FabSwingers.com forum: do you orgasm from meets

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I was chatting with a few friends of mine and said that I rarely if ever orgasm from a meet. Not saying im not enjoying it because I do. Its partly why I only do group meets as I think one on one when I don't a guy thinks its him.

Also I am never left feeling satisfied... but to be honest ive had that with every sexual partner except one all my life.... but it doesn't stop me having a good time.

Am I alone in this

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

"I was chatting with a few friends of mine and said that I rarely if ever orgasm from a meet. Not saying im not enjoying it because I do. Its partly why I only do group meets as I think one on one when I don't a guy thinks its him.

Also I am never left feeling satisfied... but to be honest ive had that with every sexual partner except one all my life.... but it doesn't stop me having a good time.

Am I alone in this "

No - I don't either. It doesn't bother me though - it's not why I play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i (female) never orgasm from meets either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Crikey, I can't imagine not orgasming from a meet - but then I am very, very orgasmic.

Occasionally I've been with somebody who just isn't quite doing it for me, but then I kinda take charge and make sure I get to orgasm too

I think that if I was never left satisfied there would be something not quite right, maybe psychologically, not being able to let go enough to enjoy it perhaps. But then I'm normally horny again an hour or so after an earth-shattering meet, which begs the question, am I ever actually satisfied???

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I always do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always know how to get my share of the fun, whether with help from the meet, or toys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

golly - many times over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always know how to get my share of the fun, whether with help from the meet, or toys.

yeah always got our own fingers to hand

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I must be easily pleased as i always orgasm and more than once. Ive never found it difficult to orgasm, not sure if its my mind set or that simple things can make me orgasm. Someone really running their nails down my back hard till i bleed can make me orgasm on its own

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By *win PeaksCouple
over a year ago

Northamptonshire

I (f) very rarely cum during a meet, in fact only twice. But that doesn't mean that I don't have fun,I don't expect it so I'm not disappointed when it doesn't happen. If I wasn't enjoying myself I would have packed it in ages ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No but then I have never had an orgasm so its no big deal, so long as I have fun and them, what does it matter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just asked Kate and she said she rarely does.

Mind you I don't always cum either so it's not only a female thing

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By *encarolCouple
over a year ago

Tyneside

Every time for us both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't and he does

I still very much enjoy what we do I get mine after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I usually cum...with some guys it's easier than with others, but I have to be able to let go to enjoy myself fully. The more I trust a guy, and sometimes the more vocal I can comfortable be, the better the orgasm(s) x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No - I never have an orgasm from a meet - and wouldn't want to...

That's not what I'm looking for, and I make it clear - but unfortunately I still get endless messages from complete strangers telling me that they are going to "lick me 'till I cum!" - Oh no they're not - they won't get anywhere near me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

only ever had one person off here make me orgasm. I still enjoy it regardless of orgasm or not though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Every time for us both

Absolutely, don't think there'd be any point in swinging if we didn't.

While we both love giving pleasure to others we expect to get an equal amount in return.

Neither of us would feel we'd had a successful meet if the other woman hadn't had at least one orgasm, we've probably been lucky in meeting women that don't have a problem.

Please don't take that as a slur on women who can't orgasm for whatever reason, its just how we feel, satisfaction to us is a two way thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I (f) very rarely cum during a meet, in fact only twice. But that doesn't mean that I don't have fun,I don't expect it so I'm not disappointed when it doesn't happen. If I wasn't enjoying myself I would have packed it in ages ago

Thats exactly my attitude too. If I cum then good, if not, if I don't worry about it why should anyone else?

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Reliably informed that Mrs P is entirely in agreement with this post

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The funny thing for me is if a guy didn't when with me I would be in a right bad mood. Lol

I do with partners. But even then it's not really been a common thing till last one. But as he can make me orgasm without touching lol I was not surprised

funny that I can orgasm from being cum over

Thing is the more I get the more I want so I can't ever see me reaching satisfaction. I don't see it as pointless as I love to satisfy a man.well a few. I totally enjoy it

Is don't play with myself anymore so wouldn't know if I can do it easily myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This forum topic surprised me. Its rare for me not to orgasm from a meet, i still enjoy the events but nothing is more satisfying than multiple orgasms - more so than gushing for me. Yes, after a good few hours fun and a rest i am just as horny for more of the same.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It was because my friends I talked to always orgasm I started this topic

I will fake it for the gentleman's ego and I must be good at doing so lol as never had a guy doubt it.

I'm multi orgasmic when I am with a partner. Someone emailed me suggesting it was my lack of intimacy with meets. But even those I have met one on one etc I rarely do

I don't feel I miss out either. It's just something that I have fun with. If I have one then great. If not then it's great. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

90% of the time i do, depends on the guy and what he does to me....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've actually just worked out why I don't. Lol

It's down to the way I play. It's safe sex. I was posting on another thread and suddenly realised that is why lol.

So think this is something that may long continue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I orgasm loads with some people (one guy had my cumin' several times) other guys can't make me orgasm at all, I guess it's a mixture of how horny you are, how into the guy you are etc

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I can totally fancy a guy. He can be amazing in bed. But I just wont.

I am always horny although sometimes it's the added bits that will make me. Like some idea that I think of. But I only do from penetrative sex and I've realised with condom that I can't orgasm.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I usually come - very few times when I haven't. And I never fake it. I can come multiple times though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hardly ever do but a couple of weeks ago i met three men and had multiple orgasms.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I find it difficult to orgasm with a partner never mind a meet as they need to find what pushes your buttons, and that is not a challenge! I never expect to orgasm but always enjoy the act, so it doesn't bother me in the slightest, but is always a surprise if it does happen

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I always expect to come - after all, all of my meets do so why shouldn't I?

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Maybe it is the type of man?

Having spoken to you before maybe kink comes into it?

It definitely does for Mrs P. It will only ever happen with the right kind of man and even that is rare. Where as when it is just us it can be pretty much at will.

It is definitely more a mental thing than anything else for Mrs P.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Maybe it is the type of man?

Having spoken to you before maybe kink comes into it?

It definitely does for Mrs P. It will only ever happen with the right kind of man and even that is rare. Where as when it is just us it can be pretty much at will.

It is definitely more a mental thing than anything else for Mrs P."

No as I would only be submissive to the one person. I have worked out that it's to do with condoms. For me without being filled its incomplete. So therefore I don't cum. Besides its about mutual pleasure and I get all the pleasure i need from getting a guy to cover me

to be honest I don't need touching and get more aroused when I'm not.

I am not going to be doing anything dom or submissive now.

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

"Maybe it is the type of man?

Having spoken to you before maybe kink comes into it?

It definitely does for Mrs P. It will only ever happen with the right kind of man and even that is rare. Where as when it is just us it can be pretty much at will.

It is definitely more a mental thing than anything else for Mrs P.

to be honest I don't need touching and get more aroused when I'm not.

I am not going to be doing anything dom or submissive now. "

Do you not orgasm from oral then Cali?

Wasn't suggesting you should follow that path again just chucking ideas out there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't either but it doesn't bother me at all and I do enjoy the meets very much. It annoys me when blokes try too hard because I just don't want to have an orgasm on a meet. Glad I'm not the only one.

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By *ustyBrunette35Couple
over a year ago

birmingham

"I always expect to come - after all, all of my meets do so why shouldn't I?"

This is my view too.

I've never left a meet without having at least one orgasm. I'd be quite annoyed if I went home without cumming.

In fact I'd be bloody furious

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By *mallteaserWoman
over a year ago

Central

Cum many times x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rarely orgasm from meets, but to continue the trend I still enjoy myself. Seems it's only guys Ive been with several times that seems to manage to push the right buttons.

Can always get off on the best bits later on

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do you not orgasm from oral then Cali?

Wasn't suggesting you should follow that path again just chucking ideas out there."

I have done when sucking cock but it's still rare. I meant more when having sex although I kinda had lots this evening lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It takes me a long time to cum when with someone, I class myself as hard work. Lol. There has only ever been one man who has fully satisfied me, but the beauty of swinging is that I can get different things off different people, and recently have found I am orgasming with meets more than I have before. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i use to walk away from meets still with bags of energy for use of a better word.

but as long as you enjoyed it and each other thats all that matters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It all depends how good they are skill wise but usually its a yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always come. I'd be gutted if I couldn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (fem) always do(lots) If I didn't we wouldn't do this!

I bet very few men have said they don't!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I don't always cum with other men during meets but as my OH is always there then we always play together and I always cum then. Or he'll help a guy to make me cum. He cums with meets even less than I do.

Its not a necessity for us as the reason we swing is watching each other or playing in a group, doing different things that two people can't achieve, the cuming is not important as I know as soon as the OH touches me I will. Perhaps its a mind over matter thing and I'm used to the way he does things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it much harder to cum during meets - I always cum with my hubby. I can only ever cum clitorally.

I assume it that either my meets don't know how my body works (I cum through gentle rubbing and cannot cum through oral or penetration) or perhaps I am not as relaxed during meets as I am with my hubby.

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