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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So they neighbour saw me (MissRT) naked, I was fresh out of the shower and moving to close the bedroom blind as he looked up directly to the window at the same time. He didn’t know where to look and almost froze but held his gaze then scurried off. Him and his wife are a nice, good looking couple but seem pretty straight laced. Obviously no big deal but wonder what everyone’s thoughts are, should we pursue with gusto, with caution, not at all?

Ever happened to you?

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By *damjamie00Man
over a year ago

Haslemere

Can you not arrange an evening at theirs as an couple's evening amd subtly say to the guy, to plant the seed of an idea?

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

If a man was to ask this question, and they have many times, the answer would be to forget it and move on and not make assumptions based on one accidental incident.

The same answer applies here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If a man was to ask this question, and they have many times, the answer would be to forget it and move on and not make assumptions based on one accidental incident.

The same answer applies here. "

So whilst we agree of course with this sentiment, we feel like it’s worth discussing here as they are people we’ve known a long time. Does this change anything? Does the elongated stare change anything? It’s a safe space to have this discussion so appreciate the response.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Can you not arrange an evening at theirs as an couple's evening amd subtly say to the guy, to plant the seed of an idea?"

So this is something we just discussed, maybe not say anything at all but have dinner/drinks or make it light and joke about it at the next social event that comes up naturally

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By *iredhandMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"If a man was to ask this question, and they have many times, the answer would be to forget it and move on and not make assumptions based on one accidental incident.

The same answer applies here.

So whilst we agree of course with this sentiment, we feel like it’s worth discussing here as they are people we’ve known a long time. Does this change anything? Does the elongated stare change anything? It’s a safe space to have this discussion so appreciate the response."

As it’s your neighbour it could be a bit awkward if it doesn’t work out the way you would like it to.

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By *j1981Man
over a year ago

cork

Invite round to yours for dinner... maybe a after dinner game.. suggest a few forfeits for wrong answers or the loser... bita truth or dare... push the boundries scenario...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If a man was to ask this question, and they have many times, the answer would be to forget it and move on and not make assumptions based on one accidental incident.

The same answer applies here. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they don't fancy you that would be awkward as fuck. Avoid.

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By *hil911Man
over a year ago

Solihull

"So they neighbour saw me (MissRT) naked, I was fresh out of the shower and moving to close the bedroom blind as he looked up directly to the window at the same time. He didn’t know where to look and almost froze but held his gaze then scurried off. Him and his wife are a nice, good looking couple but seem pretty straight laced. Obviously no big deal but wonder what everyone’s thoughts are, should we pursue with gusto, with caution, not at all?

Ever happened to you? "

Wow, lucky neighbour.

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By *100Man
over a year ago

Essex

Not on your own doorstep could become awkward but then if you were my neighbour I definitely would xxx

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By *damjamie00Man
over a year ago

Haslemere

"Can you not arrange an evening at theirs as an couple's evening amd subtly say to the guy, to plant the seed of an idea?

So this is something we just discussed, maybe not say anything at all but have dinner/drinks or make it light and joke about it at the next social event that comes up naturally "

Sounds like you're interested in the idea and you're into them, honesty is the best policy. Yes arrange some private get together and have a laugh and mention that you find (if you do) them attractive, maybe hint at your fab background and leave the ball in their court

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

A guy posted a very similar thread not long ago and got absolutely lambasted.

Wonder if this is going to happen again?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Super torn here because we agree with you all for different reasons, certainly too close to home, they absolutely may not feel the same, or worse he might and she may not. Equally they could be absolutely in to it and wondering how to approach it. Think maybe let nature take its course and do nothing unless it presents itself

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A guy posted a very similar thread not long ago and got absolutely lambasted.

Wonder if this is going to happen again?"

I hope not because we’re actually quite level headed about it, we haven’t for one second made any assumptions just thought it would be nice to discuss.

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By *damjamie00Man
over a year ago

Haslemere

Give it a couple of days and not think about it in this time and see how you feel afterwards

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By *hil911Man
over a year ago

Solihull

You could always flash him again.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

One lengthy, embarrassed stare means nothing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The problem with your neighbour is that he's your neighbour. If you have something going with someone from the next town along, you've got some separation between you, in case you decide to move on. If you start something with the neighbour and it doesn't work out, it could be embarrassing (or worse). Best avoided.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not like he set up camp hoping for an eyeful though? It was chance that he happened to see. Could cause a right shitstorm if you invited them round and said he'd been eyeballing you in the buff

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By *r_PinkMan
over a year ago

london stratford

My thoughts......................

LUCKY FUCKER!!!!!

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Pursue what exactly?

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Just no, really creepy and I appropriate. Imagine how uncomfortable it might make them feel.

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By *.TwistedChristian76Man
over a year ago

Warrington

If you showered and appeared at the window at the same time every day...and he starts to appear everyday....you're halfway there!

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

Hey OP, completely understand the interest and desire to put your thoughts out there and see what people think.

My two cents are that he probably reacted like many blokes ie the brief moment you clock something and double take when you realise it’s a hot naked chick at the window. Great mental snapshot for the wank bank, but that’s it.

If they are quite strait-laced, imagine the shit his wife will give him for looking at you in the buff (if you mention it). And that makes me disinclined to think they’d be into the lifestyle (and before everyone shouts at me, I know outward appearances mean nothing, but I only have the OP’s account to go on).

Coupled with them loving next door, it is fraught with complications you probably don’t want! Up to you, of course, but I’d avoid like the proverbial.

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By *kinandbonesCouple
over a year ago

dublin

Happened loads of times to us. No big deal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So they neighbour saw me (MissRT) naked, I was fresh out of the shower and moving to close the bedroom blind as he looked up directly to the window at the same time. He didn’t know where to look and almost froze but held his gaze then scurried off. Him and his wife are a nice, good looking couple but seem pretty straight laced. Obviously no big deal but wonder what everyone’s thoughts are, should we pursue with gusto, with caution, not at all?

Ever happened to you? "

Your neighbour is a very lucky person for getting to see you naked OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So they neighbour saw me (MissRT) naked, I was fresh out of the shower and moving to close the bedroom blind as he looked up directly to the window at the same time. He didn’t know where to look and almost froze but held his gaze then scurried off. Him and his wife are a nice, good looking couple but seem pretty straight laced. Obviously no big deal but wonder what everyone’s thoughts are, should we pursue with gusto, with caution, not at all?

Ever happened to you? "

It's happened a lot.

Google Street View also got me, topless at my kitchen table a couple of years ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happened to me few times , every time I used to get in shower the neighbour in front of me the lady and daughter both used to sit down right opposite my window and peeking through while having a cig , I clocked them so many times and they knew I have seen them watching me having a shower with fully erected cock , next day when I used them mother looked awkward but daughter always had cheeky smile on her face till now !!

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By *k98765Couple
over a year ago

birmingham

"Super torn here because we agree with you all for different reasons, certainly too close to home, they absolutely may not feel the same, or worse he might and she may not. Equally they could be absolutely in to it and wondering how to approach it. Think maybe let nature take its course and do nothing unless it presents itself "

Make a joke of it see where it goes xx

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

Really would t pursue this any further. I’d likely expect when he’s been caught staring he’s likely froze for a second.

If you try and make a light joke of it in front of them both I’d hate to think how bad an argument it could cause.

Chalk it up as a one off accidental glance

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By *ddfellowMan
over a year ago

Newferry, wirral

he may have not told her, and if you bring it up could cause a lot of friction.

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By *eregrinosCouple
over a year ago

chorley

The old maxim of never s*** on your own doorstep probably applies here for a few obvious reasons here... On another note if their relationship is stable he'd have told his other half.. just wish we had neighbours we'd like to see naked... Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So they neighbour saw me (MissRT) naked, I was fresh out of the shower and moving to close the bedroom blind as he looked up directly to the window at the same time. He didn’t know where to look and almost froze but held his gaze then scurried off. Him and his wife are a nice, good looking couple but seem pretty straight laced. Obviously no big deal but wonder what everyone’s thoughts are, should we pursue with gusto, with caution, not at all?

Ever happened to you? "

Pursue what?? You think everyone who looks at you wants to fuck you? Wow.

Why on earth would you assume either of them would want you? His wife may think you were flashing him on purpose like a sexual predator.

I wonder why Swingers often get a bad name.....

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By *andk4fCouple
over a year ago

North cotswolds

Our neighbours are moving if you fancy!? We love to have a beautiful site! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Given that you know and get on with them, if you’re curious, next time you see them… just bring it up and apologise… with no agenda. Their reaction will tell you, and then it’s a case of respecting it x

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Don’t shit on your own doorstep is our advice.

You could have a great time for an evening or two, maybe for a while longer, but something will happen and they will still be your neighbours.

Also, I’d question if a site full of people looking for sexual encounters is the place to get a balanced discussion on a potentially hot sexual encounter.

Just leave things as they are and if anything comes of it naturally great, if not then it was a nice little fantasy.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

"If a man was to ask this question, and they have many times, the answer would be to forget it and move on and not make assumptions based on one accidental incident.

The same answer applies here. "

Yep this ^^

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

"You could always flash him again. "

No that would be wrong

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By *s2pervsCouple
over a year ago

Truro

"If a man was to ask this question, and they have many times, the answer would be to forget it and move on and not make assumptions based on one accidental incident.

The same answer applies here. "

Nail squarely on the head.

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

if she flashed at me again, i would have no option but to report her too the police,,

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

In any accidental scenario why is it always assumed the other party might be a willing participant?

Even if there is intent to flash a neighbour or complete stranger and regardless of the whole consent debate, why would anyone feel it may be acceptable to pursue anything further?

Just because the other party is present doesn't mean they were on the same wavelength or that they have seen it as anything more than an accident.

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

Used to always sunbath naked knowing my neighbour was watching

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

"Used to always sunbath naked knowing my neighbour was watching "

And did you like him watching?

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

"Used to always sunbath naked knowing my neighbour was watching

And did you like him watching?"

Haha was a single mum

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

"In any accidental scenario why is it always assumed the other party might be a willing participant?

Even if there is intent to flash a neighbour or complete stranger and regardless of the whole consent debate, why would anyone feel it may be acceptable to pursue anything further?

Just because the other party is present doesn't mean they were on the same wavelength or that they have seen it as anything more than an accident."

Exactly. Too many swingers seem to think everyone is a closet swinger just as too many exhibitionists believe everyone is a willing voyeur, or bisexuals that every straight is ripe for conversion.

Leave well alone.

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By *un-adventurousMan
over a year ago

winchester

Seen my best friends wife naked.

We where playing cards at his gaff, and it finished late so we all crashed over.

During the night I went to the loo, but did not turn the light on, as it had a loud fan, so did not want to disturb anyone.

I was sitting on the loo, which faces the door, and she walked in, and turned the light on.

She just stood in the doorway, completely naked, and asked what I was doing.

Response .. I am having a shit!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In any accidental scenario why is it always assumed the other party might be a willing participant?

Even if there is intent to flash a neighbour or complete stranger and regardless of the whole consent debate, why would anyone feel it may be acceptable to pursue anything further?

Just because the other party is present doesn't mean they were on the same wavelength or that they have seen it as anything more than an accident.

Exactly. Too many swingers seem to think everyone is a closet swinger just as too many exhibitionists believe everyone is a willing voyeur, or bisexuals that every straight is ripe for conversion.

Leave well alone."

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By *lackMetalMan
over a year ago

Centre

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By *lackMetalMan
over a year ago

Centre

Not a good idea unless you are absolutely certain they are into you, as much as you seem to be into them.

There’s nothing more creepy and weird for a couple than being propositioned by another couple, especially if they didn’t see that coming or worse, it came from a couple they don’t find attractive or see in that way. Throw in the fact that majority of the population aren’t swingers or entertain such ideas, and even if they did, they wouldn’t do it with their neighbours and you can see why this a monumentally bad idea on your part and needs to be put to bed!

Best course of action is to apologise to him (not in her presence!) about him catching you like that, and note keenly how he reacts to it. That will give you some clue if attraction is mutual. But even then, don’t underestimate the reluctance of most men to be engaged in sexual activity with another man in the vicinity.

Don’t fall into the trap of thinking your view as a swinger is shared by a majority of non-swingers. You are a minority.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So they neighbour saw me (MissRT) naked, I was fresh out of the shower and moving to close the bedroom blind as he looked up directly to the window at the same time. He didn’t know where to look and almost froze but held his gaze then scurried off. Him and his wife are a nice, good looking couple but seem pretty straight laced. Obviously no big deal but wonder what everyone’s thoughts are, should we pursue with gusto, with caution, not at all?

Ever happened to you? "

Any chance their house is up for sale soon haha

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Don't shit on your own doorstep. Even if they are rampant swingers, you'd not even need to pursue swinging together, unless you are typically engaged at lots of venues etc.

And accidental nudity just hints at taking greater care in future

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't shit on your own doorstep. Even if they are rampant swingers, you'd not even need to pursue swinging together, unless you are typically engaged at lots of venues etc.

And accidental nudity just hints at taking greater care in future "

This. All day this. Never.Shit.On.Your.Own.Doorstep.

No neighbours, work colleagues, close friends. Or even relatives of close friends!

Unless you are fully prepared for it to go spectacularly wrong and you definitely do want to move

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very nice bum, OP.

Look, I’m a perv too, ok? I can’t help it

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By *ustj4fMan
over a year ago

North cotswolds

"Very nice bum, OP.

Look, I’m a perv too, ok? I can’t help it

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It would be rude not too! To both your profiles x

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By *alkthattalkMan
over a year ago

Darlington

The lady opposite my first house would exercise in her bedroom (aerobics) naked. She was about 35/40, me 25, at the time and really really fit. She closed the horizontal blinds but the height difference of our house meant you could clearly see in from our bedroom. I spent many a morning casually sat on my bed enjoying the view of her pert boobs bouncing up and down.

She always smiled when I saw her out with her dog and I smiled back….she was really pretty but we were both married. I’d have love to have seen her close up!

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London

"he may have not told her, and if you bring it up could cause a lot of friction."

My thoughts exactly

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