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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

why is it when you get a couple wanting to meet tonight but you cant due to you having your son staying, but say you can any other time then they delete your message without a reply.maybe i was brought up wrong but surely a simple ok would have done or im i wrong for thinking that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they want to meet tonight and you can't.

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

In the grand scheme of things, does it matter? Honestly, does it really matter?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ok thanks for that and yeah does it probably not

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham


"Because they want to meet tonight and you can't. "

A polite explanation to that effect wouldn't have killed them though would it? Some people are just pig ignorant.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Because they want to meet tonight and you can't.

A polite explanation to that effect wouldn't have killed them though would it? Some people are just pig ignorant."
thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why is it you contact a couple wanting a meet tonight - when you can't ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, I can't decide on why, cos I dunno if you contacted them, or they contacted you and I'd really to know all the facts before I form an oppinion on something as important as this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because they want to meet tonight and you can't. "

Thats what I thought too plus if they are busy trying to sort a relatively short notice meet out then they are probably focussing their attention on potential meets rather than niceties on someone who has ruled himself out. Harsh I know but thats how it is sometimes.

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

There is a couple 5 miles from my place in sheffield. They always send message exactly at 3am on saturday when they are d*unk asking if I can come around within 10 min. I remind them that this is not a call to shag site.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why is it you contact a couple wanting a meet tonight - when you can't ?

"
they contacted me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

they asked if u could mee t tonight.. u said no.. they arent interested in another night for now.. why should they reply :/

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford


"why is it when you get a couple wanting to meet tonight but you cant due to you having your son staying, but say you can any other time then they delete your message without a reply.maybe i was brought up wrong but surely a simple ok would have done or im i wrong for thinking that "
you timewaster! surely u dump ur son off and go... some people eh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"they asked if u could mee t tonight.. u said no.. they arent interested in another night for now.. why should they reply :/"

basic good manners is why!

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By *it of fun cplCouple
over a year ago

village between York and Hull

On a similar vein, why is people are on meet today but when you contact them they can not meet today but will meet 2 weeks next Wednesday!! Frustrates the hell out of us

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"this is not a call to shag site. "

It's not?? Bugger!

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham


"why is people are on meet today but when you contact them they can not meet today but will meet 2 weeks next Wednesday!!"

Part of the "Look at me brigade"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it you contact a couple wanting a meet tonight - when you can't ?

they contacted me "

Our apologies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let's be honest here, none of us unless we have previously met, know what/who we are dealing with. There are many different types on this site, yes there are some that will say thanks, let you know another time, then there are those that just delete. Maybe they do have a hundred or more messages to deal with, maybe they don't. Like I said, we are all different. I always respond to messages, both of them last year lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe fab could come up with something on profiles, similar to the 'can/can't accommodate' or the 'can/can't travel thing'.

A simple tick box.

Just to differentiate between people who are actually here to meet in person and those that are here just to collect pics and fuck about on cams for attention.

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By *arry2013Man
over a year ago

London


"why is it when you get a couple wanting to meet tonight but you cant due to you having your son staying, but say you can any other time then they delete your message without a reply.maybe i was brought up wrong but surely a simple ok would have done or im i wrong for thinking that "

Stuff or shit 'appens! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe fab could come up with something on profiles, similar to the 'can/can't accommodate' or the 'can/can't travel thing'.

A simple tick box.

Just to differentiate between people who are actually here to meet in person and those that are here just to collect pics and fuck about on cams for attention."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ye i have got to say youre right its called manners.some times i have to cancel a meet at my place cos of family and some get a bit snotty why?

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield


"this is not a call to shag site.

It's not?? Bugger!"
happy new to you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are a lot of profiles now that state that they may not reply to messages as they receive too many. I can imagine that a single female or couple looking for a single guy may not have the time or inclination to reply to all messages they receive. As much as I appreciate receiving replies to messages sent, I don't lose any sleep over those who don't reply. Just accept that I wasn't what they were looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why is it when you get a couple wanting to meet tonight but you cant due to you having your son staying, but say you can any other time then they delete your message without a reply.maybe i was brought up wrong but surely a simple ok would have done or im i wrong for thinking that "

Because due to our kids staying...,

See your not the only one with kids .. Xx

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