FabSwingers.com forum: No photos

By *iss Kink OP Woman
over a year ago

North West

Why do people not at least have a profile photo? does it hinder you on here?

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Why do people not at least have a profile photo? does it hinder you on here? "

If someone's looking to meet I suspect not having one is as useful as chocolate teapot.

If they're just here for the forums then I doubt it makes much difference.

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By *nicornExplorersCouple
over a year ago

north east

We constantly get winks or messages from no public pics profiles, we just ignore, it's sad but if there's no idea of what they look like, then well, bases of start is on defense, which when we've asked to see they got on yhe defensive...

Just easier to avoid we find, but everyone is different.

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

"Why do people not at least have a profile photo? does it hinder you on here? "

I typically don't even bother with such profiles

endless they message 1st & add pics with message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't have public pictures on our profile, mainly because we don't want to be recognised but when we chat to people on here the first thing we do is send pictures of ourselves. You definitely need to know what someone looks like early on .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It seems ridiculous to wink but have no pictures and a bio consisting of nothing but a warning to Sydney institutions etc but it happens very often.

We usually send a very sexy offer, wait an hour or two after it’s read and then block the muppet.

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By *ubwife4uCouple
over a year ago

Kent

"We don't have public pictures on our profile, mainly because we don't want to be recognised but when we chat to people on here the first thing we do is send pictures of ourselves. You definitely need to know what someone looks like early on ."

Totally agree with the whole discretion argument which is why we never send face pics. But, it is quite possible to have a good variety of pictures to show others what they can expect, without being recognisable in the street.

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By *ogan WillowCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

We do not like silhouettes. Instant no reply

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

We ignore anyone with no pics, I don't want endless conversation with someone I don't find attractive.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No photos no point, for us. It shows a complete lack of interest in swinging and sharing.

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By *aribbean King 1985Man
over a year ago

South West London

I find that the majority of blank profiles with no pictures tend to be women

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I always think they have something to hide & I don't even look at any message from blank profiles.

I wish the filter system would change so they can't add a pic to message,then remove it too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hate a silhouette.

Even worse when they have no public pictures or just pictures of the female half.

Miss S x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It has never hindered me. If people are interested, I send one. I think it works perfectly if you're the kind of man that doesnt want to be too judged on looks.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

It's a strange one but some just keep a public gallery unsure if they are familiar with how to put one as profile as for rest with none I just block

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"It has never hindered me. If people are interested, I send one. I think it works perfectly if you're the kind of man that doesnt want to be too judged on looks."

Everyone is judged on looks, not just men.

Would you buy a car you'd never clapped eyes on? Or waste time going to view one just in case it was what you wanted?

It's no different on here. When there are so many well written, detailed profiles with photos that (even if not facial ones) give you enough of an idea about someone to at least stir a little interest, then why would you bother with something blank?

You say you send one if people are interested? How do they know they're interested if they haven't seen you?

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Delete them straight out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a profile doesn't have pictures to indicate what folk look like we just skip over them.

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By * AND R 777Couple
over a year ago

Teesside

"Why do people not at least have a profile photo? does it hinder you on here? "

Probably the same reason hide there profile so no o e can see them

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By *remiumbondMan
over a year ago

Morpeth

Got to have a pic or at least share one in a message. I appreciate the need to be discreet and have actually been recognised in the street but I’m not concerned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It has never hindered me. If people are interested, I send one. I think it works perfectly if you're the kind of man that doesnt want to be too judged on looks.

Everyone is judged on looks, not just men.

Would you buy a car you'd never clapped eyes on? Or waste time going to view one just in case it was what you wanted?

You say you send one if people are interested? How do they know they're interested if they haven't seen you?

I think there are plenty of women that are not so interested in looks

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By *aribbean King 1985Man
over a year ago

South West London

"It has never hindered me. If people are interested, I send one. I think it works perfectly if you're the kind of man that doesnt want to be too judged on looks.

Everyone is judged on looks, not just men.

Would you buy a car you'd never clapped eyes on? Or waste time going to view one just in case it was what you wanted?

You say you send one if people are interested? How do they know they're interested if they haven't seen you?

I think there are plenty of women that are not so interested in looks"
So you saying women are attracted to a mans body then looks??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I’m going to share my body with someone I need to be attracted to them.

To be attracted to them initially I need at least to see body pics on a profile.

I will not even look at a profile if there aren’t any.

Why create a shop window and not display the goods?

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By *loss aka Miss JonesWoman
over a year ago

south coast IOW

"It seems ridiculous to wink but have no pictures and a bio consisting of nothing but a warning to Sydney institutions etc but it happens very often.

We usually send a very sexy offer, wait an hour or two after it’s read and then block the muppet. "

I agree and the Sydney institution message means nothing and in the faq it actually asks you not to put that kind of rubbish on your profiles. It doesn’t mean anything at all.

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