FabSwingers.com forum: Fabswingers for a young male

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What can I do to make my profile better ladies, should I have a picture of my dick up on my profile or just pictures of myself, I'm trying to meet people on this app for ages but the older ladies just aren't interested lol

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By *anc-guyMan
over a year ago

south west

Make your profile a bit better mate. More info. And when it comes to the weapon it can’t help when it’s like that haha

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By *it4u2Man
over a year ago

play town

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By *ritIndianCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

"What can I do to make my profile better ladies, should I have a picture of my dick up on my profile or just pictures of myself, I'm trying to meet people on this app for ages but the older ladies just aren't interested lol"

Your profile says you are looking to meet girls not older ladies.

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By *it4u2Man
over a year ago

play town

Just a tip, change your name, lose the looking like a dick.

And put effort into your profile, and how you message.

Just think your in a bar, and the girl is sitting next to you.

Just a thought.

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

You need more in your bio and more pics (just the one dick pic will do). Have a look at some of the other good male profiles for ideas.

Would you really meet someone who was in their 80’s or 90’s? If not, perhaps consider condensing your age range a bit. Personally I find it off putting when guys have their age range set 18-99.

Select some interests to show what you’re into.

If you want to meet ‘women’, I would suggest you refer to them as that rather than ‘girls’.

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By *it4u2Man
over a year ago

play town

"You need more in your bio and more pics (just the one dick pic will do). Have a look at some of the other good male profiles for ideas.

Would you really meet someone who was in their 80’s or 90’s? If not, perhaps consider condensing your age range a bit. Personally I find it off putting when guys have their age range set 18-99.

Select some interests to show what you’re into.

If you want to meet ‘women’, I would suggest you refer to them as that rather than ‘girls’. "

A Good Girl is ageless .

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

If your going to have a dick pic, at least use one of your own and not one you've nicked off Google....

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

You look good, try and add some of your personality into your profile. Short phrases and statements don't usually work.

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By *ayna20Couple
over a year ago

Kent

We do accept that this place is for all but as swingers always are wary when single guys list that they are only looking to meet a woman

Just out opinion of course but to us a guy looking for women is what happens on a dating site not a swinging site

Like we say that’s just our thought on it

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

"If your going to have a dick pic, at least use one of your own and not one you've nicked off Google...."

Lol busted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If that dick actually belongs to you, post some pics that prove it.

If it is you'll have no problems getting dates on here!

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By *weetsmellingtreatsWoman
over a year ago

Gloucester

You’ve been here all of 2 minutes.

Your profile is lacking put more effort in.

I’m not your demographic as I am not gym fit but ages wouldn’t be the issue if I was. It would be the profile needs more info

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By *kyblue1878Couple
over a year ago

Southport

"We do accept that this place is for all but as swingers always are wary when single guys list that they are only looking to meet a woman

Just out opinion of course but to us a guy looking for women is what happens on a dating site not a swinging site

Like we say that’s just our thought on it "

Totally agree. What OP is looking for and is himself is NOT a swinger. At his age he should hitting clubs and bars and POF

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Why do people think it’s ok to use pictures taken from the internet.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

"If your going to have a dick pic, at least use one of your own and not one you've nicked off Google....

Lol busted"

So this. We all know.

It means you either haven't got a cock that you feel proud of and looks how you wanted, and that it's likely, if we arrange to meet with, you wouldn't show up because you know we're going to discover what's really going on in your pants.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do people think it’s ok to use pictures taken from the internet. "

Anyone... regardless of sex, gender, etc using photo's from the internet (that isn't them), SHOULD have them discarded. Literally what is the point of showing yourself as one thing and actually being something else?? Not only does it ruin meets (if it get's to that stage), but the aftermath too. Which is, that it ruins the site... in the sense of people's trust for others on the site.

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By *aribbean King 1985Man
over a year ago

South West London

So to eveyone who joined Fab, how long did it take after you joined you met your first person??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If its older women your looking for, keep in mind realistic expectations.

They're likely up for playing with their partner.

They're likely to receive tons of similar messages from young guys thinking their "hung" cock is the one.

The best advice I can give is simply talk to them genuinely! Politeness and respect go a long way

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

"If its older women your looking for, keep in mind realistic expectations.

They're likely up for playing with their partner.

They're likely to receive tons of similar messages from young guys thinking their "hung" cock is the one.

The best advice I can give is simply talk to them genuinely! Politeness and respect go a long way "

But it’s not his hung cock lol

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

There's a guy I'm chatting to, just to try to convince him to take off his fake pictures but he thinks it's really fun.

I know full well it isn't him, but he won't admit it.

I don't want to report him as I know it just automatically blocks me from seeing him but doesn't stop him showing fake pictures to everybody, so I'd rather try and convince him to do the right thing then just not be able to see his pictures that he's potentially fooling others with.

I wish there was an easier way to stop all these fake pics.

It only leads to disappointment in the end.

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

"There's a guy I'm chatting to, just to try to convince him to take off his fake pictures but he thinks it's really fun.

I know full well it isn't him, but he won't admit it.

I wish there was an easier way to stop all these fake pics.

It only leads to disappointment in the end."

Once reported and if they are investigating to be be fake, it should be an instant ban. There is literally no excuse for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The best advice I can give is simply talk to them genuinely! Politeness and respect go a long way

But it’s not his hung cock lol"

We're dealing with borrowed cock valour? That's not on!

How would one expect a fake dick pic to work anyway? You'd rock up to a meet and literally come up short. Unless the aim wasn't a meet at all but pic collecting / fantasising.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

"The best advice I can give is simply talk to them genuinely! Politeness and respect go a long way

But it’s not his hung cock lol

We're dealing with borrowed cock valour? That's not on!

How would one expect a fake dick pic to work anyway? You'd rock up to a meet and literally come up short. Unless the aim wasn't a meet at all but pic collecting / fantasising. "

It probably seems like a really good idea to the person putting the pictures up as it may get them attention and meets, the only problem is they are unlikely to actually show up to the meet because they haven't got the meat they offered.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It probably seems like a really good idea to the person putting the pictures up as it may get them attention and meets, the only problem is they are unlikely to actually show up to the meet because they haven't got the meat they offered."

A big dick doesn't guarantee attention and meets either! For some, a bigger package is too much. That's why one should be happy with what they actually have and work on presenting themselves as best they can

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I absolutely agree, it's not about the cock.

My anatomy isn't made for very large cocks and can feel quite and comfortable and and potentially would quite sore against my cervix.

I think the motivation for putting them up though, is to get attention and potential meets.

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By *aribbean King 1985Man
over a year ago

South West London

To the men only, would you talk to a woman thats not verified on the site??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To the men only, would you talk to a woman thats not verified on the site??"

Talk yes. But I'd play my cards close to my chest until I've established that they are genuine. E.g. no face pics until they've photo verified with fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To the men only, would you talk to a woman thats not verified on the site??"

I'd be very cautious there's a lot of fakes on here. I'd ask them to at least photo verify before we continue chatting.

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By *aribbean King 1985Man
over a year ago

South West London

Yeah there are fake and scammers on the site, hence why would it be best to only speak to people who are verified?

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By *oreAgainForeverCouple
over a year ago

doncaster

Without sounding like a techno noob how do you know of a photo is fake and taken from elsewhere

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By *aribbean King 1985Man
over a year ago

South West London

"Without sounding like a techno noob how do you know of a photo is fake and taken from elsewhere "
well if a person displays one picture and I feeel its fake, I would ask them to either do a video call or send a video clip privately stating my name. If they refuse on both fronts then to me they're not genuine which has happened so far since I've joined

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Without sounding like a techno noob how do you know of a photo is fake and taken from elsewhere "

You can use something called Google Image Reverse to check if the image appears anywhere else online.

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

"Without sounding like a techno noob how do you know of a photo is fake and taken from elsewhere "

Using android for example, hold on the picture and select Google Lens search and it'll match it if it's there. The pic the OP was using came up with about 10 different porn sites!

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

"Without sounding like a techno noob how do you know of a photo is fake and taken from elsewhere "

Some methods have already been mentioned, but there are many others. Yandex and Tin Eye are good apps too.

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By *oreAgainForeverCouple
over a year ago

doncaster

"Without sounding like a techno noob how do you know of a photo is fake and taken from elsewhere

Using android for example, hold on the picture and select Google Lens search and it'll match it if it's there. The pic the OP was using came up with about 10 different porn sites!"

So what happens if one of our friends only face pics is also in a social media platform we use would Someone be able to reverse that image and find our social media page

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

"Without sounding like a techno noob how do you know of a photo is fake and taken from elsewhere

Using android for example, hold on the picture and select Google Lens search and it'll match it if it's there. The pic the OP was using came up with about 10 different porn sites!

So what happens if one of our friends only face pics is also in a social media platform we use would Someone be able to reverse that image and find our social media page "

In theory, yes. Dependant on your social media settings.

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By *oreAgainForeverCouple
over a year ago

doncaster

Best get checking my settings then

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By *he 1 2 watchWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

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By *he 1 2 watchWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

I'd definitely say more variety of pics but not dick pics. For some that's a turn off.

Your profile is quite basic matter of fact. Put some effort in. People will only be interested if you make it interesting. Good luck

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