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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Advice required… joined the site when my partner and I broke up but we are now back together. Since joining I can’t keep away as it appeals too much.

She isn’t aware about the site but I am on the verge of telling her about it and asking her to make a couples profile. Just wondering how I deal with and bring up the conversation.

She already knows I like the thought of guys with her / wanking over her pics and she’s made comments to suggest she would be up for it too.

When we are having sex we both talk about a third party being involved whether it is her having another cock inside her or me licking pussy whilst she’s giving me oral. It turns us both on and sex gets crazy. We do go out in the car for fun and when the weather is warmer she likes to fuck outdoors.

It’s not so much me getting with another women but the thought of seeing her with someone else male or female that is the turn on

Any help will be much appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What’s the worst that can happen? She says no and she doesn’t join in

She says yes, well then the fun will begin for you both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Arrange it, tell her, see what she says... Laugh it off as a joke... Or don't

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Definitely don't arrange anything without speaking to her first of all op.

Sit down and talk properly, tell her your fantasies and say you've found this site and wanted to explore & want her to join you too .Ask her if she had fantasies she wants to make happen,just be prepared she might say no though.

If she does say no can you delete your profile and stay off fab though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definitely don't arrange anything without speaking to her first of all op.

Sit down and talk properly, tell her your fantasies and say you've found this site and wanted to explore & want her to join you too .Ask her if she had fantasies she wants to make happen,just be prepared she might say no though.

If she does say no can you delete your profile and stay off fab though."

This is Rick solid advice

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

What is it that makes you think she was to make fantasy reality?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is it that makes you think she was to make fantasy reality?"

I think that’s what he is saying he doesn’t know if he tells her it would end the relationship

At least that’s how I read it ?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"What is it that makes you think she was to make fantasy reality?

I think that’s what he is saying he doesn’t know if he tells her it would end the relationship

At least that’s how I read it ? "

All I know is that there is no magic combination of words that make the question "will you make a couples profile with me on a swingers site because I want to watch you with other people?" any more of less appealing . People will say watch porn together or bring the subject up as a joke and see how she reacts but if asking about a fantasy in a straightforward way is a threat to your relationship it needs work anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agreed

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By *empusMan
over a year ago

Poole

Difficult conversations are normally only difficult in your head. 99% of the time everything is much better once you open up to the important people in your life.

I think you should tell her asap. Sounds like she won’t be surprised.

Good chance for you to take control, which (potentially) is something you’ll need to get used to if you’re going to invite other guys into your fun.

Plus, if you don’t tell her it will eat away at your happiness and may even ruin your relationship.

Nothing to lose mate, go for it. Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Advice required… joined the site when my partner and I broke up but we are now back together. Since joining I can’t keep away as it appeals too much.

She isn’t aware about the site but I am on the verge of telling her about it and asking her to make a couples profile. Just wondering how I deal with and bring up the conversation.

She already knows I like the thought of guys with her / wanking over her pics and she’s made comments to suggest she would be up for it too.

When we are having sex we both talk about a third party being involved whether it is her having another cock inside her or me licking pussy whilst she’s giving me oral. It turns us both on and sex gets crazy. We do go out in the car for fun and when the weather is warmer she likes to fuck outdoors.

It’s not so much me getting with another women but the thought of seeing her with someone else male or female that is the turn on

Any help will be much appreciated "

How long have you been back together?

Why not just ask her?

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By *tourgentMan
over a year ago

Stourbridge

Watch some MFM porn together. If it works for her then the question is easier

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By *magine all the peopleCouple
over a year ago

Perth

Nothing to lose..you've already broken up, probably for good reason. Might as well be honest from here on, otherwise you'll never be happy.

Just tell her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interested to know if you told her and ho it went

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By *illyandjamesCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

It's all about communication, just be as open and honest as you can

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