FabSwingers.com forum: Do you keep it a secret?

By *rPeachPiercedPrincess OP Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

Do you tell your friends and family about your secret life?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ingeringfunMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

My close friends are aware - my family are not.

I might talk about having a meet but the details are between me and the lady only. Private is private.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *illyjohnyCouple
over a year ago

brighton

"Do you tell your friends and family about your secret life?"

No it's a secret and secrets stay secrets

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

No, because it wouldn't be secret then!!!

Gbat

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I don't have a secret life. I don't rub it in the faces of people who don't want details but I think everyone knows who I am and what I do.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Penny told all her friends on a girls night out, the phone doesn't stop the day after we have been out and now they are even asking if we would take them to a club.

Family wise they know we enjoy going to nudist spas and find it quite the giggle.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Nope ,my secret .

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am open about it to my open minded friends

It's only sex I enjoy it and have nothing to hide

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ouplecu2015Couple
over a year ago

Reading

It's a secret

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *rPeachPiercedPrincess OP Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

Haha my work mates are like it with me. It ends up been story time for them and it helps through the shift

Don’t know how I’d feel about taking friends though.

Not that it’s a secret but I kinda meant would you be bothered if they knew

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *randMrs397Couple
over a year ago

durham

Completely secret

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *landfordfabbersCouple
over a year ago

Blandford ish

A few close friends know but mostly not

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *k98765Couple
over a year ago

birmingham

Secret have been recognised on here by people we now but other than that xx

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *aulp4alsMan
over a year ago

Warrington

My mates know I have been on here for years (12) but no one knows I am a naturist family or friends.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Completely secret and would be VERY surprising to people we know

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ainbow_RoadWoman
over a year ago

Brighton

I mean, I'm not planning on telling my parents but i'm pretty open about it all

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely secret , my friends would be shocked if they knew what I got up to !!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *issKissBangBang69Couple
over a year ago

Fareham/Bournemouth

No this is our life and we dont share it with vanilla friends/family. That said it’s becoming more and more the case that we socialise from friends from the lifestyle so that balance is evolving all the time.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple of friends know and they’re fascinated

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few friends know, some are on the scene themselves

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone knows we met on here many years ago as singles, but they don’t know we’re on it now, though it likely wouldn’t surprise them haha

Mrs

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you tell your friends and family about your secret life?"

What secret life!

…it’s just a rumour!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

I don’t have a secret life. What you see is what you get

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *rPeachPiercedPrincess OP Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

I like some of these responses

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *un couple 2Couple
over a year ago

Tynemouth.

we dont shout about our swinging life, but sure there are a few that suspect.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

"Do you tell your friends and family about your secret life?"

I don't tell them details, but they know we're Open.

Had to disclose, because someone saw Alice snogging another guy in a pub!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *omRachCouple
over a year ago

Wirral

"Do you tell your friends and family about your secret life?"

We have one friend who knows, he only knows cos he has played with us

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eeds fun guyMan
over a year ago

yorkshire

"we dont shout about our swinging life, but sure there are a few that suspect."

And I bet a few who are jealous

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *yresMan
over a year ago

Midland town

No my other life and a secret.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ayleedsMan
over a year ago

Leeds

I did a few years ago but was with an ex but we got judge from so many people

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ave1976XXXMan
over a year ago

newmarket

Only a select few friends know. No family

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *a_fun_30_coupleCouple
over a year ago

Durham

We haven’t told anyone we’re on here and we haven’t ever recognised anyone or been recognised on here x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *empest2KMan
over a year ago

Derby

"Do you tell your friends and family about your secret life?"

Nah, but I doubt my friends would believe me even if I did tell them! I think most of my friends think I'm boring and vanilla. In fact, one of my male friends, who reckons he's god's gift to women, even said to my missus that he reckoned I was very boring and vanilla in the bedroom, which kinda gave my confidence a bit of a beating at the time, tbf.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *hreesome loverMan
over a year ago

hadleigh

I am good at keeping secrets, it’s the people I tell that always spread the gossip!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We haven’t told anyone we’re on here and we haven’t ever recognised anyone or been recognised on here x "

Do you purposefully avoid local meets?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Only few really close friends but was great because they announced that they to were on here also

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *edonist79Man
over a year ago

Trowbridge

My best friend knows. My gf knows. My ex wife found out after we broke up. I like to keep my life private though.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *aked2sumCouple
over a year ago

Coast

Yep most of our friends know and our kids know as well as some other family members . It’s no big deal

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *aughty VicarMan
over a year ago

Bamber Bridge, P R E S T O N, Lancashire

Secret

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, a completely separate and deliciously secret part of my life

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

I don't have a secret life

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *C79Man
over a year ago

Caterham

I've told 2 people and a handful of others know I'm happy strolling on a naked beach. Ive got the advantage of having been in a toxic relationship so I lost all my friends which means I've got nobody to hide the secret from

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *kinandbonesCouple
over a year ago

dublin

A few people know, but not many

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ain and sortedMan
over a year ago

Old Harlow Essex

I like tge thought that most may have an idea. Some know I'm naughty but they never ask. Would I tell them? No as I like the intrigue a couple of close gf do know and I have introduced them to the lifestyle always a balance in life x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ain and sortedMan
over a year ago

Old Harlow Essex

"I've told 2 people and a handful of others know I'm happy strolling on a naked beach. Ive got the advantage of having been in a toxic relationship so I lost all my friends which means I've got nobody to hide the secret from

That's funny,or is it sad? At how toxic people can be?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *asygoingcouple2022Couple
over a year ago

The moon

Family no friends are normally part of the life anyway

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *reeneggsandsamMan
over a year ago

Perpignan and cap

I'm open to anyone that wants to know, unfortunately not many folks do. Nudist beach going is meh, and pretty much normal here. Swinging. I get "well that's your business". So....

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ad_buddiesCouple
over a year ago

London

We keep things very close and discreet, for good reasons. Jess has 3 friends that know, I have 1.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *avenjane7Couple
over a year ago

colne

We keep it quite but if someone found out we would not lie about it.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

Widnes

"Do you tell your friends and family about your secret life?"

Isnt that an oxymoron?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *queakyclean69erCouple
over a year ago

Torquay / Fleet

Mr - family and friends are fully aware

Mrs- few close friends know

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Secret as its my escape

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you tell your friends and family about your secret life?"

That's the whole rush of this lifestyle. It's naughty to keep it a secret

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ttentiveRabbitMan
over a year ago

Lymington

Private,

But two couples know me before here so we can talk about this site freely

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *weetsmellingtreatsWoman
over a year ago

Gloucester

No it’s my secret and would shock all who know me

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ustus555Couple
over a year ago

Secret. Its our thing we do together. We have a huge circle of friends, so it's nice to have something to ourselves. Once a month or so we have a naughty weekend away & most of our friends can tell the difference, so there's no way we want to spoil that.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *mily28Woman
over a year ago

Clapham

Very secret...public face of me is all sweet and innocent

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ice guy 44Man
over a year ago

wrexham

Only 2 people can keep a secret and one of them has to be dxxd

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is "secret"? I am a naturist and my family know (they join me so hard to be a secret lol). My BDSM side and bi side most do not know.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *he_TicklersCouple
over a year ago

Havant & Aberdare

Family no, although Mr’s parents used to be swingers. Friends yes, not all of them, but close ones. Trying to hide it at work is tough as Mr is merchant navy and with 70 crew on ship mostly male, have single guy profiles for general perving and cheating on wives ! So by the time I realised this it was too late to make all pics friends only. Distinctive hand tattoos like mine , coupled with a proximity search showing us within a mile when in an industrial port

, got found out straight away, took 2 days if I remember and the ship knew, no doubt the fleet does now

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *C79Man
over a year ago

Caterham

"That's funny,or is it sad? At how toxic people can be? "

At the time, it was dreadful but like most people, you don't realise it is happening. Now that I am out of that situation, I'm free to choose my lifestyle without needing to keep it a secret unless I want to. You can always make new friends & you never know, they may approve of our little secret

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

Some freinds and family know, some don't. It's no big secret. We're proud of how we live our life and our relationship. But it's also our sex life and not everyone needs to know the details.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ustme34Man
over a year ago

Bingley

Nope . And not out of shame .. just because its nobodys business but my own and who ever im talking to

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ove2PlayLincsCouple
over a year ago

Gainsborough

Most of our friends no. Once they've had a drink we end up like our own q and a session.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People are usually too judgemental so a secret

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *rPeachPiercedPrincess OP Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

"Most of our friends no. Once they've had a drink we end up like our own q and a session."

That’s what tends to happen with my mates or I’ll get random messages from people I know ‘is it true’

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

We have only ever told one (very lovely) female friend. Within an hour we were all naked in her bed.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *rPeachPiercedPrincess OP Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

"We have only ever told one (very lovely) female friend. Within an hour we were all naked in her bed."

That’s the best possible outcome in that situation lol

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

Post new Message to Thread