FabSwingers.com forum: Being new to fab is hard

By *uriousinkent999 OP Man
over a year ago

London/Kent

Anyone have any advice for a newbie on fab? I’m still looking to experience my first encounter on here but I get rejected quickly because I have no verifications

if that’s not the case then the person/couple I’m talking to goes offline and never comes back haha! Any advise?

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

nr Stamford

"Anyone have any advice for a newbie on fab? I’m still looking to experience my first encounter on here but I get rejected quickly because I have no verifications

if that’s not the case then the person/couple I’m talking to goes offline and never comes back haha! Any advise?

Get verified? Always a good start - photo verification doesn't mean much, cam verification just means you look like your pics. Meet verifications mean you leave the house and turn up for things.

Clubs or organised socials....take some paper and a pen, chat to people and ask them.

Take some pics specifically for Fab, instead of two random pics from your phone. Ideally at least one tasteful nude

(Bry)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s only as difficult as you make it for yourself.

Have a good profile.

Good pics.

Send good first messages.

Don’t have too high expectations.

Use all the site tools available.

Be prepared to put in a shift, it’s brutal for new guys.

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

aski for advice and you'll get it but end up looking like all the others that asked a boring profile ..

op be you only you know you put down what you are looking for and what you have to offer ..same good pics no more than a couple good body cock pics and the rest what ever you feel but untimely its down to if anyone wants to meet you after all you need to stand out from a very very large crowd ..dont expect anything..

find out more about swinging not porn swinging and see that clubs are very good places for men to start their journey ... most of all good luck because you will need a big dollop of that too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I started at a club. Had low expectations but was blown away!

You might find customers or staff take you under their wing as a newbie

You have the advantage of getting the first barrier over and being face to face with real people.

Not sure how expensive it is nowadays, mind...

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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago

Kingston upon Thames

we were new once ... try a club ... just be patient and candid

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Clubs are the way man.

But.

If you're going to stick with fab I'd recommend a more fleshed profile in terms of what you want and what you offer, and drop the negativity at the end as it's only going to turn people off.

Take some good pictures, show your best features and a little personality in them.

Read profiles, only message people who are both interesting to you and who's preferences you fall within. Don't have a bland copy paste that can go out to any viable target, tailor messages specific to the person you're trying to connect with.

Good luck out there.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

I would suggest a revamp of your profile to start

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

The last line of your bio isn't exactly inspiring...

I'd say you're probably still a bit young for most people.

Try the search function, and tick the box (people looking for my age) that might help!

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Go to a club or a social event.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We look for the newbies in clubs, we are all about firsts whether that be for us or the other person, we like being a part of somebody's memory forever.

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By *ycallMan
over a year ago

Dorking

I would say try to make your profile a bit more interesting and personable. See if you can your personality across a bit. Then join in on the forums, have a look around at other profiles in your area and send people a few polite messages or winks.

Personally I am not meeting up with people at the moment but still get quite a few messages on the odd occasion that I log in. I am a boring old fart so you should be fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP it might not all be down to lack of verifications.

Your profile needs a lot of work.

Do a forum search on the subject to get some ideas.

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By *oupleformeetCouple
over a year ago

london

older guys chat to us. everyone has to start somewhere xxx

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By *aribbean King 1985Man
over a year ago

South West London

Whats clubs do you recommend us new guys should go too??

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

nr Stamford

"Whats clubs do you recommend us new guys should go too??"

The Club section of Fab has a list of clubs broken down by area. We're not near you so can't comment, though if you want to go up the A1 to Sandy, then VA is a great club and you'd do well there on a MILF Club Wednesday afternoon.

(Bry)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never struggled when I joined and got my first meet quite soon it might be a sex site but message people as you would speak to them face to face and not childish sexual comments

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Your bio says nothing about you or what your into, shows no personality, I'd personally not reply, not because of no verifications.

Verified won't guarantee a meet, it's easy to get verified pop on cam and ask or pop along to a local club or social.

Have a look at other guys profiles see how it's written/pics etc, your profile is your selling point amongst lots of single males you have to make it stand out.

Mrs

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