FabSwingers.com forum: Am i too young?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have a string attraction to mature women but I often find it difficult to find people interested in my age. I understand everyone has their own preferences and I respect that.

So really what I’m asking is where’s all the cougars!!

(Any profile feedback is always appreciated)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The problem you're up against is tgat many of the women you're drawn to are likely to have children around your age maybe even older, and for many, that's a big 'no no'

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Search for women who are interested in your age group, you could message any that you're interested in.

I'm well over your upper age limit but you might ask yourself how many older women want to see videos of you in action with young women.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The problem you're up against is tgat many of the women you're drawn to are likely to have children around your age maybe even older, and for many, that's a big 'no no'"

Yeah I understand that, fair point. But that’s some of the reason it’s so hot because it’s like playing with my mates parents

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Search for women who are interested in your age group, you could message any that you're interested in.

I'm well over your upper age limit but you might ask yourself how many older women want to see videos of you in action with young women.

Good luck

You’re not way over, you’re definitely a couple I’d be interested in interacting with. So with the videos with younger woman would you recommend removing them? I would like more content with mature women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been using this site for a couple of months and have only met one lady of hear and don’t get Many replies? Is it that am ugly would like some feed back off the guys?

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat

"The problem you're up against is tgat many of the women you're drawn to are likely to have children around your age maybe even older, and for many, that's a big 'no no'

Yeah I understand that, fair point. But that’s some of the reason it’s so hot because it’s like playing with my mates parents

Being fetishised for your age alone or because a guy wants to make a school boy fantasy a reality is a massive turn off for a lot of us who are inundated with that type of message on a daily basis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I been here for a month and havn't met anyone yet too and also don't get many replies too

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Search for women who are interested in your age group, you could message any that you're interested in.

I'm well over your upper age limit but you might ask yourself how many older women want to see videos of you in action with young women.

Good luck

It's entirely your call. Some women aren't bothered by seeing pictures and videos of women on a single man's profiles for others it's a no.

Personally I see a profile as a place to show yourself not other people but that's just me

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

"The problem you're up against is tgat many of the women you're drawn to are likely to have children around your age maybe even older, and for many, that's a big 'no no'"

This.

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat

Keep it on the forums please OP

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

I've happily played with guys your age or younger in clubs, but I don't like my age to be fetishised, and I wouldn't go near any guy who was into slapping my arse while fucking me from behind (as you do in your video). It suggests to me an immature attitude to sex resulting from watching too much porn.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It's entirely your call. Some women aren't bothered by seeing pictures and videos of women on a single man's profiles for others it's a no.

Personally I see a profile as a place to show yourself not other people but that's just me "

I actually completely understand this and has completely changed the way I think about the content I post on my profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah I need to find a way to stand out, it’s not just a school boy fantasy. I’m genuinely really attracted to mature women and enjoy pleasuring the my focus it’s on them enjoying it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Search for women who are interested in your age group, you could message any that you're interested in.

I'm well over your upper age limit but you might ask yourself how many older women want to see videos of you in action with young women.

Good luck

It's entirely your call. Some women aren't bothered by seeing pictures and videos of women on a single man's profiles for others it's a no.

Personally I see a profile as a place to show yourself not other people but that's just me "

I would agree with that too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've happily played with guys your age or younger in clubs, but I don't like my age to be fetishised, and I wouldn't go near any guy who was into slapping my arse while fucking me from behind (as you do in your video). It suggests to me an immature attitude to sex resulting from watching too much porn. "

This is what the women wanted, I get a much bigger buzz from doing what a women desires. My sex is more about woreshiping the female body and I believe it’s like wine, it’s gets better with age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was to message you as an example would you get back in touch?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I was to message you as an example would you get back in touch?"

Who?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

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By *ightnurseWoman
over a year ago

plymouth

I’m 39 (am I a cougar) and your age wouldn’t bother me at all. You have a delicious cock so as long as you know how to use it, just have some patience. Get a couple of veries and you will be flying.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

You're not too young for me and many others but will be for some. The site is big enough to cater to thousands of different types of people and interests.

That size is also the reason it is difficult for you. There's extreme compensation for the people who you'd meet. Selling yourself the best that you can, is all that you can do.

We know that you can have sex, so videos of you with partners are not needed to achieve this. You should be 100% of the content being sold. Anything else is weakening your case. It's distracting and will lose you some of the potential partners that you could have

Develop your own best way to sell yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's entirely your call. Some women aren't bothered by seeing pictures and videos of women on a single man's profiles for others it's a no.

Personally I see a profile as a place to show yourself not other people but that's just me

I actually completely understand this and has completely changed the way I think about the content I post on my profile. "

It snacks of a lack of been descrete or worse.

Most couples we know run a mile when they see identifiable women in pictures and videos on a single man's profile. There's very few women out there who would be happy for their old sex videos to end up been used by an ex to sell his single male profile. We know one lady this happened to and it caused huge issues with her new partner. It's just smacks of a lack of sex,maturity and respect.

Just checked glad to see you took the advice and removed them all OP are at least made them friends only.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It snacks of a lack of been descrete or worse.

Just checked glad to see you took the advice and removed them all OP are at least made them friends only.

Every video that was on my profile was uploaded with consent. But most have been removed now. Due to great comments from people within the community. Honestly I hope that I can become apart of this lifestyle as most of the serious people are lovely and appreciate their help. I don’t just want to be one of the men that are looking for anything they can get, I want genuine connections and friends.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you to everyone that interacted with my post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah man I thought it was just me or something u on me ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have been using this site for a couple of months and have only met one lady of hear and don’t get Many replies? Is it that am ugly would like some feed back off the guys?

I been here for a month and havn't met anyone yet too and also don't get many replies too"

Chaps, it is considered poor forum etiquette to hijack another users thread in this way. The OP is asking a specific question in relation to his specific tastes.

If you're after personal feedback as to why you're struggling you should really start your own threads.

That said, a month is nothing. Most single men wait up to a year to get their first meet on fab. There are about 100+ men to every 1 woman on here. Can you imagine how inundated the ladies get with messages and they really can pick and choose. One lady had to bulk delete as she had 6,000 messages in her inbox

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Another bit of advice: Writing a three line message or putting up a few pictures of yourself naked on Fab is not swinging, and it's certainly not going to get you a free fuck. If you're serious take yourself to a club or two. Show that, in person, you're clean, respectful, respectable and personable and you might get somewhere. Success in any endeavour requires you to put some effort in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It snacks of a lack of been descrete or worse.

Just checked glad to see you took the advice and removed them all OP are at least made them friends only.

Well your making a good start by been polite, respectful and open to feedback.

Regarding consent though it changes over time when poeples lives change, meet new partners, settle down etc. Also people allowing you to take a video for personal use is a world away from agreeing for it to be made public on the internet to everyone with the purposes of advertising yourself a single male.

I would start by researching swinging clubs and social events local to you if your genuinely wanting to become part of the scene

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