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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

After being in the seen for many years not always active on fab, we have been on and of for many years.

We have been married for over 10 years nearly.

Recently i have found that she wants far more meets away instead of here at home. Is this something i should be worried about? It has never bothered me before, i liked it, but its getting very regular now ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say that if it’s something that troubles you or makes you feel uncomfortable (and the fact that you’ve posted your question at all suggests it is) then it’s something you need to sit down and discuss it.

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By *inx and NymphCouple
over a year ago

bristol


"After being in the seen for many years not always active on fab, we have been on and of for many years.

We have been married for over 10 years nearly.

Recently i have found that she wants far more meets away instead of here at home. Is this something i should be worried about? It has never bothered me before, i liked it, but its getting very regular now ????

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Is t that the point though? I can imagine it’s an experience she maybe prefers just being out the house. As long as you’re communicating you shouldn’t be worried I think. Maybe it’s time to let her know you’re worried

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few questions I would be asking myself.

Is every other aspect of the marriage good?

Are you both still enjoying an active and varied sex life together?

Is it a repeat meet or is it always with new people?

As somebody said before, if anything in the lifestyle causes anxiety it should be talked about straight away, marriage and partnership first, swinging is just a bit of fun on the side so to speak.

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By *carletnsparksMan
over a year ago

halifax

Is that meets away from home without your involvement?

I'd say if this is worrying you then you need to sit down with your other half and discuss your concerns. Communication is key and you may both find a compromise that works for the both of you.

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

taunton somerset

only you know your wife if worried even just a little then it time to sit down and talk

#justmyopinion

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

taunton somerset

oh and yes i play alone too sometimes we mix it up all the time

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By *oolman34Man
over a year ago

london

I think both is ok, with hubby or wihout hubby. For a bull it does not matter x

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By *ltra72Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

It looks like that dynamic works better for your wife than you.

Does your wife communicate with you when she’s out, phone calls/ photos or videos?

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By *ee And MikeCouple
over a year ago

Cannock

Before you went into the cuckold lifestyle you must have discussed what your wife’s needs were ?

From experience as a cuck, sometimes Dee enjoys meeting bulls on her own for a drink or as some would call it on here a date. Some cucks like myself like the frustration and intrigue of what she’s getting up to and she enjoys herself without me hanging around in the background.

But you have to discuss what works for you both and what you are comfortable with with otherwise it’s not going to work for you both.

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