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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do people think that the availability of porn and people's preference for finding porn that pushes more boundaries impact real life meets and expectations?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see it as sexual junk food. Fine in small doses, but too much is not good for your health!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do people think that the availability of porn and people's preference for finding porn that pushes more boundaries impact real life meets and expectations?"

Definitely. I can't do vanilla meets anymore, it all has to be kink related. Always looking for the next thing that'll fuck my brain up.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

No idea who started this rumour but i don't do porn

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

taunton somerset

porn is ok if its used in the same way as other entertainment is ie you dont watch a horror and go out and acted on it or watch rambo and think thats me ..porn is entertainment its made to make you watch and make money ..

porn can have real bits in too but so much of it is fake and therefore thats where the damage is ..the amount of guys who think porn is the norm is unreal ..

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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago

Kingston upon Thames

a challenge ... women and men can both fall into a trap of false understanding (but love porn when right mood)

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"Do people think that the availability of porn and people's preference for finding porn that pushes more boundaries impact real life meets and expectations?"

Yes, you just need to look at some of the behaviour and expectations of some men on here.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset


"Do people think that the availability of porn and people's preference for finding porn that pushes more boundaries impact real life meets and expectations?

Yes, you just need to look at some of the behaviour and expectations of some men on here."

I agree... All the things some (not all) men, think are normal activities during sex.

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

It's not just men, but women too, whether they think it's what we want or what they want is irrelevant but I could be fucking doggy and they tell me to pull out and cum on their face and tits. That's clearly something from porn. Of course I oblige and as they spin round I deposit a rope that goes from hairline to bellybutton. It's just nice to asked.

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By *N4funCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Both find it funny to watch and within the realms of reality experiment after watching

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By *andC1000Couple
over a year ago

Ashford


"Do people think that the availability of porn and people's preference for finding porn that pushes more boundaries impact real life meets and expectations?

Yes, you just need to look at some of the behaviour and expectations of some men on here."

exactly this

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By *ilver_StarMan
over a year ago

Warwickshire

Great question. While porn, especially studio / non-amateur porn, often portrays unrealistic ’sex’ that is more fantasy than reality, I’ve also found that generally people, including myself, are more open and experimental than they would have been years ago and I put that mostly down to porn along with empowering TV for women such as Sex and the City, which showed how sex and variety is just important to women as it is to men.

Porn can be plain sick and horrible - but Porn can also be fun and exciting and a way of sharing ideas with others.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

unfortunately so many humans are just simply stupid and forget to detach a fantasy packaged product from reality ... not much you can do about common sense .. either some people have it some dont imo ..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think its less about detachment but more about the expectations of what the other person will do these days. Think of all the youngsters now being brought up on porn and normalising what we would have called taboo. It's getting to the point that young lads now think it's fine to act out fantasies on who they like.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I agree with the experimentation side of it and opening people eyes so to speak but I also think it's starting to normalise the extreme, for example public sex stuff, that leaks into society as men trying it on with women on the street and other reality stuff like the fake cnc or hostage stuff doesn't help

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By *mtasticCouple
over a year ago

Coventry


"Do people think that the availability of porn and people's preference for finding porn that pushes more boundaries impact real life meets and expectations?

Yes, you just need to look at some of the behaviour and expectations of some men on here.

exactly this "

Another agreement on this. The obsessions with squirting, choking/being held by the neck, cock slapping the clit and spanking are just a few!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I watch porn occasionally. Its a massive turn on for me watching it with someone and edge each other. Its part of the foreplay. Sometimes I watch it myself and wank off.

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By *ilver_StarMan
over a year ago

Warwickshire


"Do people think that the availability of porn and people's preference for finding porn that pushes more boundaries impact real life meets and expectations?

Yes, you just need to look at some of the behaviour and expectations of some men on here.

exactly this

Another agreement on this. The obsessions with squirting, choking/being held by the neck, cock slapping the clit and spanking are just a few!"

Good communication is essential - one person’s normal is another’s ’weird’. Mutual respect for boundaries and not over stepping them allows new ideas to be tried/tested before they become accepted. This should all be fun and exciting after all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see it as sexual junk food. Fine in small doses, but too much is not good for your health! "

Like this analogy

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