax.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why do you assume they all want to and why are they "poor loves" if they haven't or can't?

Because, as the thread started ‘have tried and tried’

I’ve been with partners who’ve actively wanted to.

Not all I grant you that.

So you don't think the term poor loves is a little patronising?"

Was more tongue in cheek - I can’t help if it causes offense to some.

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
over a year ago

Manchester(ish).


"I’m a huge, huge fan of women squirting and over the years I’ve been with many women who say they ‘can’t’

However, I don’t believe in ‘can’t squirt’ but instead ‘haven’t squirted yet’.

Now I’m not saying I’m a ‘sex genius’ (although yes I do have a few tricks) but in my experience (certainly with women I’ve been lucky enough to have more than one encounter with) I’d say 80% have gone from ‘can’t’ to ‘have’.

Agree? Or are there any folk on here who have tried and tried without success?

Poor loves."

You come across as a patronising wind-bag.

I'd much rather you had a clear conversation with someone and respected what they want from a sexual encounter.

This obsession with squirting is a huge turn off and largely male ego driven.

You're a huge fan, so what?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I've been with people who can force the squirting part, but it's not in the same league of enjoyment as the people it happens with naturally.

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By *unner6969Man
over a year ago

London


"I’m a huge, huge fan of women squirting and over the years I’ve been with many women who say they ‘can’t’

However, I don’t believe in ‘can’t squirt’ but instead ‘haven’t squirted yet’.

Now I’m not saying I’m a ‘sex genius’ (although yes I do have a few tricks) but in my experience (certainly with women I’ve been lucky enough to have more than one encounter with) I’d say 80% have gone from ‘can’t’ to ‘have’.

Agree? Or are there any folk on here who have tried and tried without success?

Poor loves."

It's only wee - and I could do without it all over my duvet/sheets/mattress. Turns me off completely.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like to know why some guys think squirting is the same as an orgasm?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd like to know why some guys think squirting is the same as an orgasm?

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Poor loves

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By *illloganMan
over a year ago

Essex

I had an ex that discovered she was a squirter when she was with me.

I didn't do anything different to enable it, so perhaps she was just more prone to it.

However it was fucking hot when it happened and she absolutely loved it, she was a shaking mess after.

Definitely good for my ego to see a woman laying there like that afterwards while I'm soaked, but I'm not going to attempt to force it on someone

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd like to know why some guys think squirting is the same as an orgasm?

"

Interesting point.

Embarrassingly I was in my mid-twenties before my partner at the time told me that (for her at least) the two experiences were completely different.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Thankfully I have full bladder control. Maybe one day it will happen but I'm certainly not looking forward to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never tried to piss myself"

It’s something completely different

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By *riendly older leggy wifeCouple
over a year ago

london

It's a mix

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By *rettyflamingoWoman
over a year ago

Where the flamboyance of flamingos live

My bladder is still quite strong thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"fingering" yep, I've just puked.

Also, congrats for making a woman piss herself.

Be proud dude!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


""fingering" yep, I've just puked.

Also, congrats for making a woman piss herself.

Be proud dude!!!

"

Ha! How else am I supposed to say it!

And I’m pretty certain many ladies would agree it’s not as simple as simply ‘pissing themselves’.

I dunno though, I’m just a bloke who apparently isn’t supposed to have a list of likes and dislikes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""fingering" yep, I've just puked.

Also, congrats for making a woman piss herself.

Be proud dude!!!

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""fingering" yep, I've just puked.

Also, congrats for making a woman piss herself.

Be proud dude!!!

Ha! How else am I supposed to say it!

And I’m pretty certain many ladies would agree it’s not as simple as simply ‘pissing themselves’.

I dunno though, I’m just a bloke who apparently isn’t supposed to have a list of likes and dislikes."

Hey we all have our weird little kinks.

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"I never tried to piss myself"

3 posts in! That must be a (boring) record!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Good lord

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""fingering" yep, I've just puked.

Also, congrats for making a woman piss herself.

Be proud dude!!!

Ha! How else am I supposed to say it!

And I’m pretty certain many ladies would agree it’s not as simple as simply ‘pissing themselves’.

I dunno though, I’m just a bloke who apparently isn’t supposed to have a list of likes and dislikes."

First off I'll say I squirt and love squirting.

FYI it isn't just piss, but I can't be bothered to argue with people over it because frankly I don't care

But OP i think it's how you've put your thread across, like omg all women should be able to do it and if you can't it's the end of the world and it really isn't. Not everyone can do everything and there will probably be someone out there that can't but it doesn't really matter but writing posts like these piss women off that can't do it or don't want to do it.

I enjoy sex with it without it, it's just an added extra and feels different to other orgasms I have yes... better? Yes sometimes but not always. It really isn't the be-all and end-all.

Miss S x

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By *aughty Couple ABCCouple
over a year ago

West Bromwich

I'd much prefer it if my partner made me cum, than squirt. Squirting isn't the same

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

am i missing something here ?

its proven the not all women can squirt

something to do with not all women will develop the skene gland or so partially after all its a left over of the male protate glands that get sorted at your embro stages in like

its said to be as many as 50% cant squirt but also alot of people get it mixed up with coital incontinence that said to feel the same

these are all facts from most of the reserchers some go against it so you will find different messages but most agree also most agree that a high percentage of the liquid is urine there is no other organ in the female body that can provide that much fluid bearing in mind the skene gland will produce about the same amount of fluid as a guy cuming ... so the more you squirt the more urine ...

but i emptied my bladder you say well its proven that during sex the bladder will fill quicker than normal

so those are facts (so they say) from the internet from scientist and professional

i squirt very little i can control it too but ill avoid guys who make it a mission to gain another vitem or badge of honour ill squirt when im having fun and super horny but i prefer my orgasm more as they just send me wild ..

if you enjoy then enjoy there no shame no matter what if you enjoy but as others have said its no biggie

#justmyopinion

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

sorry spelling im eating pizza at the same time typing

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

He’s a fingerer for sure

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By *riendly older leggy wifeCouple
over a year ago

london


"am i missing something here ?

its proven the not all women can squirt

something to do with not all women will develop the skene gland or so partially after all its a left over of the male protate glands that get sorted at your embro stages in like

its said to be as many as 50% cant squirt but also alot of people get it mixed up with coital incontinence that said to feel the same

these are all facts from most of the reserchers some go against it so you will find different messages but most agree also most agree that a high percentage of the liquid is urine there is no other organ in the female body that can provide that much fluid bearing in mind the skene gland will produce about the same amount of fluid as a guy cuming ... so the more you squirt the more urine ...

but i emptied my bladder you say well its proven that during sex the bladder will fill quicker than normal

so those are facts (so they say) from the internet from scientist and professional

i squirt very little i can control it too but ill avoid guys who make it a mission to gain another vitem or badge of honour ill squirt when im having fun and super horny but i prefer my orgasm more as they just send me wild ..

if you enjoy then enjoy there no shame no matter what if you enjoy but as others have said its no biggie

#justmyopinion"
well said,but you will be probably accused of being boring by some on here

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"I’m a huge, huge fan of women squirting and over the years I’ve been with many women who say they ‘can’t’

However, I don’t believe in ‘can’t squirt’ but instead ‘haven’t squirted yet’.

Now I’m not saying I’m a ‘sex genius’ (although yes I do have a few tricks) but in my experience (certainly with women I’ve been lucky enough to have more than one encounter with) I’d say 80% have gone from ‘can’t’ to ‘have’.

Agree? Or are there any folk on here who have tried and tried without success?

Poor loves."

What about the 20%?

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset


"am i missing something here ?

its proven the not all women can squirt

something to do with not all women will develop the skene gland or so partially after all its a left over of the male protate glands that get sorted at your embro stages in like

its said to be as many as 50% cant squirt but also alot of people get it mixed up with coital incontinence that said to feel the same

these are all facts from most of the reserchers some go against it so you will find different messages but most agree also most agree that a high percentage of the liquid is urine there is no other organ in the female body that can provide that much fluid bearing in mind the skene gland will produce about the same amount of fluid as a guy cuming ... so the more you squirt the more urine ...

but i emptied my bladder you say well its proven that during sex the bladder will fill quicker than normal

so those are facts (so they say) from the internet from scientist and professional

i squirt very little i can control it too but ill avoid guys who make it a mission to gain another vitem or badge of honour ill squirt when im having fun and super horny but i prefer my orgasm more as they just send me wild ..

if you enjoy then enjoy there no shame no matter what if you enjoy but as others have said its no biggie

#justmyopinionwell said,but you will be probably accused of being boring by some on here

"

lol i get accuse of lots on here but no shits given its a forum we all have opinions everyones allowed to express even if it does piss some off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"sorry spelling im eating pizza at the same time typing"

What kind of pizza?

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

veggie supreme dominos

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"I’m a huge, huge fan of women squirting and over the years I’ve been with many women who say they ‘can’t’

However, I don’t believe in ‘can’t squirt’ but instead ‘haven’t squirted yet’.

Now I’m not saying I’m a ‘sex genius’ (although yes I do have a few tricks) but in my experience (certainly with women I’ve been lucky enough to have more than one encounter with) I’d say 80% have gone from ‘can’t’ to ‘have’.

Agree? Or are there any folk on here who have tried and tried without success?

Poor loves.

What about the 20%?"

They didn't think he was all that much of a stud

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"veggie supreme dominos "

Nom Nom!... Garlic & herb dip too, I hope

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By *yresMan
over a year ago

Midland town

Oh you lot are making me hungry!!...

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit


"Why do you assume they all want to and why are they "poor loves" if they haven't or can't? "

This ,I had someone claim he made everyone he met squirt.i didn't meet him as it's not what I want ,I'd prefer mutual pleasure .

I don't feel I'm missing out one bit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps they just give in and piss themselves for you because you keep banging on about it?

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

I only squirt with certain friends so I do think it’s down to technique and how relaxed you are but it’s never been a big thing for me as it’s nothing like an orgasm.

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8


"I’m a huge, huge fan of women squirting and over the years I’ve been with many women who say they ‘can’t’

However, I don’t believe in ‘can’t squirt’ but instead ‘haven’t squirted yet’.

Now I’m not saying I’m a ‘sex genius’ (although yes I do have a few tricks) but in my experience (certainly with women I’ve been lucky enough to have more than one encounter with) I’d say 80% have gone from ‘can’t’ to ‘have’.

Agree? Or are there any folk on here who have tried and tried without success?

Poor loves."

Hi OP, I tried to avoid commenting but felt compelled to!

I have been with a few women who have squirted and I’ve enjoyed it, but *only* because it happened naturally.

HOWEVER - your post has come across as misogynistic. You seem to have styled yourself as a self-proclaimed master of sex (“stud” & “sex genius” because btw writing “I’m not saying I’m a sex genius” is implying that’s what you think you are).

You appear to assume that all women should be able to squirt, that all women should want to, that any who don’t aren’t doing sex right and that any who haven’t, need to do it. And that all of this lack of squirting is basically poor technique or a lack of realisation.

And - God be praised - you are here to educate us all.

Your text also smacks of being controlling and the belief that you know better. There are a great many women on this website (contrary to what my inbox will tell you) and they all know two things a damn sight better than you - their bodies and their minds.

I am genuinely concerned that you have been with women who have been subjected to “being fingered” brutally by you to the point it’s physically and mentally uncomfortable for them, just so you can achieve your goal. Whether they like it or not. I hope I’m wrong.

If women naturally squirt during sex, fantastic. Good for them and good for whoever is with them, if that’s what they like.

But - if not, why do they need someone who’s never met them to preach about the fact they should want to do it, are able to do it, but both they and all their historic sexual partners have been too shit to achieve it.

Nobody is denying you your likes and desires. What they don’t want is to be told what they should like.

Rant over.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually


"Hi OP, I tried to avoid commenting but felt compelled to!

I have been with a few women who have squirted and I’ve enjoyed it, but *only* because it happened naturally.

HOWEVER - your post has come across as misogynistic. You seem to have styled yourself as a self-proclaimed master of sex (“stud” & “sex genius” because btw writing “I’m not saying I’m a sex genius” is implying that’s what you think you are).

You appear to assume that all women should be able to squirt, that all women should want to, that any who don’t aren’t doing sex right and that any who haven’t, need to do it. And that all of this lack of squirting is basically poor technique or a lack of realisation.

And - God be praised - you are here to educate us all.

Your text also smacks of being controlling and the belief that you know better. There are a great many women on this website (contrary to what my inbox will tell you) and they all know two things a damn sight better than you - their bodies and their minds.

I am genuinely concerned that you have been with women who have been subjected to “being fingered” brutally by you to the point it’s physically and mentally uncomfortable for them, just so you can achieve your goal. Whether they like it or not. I hope I’m wrong.

If women naturally squirt during sex, fantastic. Good for them and good for whoever is with them, if that’s what they like.

But - if not, why do they need someone who’s never met them to preach about the fact they should want to do it, are able to do it, but both they and all their historic sexual partners have been too shit to achieve it.

Nobody is denying you your likes and desires. What they don’t want is to be told what they should like.

Rant over."

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever


"I’m a huge, huge fan of women squirting and over the years I’ve been with many women who say they ‘can’t’

However, I don’t believe in ‘can’t squirt’ but instead ‘haven’t squirted yet’.

Now I’m not saying I’m a ‘sex genius’ (although yes I do have a few tricks) but in my experience (certainly with women I’ve been lucky enough to have more than one encounter with) I’d say 80% have gone from ‘can’t’ to ‘have’.

Agree? Or are there any folk on here who have tried and tried without success?

Poor loves."

There’s so many things in this post I find disturbing, sorry.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish


"I’m a huge, huge fan of women squirting and over the years I’ve been with many women who say they ‘can’t’

However, I don’t believe in ‘can’t squirt’ but instead ‘haven’t squirted yet’.

Now I’m not saying I’m a ‘sex genius’ (although yes I do have a few tricks) but in my experience (certainly with women I’ve been lucky enough to have more than one encounter with) I’d say 80% have gone from ‘can’t’ to ‘have’.

Agree? Or are there any folk on here who have tried and tried without success?

Poor loves.

Hi OP, I tried to avoid commenting but felt compelled to!

I have been with a few women who have squirted and I’ve enjoyed it, but *only* because it happened naturally.

HOWEVER - your post has come across as misogynistic. You seem to have styled yourself as a self-proclaimed master of sex (“stud” & “sex genius” because btw writing “I’m not saying I’m a sex genius” is implying that’s what you think you are).

You appear to assume that all women should be able to squirt, that all women should want to, that any who don’t aren’t doing sex right and that any who haven’t, need to do it. And that all of this lack of squirting is basically poor technique or a lack of realisation.

And - God be praised - you are here to educate us all.

Your text also smacks of being controlling and the belief that you know better. There are a great many women on this website (contrary to what my inbox will tell you) and they all know two things a damn sight better than you - their bodies and their minds.

I am genuinely concerned that you have been with women who have been subjected to “being fingered” brutally by you to the point it’s physically and mentally uncomfortable for them, just so you can achieve your goal. Whether they like it or not. I hope I’m wrong.

If women naturally squirt during sex, fantastic. Good for them and good for whoever is with them, if that’s what they like.

But - if not, why do they need someone who’s never met them to preach about the fact they should want to do it, are able to do it, but both they and all their historic sexual partners have been too shit to achieve it.

Nobody is denying you your likes and desires. What they don’t want is to be told what they should like.

Rant over."

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"I’m a huge, huge fan of women squirting and over the years I’ve been with many women who say they ‘can’t’

However, I don’t believe in ‘can’t squirt’ but instead ‘haven’t squirted yet’.

Now I’m not saying I’m a ‘sex genius’ (although yes I do have a few tricks) but in my experience (certainly with women I’ve been lucky enough to have more than one encounter with) I’d say 80% have gone from ‘can’t’ to ‘have’.

Agree? Or are there any folk on here who have tried and tried without success?

Poor loves."

Poor delusional soul. You have just demonstrated to the world that you don't know women or understand biology.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m a huge, huge fan of women squirting and over the years I’ve been with many women who say they ‘can’t’

However, I don’t believe in ‘can’t squirt’ but instead ‘haven’t squirted yet’.

Now I’m not saying I’m a ‘sex genius’ (although yes I do have a few tricks) but in my experience (certainly with women I’ve been lucky enough to have more than one encounter with) I’d say 80% have gone from ‘can’t’ to ‘have’.

Agree? Or are there any folk on here who have tried and tried without success?

Poor loves.

Hi OP, I tried to avoid commenting but felt compelled to!

I have been with a few women who have squirted and I’ve enjoyed it, but *only* because it happened naturally.

HOWEVER - your post has come across as misogynistic. You seem to have styled yourself as a self-proclaimed master of sex (“stud” & “sex genius” because btw writing “I’m not saying I’m a sex genius” is implying that’s what you think you are).

You appear to assume that all women should be able to squirt, that all women should want to, that any who don’t aren’t doing sex right and that any who haven’t, need to do it. And that all of this lack of squirting is basically poor technique or a lack of realisation.

And - God be praised - you are here to educate us all.

Your text also smacks of being controlling and the belief that you know better. There are a great many women on this website (contrary to what my inbox will tell you) and they all know two things a damn sight better than you - their bodies and their minds.

I am genuinely concerned that you have been with women who have been subjected to “being fingered” brutally by you to the point it’s physically and mentally uncomfortable for them, just so you can achieve your goal. Whether they like it or not. I hope I’m wrong.

If women naturally squirt during sex, fantastic. Good for them and good for whoever is with them, if that’s what they like.

But - if not, why do they need someone who’s never met them to preach about the fact they should want to do it, are able to do it, but both they and all their historic sexual partners have been too shit to achieve it.

Nobody is denying you your likes and desires. What they don’t want is to be told what they should like.

Rant over.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"

Hi OP, I tried to avoid commenting but felt compelled to!

I have been with a few women who have squirted and I’ve enjoyed it, but *only* because it happened naturally.

HOWEVER - your post has come across as misogynistic. You seem to have styled yourself as a self-proclaimed master of sex (“stud” & “sex genius” because btw writing “I’m not saying I’m a sex genius” is implying that’s what you think you are).

You appear to assume that all women should be able to squirt, that all women should want to, that any who don’t aren’t doing sex right and that any who haven’t, need to do it. And that all of this lack of squirting is basically poor technique or a lack of realisation.

And - God be praised - you are here to educate us all.

Your text also smacks of being controlling and the belief that you know better. There are a great many women on this website (contrary to what my inbox will tell you) and they all know two things a damn sight better than you - their bodies and their minds.

I am genuinely concerned that you have been with women who have been subjected to “being fingered” brutally by you to the point it’s physically and mentally uncomfortable for them, just so you can achieve your goal. Whether they like it or not. I hope I’m wrong.

If women naturally squirt during sex, fantastic. Good for them and good for whoever is with them, if that’s what they like.

But - if not, why do they need someone who’s never met them to preach about the fact they should want to do it, are able to do it, but both they and all their historic sexual partners have been too shit to achieve it.

Nobody is denying you your likes and desires. What they don’t want is to be told what they should like.

Rant over."

I was going to post something along the lines of how it's very annoying when men tell women what their bodies should do but read this and realised you pretty much covered all I had to say.

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8


"

Hi OP, I tried to avoid commenting but felt compelled to!

I have been with a few women who have squirted and I’ve enjoyed it, but *only* because it happened naturally.

HOWEVER - your post has come across as misogynistic. You seem to have styled yourself as a self-proclaimed master of sex (“stud” & “sex genius” because btw writing “I’m not saying I’m a sex genius” is implying that’s what you think you are).

You appear to assume that all women should be able to squirt, that all women should want to, that any who don’t aren’t doing sex right and that any who haven’t, need to do it. And that all of this lack of squirting is basically poor technique or a lack of realisation.

And - God be praised - you are here to educate us all.

Your text also smacks of being controlling and the belief that you know better. There are a great many women on this website (contrary to what my inbox will tell you) and they all know two things a damn sight better than you - their bodies and their minds.

I am genuinely concerned that you have been with women who have been subjected to “being fingered” brutally by you to the point it’s physically and mentally uncomfortable for them, just so you can achieve your goal. Whether they like it or not. I hope I’m wrong.

If women naturally squirt during sex, fantastic. Good for them and good for whoever is with them, if that’s what they like.

But - if not, why do they need someone who’s never met them to preach about the fact they should want to do it, are able to do it, but both they and all their historic sexual partners have been too shit to achieve it.

Nobody is denying you your likes and desires. What they don’t want is to be told what they should like.

Rant over.

I was going to post something along the lines of how it's very annoying when men tell women what their bodies should do but read this and realised you pretty much covered all I had to say. "

Thanks Bo, I hope it wasn’t presumptuous of me to spearhead the charge. I just feel strongly about such matters. Glad I saved your thumbs!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The profile of this arrogant guy says it all

Just loves to boast his way through fab but seems with very little success

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone here giving OP a hard time but I was one of those ladies until a couple of years ago. Assumed it was something I couldn't do and never let a guy push through that "I feel like I'm gonna pee" barrier... until I did, and it was amazing.

No it's not pee, and anyone who has squirted or has been with a squirter knows this. Its also not an orgasm but it does feel amazing.

OP, carry on enjoying helping women discover a new trick with their body - I'm sure glad I did

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London

Met a guy at a club once who could make a woman squirt in seconds. Was with a friend who said she couldn't, this guy had her gushing in seconds. Was quite a skill, I saw him do it to 4 different women that day. He never failed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"sorry spelling im eating pizza at the same time typing"

Whilst taking about squirting lol!

What you are saying is absolutely correct.

Also there is the finger blasting technique that seems to accompany squirting. It hurts.

I’d rather be with a partner who can give me an amazing orgasm than someone who sandblasts my cervix to get me to soak the sheets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve also followed the green arrow. Confirms my opinion on attitude.

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By *enatton2Couple
over a year ago

West Midlands

It got very judgy in here, very quickly

For the record, I haven’t and don’t think I ever will.

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

In 40 years of marriage I never so much as dribbled in the bed

Now I'm with my lovely Cj let's just say the tide comes in frequently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone here giving OP a hard time but I was one of those ladies until a couple of years ago. Assumed it was something I couldn't do and never let a guy push through that "I feel like I'm gonna pee" barrier... until I did, and it was amazing.

No it's not pee, and anyone who has squirted or has been with a squirter knows this. Its also not an orgasm but it does feel amazing.

OP, carry on enjoying helping women discover a new trick with their body - I'm sure glad I did

"

I have squirted a few times, and I've also had a lovely cpl who visited my home where the lady turned out to be a prolific squirter... I had to order a new mattress a month later, due to smell of piss that kept wafting back up that the towels hadn't absorbed fully. It is what it is, and that's mostly urine, but it's no big deal either way. It's another bodily fluid and the release can feel great. But so does evacuation of my bladder on the toilet when it's been a loooong day out and I've just got home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone here giving OP a hard time but I was one of those ladies until a couple of years ago. Assumed it was something I couldn't do and never let a guy push through that "I feel like I'm gonna pee" barrier... until I did, and it was amazing.

No it's not pee, and anyone who has squirted or has been with a squirter knows this. Its also not an orgasm but it does feel amazing.

OP, carry on enjoying helping women discover a new trick with their body - I'm sure glad I did

"

If it's not piss (or at least 99% piss. What do you think it actually is? We're not cats, it's not like we have anal glands that get blocked and we need a trip to the GP to get them expressed

It's got to come from somewhere, right? And if it was just hanging about nonchalant in your body for say 80yrs, if you never squirt?... Then we'd all be struggling to fit our chuff in our pants, no?

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

It's the same as people that say they don't have motivation.. there's no such thing ..you do shit you don't want to do because you know you have to and it Will benefit you

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Everyone here giving OP a hard time but I was one of those ladies until a couple of years ago. Assumed it was something I couldn't do and never let a guy push through that "I feel like I'm gonna pee" barrier... until I did, and it was amazing.

No it's not pee, and anyone who has squirted or has been with a squirter knows this. Its also not an orgasm but it does feel amazing.

OP, carry on enjoying helping women discover a new trick with their body - I'm sure glad I did

"

Much appreciated.

I wasn’t expecting this post to cause the stir that it did.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone here giving OP a hard time but I was one of those ladies until a couple of years ago. Assumed it was something I couldn't do and never let a guy push through that "I feel like I'm gonna pee" barrier... until I did, and it was amazing.

No it's not pee, and anyone who has squirted or has been with a squirter knows this. Its also not an orgasm but it does feel amazing.

OP, carry on enjoying helping women discover a new trick with their body - I'm sure glad I did

If it's not piss (or at least 99% piss. What do you think it actually is? We're not cats, it's not like we have anal glands that get blocked and we need a trip to the GP to get them expressed

It's got to come from somewhere, right? And if it was just hanging about nonchalant in your body for say 80yrs, if you never squirt?... Then we'd all be struggling to fit our chuff in our pants, no? "

I don't claim to be any kind of biologist, I just know that squirt fluid is colourless/sometimes milky and a little sweet, and urine is not. I can pee right before sex and still successfully squirt.

If you're going to press me for an assumption... I would guess the bladder must fill rapidly with water (in the same way you can produce water quickly when sweating or just getting "wet") when aroused and not enough time to add all the nasty urea (the smell/colour component). Then when a guy really finds that sweet G-spot motion that makes your body fire it out it also picks up some added sex juices (from the Skene glands) on the way.

P.s, I'm sorry your sex friend peed on you. As I said, good practice to empty your bladder beforehand to be sure you only get the good stuff. If she didn't, you probably got drenched in a mixture of both.

Again, anyone familiar with squirting knows there's a distinct difference between the two. I would be mortified if I thought it was just pee - but its not.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

It's always best to revert to medical journals where the research is published after being peer reviewed. All come to a similar conclusion:

"The present data based on ultrasonographic bladder monitoring and biochemical analyses indicate that squirting is essentially the involuntary emission of urine during sexual activity, although a marginal contribution of prostatic secretions to the emitted fluid often exists"

That doesn't make it good, or bad, it just is. Some women do it, some don't, there is absolutely nothing wrong with either. In my view, though, men should concentrate more on helping her feel the things she enjoys, rather than trying to "make" her do things that don't come naturally.

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Why are men so obsessed with ‘squirting’?

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

Chichester


"Perhaps they just give in and piss themselves for you because you keep banging on about it? "

Lol much truth in this. Most of my female friends all have done this a few times to shut up a guy or to speed up a session to end . I found it rather amusing when they told me

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever


"Why are men so obsessed with ‘squirting’?"

They think “squirting” = orgasm.

Think badge of honour

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"Why are men so obsessed with ‘squirting’?

They think “squirting” = orgasm.

Think badge of honour "

Boys don’t grow up, do they? They just grow taller.

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By *andkCouple
over a year ago

Wisbech

Its the most annoying thing in the world when a guys obcessed with it, yes if you keep pushing against my bladder i will eventually wee myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m a huge, huge fan of women squirting and over the years I’ve been with many women who say they ‘can’t’

However, I don’t believe in ‘can’t squirt’ but instead ‘haven’t squirted yet’.

Now I’m not saying I’m a ‘sex genius’ (although yes I do have a few tricks) but in my experience (certainly with women I’ve been lucky enough to have more than one encounter with) I’d say 80% have gone from ‘can’t’ to ‘have’.

Agree? Or are there any folk on here who have tried and tried without success?

Poor loves."

Poor loves seriously......why is there such empathise place on squirting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

It's got to come from somewhere, right? And if it was just hanging about nonchalant in your body for say 80yrs, if you never squirt?... Then we'd all be struggling to fit our chuff in our pants, no? "

Exactly this. A woman has nowhere else in her body but her bladder to hold fluid, especially the amount I have experienced some women producing.

As you say, if like me you’ve never squirted then where is all this fluid stored?

Genuinely curious and open to learning.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m a huge, huge fan of women squirting and over the years I’ve been with many women who say they ‘can’t’

However, I don’t believe in ‘can’t squirt’ but instead ‘haven’t squirted yet’.

Now I’m not saying I’m a ‘sex genius’ (although yes I do have a few tricks) but in my experience (certainly with women I’ve been lucky enough to have more than one encounter with) I’d say 80% have gone from ‘can’t’ to ‘have’.

Agree? Or are there any folk on here who have tried and tried without success?

Poor loves."

I have a great pelvic floor thank you and intend to keep it that way. Squirting is not the golden (shower) standard of a women’s orgasm you know?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m a huge, huge fan of women squirting and over the years I’ve been with many women who say they ‘can’t’

However, I don’t believe in ‘can’t squirt’ but instead ‘haven’t squirted yet’.

Now I’m not saying I’m a ‘sex genius’ (although yes I do have a few tricks) but in my experience (certainly with women I’ve been lucky enough to have more than one encounter with) I’d say 80% have gone from ‘can’t’ to ‘have’.

Agree? Or are there any folk on here who have tried and tried without success?

Poor loves.

I have a great pelvic floor thank you and intend to keep it that way. Squirting is not the golden (shower) standard of a women’s orgasm you know?! "

And fantastic body....

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By *unnyPairCouple
over a year ago

Seminole

She can, but it takes two cocks to do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She can, but it takes two cocks to do it"

Would love to help

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands

I never have, don't know if I can or can't, but I have never felt I am missing out because I have never squirted I'm really not bothered about squirting at all.

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