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men who cum too quick ..then run

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By *oxy j OP   Woman
over a year ago

taunton somerset

ok so maybe a bit sensitive as a subject but guys youve done the hard bit and got a meet you start playing and then you cum in no time ..you sulk get dressed then run ... as if its almost our fault ?? why not just laugh it off take a break and see if you can go again ? we women do understand and we understand it can happen to anyone .. so guys next time you cum too quick think before you run its part of life have a natter and a laugh and see what happens rather than run out embarrassed leaving us thinking its our fault ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about men who take too long to cum?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had a meet so never run, but it is a fear/anxiety, i.e. cumming in no time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to have a gf who sometimes purposely made me cum quickly just to show how much control she had over me.

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By *oxy j OP   Woman
over a year ago

taunton somerset


"What about men who take too long to cum?"

what about it ?? its not the subject is it

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By *oxy j OP   Woman
over a year ago

taunton somerset


"I used to have a gf who sometimes purposely made me cum quickly just to show how much control she had over me."

naughty girlfriend ...i like her thinking

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By *bwlady123Woman
over a year ago

private

I’m good with quick cummers prefer oral to sex anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh dear!... Surely half the fun is meant to be around meeting? Not just the finish line?

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By *oxy j OP   Woman
over a year ago

taunton somerset


"Never had a meet so never run, but it is a fear/anxiety, i.e. cumming in no time. "

but theres nothing to fear we all get naked no meet rarely perfect in fact it would be boring if so ... we can all control everything with in our bodys

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By *oxy j OP   Woman
over a year ago

taunton somerset


"Oh dear!... Surely half the fun is meant to be around meeting? Not just the finish line? "

exactly this meeting is fun first meets never go to plan the amount of first meets that have ended up just being a laugh and fun ...its those meet that end up being a second or third meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never had a meet so never run, but it is a fear/anxiety, i.e. cumming in no time.

but theres nothing to fear we all get naked no meet rarely perfect in fact it would be boring if so ... we can all control everything with in our bodys"

Well after several years I can assure you the anxiety is real.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Don't get over excited or have a wank before the meeting

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By *oxy j OP   Woman
over a year ago

taunton somerset


"Never had a meet so never run, but it is a fear/anxiety, i.e. cumming in no time.

but theres nothing to fear we all get naked no meet rarely perfect in fact it would be boring if so ... we can all control everything with in our bodys

Well after several years I can assure you the anxiety is real. "

im not saying its not real but whats the worse that can happen ?

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By *ttentiveRabbitMan
over a year ago

Lymington

I'm pleased to reload in about 10-15min but there is a level of embarrassment for round one.

We've mentally fucked about 10 times over, so a tsp of the wand is all it takes

I'd prefer to allocate the time and see how many times we can actually orgasm instead as I usually end up needing a wank again from thinking about it all by the evening

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I used to have a gf who sometimes purposely made me cum quickly just to show how much control she had over me.

naughty girlfriend ...i like her thinking "

She used to love watching my face as I attempted to hold back then twist my nipples extra hard to push me to cum. She got a kick from my disappointment.

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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago

Kingston upon Thames

women like men to stick about ...for more play and meaningful play ... we think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Long time since I had fun to cum, but when I have done I stick around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldnt worry about me running, I normal fall asleep straight after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve always had this problem so I went to the doctors,dropped my pants and said… please take a look at this,I think I’m premature… she said.. you certainly are… I’m the receptionist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Before anyone asks, it was me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Before anyone asks, it was me "

knew it

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By *onnie 90Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"ok so maybe a bit sensitive as a subject but guys youve done the hard bit and got a meet you start playing and then you cum in no time ..you sulk get dressed then run ... as if its almost our fault ?? why not just laugh it off take a break and see if you can go again ? we women do understand and we understand it can happen to anyone .. so guys next time you cum too quick think before you run its part of life have a natter and a laugh and see what happens rather than run out embarrassed leaving us thinking its our fault ..

"

The guys who claim to be sex gods who can go for hours culminating in a gigantic explosion of cum. Then they get here and manage three minutes (and that's being optimistic) followed by a slight dribble and a growl. Nest thing is they're ask to be verified as they do the walk of shame out of the door.

Sadly that's getting to be quite a regular occurrence these days

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

I don’t mind it’s fun having another go lol

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough


"What about men who take too long to cum?

what about it ?? its not the subject is it "

No, it's not: plenty of room to start a new topic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the man, I normally need at least 20 min to be able to go again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"women like men to stick about ...for more play and meaningful play ... we think "

yep round 2 and 3

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester


"ok so maybe a bit sensitive as a subject but guys youve done the hard bit and got a meet you start playing and then you cum in no time ..you sulk get dressed then run ... as if its almost our fault ?? why not just laugh it off take a break and see if you can go again ? we women do understand and we understand it can happen to anyone .. so guys next time you cum too quick think before you run its part of life have a natter and a laugh and see what happens rather than run out embarrassed leaving us thinking its our fault ..

"

They are on the clock to get home before wife gets back though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ok so maybe a bit sensitive as a subject but guys youve done the hard bit and got a meet you start playing and then you cum in no time ..you sulk get dressed then run ... as if its almost our fault ?? why not just laugh it off take a break and see if you can go again ? we women do understand and we understand it can happen to anyone .. so guys next time you cum too quick think before you run its part of life have a natter and a laugh and see what happens rather than run out embarrassed leaving us thinking its our fault ..

"

It's so common......

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester


"I used to have a gf who sometimes purposely made me cum quickly just to show how much control she had over me.

naughty girlfriend ...i like her thinking

She used to love watching my face as I attempted to hold back then twist my nipples extra hard to push me to cum. She got a kick from my disappointment."

I had a gf like that she got turbo rage with me when she realised I can switch off my cock sensations at will pretty much as I can just zone myself out mentally while going through it mechanically .. lol she didn’t like that aspect at all and it messed up her power trip thing she was always trying to push on me. We didn’t last long after that a few months

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By *illie fitMan
over a year ago

Bournemouth

I have the reverse happen all the time

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By *onnie 90Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"ok so maybe a bit sensitive as a subject but guys youve done the hard bit and got a meet you start playing and then you cum in no time ..you sulk get dressed then run ... as if its almost our fault ?? why not just laugh it off take a break and see if you can go again ? we women do understand and we understand it can happen to anyone .. so guys next time you cum too quick think before you run its part of life have a natter and a laugh and see what happens rather than run out embarrassed leaving us thinking its our fault ..

They are on the clock to get home before wife gets back though "

Surely you don't mean the "single" guys?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you considered that some chaps might find it highly embarrassing to the point they don’t want to face up to what’s happened. Thus causing them to run.

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By *antricSeeker60Man
over a year ago

Durham

Sometimes everyone cums quickly it’s hardly good night Vienna.

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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago

Kingston upon Thames


"women like men to stick about ...for more play and meaningful play ... we think

yep round 2 and 3 "
what she said

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By *ixey and CopperCouple
over a year ago

Exeter


"Have you considered that some chaps might find it highly embarrassing to the point they don’t want to face up to what’s happened. Thus causing them to run."

This...

The men claiming this and that on here is amazing!

The harsh reality is that this kind of thing isn't talked about enough...

For the genuine guys its bloody tough, nerves etc trying to get it up, maintain it, and also not get embarrassed if it shoots too soon!

Sorry ladies, you've got it east, lube, fake sounds etc

There are numerous reasons guys might act like this, they just aren't talked about xxx

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By *oxy j OP   Woman
over a year ago

taunton somerset


"Have you considered that some chaps might find it highly embarrassing to the point they don’t want to face up to what’s happened. Thus causing them to run."

hence the post men dont need to be embarrassed we dont judge a guy because hes cum to quick ? so why run just sit have a chat try again its all part n parcel of life ..

unless they've spent days telling you what a super stud they are and can last for hours then whats the embarrassment ??

i guess if you brag then yes it backfires but to be honest i dont meet guys who brag/lie

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By *oxy j OP   Woman
over a year ago

taunton somerset


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Sorry ladies, you've got it east, lube, fake sounds etc"

we've got it easy ?? really i need to be turned on too cause it aint going in me until im wet n horny at the very least ... no fake sounds from me if your not pleasing me then your not pleasing me as for lube no thanks i get wet when turned on so ill not be using lube anytime soon

but us ladies have it so easy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you considered that some chaps might find it highly embarrassing to the point they don’t want to face up to what’s happened. Thus causing them to run.

hence the post men dont need to be embarrassed we dont judge a guy because hes cum to quick ? so why run just sit have a chat try again its all part n parcel of life ..

unless they've spent days telling you what a super stud they are and can last for hours then whats the embarrassment ??

i guess if you brag then yes it backfires but to be honest i dont meet guys who brag/lie"

You may say you don’t judge a guy by his ‘performance’. But there are plenty that do, and that’s where the anxiety comes from.

It’s easy to say ‘don’t worry about it’ to a speedy ending. It’s another to actually believe it.

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By *ixey and CopperCouple
over a year ago

Exeter


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Sorry ladies, you've got it east, lube, fake sounds etc

we've got it easy ?? really i need to be turned on too cause it aint going in me until im wet n horny at the very least ... no fake sounds from me if your not pleasing me then your not pleasing me as for lube no thanks i get wet when turned on so ill not be using lube anytime soon

but us ladies have it so easy "

Nicely cherry picked

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By *ave biMan
over a year ago

rugby

Being quick is one of the Main reasons I became a cuck

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By *uvery30Woman
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Had this once and he made me feel so crap.

We went out social drink then back to his. Started the fun few pics he got over exited by them then fucked and in 2mins he cum. I went to Bathroom came back thinking ok refresh ect. He was then was like o my friend called his coming to get me in 5mins so you need to kinda go now. So i just left. He wanted another meet but just blocked and didn't both again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I cum to quick sometimes it's due to the build up. Definitely is her fault but not in a negative way. If I found you hot to begin and then you add to the sexual tension I'm going to bust quick but give me 5 10 mins let me focus on your pleasure for a bit and I'll be good to go again if she does want to continue fucking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol I usually blow mine too quickly these days, good thing pumpkin is very patient and gets me going again

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By *ne Fish Two FishCouple
over a year ago

London


"Had this once and he made me feel so crap.

We went out social drink then back to his. Started the fun few pics he got over exited by them then fucked and in 2mins he cum. I went to Bathroom came back thinking ok refresh ect. He was then was like o my friend called his coming to get me in 5mins so you need to kinda go now. So i just left. He wanted another meet but just blocked and didn't both again. "

similar..

at a guys, 13 mins from doorbell to him cumming and falling asleep n leaving

horrid feeling like crap

E x

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset


"Had this once and he made me feel so crap.

We went out social drink then back to his. Started the fun few pics he got over exited by them then fucked and in 2mins he cum. I went to Bathroom came back thinking ok refresh ect. He was then was like o my friend called his coming to get me in 5mins so you need to kinda go now. So i just left. He wanted another meet but just blocked and didn't both again.

similar..

at a guys, 13 mins from doorbell to him cumming and falling asleep n leaving

horrid feeling like crap

E x

"

Wow... And I thought one I had at 38 mins was disappointing

This is why I say I prefer longer sessions, it's more relaxed, less pressure and there's time for a repeat performance hopefully!

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By *ir-spunk-alotMan
over a year ago

Southern England

I rarely cum too quick now im older. when younger it happened but i always gave oral sex to my partners and made sure they cum. Get quite a bit of pleasure knowing my partners enjoyed it.

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By *icknHMan
over a year ago

Ilfracombe


"ok so maybe a bit sensitive as a subject but guys youve done the hard bit and got a meet you start playing and then you cum in no time ..you sulk get dressed then run ... as if its almost our fault ?? why not just laugh it off take a break and see if you can go again ? we women do understand and we understand it can happen to anyone .. so guys next time you cum too quick think before you run its part of life have a natter and a laugh and see what happens rather than run out embarrassed leaving us thinking its our fault ..

"

Great advice x

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By *icknHMan
over a year ago

Ilfracombe


"I’ve always had this problem so I went to the doctors,dropped my pants and said… please take a look at this,I think I’m premature… she said.. you certainly are… I’m the receptionist"

Boom boom !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Before anyone asks, it was me

knew it "

Did I disappoint you as well ?

Was it at the gloryhole ? Can’t remember now.

I shoot and leave without paying much attention to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I normally cum before my meet/date even arrives.

I get some very strange looks in Starbucks

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough


"I used to have a gf who sometimes purposely made me cum quickly just to show how much control she had over me.

naughty girlfriend ...i like her thinking

She used to love watching my face as I attempted to hold back then twist my nipples extra hard to push me to cum. She got a kick from my disappointment.

I had a gf like that she got turbo rage with me when she realised I can switch off my cock sensations at will pretty much as I can just zone myself out mentally while going through it mechanically .. lol she didn’t like that aspect at all and it messed up her power trip thing she was always trying to push on me. We didn’t last long after that a few months "

good riddance and excellent mind control.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well i can come and fuck all day but yes most men likebto come thn run lop

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By *ugger81Man
over a year ago

Yaxley


"Lol I usually blow mine too quickly these days, good thing pumpkin is very patient and gets me going again "

Not surprised. Pumpkin is perfection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Before anyone asks, it was me

knew it

Did I disappoint you as well ?

Was it at the gloryhole ? Can’t remember now.

I shoot and leave without paying much attention to be honest "

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

Don’t see the point in leaving quickly unless that’s what they want if not it’s all part of the fun in staying longer exploring her body and mind

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

Agree if you cum to quickly by accident stay and chat otherwise it makes the ladies think you only turned up to cum and go.

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By *ornyone30Man
over a year ago

ABERDEEN

I'm a fairly quick cummer. I've learned to adapt to this. Once I've cum for the first time I turn my attention to the lady until I'm ready again. Always last longer second time round.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to tell my husband when to cum ,seems to last ages hahah

But then isn’t a repeater

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By *weetkitten65Woman
over a year ago

Halifax


"I’ve always had this problem so I went to the doctors,dropped my pants and said… please take a look at this,I think I’m premature… she said.. you certainly are… I’m the receptionist"

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London


"I’ve always had this problem so I went to the doctors,dropped my pants and said… please take a look at this,I think I’m premature… she said.. you certainly are… I’m the receptionist"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ok so maybe a bit sensitive as a subject but guys youve done the hard bit and got a meet you start playing and then you cum in no time ..you sulk get dressed then run ... as if its almost our fault ?? why not just laugh it off take a break and see if you can go again ? we women do understand and we understand it can happen to anyone .. so guys next time you cum too quick think before you run its part of life have a natter and a laugh and see what happens rather than run out embarrassed leaving us thinking its our fault ..

"

I'm surprised in a way that men do this OP. I can understand that it may make men a bit frustrated if they cum earlier than they'd hoped for, but running away isn't the answer. It doesn't take me much to cum being honest here, but I will communicate and find a way around that with a meet, so in overall, I agree with you're statement.

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple
over a year ago

Cumbria

People place a lot of expectations on themselves, and often project those expectations onto others, placing even more pressure on themselves.

Also, the male ego is the most fragile thing in the universe.

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By *ilverfox for youMan
over a year ago

Hull

good comments wish all women were like you !!!

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton


"People place a lot of expectations on themselves, and often project those expectations onto others, placing even more pressure on themselves.

Also, the male ego is the most fragile thing in the universe."

Yep when you get told fuck that was good of one woman then another says that was shit all I say is if I’m not hitting the spot I’m open to you helping me

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By *etsplay68Man
over a year ago

beaconsfield

had a few meets in Clubs when playing a stunner iv'e cum fairly quickly but when i'm ready again a few minutes later i can go for ages so ne need to get pissed off - as long as the lady is ok with a 2 minute break its all good lol

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By *evlishduncMan
over a year ago

north suffolk south norfolk

The cuddles, chat and caresses are often the best bit!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm normally a one shot player, but can last for hours. I had one swinging partner who was multi orgasmic, I mean every 10 minutes, she was older and very sexy. The first night was brilliant, 3 or 4 hours if hedonism, but after that each time we met it I came quickly, I was even knocking one out before we met to make it last, but it didn't work. I often wondered if it was her orgasms that set me off, not looking to pass the blame, but it never happened with other partners.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes after chatting for days or week, the build up and desire of finally feeling can cause that.

I would still continue with an oral session until I'm ready for round two. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ok so maybe a bit sensitive as a subject but guys youve done the hard bit and got a meet you start playing and then you cum in no time ..you sulk get dressed then run ... as if its almost our fault ?? why not just laugh it off take a break and see if you can go again ? we women do understand and we understand it can happen to anyone .. so guys next time you cum too quick think before you run its part of life have a natter and a laugh and see what happens rather than run out embarrassed leaving us thinking its our fault ..

"

Sometimes my husband cums quick, especially if he's been abstaining or edging to get a big load. He's ready to go again within a min or quicker normally, and he's always focussed on me enjoying myself and cumming repeatedly, so I've got no issue with him cumming quick. Don't run guys, just go again, and if you really can't, there's more than just cocks that make a woman cum.... If you shoot early but I cum a few times with fingers, toys, tongue etc you'd be a winner in my eyes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i’ve cummed before within like 5 minutes in, I just keep going till my dick can’t get hard again that’s when i usually stop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It has to be a compliment

Dora would be pleased of you stick around to go again.

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By *onnie 90Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Agree if you cum to quickly by accident stay and chat otherwise it makes the ladies think you only turned up to cum and go. "

Usually the "single" married/taken guys trick for a quickie on his way from A to B.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes when it does happen it is because the other person is doing some incredible....never embarrassed when that happens and always stay for more

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By *ne Fish Two FishCouple
over a year ago

London


"Agree if you cum to quickly by accident stay and chat otherwise it makes the ladies think you only turned up to cum and go.

Usually the "single" married/taken guys trick for a quickie on his way from A to B. "

Yes and it's obvious

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Nowhere

A meet for isn’t about cumming once - its about seeing how Many times we can make each other cum xx over several hours - maybe those guys are running off home or

Back to work xx

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By *d4fun73Man
over a year ago

Shipley


"ok so maybe a bit sensitive as a subject but guys youve done the hard bit and got a meet you start playing and then you cum in no time ..you sulk get dressed then run ... as if its almost our fault ?? why not just laugh it off take a break and see if you can go again ? we women do understand and we understand it can happen to anyone .. so guys next time you cum too quick think before you run its part of life have a natter and a laugh and see what happens rather than run out embarrassed leaving us thinking its our fault ..

They are on the clock to get home before wife gets back though

Surely you don't mean the "single" guys?"

I seem to manage ok and I'm actually single. Don't get why guys would run surely you can do other things and go again!

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By *fter dinner delightCouple
over a year ago

bury st edmunds/london


"ok so maybe a bit sensitive as a subject but guys youve done the hard bit and got a meet you start playing and then you cum in no time ..you sulk get dressed then run ... as if its almost our fault ?? why not just laugh it off take a break and see if you can go again ? we women do understand and we understand it can happen to anyone .. so guys next time you cum too quick think before you run its part of life have a natter and a laugh and see what happens rather than run out embarrassed leaving us thinking its our fault ..

"

You have fingers and a young just stay men and enjoy.

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By *ice guy 44Man
over a year ago

wrexham

Speaking from experience I have cum within 5 min of sex with some one and that's only because I was so turned on with her I could not stop but I have never done a runner or even thought about it.

I had 5 min then made her happy to

What us men need to realise is women want good sex and ve satisfied not some one who comes in fucks and leave

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By *adbod52Man
over a year ago

London

No need to get embarrassed, it does happen occasionally. Just carry on with my tongue and fingers until I have reloaded.

It’s all about quality time with each other not a race to the finish.

Wouldn’t dream of running out.

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By *alentedfMan
over a year ago

Near Newbury


"ok so maybe a bit sensitive as a subject but guys youve done the hard bit and got a meet you start playing and then you cum in no time ..you sulk get dressed then run ... as if its almost our fault ?? why not just laugh it off take a break and see if you can go again ? we women do understand and we understand it can happen to anyone .. so guys next time you cum too quick think before you run its part of life have a natter and a laugh and see what happens rather than run out embarrassed leaving us thinking its our fault ..

"

Isn't that Panda sex eats shoots and leaves

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By *oxy j OP   Woman
over a year ago

taunton somerset

its way more common than guys think ..guys its not just you it happens to anyone and proof on this post most women dont really care they just want to continue having fun with your penis or not ..i like to think i can help get a guy hard again but if not then im jumping on his face and getting him to use his fingers and i like to think i can still please him more too ..

guys saying it normally happens when your with a stunner ?? well surely they are all stunners ? or are you implying you'll fuck anything ?? surely men have standards too surely men would not go with someone they dont fancy ??

guys when you meet a woman its not all about you pleasing the woman we want to please back too ...i love knowing im pleasing a guy thats a massive part of it for me

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By *assie101Woman
over a year ago

Kent

The speed isn't really an issue. It only becomes an issue when at that point everything stops and the woman is literally left hanging.

I've had that happen before. First time I forgave. Put it down to nerves /excitement and went back for a second go.

When it happened again, I gave it up.

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By *ne Fish Two FishCouple
over a year ago

London


"The speed isn't really an issue. It only becomes an issue when at that point everything stops and the woman is literally left hanging.

I've had that happen before. First time I forgave. Put it down to nerves /excitement and went back for a second go.

When it happened again, I gave it up. "

Yes

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By *uvery30Woman
over a year ago

Gloucestershire


"Had this once and he made me feel so crap.

We went out social drink then back to his. Started the fun few pics he got over exited by them then fucked and in 2mins he cum. I went to Bathroom came back thinking ok refresh ect. He was then was like o my friend called his coming to get me in 5mins so you need to kinda go now. So i just left. He wanted another meet but just blocked and didn't both again.

similar..

at a guys, 13 mins from doorbell to him cumming and falling asleep n leaving

horrid feeling like crap

E x

"

Really is why do they do it. Put me off wanting to meet for a good while

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By *oxy j OP   Woman
over a year ago

taunton somerset

i do think there are guys on here who are not completely honest who suffer with premature ejaculation who know they suffer ie all the time but fail to pass that info on ..to them its getting a shag and not caring how the woman feels ..that is wrong guys should be honest rather than lie

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By *ne Fish Two FishCouple
over a year ago

London


"Had this once and he made me feel so crap.

We went out social drink then back to his. Started the fun few pics he got over exited by them then fucked and in 2mins he cum. I went to Bathroom came back thinking ok refresh ect. He was then was like o my friend called his coming to get me in 5mins so you need to kinda go now. So i just left. He wanted another meet but just blocked and didn't both again.

similar..

at a guys, 13 mins from doorbell to him cumming and falling asleep n leaving

horrid feeling like crap

E x

Really is why do they do it. Put me off wanting to meet for a good while "

exactly the same feeling, he got a great blow job and that was it nothing for moi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its way more common than guys think ..guys its not just you it happens to anyone and proof on this post most women dont really care they just want to continue having fun with your penis or not ..i like to think i can help get a guy hard again but if not then im jumping on his face and getting him to use his fingers and i like to think i can still please him more too ..

guys saying it normally happens when your with a stunner ?? well surely they are all stunners ? or are you implying you'll fuck anything ?? surely men have standards too surely men would not go with someone they dont fancy ??

guys when you meet a woman its not all about you pleasing the woman we want to please back too ...i love knowing im pleasing a guy thats a massive part of it for me

"

THANK YOU. This warms the cockles of my heart on a cold evening! Nothing hotter than getting in bed with a woman who straight up wants to make me as a man feel good just as much as she is open to being pleasured by the man too. Takes a lot of pressure off both parties.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had this once and he made me feel so crap.

We went out social drink then back to his. Started the fun few pics he got over exited by them then fucked and in 2mins he cum. I went to Bathroom came back thinking ok refresh ect. He was then was like o my friend called his coming to get me in 5mins so you need to kinda go now. So i just left. He wanted another meet but just blocked and didn't both again.

similar..

at a guys, 13 mins from doorbell to him cumming and falling asleep n leaving

horrid feeling like crap

E x

Really is why do they do it. Put me off wanting to meet for a good while

exactly the same feeling, he got a great blow job and that was it nothing for moi "

Agreed to meet a guy some time back, initially in our cars so no commitment to anything.

Drove the 30 miles or so, got in his car and we chatted. Put my hand on his knee and moved up his leg (had his trousers on), could see his hard cock and as my hand brushed it he cum buckets, he was soaked through.

Offered his apologies and said it had been a while. Got out his car into mine and went home.

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By *oxy j OP   Woman
over a year ago

taunton somerset

keep messages to the forums please not my private message box

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By *entleman of FortuneMan
over a year ago

Hull

Had that problem for about 3months with a ex, made me gain control over it and I did, horrid feeling for guy and I assume the girl too....but do something about it, my main fear is stage fright on a meet, kind of happened couple of years ago on my first single profile, that was worse still, luckily not first round, but again did something about it.

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By *oyandJulieMan
over a year ago

blackburn

I cum quickly the 1st time but stay hard and round 2 lasts much longer

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

This happens to me a lot these days; I don't run though, just carry on with foreplay until I'm ready to go again which, normally, isn't that long.

I've also ways to last longer plus, I tend to play more in the MFM and more-some scenarios as this gives me time to "reload" and the woman is still being pleasured by the other guy(s).

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area


"i do think there are guys on here who are not completely honest who suffer with premature ejaculation who know they suffer ie all the time but fail to pass that info on ..to them its getting a shag and not caring how the woman feels ..that is wrong guys should be honest rather than lie "

I'm up front about my "shortcomings " before a meet; I don't want to disappoint plus it's equally important to me that they are understanding.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had that problem for about 3months with a ex, made me gain control over it and I did, horrid feeling for guy and I assume the girl too....but do something about it, my main fear is stage fright on a meet, kind of happened couple of years ago on my first single profile, that was worse still, luckily not first round, but again did something about it."

May I ask, what did you do about it?

I suffer from this, as by the time I get to a meet I’ve been on the site perving for so long I’m ready to burst! I know the signs and will say to a partner not to touch me. I honestly get the most pleasure from any interactions from pleasuring others. I can recover quickly and go again though, and if a lady indulges in certain things with me when I’ve cum, she can drive me crazy and im rampant for more

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By *arry monk40Man
over a year ago

Telford

I ask to cum quick first bj hand job relax then go again no anxiety as I know I will last and concentrate on pleasing the lady

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By *ieandteaseMan
over a year ago

Wiltshire


"ok so maybe a bit sensitive as a subject but guys youve done the hard bit and got a meet you start playing and then you cum in no time ..you sulk get dressed then run ... as if its almost our fault ?? why not just laugh it off take a break and see if you can go again ? we women do understand and we understand it can happen to anyone .. so guys next time you cum too quick think before you run its part of life have a natter and a laugh and see what happens rather than run out embarrassed leaving us thinking its our fault ..

"

The perfect fab encounter for me zip down to zip up and he's away in 5 minutes, well done sir.

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham


"ok so maybe a bit sensitive as a subject but guys youve done the hard bit and got a meet you start playing and then you cum in no time ..you sulk get dressed then run ... as if its almost our fault ?? why not just laugh it off take a break and see if you can go again ? we women do understand and we understand it can happen to anyone .. so guys next time you cum too quick think before you run its part of life have a natter and a laugh and see what happens rather than run out embarrassed leaving us thinking its our fault ..

"

I can only speak for myself but I woukd not leave if I came to quick. I would definitely stay and play, I have fingers and a tongue.

I can ome too qui k if it was a while since I had sex or I was really turned on by someone.

It happens and as far as I am concerned has no reflection on myself or who I am with. I will simply laugh say that was quick and give me a minute to get ready to go again.

Interesting that the older I get the other way round is more often likely and then I worry about causing discomfort to us both

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By *andy cane321Couple
over a year ago

Aylesbury

If you like bukakke it can be a blessing. NEXT!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ok so maybe a bit sensitive as a subject but guys youve done the hard bit and got a meet you start playing and then you cum in no time ..you sulk get dressed then run ... as if its almost our fault ?? why not just laugh it off take a break and see if you can go again ? we women do understand and we understand it can happen to anyone .. so guys next time you cum too quick think before you run its part of life have a natter and a laugh and see what happens rather than run out embarrassed leaving us thinking its our fault ..

"

It's not on, usually I would go for 30 to 45 mins cum then start again, I'm a bit greedy lol

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area


"If you like bukakke it can be a blessing. NEXT! "

I'd be perfect for this.... so long I get to have seconds... and thirds

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Loving the humble bragging on this thread

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By *iscreet dudeMan
over a year ago

Central Florida

I make sure the woman orgasms first then if I do cum to quick I don't feel so bad

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"ok so maybe a bit sensitive as a subject but guys youve done the hard bit and got a meet you start playing and then you cum in no time ..you sulk get dressed then run ... as if its almost our fault ?? why not just laugh it off take a break and see if you can go again ? we women do understand and we understand it can happen to anyone .. so guys next time you cum too quick think before you run its part of life have a natter and a laugh and see what happens rather than run out embarrassed leaving us thinking its our fault ..

"

Sensitive subject. I see what you did there.

Surely coming quick, coming slow, whenever you come... (Unless its a spunk and run) it's all just one part of the fun and not the end of it.?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i do think there are guys on here who are not completely honest who suffer with premature ejaculation who know they suffer ie all the time but fail to pass that info on ..to them its getting a shag and not caring how the woman feels ..that is wrong guys should be honest rather than lie "

Ejaculating quickly isn't actually a bad thing. In our primal days, that was a good trait to have, due to being vulnerable whilst having sex and potentially getting mawled by some other creature in the process. But of course in this day and age, things are completely different, and so I get where you're coming from in the context of pleasure and not procreation. And yes, the male should always communicate with the female and vice versa.

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By *aurus1987Man
over a year ago

York

I've had 2 meets where I've cum too quick, but its then them thats getting me out

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By *ritishAsianMan
over a year ago

Leeds

It all depends on the type of meet

Some have a lot of excitement, sometimes the female or couple would like the male to cum at the start but then run lol

I am glad to say that i have always had a few rounds in me along with stamina 2+ hr meets here

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By *PanBBCouple
over a year ago

leeds

Mrs said I'm a breath of fresh air because I go down on her after I cum and make sure she's satisfied. She says her experience is as per the topic. Mrs rarely cums through PIV anyway and enjoys having oral performed on her more to climax. So, our sessions normally follow oral, sex where I cum then more oral. Everyone is happy at the end ??

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By *nterdimensionalMan
over a year ago

london

any man who cums prematurely then runs away is a pussy lmao.

it happens to us all, the first nut is always the quickest one.

its the 2nd,3rd,4th,5th,6th,7th, 8th etc where we have staying power/stamina.

who meets up just to nut once anyway?

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By *ritishAsianMan
over a year ago

Leeds


"any man who cums prematurely then runs away is a pussy lmao.

it happens to us all, the first nut is always the quickest one.

its the 2nd,3rd,4th,5th,6th,7th, 8th etc where we have staying power/stamina.

who meets up just to nut once anyway? "

Exactly! Unless they have erection problems then they should consult their doctor or take viagra to avoid disappointing others

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area


"Loving the humble bragging on this thread "

Well, you have to highlight to positives to every seemingly negative situation

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By *agicroundabout3100Couple
over a year ago

Camberley

Quite astounded at some of the experiences people have described. Cannot understand why people think it’s acceptable to trust others so badly!! Surely the whole point of a naughty meet is for all parties to enjoy it and feel satisfied.......

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By *nterdimensionalMan
over a year ago

london


"Quite astounded at some of the experiences people have described. Cannot understand why people think it’s acceptable to trust others so badly!! Surely the whole point of a naughty meet is for all parties to enjoy it and feel satisfied....... "

you'd think that wouldn't you? sadly, after reading some of the comments here, i'm quite shocked it's common.

i couldnt meet up with someone and disappoint them, might as well stay home and have a wank.

I dont understand how there's men out there who do this, i couldnt get off if she aint getting off either, otherwise its pointless.

it takes two to tango

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By *onnie 90Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Quite astounded at some of the experiences people have described. Cannot understand why people think it’s acceptable to trust others so badly!! Surely the whole point of a naughty meet is for all parties to enjoy it and feel satisfied.......

you'd think that wouldn't you? sadly, after reading some of the comments here, i'm quite shocked it's common.

i couldnt meet up with someone and disappoint them, might as well stay home and have a wank.

I dont understand how there's men out there who do this, i couldnt get off if she aint getting off either, otherwise its pointless.

it takes two to tango "

It could boil down to total selfishness. The male gets laid. Shoots his load. Job done. Why bother about the female and how she feels. I've experienced this a few times and it's not the nicest thing. Especially after they've promised this and that.

You do feel there's a reason for their haste. 9 times out of 10 it'll be that they have to get back to their wife/girlfriend/partner.

To be brutally honest, it should be their wives/girlfriend's/partners who are on here looking for a decent shag if that's all they're getting at home.

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By *ne Fish Two FishCouple
over a year ago

London


"Quite astounded at some of the experiences people have described. Cannot understand why people think it’s acceptable to trust others so badly!! Surely the whole point of a naughty meet is for all parties to enjoy it and feel satisfied.......

you'd think that wouldn't you? sadly, after reading some of the comments here, i'm quite shocked it's common.

i couldnt meet up with someone and disappoint them, might as well stay home and have a wank.

I dont understand how there's men out there who do this, i couldnt get off if she aint getting off either, otherwise its pointless.

it takes two to tango

It could boil down to total selfishness. The male gets laid. Shoots his load. Job done. Why bother about the female and how she feels. I've experienced this a few times and it's not the nicest thing. Especially after they've promised this and that.

You do feel there's a reason for their haste. 9 times out of 10 it'll be that they have to get back to their wife/girlfriend/partner.

To be brutally honest, it should be their wives/girlfriend's/partners who are on here looking for a decent shag if that's all they're getting at home.

"

certainly the selfish part in my experience E x

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By *igpacketMan
over a year ago

east midlands

Never understand that! Round 2 is always more fun. Always amazes me how many women cum once and are done. Sex to me is multiple orgasms for both parties, lots of foreplay and after play as well as teasing and fun during sex. Pumpnand run is never fun even for a quicky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any one remember Cynthia Payne the Luncheon Voucher madame? In her book she reveals that to improve turnover her girls would get the guys to cum as quickly as possible because as soon as they did they would get dressed and go even though they had paid for an hour of the girls time. So cum quick and go isn't a few phenomenon lol.. I did actually meet Madame Cyn who was actually guest speaker at a business conference I attended in the 1980s. She sat next to me at the dinner and was down to earth and funny.

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