FabSwingers.com forum: Dogging 101 for males

By *eeping it real 69 OP Man
over a year ago

a frosty field :)

Ok so few get the dynamics of this and the etiquette . it’s really a simple thing that many get wrong !

If you’re lucky enough to se a couple out steaming up the car windows don’t be weird , they are there for a reason . Maybe voyeuristic or even interaction but you and you alone can make them go cold quickly !

There’s no magic flashing of the lights or secret signals that is “code” you don’t need to be moving your car around constantly either . Get out and chat

You’d be surprised how many “doggers” are very sociable creatures and it’s very much like a club atmosphere in a lot of spots where the regulars know each other . Respect goes a long way and they share experiences too .

Ok as a single guy you’re going to have to put time in and it sucks I know as everyone wants instant action , single females …. Well respect to you because it takes big gonads for you to put yourself into this environment .

If you see a couple maybe approach the car like a normal person and chat normally to both of the people in the car , they are there for a reason like you and respect do go a long way . You may even strike up a friendship or a common ground and you’re much more likely to get interaction . Don’t act like weirdo’s circling the car with your cocks hanging out as it’s much like dick pics on here . It’s not appreciated . Nothing worse than someone having a wank when you’re eating a happy meal lol .

Maybe sit back and wait for the couple to start playing and if you see a window open it’s not an invite to go throwing your hands inside the car . It’s an invite to watch and possibly interact through conversation and possibly get an invite to “more” … being pushy or overly direct won’t get you anywhere and never dismiss the female and ask the guy directly “she game mate !” Cause that female is a person and it’s her choice who she plays with at the end of the day .

It’s not rocket science really , play it cool as they are there for a reason the same as you are . Politeness and respect . Bring your own protection as well but that should go without saying . Same as cleanliness really .

Had many a good night ruined by silly people