FabSwingers.com forum: over 60's but still young at heart

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do you over 60's find it hard to meet on here.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

in some respects yes we do

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"in some respects yes we do"

I know I do most people want under 50

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By *icknHMan
over a year ago

Ilfracombe

"Do you over 60's find it hard to meet on here. "

Virtually impossible to get a meet or even a chat on Fab but clubs are great. C’est La vie

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By *irtydaddy and joMan
over a year ago

corby

At times yes, but got a late meet tonight with a couple 39 so life still goes on, just not weekly

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By *onerbonerMan
over a year ago

St Austell

Even harder in your 70s, anyone in Cornwall interested?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do you over 60's find it hard to meet on here.

Virtually impossible to get a meet or even a chat on Fab but clubs are great. C’est La vie "

Yet to try a club

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By *hristopherd999Man
over a year ago

Brentwood

Yes, it's quite difficult

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By *xfordjohnMan
over a year ago

Oxford

It's obviously more difficult as there are fewer of us but not impossible as I have found and I'm heartened by the number of couples willing to meet older men when I browse the site.

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

"Do you over 60's find it hard to meet on here. "

Of course; but ironically I play a very 'long game' in that, now that I am single, I do not expect instantaneous results; a lot of groundwork has to be laid, before a discreet group can be established for regular meets, with others who share my specific interests, within a reasonable travelling distance. If it happens that's fine, and if it doesn't despite my best efforts, at least I tried.

Since I formally retired, my attitude to virtually every aspect of my life has fundamentally changed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me, but then I'm female which i think is maybe easier

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By *arlangeCouple
over a year ago

newcastle upon tyne

Kind of getting there. Don't feel much different to 40s. However probably are!

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By *ingerie whoreTV/TS
over a year ago

kirk hammerton

I’d love to hear from any interested lady’s xxx

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Realistically I didn't expect people to show as much interest in us once we reached our sixties.

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By *randmrscheater69Couple
over a year ago

Peterborough

Wait till you 60 and fat like me no bloody chance

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By *nebworthMan
over a year ago

Knebworth

"Wait till you 60 and fat like me no bloody chance"

Would love to meet you both but you two do not meet single guys.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Wait till you 60 and fat like me no bloody chance"

you've still got three years to go

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By *asques and boxersCouple
over a year ago

Ashford and dept16

It does definately slow down but hey where in life do you get to stop the clock or rewind? Its just part of being

Unwilling to be dictated to about what is right in your own lives.

They found honey in the tombs which had not gone off the sweet bits of life dont have sell by dates!

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By *actilenorfolkgentMan
over a year ago

Norwich

"Wait till you 60 and fat like me no bloody chance"

Love to meet you both, maybe at Annex but you've blocked men

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands

My last meet on here was 5 years ago at the age of 78, since then Covid and my other health issues have put paid to any meets.

However, in the real world outside of Fab I am currently meeting a 68 yr old lady on a regular basis.

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By *unthum62Man
over a year ago

Benidorm

Never say never.

I am 60 and following my divorce expected to be on the scrap heap of adult life.

Thankfully not the case. Just set realistic expectations and persevere.

I have even enjoyed new experiences so its not over until they nail the lid down.

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By *heGreenMan555Man
over a year ago

Chichester

Many people set there age threshold to 60 or 55 so basically if you’re over 60 & honest, you have zero chance. Which is not good

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By *litlicker77Man
over a year ago

dirty old town

I love a lady 55 plus but don’t seem to have any luck finding them on here

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By *ityguyMan
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

60 year old here and yes it's very hard to get a meet on here also very hard to have a chat as most women either don't read messages or read it then nothing at all.

It doesn't cost nothing to chat but seems the ladles on here don't want to.

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By *andwenCouple
over a year ago

mid wales.

Both in our seventies and no problem.Vix gets plenty.

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By *ityguyMan
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

"Both in our seventies and no problem.Vix gets plenty."

Always easier for a woman to get it

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By *ickdasterdly51Man
over a year ago

Lingfield

Yes, but not helped by being honest about my marital status which has frequently led to me being blocked. However I have had some decent chat with couples of a similar age. Shame, because I have permission, have a lot of experience and a very dirty mind!

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By *awty_TwoCouple
over a year ago

near Ashford, kent

Never had a problem before covid but getting a meet now just doesn’t seem to happen, and we’re not 60 yet lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"60 year old here and yes it's very hard to get a meet on here also very hard to have a chat as most women either don't read messages or read it then nothing at all.

It doesn't cost nothing to chat but seems the ladles on here don't want to."

I totally agree with you

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

Yes, very difficult.

Still fun though and those yhat want together me appreciate the the "less young" type of person.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"60 year old here and yes it's very hard to get a meet on here also very hard to have a chat as most women either don't read messages or read it then nothing at all.

It doesn't cost nothing to chat but seems the ladles on here don't want to."

What is it you want women to chat about? Us women have learned from experience that chatting can lead to requests to meet or for sex talk so it's easier not to start talking unless we're genuinely interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn’t get meets being over 50. Now, pfft…

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By *eventhheaven2022Couple
over a year ago

accrington

As a rule we dont have a problem but things have changed on here and not for the better. The whole site seems full of Daydreamers and ego Trippers at the moment but we stay positive and hope things will change xx

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By *asques and boxersCouple
over a year ago

Ashford and dept16

"Many people set there age threshold to 60 or 55 so basically if you’re over 60 & honest, you have zero chance. Which is not good

Chin up fella thats only true for those that state only after the age. Others can still be reached and if your chat and profile is a match and good enough who knows. One thing for sure you dont ask ( nicely) you dont get.

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By *k-cockringMan
over a year ago

wirral

At 70 I find it best to visit swing clubs rather than try arranging meets.

Always leave with a smile on my face.

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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago

Kingston upon Thames

so true for many

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