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"Interesting reading everyone’s answers. I’m not looking anything particular,but since Fel don’t like to put hands around neck hard enough and slap me in between,tie me up..I need it and I’m craving it a lot. Mrs " I relate to this. I’d say the very reason I pushed to sign us up was for many things sexually I feel like I’d get better outside the relationship | |||
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"Anything I have the proverbial sexless marriage. No physical contact at all. Not even hand holding " Snap!! | |||
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"Interesting reading everyone’s answers. I’m not looking anything particular,but since Fel don’t like to put hands around neck hard enough and slap me in between,tie me up..I need it and I’m craving it a lot. Mrs I relate to this. I’d say the very reason I pushed to sign us up was for many things sexually I feel like I’d get better outside the relationship " Yeh agree here, there's some things that we think are better done by someone external to our marriage, some because one of us isn't as able to do it, some because it adds to the dynamic | |||
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"Sex, full stop." This exactly the same sorry | |||
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"I treat my husband to a blow job every day where we can is that too much ha ha " Would u like a 2nd husband lol | |||
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"Hotwifing. It’s shit with just the two of us " Wish I was closer to u I'd happily join u guys if u liked wat u saw | |||
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"For me it the rough set. I crave it badly and my husband would never spank me, let alone anything else. We also rarely have sex. I have a much higher sex drive than he does. More than anything though I crave oral and that a no go for him. He like reciving but refuses to give." What a waste I love doing all those things the problem I had was my ex wife didn’t want them. She got a bigger thrill out of spending money. | |||
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"For me it the rough set. I crave it badly and my husband would never spank me, let alone anything else. We also rarely have sex. I have a much higher sex drive than he does. More than anything though I crave oral and that a no go for him. He like reciving but refuses to give. What a waste I love doing all those things the problem I had was my ex wife didn’t want them. She got a bigger thrill out of spending money." Spending money is a close second lol | |||
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"Sex, full stop." I m wondering if you're the only one looking | |||
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"I treat my husband to a blow job every day where we can is that too much ha ha " Sounds perfect, I think you might need to have words with my wife. | |||
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"Just to be desired and to desire. I love giving oral and people to appreciate the attention. Running a business takes a lot of mental stress, and I refuse to carry it home as the stress of house jobs, bills, life is too much as it is. Sex to me is an escape, you can close the door to all this and relish the moment. It's kinda spiritual the way it heals the soul and charges my aura. It's really my secret weapon of success. Sadly this is not appreciated or understood, so after many reusuals, I'm here for salvation and strength to do what I need to do. Therefore I am forever grateful for the friendships and kinks that arise from here. I understand that a lot don't agree or understand and I expect to be burned at the stake, but my reasoning before you toss that match." That’s exactly why I’m here! | |||
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"Cock, anal & lots of pussy " So like most men on here | |||
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"For me it the rough set. I crave it badly and my husband would never spank me, let alone anything else. We also rarely have sex. I have a much higher sex drive than he does. More than anything though I crave oral and that a no go for him. He like reciving but refuses to give." He must be crazy, id love to bury my face in that ass and lick you to orgasm | |||
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"I get a lot of married men visit who no longer get blowjobs often or ever at home. Got me wondering what other sexual needs are off the cards at home or you’ve never explored with your partner that you get met elsewhere. It’s confession time " Until Mr and I got together I had never been properly sexually fulfilled. I didn't stray in other relationships but absolutely wanted to, not going to lie. Then we randomly got together - random in the sense that neither of us was looking for anyone or anything when we got to know each other. And literally out of the blue, we are having the kind of sex we have always wanted to have. Sometimes it's dirty and slutty, sometimes it's sensual and passionate and we both are open to trying new things with each other because we care about each other's pleasure. Neither of us have experienced this with anyone before and it feels good Mrs | |||
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"I treat my husband to a blow job every day where we can is that too much ha ha " Lucky husband | |||
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"Absolutely nothing. Nothing is off the cards in our relationship as I guess I’m primary goal is for each of us to be happy, address all our needs and desires and share the journey. We love each other infinitely and I guess our relationship is almost perfect. Yeah we fall out about loading the dishwasher all wrong though." Loading the dishwasher wrong is just plain wrong..!!! My OCD won’t allow it..lol | |||
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"Anything I have the proverbial sexless marriage. No physical contact at all. Not even hand holding " Time to leave then mate as all she is now is company. | |||
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"I get a lot of married men visit who no longer get blowjobs often or ever at home. Got me wondering what other sexual needs are off the cards at home or you’ve never explored with your partner that you get met elsewhere. It’s confession time Until Mr and I got together I had never been properly sexually fulfilled. I didn't stray in other relationships but absolutely wanted to, not going to lie. Then we randomly got together - random in the sense that neither of us was looking for anyone or anything when we got to know each other. And literally out of the blue, we are having the kind of sex we have always wanted to have. Sometimes it's dirty and slutty, sometimes it's sensual and passionate and we both are open to trying new things with each other because we care about each other's pleasure. Neither of us have experienced this with anyone before and it feels good Mrs" This exactly us. We have not had a connection like this before. He watch a guy fuck me last night in our hotel after Newport social then joined in to tag team fuck me to submission. It was an amazing night we shared together with this lovely guy who gave me a hard fucking along with John and made me gush for the first time to. Lost count of the orgasms after twenty | |||
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"For me it the rough set. I crave it badly and my husband would never spank me, let alone anything else. We also rarely have sex. I have a much higher sex drive than he does. More than anything though I crave oral and that a no go for him. He like reciving but refuses to give." What I love giving oral but wife not keen to give or receive and likewise have a far higher sex drive from her. Happy spanking | |||
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"I don't these days, but in previous relationships it was rarely a specific sexual act and more about a sexual attitude. From time to time I need a woman to fuck like a complete slut, not politely or cleanly. I want her to swear, and slam and make a complete mess of herself giving no shits to how loud she is or how she comes across. That's what I've cheated for in the past. And that kids is how you inadvertently end up with a girlfriend behind your wife's back who moonlights as a lady of the night." Disagree…. So you just meet a women, and they are a complete slut? Then once secure they become boring? Because I’ve dated lots of women over thr years, none were ‘Instant sluts’ or anything a wife or partner or mine couldn’t be / do!! I think the issue is the men! They have the balls or security at times to say to their partner what they like and kinks and shit…. And that’s their fault! Not their boring wives… | |||
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"I don't these days, but in previous relationships it was rarely a specific sexual act and more about a sexual attitude. From time to time I need a woman to fuck like a complete slut, not politely or cleanly. I want her to swear, and slam and make a complete mess of herself giving no shits to how loud she is or how she comes across. That's what I've cheated for in the past. And that kids is how you inadvertently end up with a girlfriend behind your wife's back who moonlights as a lady of the night. Disagree…. So you just meet a women, and they are a complete slut? Then once secure they become boring? Because I’ve dated lots of women over thr years, none were ‘Instant sluts’ or anything a wife or partner or mine couldn’t be / do!! I think the issue is the men! They have the balls or security at times to say to their partner what they like and kinks and shit…. And that’s their fault! Not their boring wives… " No, that's not what I'm saying at all. What I'm saying that in the past I've made the misjudgement of getting serious with women who weren't a good match for me because "other elements" of their personality were very good. They were very nice, or very kind, or had their lives very well put together. All of those things are important and very worthy, but what I failed to account for was that they weren't necessarily sufficient to balance out a strong sexual incompatibility. There was nothing wrong with these women, and I don't think I ever implied that there was. I know that they have gone on to have extremely successful and long term relationships after me and are very happy. As are their husbands so far as I can tell. Because clearly they are better matched than I was. I'm also not saying that it's not possible to develop that attitude in a relationship. Of course it is, and I have with Lucy (which is in no small part why I now don't stray despite more opportunities than I ever had before). The issue is that as with every attribute a person can and should only develop in a particular attribute to the extent that their desires and core personality dictates. You can help a very demure woman become more slutty, but only to the extent that she wants to. If that level is below your minimum threshold you will leave or cheat or live with it. In the past I've done all three and only one of them is the correct course of action. | |||
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"For a lot of men it's anal. For one guy it's watersports. Another it's changed cock and humiliation. There is crossdressing as well. And of course bi male, over the years I have been swinging that is the one that comes up the most. " Looks like most men's secret bucket list | |||
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"Dom/Sub play. Whilst L is naturally submissive, I always find the bond is tricky to stretch to the limits of my fantasies. I love degradation/humiliation (both ways) but struggle with this with my wife. She’s completely in agreement that this is difficult to enact but still maintain the respect of the marriage. She’s been involved when we’ve been in this situation, but only as a passenger with another woman - never as the degrader/degraded. Not sure if anyone else has experienced this? " | |||
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"Dom/Sub play. Whilst L is naturally submissive, I always find the bond is tricky to stretch to the limits of my fantasies. I love degradation/humiliation (both ways) but struggle with this with my wife. She’s completely in agreement that this is difficult to enact but still maintain the respect of the marriage. She’s been involved when we’ve been in this situation, but only as a passenger with another woman - never as the degrader/degraded. Not sure if anyone else has experienced this? " I agree Why do we crave humiliation as intelligent human beings? | |||
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"I get a lot of married men visit who no longer get blowjobs often or ever at home. Got me wondering what other sexual needs are off the cards at home or you’ve never explored with your partner that you get met elsewhere. It’s confession time " Anal, mmf and I am bi which the wife doesn't know either | |||
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"I get a lot of married men visit who no longer get blowjobs often or ever at home. Got me wondering what other sexual needs are off the cards at home or you’ve never explored with your partner that you get met elsewhere. It’s confession time " Being part of a swinging couple, absolutely non. | |||
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"Dom/Sub play. Whilst L is naturally submissive, I always find the bond is tricky to stretch to the limits of my fantasies. I love degradation/humiliation (both ways) but struggle with this with my wife. She’s completely in agreement that this is difficult to enact but still maintain the respect of the marriage. She’s been involved when we’ve been in this situation, but only as a passenger with another woman - never as the degrader/degraded. Not sure if anyone else has experienced this? " The Dom/sub dynamic can be difficult if it’s just bedroom based for a couple. It’s easier if you are full on lifestyle. | |||
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