FabSwingers.com forum: When does Bi-Curious become "Bisexual"?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Sooooo.....

We've had for us, a wide variety of exploratory experiences since we have been here. Bad Bitch has had some intimate moments throughout her life with ladies and found some women incredibly hot.

This week we were very fortunate and found ourselves in a very naked and hospitable environment with a very experienced and lovely female person. Most of the activities were centred around the enjoyment of the Bad Bitch and she loved it right up!!! The lady was quite forthright and told her she was clearly in denial about being Bi.

In the cold light of day BB isn't fully on board with being classified as Bisexual. So where's the actual line?

Is it what's in your head or is what you do?

To keep this less one sided I wouldn't say no if a guy stuck his cock in my mouth but would not consider myself Bisexual either.

Maybe it's just mental conditioning of a certain generation?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'Bisexual' is often seen as filthy, greedy, fuck anyone.

Perhaps you both feel guilt about your sexuality.

People lie on the tick boxes all the time, just put whatever makes you happy.

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By *ttentiveRabbitMan
over a year ago

Lymington

I list myself as bicurious for a few reasons.

I’m not afraid to be close to another man’s cock (as you well know)

Im happy to play with and suck, or would even take hold of one and direct it in BB clit etc

However I am not listed as bisexual as I don’t fancy men if that makes sense.

I don’t want to kiss them and I am not keen on anal either way and find pictures of men’s arseholes repulsive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with you AttentiveRabbit although I am partial to a touch of anal either way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it's about having the same feelings and attraction to men and women. And part of that is experiencing sex in a similar way ie with no restrictions or limitations because I'm either with a woman or a man.

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By *ornycouple94123Couple
over a year ago

Peterborough

Mr here, I'm bisexual, it took many years to realise and started off as 'bi when horny' as it was sort of taboo and thrilling, but then slowly started seeing some guys as hot even when not horny

I think there is a lot of societal pressure on guys that touching each other is very wrong, and that can be difficult for many men to break.

Ultimately its what everyone is comfortable with, saying you're bi doesn't mean you will like every guy, everyone has their own tastes and what they are looking for.

Don't forget people thinking that because you're bi you can't control yourself and will immediately jump on a lad even if he's straight

As for the Mrs she's straight until wet, therefore bi curious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I currently class myself as bi curious as I have played orallyand love it so a tick there. I've yet to go further - I'm sure I will do one day for the experience if nothing more. Saying that I like it willbi then switch to bi. Probably,even though I don't fancy men in the same way I fancy women. It qould be a case of I enjoy the naughty fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy meeting guys and having sex with them. I do not fancy men as such, although some are more physically attractive than others, either facially or just a better body. Personality, even for a sex meet, does count too. I met a guy yesterday, his wife had just gone to work, he was so friendly and chatty we had a great time.

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Curious to me implies you have not had any or very little experience experimenting with the same sex... You are curious as to whether you will like it and want to give it a try.

Sexual to me implies, you've done, you like it and you want more of it.

There are varying degrees as to what this all means though, and it will be slightly different for different people.

For me I consider myself sexually bi, but not romantically bi.

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By *illloganMan
over a year ago

Essex

For me you'd need to find the same sex attractive, be that physically, emotionally whatever.

Performing an act on the same sex does not make a person bisexual imo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Curious to me implies you have not had any or very little experience experimenting with the same sex... You are curious as to whether you will like it and want to give it a try.

Sexual to me implies, you've done, you like it and you want more of it.

There are varying degrees as to what this all means though, and it will be slightly different for different people.

For me I consider myself sexually bi, but not romantically bi."

This is how I've always viewed it as

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By *ang average kinkMan
over a year ago

Farnborough

"I list myself as bicurious for a few reasons.

I’m not afraid to be close to another man’s cock (as you well know)

Im happy to play with and suck, or would even take hold of one and direct it in BB clit etc

However I am not listed as bisexual as I don’t fancy men if that makes sense.

I don’t want to kiss them and I am not keen on anal either way and find pictures of men’s arseholes repulsive

A conversation I've had with a few bi people, I'm very much as above but have enjoyed sex with me. I maintain bi curious as not interested in a relationship with another man.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I think that if you are attracted to males and females and practically enjoy it, from experience, someone could consider whether they are bi, nor just curious.

Curiosity is something that many have and potentially don't get the right or any experience, due to circumstances, right partners, etc. Sexuality is also quite fluid, so ideas and interests may come and go.

It's up to each of us to assess and know ourselves, as well as what the benefits may be from our identifications. It may often be for the benefit of others, through simplicity, ease of understanding etc. There is no right or wrong, apart from what is right or wrong for ourselves.

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

I don't think I've ever been bi curious. I have always been bi sexual. I had sex with males before having sex with females and still enjoy both.

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By *ebwizMan
over a year ago

Clevedon

Labels are irrelevant. You might like something at the time, with someone else maybe feel nothing. Its all an exploration of what feels ok at a given point. Dare say a lot of us have enjoyed some experiences more than others even if doing the same thing you did before. There's a lot less straight on here than you think by the messages that get sent too.

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Bisexual is something you know when, you’re with another woman, I could walk down the street holding hands, rip her clothes off in the bedroom natural sex flows. Many meets have been curious, which for me is best left in the bag at that point and play straight, little and no energy coming back.

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

bi curious is wanting to try but if you tried and liked your bi sexual its that simple how ever being bi sexual puts you on a wide spectrum and all are different but your still bi sexual

my first sexual play was with a woman when i was in te*ns and not long after with men so to me im just bi sexual my hubs was the same in his te*ns so hes bi sexual i guess lables are important but to us its just sex sex is fun so why not just go with it and have as much as you can have greedy i know but living life

#justmyopinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve always considered bicurious to mean just that - curious, but not actually taking it any further than a thought.

As soon as you touch another person of the same sex in a sexual way, you become bisexual.

I honestly think these guys saying I suck cock, have anal with other blokes, but I’m just curious because I don’t find guys attractive are having a laugh and need to be honest with themselves.

I don’t ‘fancy’ guys at all, some are handsome, some ugly as fuck, but I love a cock to suck or an arse to pound, so I’m bisexual and proud of it!

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

I honestly thought that bi curious just meant that you like the idea of having sex with both sexes, but haven’t tried it yet. If you try it and don’t like it you’re straight. If you like it then you are bi, which is why I now class myself in this category. However, I feel more hete

exible than completely bisexual because I prefer cock more

Since being on the forums I have learned that many people see things in far different ways.

It’s just a label, it doesn’t really define you as a person.

My general fab experience has thought me that if a guy says he’s bi curious he’s probably bi. If he says he’s straight there’s a 50 % ish chance he’s bi

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

"I honestly thought that bi curious just meant that you like the idea of having sex with both sexes, but haven’t tried it yet. If you try it and don’t like it you’re straight. If you like it then you are bi, which is why I now class myself in this category. However, I feel more hete

exible than completely bisexual because I prefer cock more

Since being on the forums I have learned that many people see things in far different ways.

It’s just a label, it doesn’t really define you as a person.

My general fab experience has thought me that if a guy says he’s bi curious he’s probably bi. If he says he’s straight there’s a 50 % ish chance he’s bi

Tought not thought!

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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago

Baughurst

For me bi curious and bisexual are separate concepts. Bisexual would fit along with homo or heterosexual, as in feeling a sexual attraction for one or both sexes. If BB is aroused and craves a female then i would see her as bisexual.

You Viking I see as biplayful. Ok to play with men, but not particularly looking for it or aroused just looking at men.

Bi curious for me means someone who wants to experiment beyond the sex they feel most attracted to.

Enjoyment of playing is irrelevant for me. If you are blindfolded, you may enjoy the same a blowjob if you do not if it's a female or male mouth, or fucking an arse. So the test for me is who does get you aroused when you look at them?

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By *ansexualPandaMan
over a year ago

cumallover

"For me bi curious and bisexual are separate concepts. Bisexual would fit along with homo or heterosexual, as in feeling a sexual attraction for one or both sexes. If BB is aroused and craves a female then i would see her as bisexual.

You Viking I see as biplayful. Ok to play with men, but not particularly looking for it or aroused just looking at men.

Bi curious for me means someone who wants to experiment beyond the sex they feel most attracted to.

Pretty much this in a nutshell for me. Though I personally identify as bi/pansexual.

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By *ovelifelovefuntimesMan
over a year ago

Where ever I lay my hat

I'm bi curious as in mmf or small group environments I'm comfortable with male contact and happy to share a husbands cock with a sexy hotwife for example. But as others have described, I don't find men attractive as such, couldn't imagine being emotionally intimate with a man and therefore don't put fully bi if that makes sense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

exible than completely bisexual because I prefer cock more

Since being on the forums I have learned that many people see things in far different ways.

It’s just a label, it doesn’t really define you as a person.

My general fab experience has thought me that if a guy says he’s bi curious he’s probably bi. If he says he’s straight there’s a 50 % ish chance he’s bi

Think you nailed it there

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

There's a lot of grey area if I had to label myself it would be hetro flexible, that fits me, I'm not bi, I've zero interest in romantic relationships with women, but I like women in a sexual and friendly way.

Mrs

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By *elrose57Couple
over a year ago

reading

bi curious when you think about it , and watch porn with guys and like the look and want there cocks, bi sexual when you have gone down on a guy licked and sucked his cock , held it and sucked it and fucking well loved it, allowed him to empty his balls into your mouth hold it there and show him ,, nd feel it taste it then swallow,, and make arrangement to see him again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The first time a cock entered my mouth - I knew what the difference was

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As soon as you take cock the meaning changes

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By *aked_magicMan
over a year ago

the gutter looking at the stars (S.Australia)

Many years ago i was curious about doing stuff with dudes so i had myself down as "curious" - then i sucked my first cock and immediately changed that to "bi"... havent changed it since

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

You Viking I see as biplayful. Ok to play with men, but not particularly looking for it or aroused just looking at men.

Bi curious for me means someone who wants to experiment beyond the sex they feel most attracted to.

Quite an array of different opinions then. I can see why people are hesitant to actually label themselves on their profiles because in all honesty it appears to me that the label is in the eye of the beholder and can and will mean something different to reach person and possibly very radically alter their perception of you.

FWIW my thoughts align very closely to the quoted text

so BB is actually bisexual and I'm not averse to being bi playful then.

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By *ang average kinkMan
over a year ago

Farnborough

"bi curious when you think about it , and watch porn with guys and like the look and want there cocks, bi sexual when you have gone down on a guy licked and sucked his cock , held it and sucked it and fucking well loved it, allowed him to empty his balls into your mouth hold it there and show him ,, nd feel it taste it then swallow,, and make arrangement to see him again"

I might have to change my profile from this definition

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By *xposedInTheSunCouple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

I think you have to distinguish between "bi-curious" as a term, and "bi-curious" as a tick box on a Fab profile.

The former means wanting to give bisexuality a try. The latter generally means open to a bit of bi play but only as an appetizer before the straight sex.

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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness

"I think you have to distinguish between "bi-curious" as a term, and "bi-curious" as a tick box on a Fab profile.

The former means wanting to give bisexuality a try. The latter generally means open to a bit of bi play but only as an appetizer before the straight sex."

Yes that's a good way of putting it,

I used to think it was simple

bi-curious - curious about it and open to trying it

bi-sexual - tried it, liked it and want more

but people seem to use it in a multitude of ways on here lol

It's would be useful if there was a tick box for bi-playful or something like that

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By *ickedwillyCouple
over a year ago

Bangor

I always think bi sexual are more into anal fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definition of bisexual is sexually or romantically attracted to same sex.

So having same sex isn't bisexual if you're not attracted to them sexually or romantically

So what am I?

I'm not sexually attracted to men and definitely not romantically attracted to men but I like cock

They just happen to be attached to a man lol.

WTF now I am

not bisexual

Not bi curious

I am bi confused

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sooooo.....

We've had for us, a wide variety of exploratory experiences since we have been here. Bad Bitch has had some intimate moments throughout her life with ladies and found some women incredibly hot.

In the cold light of day BB isn't fully on board with being classified as Bisexual. So where's the actual line?

Is it what's in your head or is what you do?

To keep this less one sided I wouldn't say no if a guy stuck his cock in my mouth but would not consider myself Bisexual either.

Maybe it's just mental conditioning of a certain generation?"

U are bisexual when you actively seek people of the same sex, simple. Everything else is curious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you’ve answered your own question there pretty much.

You say you like cock? The male sexual organ. I’d say that qualifies you as sexually attracted to males and by your own definition, you are bisexual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think you’ve answered your own question there pretty much.

You say you like cock? The male sexual organ. I’d say that qualifies you as sexually attracted to males and by your own definition, you are bisexual.

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that was for 5seeker5 by the way - soz

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By *ohn_1985Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

When youve sucked more than 10 Cocks, lol

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By *acial giverMan
over a year ago

hull

I like having cock in me and sucking cock. But don't fancy men. What am i

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like having cock in me and sucking cock. But don't fancy men. What am i"

Most will say they do not fancy men, I rarely do but I love cocks

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By *ebwizMan
over a year ago

Clevedon

"I like having cock in me and sucking cock. But don't fancy men. What am i"

You just like domething different easy. As long as you enjoy.

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By *inx and NymphCouple
over a year ago

bristol

"Sooooo.....

We've had for us, a wide variety of exploratory experiences since we have been here. Bad Bitch has had some intimate moments throughout her life with ladies and found some women incredibly hot.

In the cold light of day BB isn't fully on board with being classified as Bisexual. So where's the actual line?

Is it what's in your head or is what you do?

To keep this less one sided I wouldn't say no if a guy stuck his cock in my mouth but would not consider myself Bisexual either.

Maybe it's just mental conditioning of a certain generation?"

I mean for me I’ve always seen it as would date a woman. And bi curious meant more you’re open to doing some physical things with them, but wouldn’t be interested in anything beyond that

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By *ebwizMan
over a year ago

Clevedon

"I like having cock in me and sucking cock. But don't fancy men. What am i

You just like domething different easy. As long as you enjoy. "

Something. Typo

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By *abuedoCouple
over a year ago

Leamington Spa

"Curious to me implies you have not had any or very little experience experimenting with the same sex... You are curious as to whether you will like it and want to give it a try.

Sexual to me implies, you've done, you like it and you want more of it.

There are varying degrees as to what this all means though, and it will be slightly different for different people.

For me I consider myself sexually bi, but not romantically bi."

This too for me. I wouldn’t specifically look to date a lady as such nor meet a lady on my own but in a play environment, game on. First & foremost I love guys but lying & toying with ladies as part of a meet or club experience is great fun.

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By *anielpiercedMan
over a year ago

by the seaside

Don't need labels regarding bi but I like the "bi-playful" one. Do what you feel comfortable with and what you enjoy and don't pigeon hole yourself.

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By *aveonMan
over a year ago

Dartford

I think it is what you want it to be - I’m bi and enjoy sex with sexy men or women, ideally both.

I generally prefer women but just as happy to meet men.

I do however have to find any partner sexy, otherwise they are not for me

Therefore I’d say I’m bi, love sexy fun with anyone I’m attracted to regardless of sex !

Hope that cleared things up ! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When thoughts move to action and its something you want more of I think

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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness

"Definition of bisexual is sexually or romantically attracted to same sex.

So having same sex isn't bisexual if you're not attracted to them sexually or romantically

So what am I?

I'm not sexually attracted to men and definitely not romantically attracted to men but I like cock

They just happen to be attached to a man lol.

WTF now I am

not bisexual

Not bi curious

I am bi confused "

Probably the same boat the quite a lot of us are in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Definition of bisexual is sexually or romantically attracted to same sex.

So having same sex isn't bisexual if you're not attracted to them sexually or romantically

So what am I?

I'm not sexually attracted to men and definitely not romantically attracted to men but I like cock

They just happen to be attached to a man lol.

WTF now I am

not bisexual

Not bi curious

I am bi confused

Probably the same boat the quite a lot of us are in

I think you will find this is most of us

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

It’s actually what is in your head, not someone else’s opinion of your sexuality based on what you do behind closed doors.

A gay or bisexual act is just that, it’s an act. But feeling romantically attracted to someone else is closer to your sexuality than your desires or experimentations.

I can tell you you’re bisexual, gay or heterosexual but ultimately it’s only you who truly knows.

I’m a firm believer of the spectrum aspect of sexuality, you may not be 100% straight but you could be closer to straight than gay.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It’s actually what is in your head, not someone else’s opinion of your sexuality based on what you do behind closed doors.

A gay or bisexual act is just that, it’s an act. But feeling romantically attracted to someone else is closer to your sexuality than your desires or experimentations.

I can tell you you’re bisexual, gay or heterosexual but ultimately it’s only you who truly knows.

I’m a firm believer of the spectrum aspect of sexuality, you may not be 100% straight but you could be closer to straight than gay.

That sorta makes sense. Now where we get to is a refinement of the question. It splits in two ways given what youve said. One is what we think of ourselves and the other what other people think of us.

Neither BB nor myself consider ourselves as Bi sexual. BB has sampled a couple of ladies (one in quite a big and intensive way) and was actually quite aggressive with it. Myself I've not pushed it nor accidentally found a cock in my hand let alone my mouth or arse. BB is out right now with a woman and is seeking more female interaction. I'm not going to be phased by a cock in places that are less than traditional.

We don't deliberately seek it and it's not our raison detre but we are between like and okay with same sex play.

Appears that labelling is between difficult and impossible then.

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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness

"It’s actually what is in your head, not someone else’s opinion of your sexuality based on what you do behind closed doors.

A gay or bisexual act is just that, it’s an act. But feeling romantically attracted to someone else is closer to your sexuality than your desires or experimentations.

I can tell you you’re bisexual, gay or heterosexual but ultimately it’s only you who truly knows.

I’m a firm believer of the spectrum aspect of sexuality, you may not be 100% straight but you could be closer to straight than gay.

I think you're right and I would also say that where you are on a scale shifts

over time.

At at least it has for me as curiosity has come later in life

Or maybe you just get more adventurous as you get older

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Our "curiosity" stems from each other. I am obviously turned on by seeing bad bitch with women and BB is turned on by the idea of me playing with men.

BB has taken the plunge and is very confident and very much enjoys the pleasures that being with a woman brings. I'm not one to be outdone and will commit as much openess as she has (men are alot more reserved about coming forward as Bi than women are so the opportunity hasn't yet presented itself).

To me the term Bi-sexual means that you could without reservation conduct a one on one relationship with either a male or female and be just as comfortable with either.

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By *ang average kinkMan
over a year ago

Farnborough

I do agree that as I have got older I have become more adventurous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whenever you are ready for it to

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

"It’s actually what is in your head, not someone else’s opinion of your sexuality based on what you do behind closed doors.

A gay or bisexual act is just that, it’s an act. But feeling romantically attracted to someone else is closer to your sexuality than your desires or experimentations.

I can tell you you’re bisexual, gay or heterosexual but ultimately it’s only you who truly knows.

I’m a firm believer of the spectrum aspect of sexuality, you may not be 100% straight but you could be closer to straight than gay.

I think you're right and I would also say that where you are on a scale shifts

over time.

At at least it has for me as curiosity has come later in life

Or maybe you just get more adventurous as you get older

This was a point I forgot to make and I totally agree. As a teenager I was 100% straight even my crossdressing fantasies were about sex with women.

But once I started to get older and taking my first tentative steps out in the real world dressed, this changed as my environment changed. No longer just dressing at home I met others like myself and some guys, due to those experiences it created a shift towards who I was attracted to and my sexuality.

I should also add if you’re around people who are comfortable and confident with what they are and who they’re attracted to, it can help you to try new things yourself.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I'd class her as bisexual if she regularly plays with the same sex and enjoys it.

I can understand some men being in denial,because some women/couples won't meet bi men.Women however are encouraged to be bisexual and play with other women ,so I'm not sure why a woman wouldn't want to admit it on here.

Bisexual doesnt have to mean that you have relationships with the same sex ,more that you enjoy sexual activity with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd class her as bisexual if she regularly plays with the same sex and enjoys it.

Bisexual doesnt have to mean that you have relationships with the same sex ,more that you enjoy sexual activity with them."

Best explanation ever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread has me all hot and bothered. Any bisexual or bicurious men and women welcome here.

I class myself as bisexual even though I can't see myself in a romantic relationship with a woman the same as I would with a man. But I do fancy other women in a sexual capacity and have always longed for the intimacy with both genders.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This thread has me all hot and bothered. Any bisexual or bicurious men and women welcome here.

I think.this describes so many of us

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

"It’s actually what is in your head, not someone else’s opinion of your sexuality based on what you do behind closed doors.

A gay or bisexual act is just that, it’s an act. But feeling romantically attracted to someone else is closer to your sexuality than your desires or experimentations.

I can tell you you’re bisexual, gay or heterosexual but ultimately it’s only you who truly knows.

I’m a firm believer of the spectrum aspect of sexuality, you may not be 100% straight but you could be closer to straight than gay.

I think you're right and I would also say that where you are on a scale shifts

over time.

At at least it has for me as curiosity has come later in life

Or maybe you just get more adventurous as you get older

This was a point I forgot to make and I totally agree. As a teenager I was 100% straight even my crossdressing fantasies were about sex with women.

I should also add if you’re around people who are comfortable and confident with what they are and who they’re attracted to, it can help you to try new things yourself.

Disagree entirely with the last point. If you're around people who are comfortable and confident with what they are then you should learn from them how to be confident and comfortable with what you are and not be swayed into taking paths you yourself haven't chosen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do labels matter if everyone is enjoying themselves !!!!!

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

"Why do labels matter if everyone is enjoying themselves !!!!! "

Labels matter a lot. Imagine thinking you're buying a tin of caviar and it turns out to be dog food. That certainly kills the enjoyment - it's the same with people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m

A admirer of nice cock but don’t consider myself as bi curious or bisexual do we need a label ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m

A admirer of nice cock but don’t consider myself as bi curious or bisexual do we need a label ?

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By *awpleasureMan
over a year ago

Sutton Coldfield

I should change mine to bisexual but does it really matter

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By *heron212Man
over a year ago

London

The repression in this thread is just BEYOND.

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By *lecom1Couple
over a year ago

Stornoway

I would say bi curious changes to full on bi when you find a good snogging same sex is a real turn on

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By *upreme_TeamCouple (MM)
over a year ago

NW & Mids

When does Bi-Curious become "Bisexual"?

About 6-8 pints later

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By *irtywildsideMan
over a year ago

Barry

When you finally feel happy and guilt free about the fact you like having sex with men and women . Once you have sucked, fucked and vice versa with another guy more than once and realised you liked it I think you have to drop the curious bit

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By *issitCouple
over a year ago

Banbury

Someone recently described themselves as “romantically straight but sexually bi.” I think that’s quite a good description for quite a lot of fabsters.

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By *inky_CarpenterMan
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I was bicurious until I tried it. Then I confirmed I liked it and became bisexual.

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By *ames250122Man
over a year ago

Worcester

"Sooooo.....

We've had for us, a wide variety of exploratory experiences since we have been here. Bad Bitch has had some intimate moments throughout her life with ladies and found some women incredibly hot.

In the cold light of day BB isn't fully on board with being classified as Bisexual. So where's the actual line?

Is it what's in your head or is what you do?

To keep this less one sided I wouldn't say no if a guy stuck his cock in my mouth but would not consider myself Bisexual either.

Maybe it's just mental conditioning of a certain generation?"

For a guy, I’m guessing just after the tip hehehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Someone recently described themselves as “romantically straight but sexually bi.” I think that’s quite a good description for quite a lot of fabsters. "

This is me down to a tee

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By *ickedwillyCouple
over a year ago

Bangor

Guessing your bi sexual when your bum is on offer.

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By *awpleasureMan
over a year ago

Sutton Coldfield

"Someone recently described themselves as “romantically straight but sexually bi.” I think that’s quite a good description for quite a lot of fabsters. "

That is an excellent description

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By *ickedwillyCouple
over a year ago

Bangor

Ready for bi sexual then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Someone recently described themselves as “romantically straight but sexually bi.” I think that’s quite a good description for quite a lot of fabsters. "

Nice way to put it and think suits me as outside of kink or swing I have no interest in men.

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By *eadjeyecMan
over a year ago

Bucks/London

"Someone recently described themselves as “romantically straight but sexually bi.” I think that’s quite a good description for quite a lot of fabsters. "

Good description as for myself I don’t want kissing etc but I am curious if one was to go near my mouth or hand and in the right circumstances elsewhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guessing your bi sexual when your bum is on offer. "

I'm bi top not bottom as I will fuck men or women in equal amounts but love sucking a cock till they cum and swallow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When you finally feel happy and guilt free about the fact you like having sex with men and women . Once you have sucked, fucked and vice versa with another guy more than once and realised you liked it I think you have to drop the curious bit "

Exactly spot on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab labels are irrelevant. Call yourself what you like.

The legal definition however is that if you are sexually attracted to both men and women you are bisexual. It doesn’t differentiate between how that sexual attraction manifests itself.

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By *winfrozrMan
over a year ago

Carnoustie

I agree with a lot of posters on the thread already

I think bicurious suits me as although I like having sex with guys, wanking and sucking only, I don’t see myself as being able to be in a monogamous relationship with another guy.

Also not really in to kissing or anal with guys, but am up for both of those activities with women.

Just my 2p worth for the chat

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By *isfun2022Couple
over a year ago

Crawley

Similar thoughts to the above reply.

I class curious as being oral/hand friendly

Bisexual as mm anal friendly

But as long as it’s made clear what people want all is good !

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020Man
over a year ago

Stourbridge

"Fab labels are irrelevant. Call yourself what you like.

The legal definition however is that if you are sexually attracted to both men and women you are bisexual. It doesn’t differentiate between how that sexual attraction manifests itself. "

This. I would add just do what you enjoy.

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By *ddfellowMan
over a year ago

Newferry, wirral

when you act on it and want to repeat it

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By *evonrobMan
over a year ago

Kingsbridge

Nicely put! Sums me up exactly

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By *KentMan
over a year ago

Canterbury

When you make eye contact during!

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