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Couples first club visit

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By *ovelifelovefuntimes OP   Man
over a year ago

Where ever I lay my hat

Was it your first swinging experience? Did you play with each other, did you play with others or did you just watch and take it all in?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We played together on the couples bed and were joined by another couple next to us. No cross over play but it was enough for Penny to want more.

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By *ovelifelovefuntimes OP   Man
over a year ago

Where ever I lay my hat


"We played together on the couples bed and were joined by another couple next to us. No cross over play but it was enough for Penny to want more."

sounds like a great first experience.

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

It was a massive game changer for us and did a lot more than we expected.

Went without any expectations and had our first couple swap/foursome which is still one of our favourite nights on the scene.

The most pleasing thing was that it was our first ever experience with other people so it was a relief that we both felt fine seeing each other with others.

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By *ovelifelovefuntimes OP   Man
over a year ago

Where ever I lay my hat


"It was a massive game changer for us and did a lot more than we expected.

Went without any expectations and had our first couple swap/foursome which is still one of our favourite nights on the scene.

The most pleasing thing was that it was our first ever experience with other people so it was a relief that we both felt fine seeing each other with others.

"

Sounds brilliant

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By *ustful_connectionCouple
over a year ago

cornwall

Had our first ever club experience last night and it was amazing! Very nervous at first and felt abit like ‘rabbits in headlights’ but after a couple of drinks we relaxed abit and funnily enough felt more relaxed once I’d dressed down.

We starting playing on our own in a room with lots of beds then i called a guy over to join me and my husband as I knew he liked me.

We also had a little play with 1 couple who were having sex next to us, followed by 2 more sessions with 2 other couples! We finished the night just me and hubby having sex but there were also 4 other couple in the same room which was very hot to watch!

We loved it! So wonderful to see so many body confident beautiful people having an amazing sexy time! Still on quite a high from last night

I can’t wait for our next club visit!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We played with each other and basically just had a good look around to see what it was all about on our first club visit.

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By *rodie568Couple
over a year ago

Cambridge

First club experience was amazing we started out just sort of taking it all in talking to others. Ended up playing with eachother but definitely would have played with others that night (we met some very attractive couples) just didn’t feel like doing it on our first visit. Can’t wait to go back though hopefully play with others next time x

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By *ovelifelovefuntimes OP   Man
over a year ago

Where ever I lay my hat


"Had our first ever club experience last night and it was amazing! Very nervous at first and felt abit like ‘rabbits in headlights’ but after a couple of drinks we relaxed abit and funnily enough felt more relaxed once I’d dressed down.

We starting playing on our own in a room with lots of beds then i called a guy over to join me and my husband as I knew he liked me.

We also had a little play with 1 couple who were having sex next to us, followed by 2 more sessions with 2 other couples! We finished the night just me and hubby having sex but there were also 4 other couple in the same room which was very hot to watch!

We loved it! So wonderful to see so many body confident beautiful people having an amazing sexy time! Still on quite a high from last night

I can’t wait for our next club visit! "

Sounds like a brilliant night, glad you enjoyed. Was it your first swinging experience or had you had some private meets first?

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By *ovelifelovefuntimes OP   Man
over a year ago

Where ever I lay my hat


"We played with each other and basically just had a good look around to see what it was all about on our first club visit."

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By *ovelifelovefuntimes OP   Man
over a year ago

Where ever I lay my hat


"First club experience was amazing we started out just sort of taking it all in talking to others. Ended up playing with eachother but definitely would have played with others that night (we met some very attractive couples) just didn’t feel like doing it on our first visit. Can’t wait to go back though hopefully play with others next time x "

Brilliant

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Our first experience was Cupid a few years ago now and it wasn't the most enjoyable experience Firstly K was just being silently followed by some random guy wanking for a while, which was off putting. We only played with each other that night but trying to enjoy ourselves while people are stood outside the door loudly discussing cheeseburgers, and knocking on the door doesn't set the best mood. It's definitely put us off that club

LvM

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By *ovelifelovefuntimes OP   Man
over a year ago

Where ever I lay my hat


"Our first experience was Cupid a few years ago now and it wasn't the most enjoyable experience Firstly K was just being silently followed by some random guy wanking for a while, which was off putting. We only played with each other that night but trying to enjoy ourselves while people are stood outside the door loudly discussing cheeseburgers, and knocking on the door doesn't set the best mood. It's definitely put us off that club

LvM"

Doesn't sound great at all.

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By *a_fun_30_coupleCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

Our first club experience was in Amsterdam. We played together and put on a show and loved it. After we’d been to clubs a couple of times we progressed on to playing with other couples with girl/girl and soft swap before fully taking the plunge

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By *ovelifelovefuntimes OP   Man
over a year ago

Where ever I lay my hat


"Our first club experience was in Amsterdam. We played together and put on a show and loved it. After we’d been to clubs a couple of times we progressed on to playing with other couples with girl/girl and soft swap before fully taking the plunge "

would love to give a European club a go.

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By *ovelifelovefuntimes OP   Man
over a year ago

Where ever I lay my hat

I have a partner who has no swinging experience who has indicated she wants to come to a club with me so this is all really helpful. She knows I have been in the past so want to make sure it's all about her and to manage expectations

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By *ixenandhoundCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth, South west

Hound had been to clubs before, I had not.

The first visit I was nervous, we played together with others watching and playing next to us, took a few visits to start fun with others. The first time was in a glory hole

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By *ovelifelovefuntimes OP   Man
over a year ago

Where ever I lay my hat


"Hound had been to clubs before, I had not.

The first visit I was nervous, we played together with others watching and playing next to us, took a few visits to start fun with others. The first time was in a glory hole "

How did you feel playing together with others watching on your first time?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had our first ever club experience last night and it was amazing! Very nervous at first and felt abit like ‘rabbits in headlights’ but after a couple of drinks we relaxed abit and funnily enough felt more relaxed once I’d dressed down.

We starting playing on our own in a room with lots of beds then i called a guy over to join me and my husband as I knew he liked me.

We also had a little play with 1 couple who were having sex next to us, followed by 2 more sessions with 2 other couples! We finished the night just me and hubby having sex but there were also 4 other couple in the same room which was very hot to watch!

We loved it! So wonderful to see so many body confident beautiful people having an amazing sexy time! Still on quite a high from last night

I can’t wait for our next club visit! "

Where did you go? I see we are ' neighbours ', but I haven't yet found anything nearby... Also, oooft to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’re hopefully having our first meet/experience soon and have decided a club is the best option, we have agreed that the first time we will probably just play on our own and see how things go but she might change her mind when she’s there which is ok. Looking forward to trying it out after reading a few of the comments though!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just go and enjoy and treat as any night out, fun may or may not happen

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By *ikingandMaiden2Couple
over a year ago

Mid Cornwall, South West

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By *ikingandMaiden2Couple
over a year ago

Mid Cornwall, South West

We had our first club visit last year, set our boundaries and went with the mindset that as long as we have a good time thats all that matters.

Had fun by ourselves and with others.

We had an amazing time and will never forget sitting in the taxi smiling at each other all the way home.

2nd visit coming up this weekend and have the same mix of nerves and excitement but reaaly can't wait

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just go and enjoy and treat as any night out, fun may or may not happen "

That’s the plan, looking forward to going and seeing how it all goes. We both enjoy a night out so I’m sure we will have fun!

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By *ore4fundevonCouple
over a year ago

West Devon

We played together and took it all in. Unfortunately while we were minding our own business in the jacuzzi one of the guys got touchy feely without being invited and consequently put Mrs More off of clubs for quite a while after favouring private meets.

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