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By *udiguy OP Man
over a year ago

harrogate

ok so last minute our plans for new year have changed.. we were goin out with freinds

but now its a night in with the mrs!

im gonna cook . or even cheat n get a meal for 2 from m&s ... so . nice bubble bath .candle lit . candle lit meal . few nice bottles sat at the dinner table!

heres the reason im posting . . other than a massage n a vannila shag ....... anyone got any suggestions how to make the evenin extra sexy/romantic ... i wanna do somethin she would nt expect . been married a while so its harder to suprise her....

ladies what would u like your other half to do??

fellas .. any ideas u have had success with?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

whilst she is in the bath fill the bed room with tea lights, then get her out of the bath, dry her off, leader into the bedroom by the hand, lay her down and give her a massage...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Show her your profile

She might want more too

Good luck and happy new year

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By *udiguy OP Man
over a year ago

harrogate

"whilst she is in the bath fill the bed room with tea lights, then get her out of the bath, dry her off, leader into the bedroom by the hand, lay her down and give her a massage..."

id kinda got that far mate......

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By *udiguy OP Man
over a year ago

harrogate

"Show her your profile

She might want more too

Good luck and happy new year "

ill pass on that

... for tonight at least

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By *eryBigGirlWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Here's an idea that's nice and romantic ....

Stop cheating on her!! I'm sure she'd like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could always take her out for a meal

Just because youre no longer going out with friends does not mean you have to stay in

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Invite 2 guys from here, waiting on the bed. And make sure you tell her where you found them...Happy new year and happy marriage

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By *udiguy OP Man
over a year ago

harrogate

"You could always take her out for a meal

Just because youre no longer going out with friends does not mean you have to stay in"

she wants too...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go out with your mates. Leave her a note.

Maybe bring her a kebab back. Have fun!

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By *udiguy OP Man
over a year ago

harrogate

i did nt ask for judgements from people re my profile.....

tryin to put the spark back .....

so any "nice" ideas would be greatfully recived

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By *udiguy OP Man
over a year ago

harrogate

"Go out with your mates. Leave her a note.

Maybe bring her a kebab back. Have fun!

lol

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Just take her out

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By *udiguy OP Man
over a year ago

harrogate

she doesnt want to... thats why we cancelled freinds.. new years idiots around . taxi fares? . etc etc etc.... her idea not mine?

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

I don't really know where to go from there without it seeming OTT, If Vincent lined up surprise after surprise I would eventually turn around and ask "What have you done/broken?".

Perhaps you could buy her a new toy and once you've given her a massage, treat her to a good session of clit/oral play? Simple but effective!

- Amy. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"she doesnt want to... thats why we cancelled freinds.. new years idiots around . taxi fares? . etc etc etc.... her idea not mine?"

well she sounds like a right barrel of laughs, buy her a new remote for the telly

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Why taxy fare? Stop drinking just for one night. Drive her to the nearest town to yours and have a nice meal and let her drink. You have your drink when you get back home and make love to her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Show her your profile

She might want more too

Good luck and happy new year "

I wasn't passing judgement, I'm on here with FB rather than husband! What I meant was surprise her with your idea's etc!

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By *udiguy OP Man
over a year ago

harrogate

"she doesnt want to... thats why we cancelled freinds.. new years idiots around . taxi fares? . etc etc etc.... her idea not mine?

well she sounds like a right barrel of laughs, buy her a new remote for the telly

lol

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By *udiguy OP Man
over a year ago

harrogate

"Why taxy fare? Stop drinking just for one night. Drive her to the nearest town to yours and have a nice meal and let her drink. You have your drink when you get back home and make love to her "

i think she wants to avoid all the new years revellers ..and all the over hyped new years carry on

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By *udiguy OP Man
over a year ago

harrogate

"Show her your profile

She might want more too

Good luck and happy new year

I wasn't passing judgement, I'm on here with FB rather than husband! What I meant was surprise her with your idea's etc! "

ok ... was nt so much u i was aiming at

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hints and tips :

Er....... Marriage guidence......

......... You should know what she likes........ She is your wife........

But i suggest if you want to kepp ur marriage stop coming on here.......

Just a thought.....

No one likes being lied to.....

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By *udiguy OP Man
over a year ago

harrogate

"Hints and tips :

Er....... Marriage guidence......

......... You should know what she likes........ She is your wife........

But i suggest if you want to kepp ur marriage stop coming on here.......

Just a thought.....

No one likes being lied to....."

i know what she likes

. was lookin for other suggestions to suprise her

as for my profile.... do u all think that single guy or girl u swung with was really single just cos they told u so?

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By *udiguy OP Man
over a year ago

harrogate

like the 2 guys in your verifications did to there other halfs most likley

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think majority of people that are single on here are genuinely single.

As for ideas, dont have any useful ones to share

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By *udiguy OP Man
over a year ago

harrogate

"I think majority of people that are single on here are genuinely single.

As for ideas, dont have any useful ones to share"

u kiddin right?

like all the straight guys who dont message bi ones?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair, whilst I don't agree with cheating the OP wasn't asking for marriage guidance or if he should be on here as he's married.

He's simply asking for ideas to suprise his wife tonight x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You won't win mate, you are just being judged.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think majority of people that are single on here are genuinely single.

As for ideas, dont have any useful ones to share"

i have to admit i wouldnt say the majority of people on here are really single

Ive met loads of guys who claim to be single but if im honest i dont believe them

Most on here will say what they think you want to hear and to most thats that they are single

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By *udiguy OP Man
over a year ago

harrogate

"To be fair, whilst I don't agree with cheating the OP wasn't asking for marriage guidance or if he should be on here as he's married.

He's simply asking for ideas to suprise his wife tonight x"

thank u

... back.on track at last

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By *udiguy OP Man
over a year ago

harrogate

"You won't win mate, you are just being judged.

c above post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think majority of people that are single on here are genuinely single.

As for ideas, dont have any useful ones to share"

I have to disagree there, we had an add up last night wanting to meet single guys, we had about 30 replies out of all the replies only 6 could could genuinely accom us.... Most of the rest couldn't accom because their wife/partner was at home a few said they didn't want strangers in their home x

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By *udiguy OP Man
over a year ago

harrogate

"I think majority of people that are single on here are genuinely single.

As for ideas, dont have any useful ones to share

i have to admit i wouldnt say the majority of people on here are really single

Ive met loads of guys who claim to be single but if im honest i dont believe them

Most on here will say what they think you want to hear and to most thats that they are single

amen

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By *udiguy OP Man
over a year ago

harrogate

so anyway...

bath

flowers

rub down

massage

meal

drinkies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

put on some female friendly porn in the bedroom and see if she enjoys it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You won't win mate, you are just being judged.

c above post"

If you want to cheat mate then cheat. At least you are honest . I am sure you have you're reasons for being on here like all other married men. There is more married men and men in relationships on here than single men they are just good liars . Its not right that you are being judged

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

do a frank bucher and put on a flashing bow tie.

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By *udiguy OP Man
over a year ago

harrogate

"You won't win mate, you are just being judged.

c above post

let em judge... i dont care

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

cook her fav meal... then get a dessert that you can use in the bedroom such as a chocolate moouse which can be licked off.. scatter rose petals on the bed and serve champagne to her...

I don't know the reasons you are on fab I don't really care but just do something she will least expect.. turn your front room into a resturant for 2... soft music playing candles make her feel special...

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

A long, slow foot massage with perfumed oils.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I think it's great that you want to do something special for your wife today.....lots of men don't bother even if they aren't having fun elsewhere and just because you are having fun with others doesn't mean you don't love or care about someone.....we all do what we do for various reasons....so many women in on about cheating....seriously girls.....married men are often so much more fun than single men and at least if they admit to.being married then they will admit to almost anything.

My advice is.....everything you have suggested and make her feel special, think about her pleasure, give her lots of sensual kissing, touching, lots of oral, fingers and tongue together and nice and gentle, tease her and give her a night to remember....Happy New Year x

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By *udiguy OP Man
over a year ago

harrogate

"do a frank bucher and put on a flashing bow tie.

er no

lol

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By *udiguy OP Man
over a year ago

harrogate

"Personally I think it's great that you want to do something special for your wife today.....lots of men don't bother even if they aren't having fun elsewhere and just because you are having fun with others doesn't mean you don't love or care about someone.....we all do what we do for various reasons....so many women in on about cheating....seriously

girls.....married men are often so much more fun than single men and at least if they admit to.being married then they will admit to almost anything.

My advice is.....everything you have

suggested and make her feel special, think about her pleasure, give her lots

of sensual kissing, touching, lots of

oral, fingers and tongue together and nice and gentle, tease her and give her a night to remember....Happy New Year x "

given the house a good post xmas spring clean..

and doin so found an eye mask/blindfold thing..... like top cat wears at the end .. lol

given me ideas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take her out for a meal...and then do the whole sexy bath and massage thing after.

Wish i had the option i shall be working

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By *udiguy OP Man
over a year ago

harrogate

she dont wanna go out... hence why im lookin for ideas for a nite in.... ok

shoppin done .. food wine beer mixers. tealights 100 of

bathrobes washed n dryed .. mmm cosy!

house all tidy

fresh sheets

bedside draw empty of general crap .

(now just has lube . vibe. mask. etc)

lady freindly porn in bedroom dvd (she got it with a rabbit years ago)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How about a little card with a written promise to provide the same night at least once a month for the rest of the year x

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By *udiguy OP Man
over a year ago

harrogate

"How about a little card with a written promise to provide the same night at least once a month for the rest of the year x"

nice!!

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

"How about a little card with a written promise to provide the same night at least once a month for the rest of the year x

nice!!"

Mind you, if it was me Id say you can sod the tea lights and Ill just have the cleaning up part....

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"How about a little card with a written promise to provide the same night at least once a month for the rest of the year x"

Oh that is a good idea....plus all the good ideas above. Light the whole house with candles. Make sure your house is warm so you can both wear very little and shag in every room.

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By *udiguy OP Man
over a year ago

harrogate

"How about a little card with a written promise to provide the same night at least once a month for the rest of the year x

nice!!

Mind you, if it was me Id say you can sod the tea lights and Ill just have the cleaning up part....

due to being a night worker n the mrs workin long days i do 90% of the household chores anyway..... so she gets that already.... romance night or whatever u wanna call it may go down better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Write her something nice. A poem or just why you love her. It's great to hear it but I still have a poem I was written about how special I am that I carry with me everywhere

It may sound silly but that to me was worth more than an gift

Good luck for tonight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You should know her better than anyone on here so if you don't know what to do to make her feel special then i'll be damned if i do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We were hoping to do something special for our 25 th wedding anniversary but spent the night on loving each other .

We were hoping to something special tonight but are naked together on the sofa , watching a crappy film drinking lots of wine we were given by appreciative customers and are very happy .

A very happy new year to all of you and we hope all you find what you are looking for in 2013

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, I don't want to hi-jack your thread, at least no more than it has already been, but I've just done a wee calculation the result of which was interesting!

Of the ladies I've met, 66.6% of them have been married! So to the relevant trolls here, 'put that in your pipes and smoke it'!!

Happy New Year everybody, and I hope you're already having a good night OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well it's the morning after.....just wondering how it went for the op?

Didn't go well for me....stockings, suspenders, killer heels, baby doll etc got me a few strokes of the leg and then he was fast asleep....not the best start to the year!

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By *udiguy OP Man
over a year ago

harrogate

it went well

bath candles then she bathed me ... we jumped into bed for

.... a while

then ate drank n saw in the new year

seems i did nt need to do a great deal aftr all... im still in the good books two days later

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