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By *andy199 OP   Man
over a year ago

bedford

Just wondering how many people on actually bother to set an age range or just pick 18 to 99 even though they would never consider any one over a certain age

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By *urreyVixenStagCouple
over a year ago

Surrey


"Just wondering how many people on actually bother to set an age range or just pick 18 to 99 even though they would never consider any one over a certain age"

I do. 27 is my absolute youngest I’ll go and prefer not to go above 49/50 …. At the moment

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area


"Just wondering how many people on actually bother to set an age range or just pick 18 to 99 even though they would never consider any one over a certain age"

I laugh at people with 18 to 99 age range. I'm sure they wouldn't actually meet someone in their 90s.

Are they too lazy to alter it?. If they can't be bothered to change it, are they going to put effort into their appearance or be energetic in bed. Or they are really really desperate and will meet absolutely anyone?

Neither are good options to me, so I tend to avoid people displaying that age range.

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By *rodie53Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Well I would not shy away from 99 or above or 19 or below what ever floats yer boat

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By *portyndNaughtyMan
over a year ago

Nearby Hinckley

Age range is a subjective criterion in a club environment as different from here where filters help to mitigate time wasters, when meeting someone in a club politness, connection and attraction not in this specific order are key. As a matter of fact I have never been asked my age or vice-versa im a club.

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

south west

I often meet women in clubs that i would have been to old to message on here , frustrating ...but hey ho ...

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I think 18-99 indicates that they will consider any age. There are frequent threads complaining that people's age ranges are too narrow and they're only one year older or younger.

It seems there's no age range that everyone will find acceptable

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells


"Just wondering how many people on actually bother to set an age range or just pick 18 to 99 even though they would never consider any one over a certain age

I laugh at people with 18 to 99 age range. I'm sure they wouldn't actually meet someone in their 90s.

Are they too lazy to alter it?. If they can't be bothered to change it, are they going to put effort into their appearance or be energetic in bed. Or they are really really desperate and will meet absolutely anyone?

Neither are good options to me, so I tend to avoid people displaying that age range. "

I don't understand why you think I'm lazy for not changing the age range. Take a look at my profile and see If I'm lazy with it.

The reason I don't change the age range is because age isn't a consideration when I'm choosing to meet. I go on their bio/personality or the way they come across and obviously looks come into it as well. I doubt there is anyone in their nineties on here that is active sexualy anyway.

The youngest I've met is 20, the oldest is 84.

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area


"Just wondering how many people on actually bother to set an age range or just pick 18 to 99 even though they would never consider any one over a certain age

I laugh at people with 18 to 99 age range. I'm sure they wouldn't actually meet someone in their 90s.

Are they too lazy to alter it?. If they can't be bothered to change it, are they going to put effort into their appearance or be energetic in bed. Or they are really really desperate and will meet absolutely anyone?

Neither are good options to me, so I tend to avoid people displaying that age range.

I don't understand why you think I'm lazy for not changing the age range. Take a look at my profile and see If I'm lazy with it.

The reason I don't change the age range is because age isn't a consideration when I'm choosing to meet. I go on their bio/personality or the way they come across and obviously looks come into it as well. I doubt there is anyone in their nineties on here that is active sexualy anyway.

The youngest I've met is 20, the oldest is 84."

In your case you have completed the rest of your profile with plenty of text and therefore I wouldn't consider you to be in the lazy category. I was referring to the folk who don't bother changing the age range, have 3 dick pics and "will fill in later" or " I don't know what to put here, just ask".

My preference, I repeat, my preference, is to meet people who like getting together with others of my age. I like a connection with people and I know that age plays a part in this for me.

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By *ritishAsianMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Age is just a number!!!

As long as they are what i am looking for, we get along and the attraction is there... why not?

I would happily sleep with a lady in her 50’s

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By *ampire69Man
over a year ago

Birmingham West Midlands

Age is just an irrelevant number it don't really mean anything its a pointless marker, on a personal basis its not a criteria I would attach any significance to there are other more important issues. we are by nature firstly visual creatures

1. physical attraction

2. mental stimulation

3. both being on the same wave length

4. both looking for the same outcome

5. we are all looking for different qualities

6. never pre judge a person big error

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By *ames_HertsMan
over a year ago

North Hertfordshire

I have an age range but I'm it sure what it actually is! So it's pretty pointless

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By *ritishAsianMan
over a year ago

Leeds


"Age is just an irrelevant number it don't really mean anything its a pointless marker, on a personal basis its not a criteria I would attach any significance to there are other more important issues. we are by nature firstly visual creatures

1. physical attraction

2. mental stimulation

3. both being on the same wave length

4. both looking for the same outcome

5. we are all looking for different qualities

6. never pre judge a person big error

"

Exactly my point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have an age limit but unfortunately, it doesn't get respected much lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do, and we stick to it for a reason

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area


"I have an age limit but unfortunately, it doesn't get respected much lol. "

Why don't you set your filters, so that only that age group can contact you ?

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I have an age range specified and filters on for those ages only.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Mine are set mostly to cut down on messages.But they are pretty close to my age range anyhow. I have gone outside of them when I have seen a profile I like but I wouldn't go a lot under my age range.

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By *picy2Couple
over a year ago

essex

We have age range specified

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have one set 40 to 65.

Even that's pushing the limits for me for younger. My rule was always kinda no younger than me and no more than 10 years older when I was looking years ago on my own(in the real world lol), however, decided to push my limits a bit on here as part of a couple.(msfox)

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)


"I laugh at people with 18 to 99 age range. I'm sure they wouldn't actually meet someone in their 90s.

Are they too lazy to alter it?. If they can't be bothered to change it, are they going to put effort into their appearance or be energetic in bed. Or they are really really desperate and will meet absolutely anyone?

Neither are good options to me, so I tend to avoid people displaying that age range. "

Hi Lizzy,

Not being lazy, but actually thinking things through. Neither am I desperate to fuck anyone. I've turned down a few!

Here's what's on mi bio.

Age range.

My age filters say 18 to 99. I'm not being lazy by not changing them as I think looks and attitude are way more important than a number. And what would I change them too? Why would someone be acceptable say, just before their 70th birthday, but not acceptable just after it? Complicated stuff, isn't it?

I think it's considered more than laughable.

Gbat

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
over a year ago

Portstewart

It's more the younger limit that we would be less likely to alter but for the right person or persons the upper limit is more of a guide line

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By *ldFashionedGentMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford


"Just wondering how many people on actually bother to set an age range or just pick 18 to 99 even though they would never consider any one over a certain age

I laugh at people with 18 to 99 age range. I'm sure they wouldn't actually meet someone in their 90s.

Are they too lazy to alter it?. If they can't be bothered to change it, are they going to put effort into their appearance or be energetic in bed. Or they are really really desperate and will meet absolutely anyone?

Neither are good options to me, so I tend to avoid people displaying that age range. "

I will admit to having left mine. When joining i was unsure if this was for me so spent time looking around and talking to some very lovely people about fab and the various lifestyles that people have.

As my profile grew and I spoke to more and more people I found that I was attracted to a range of people and ages many of which were vastly different and it was more the person for me and ‘something’ about them than a specific box of preferences.

As I read this I thought ‘crikey’ perhaps I should change it, and to be totally honest I really don’t want to be with an 18 year old so should in order to be totally transparent. But I’ve been surprised as to the friends I’ve been very lucky to make on here and am conscious of being far too restrictive.

So I think I’ll change it in some way as it does perhaps look lazy. But perhaps not by too much.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I've set mine as I don't want to fuck anyone young enough to be my kid or old enough to be my great grandad x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've set mine as I don't want to fuck anyone young enough to be my kid or old enough to be my great grandad x"

Check and check

I’ve set mine, but it’s not a be all and end all range

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I've set mine as I don't want to fuck anyone young enough to be my kid or old enough to be my great grandad x

Check and check

I’ve set mine, but it’s not a be all and end all range"

Mine isn't set in stone but I don't stray that far from it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We set 40-99 because we don't have strict rules on age, it's more to show that we are interested in older

If we put a proper range I don't what that would be, it all depends on the person. We've met 55 year olds who we never would have known, and 50 year olds that made us feel like we were going to kill if we went too hard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've set my range for what I'm looking for, but if I saw someone I fancied outside of my range then I would message him first, it's not really set in stone

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By *ittleCurvyChickWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere over the rainbow

I set my upper age limit lower than i would in real life, that's to counter balance those who shave several years off on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age range is everything to me.

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich


"I set my upper age limit lower than i would in real life, that's to counter balance those who shave several years off on here "

Same here!

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I have a very specific age range.

The upper limit is irrelevant as I've never been with a woman older than me at any stage in my life.

My lower limit is adjusted every year and remains 10 years above my eldest daughters age.

I don't subscribe to the age is just a number mantra.

The argument is often made that people don't ask for birth certs at clubs which for me is also irrelevant as I've never been to a club.

I'm not attracted to women young enough to be my daughter so when I exclude them all on here some have been quick to get the ageist pointy finger out.

Like the vast majority of people on here I don't fuck just for the sake of it and I'm certainly not going to take one for the team just to avoid being called ageist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would genuinely consider any age. Sure 99 is unlikely and would ultimately mean a manslaughter charge or something but I have been attracted to women up to late 70s early 80s. Its all about their libido and how they feel. If they wanted my young cock who am I to say no

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