FabSwingers.com forum: Anyone find Vanilla events boring after being in the lifestyle?

By *aughtycp1 OP Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Is it just us that finds Vanilla parties and events a little dull after being in the swinging lifestyle for so long? Around 10:30pm I'm looking for the hot tub and then realise there isn't one! X lol

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

Not me , vanilla events are usually with good friends and / or family , people I love or at least very fond off but don’t wanna shag … Still love seeing them though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all, variety is the spice of life and all that jazz. If someone is incapable of having fun without sex being involved, that would be a red flag for me

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

No, I love life & friends

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

You can't beat a bit of craic on a night out that doesn't involve sex

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By *ope_kisses22Couple
over a year ago

Hyde

I love the variety ....

Swing nights

Kink nights

Vanilla nights

Friends nights

And family nights

I love the balance of having them all

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By *utterypopcornCouple
over a year ago

oxford

Absolutely, feels like a rare night out we could have been having more fun on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not us, we love our family and friends and we also love spending time with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I like to get the balance right.

Fab is a small part of my life that I often take a break from.

I’d soon get fed up of the lifestyle if every occasion was related to it.

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By *tsalwaysthequietonesCouple
over a year ago

Lancs

I'm totally with you OP, we do enjoy the vanilla daytime antics with our family but if its a night out it just feels abit boring, I feel so much more relaxed and liberated around people in this lifestyle.

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By *ilkchocolate87Man
over a year ago

sw london

Yes I tend to find events on FL more fun

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m finding myself heading the other way. I used to be all about the next new thing, going a bit further trying out new things. I don’t know if it’s just an age thing now but I’m beginning to find it just want one, maybe two fwb’s that I can get to know and have some vanilla fun with on a regular basis. God I’m getting dull and boring lol

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

We still love vanilla nights out. In fact we've got a night out coming on Friday just the two of us, a few drinks, people watching and dancing. Only occasional swinging nights out for us.

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By *ichaelangelaCouple
over a year ago

notts

No.

Life does not revolve around sex all the time,

We even holiday in Gran Canaria but don't go anywhere near the bars, clubs or dunes.

It's nice to get time for just the 2 of us

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Nah.

I like quiet social evenings with friends. I like unbridled hedonism at a club. I like getting flogged to within an inch of my life with an audience at fet events.

Variety is good. I'd get bored quickly if every event went the same way.

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