FabSwingers.com forum: time wasters

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

do you think there should be a place to name and shame time wasters on here which also gives them a chance to reply if they are genuine as well. for example twice i allowed a couple back on my profile then they cancelled both meets at short notice so deleted again i know people can do what they like on here but what do you think about having a nameand shame section where they also have a chance to replyxxmark

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not fair to do that. That's not what this site is for. If people cancel on you block and move on. This has been suggested before and mods were involved. The response will always be the same...no

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I hope that having meets is a low priority for most people on here in life! If something comes up unexpected with family or work etc then meets have to be cancelled.. I think that's more the norm than timewasting!

What is a timewaster?

To me its someone who is manipulating ur profile wants to get what they want. Such as I say I'm not into cyber only real meets, yet they say they want to meet with no intention of anything other than to get off on ur pics or what u message them. They then say yh we will meet next week and u never hear from them again.. Or people who say they will be there in an hour say and never show and never send a message to say they can't make it or one after to say sorry something came up last minute.. But to me that just puts them as I first described

By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"do you think there should be a place to name and shame time wasters on here which also gives them a chance to reply if they are genuine as well. for example twice i allowed a couple back on my profile then they cancelled both meets at short notice so deleted again i know people can do what they like on here but what do you think about having a nameand shame section where they also have a chance to replyxxmark"

Did they give you reasons for cancelling? If they were good ones then all you can do is suck it up, and move on. Personally I don't count anyone who has let you know they can't make it as timewasters, unless they cancelled 5 mins before and you were sat waiting.

It is part and parcel of being on Fab that you will meet people who don't turn up. The site rules include 'no name and shame' and I personally think we should follow them.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just wait till you've been accused of wasting someones time, then see if you think you should be held in stocks and publicaly humiliated... just cos you were either not interested or busy... GET A LIFE...stop bloody dwelling on things!