FabSwingers.com forum: Love?

By *_EightPlus OP Man
over a year ago

Bedford

Can you find love on this site?

I don’t seem to find anyone in the real world with the same drive and links as me so was wondering if you could find love on here. Not sure I’d share my Mrs but just someone that is as naughty as myself.

Do you think you could meet someone on here and genuinely trust them in the future?

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By *_EightPlus OP Man
over a year ago

Bedford

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By *_EightPlus OP Man
over a year ago

Bedford

Kinks even

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think many of people have found love on here and got married from what I've read, think there's a thread on it if you do a search on the search bar.

Also just because people are swingers don't mean they can't be trusted, you'd just build what you have and swing together if that's what you wanted to do.

Of course everyone is different though.

Miss S x

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By *_EightPlus OP Man
over a year ago

Bedford

Ok thanks I will have a look. Thanks for your reply. I would ideally want a relationship but also enjoy being here so catch 22 haha

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By *oly Fuck Sticks BatmanCouple
over a year ago

here & there

There’s always a chance! You never know what might happen.

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By *_EightPlus OP Man
over a year ago

Bedford

I’ll keep my fingers crossed. Love the new profile pic. You look as amazing as ever x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

aye, it's absolutely possible..

i met the love of my life here

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By *_EightPlus OP Man
over a year ago

Bedford

Oh brilliant. I’m happy for you. There’s hope for me yet x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can you find love on this site?

Do you think you could meet someone on here and genuinely trust them in the future?"

I wouldn't trust someone on here for a proper relationship.

Loads of people do meet their partners on here and are very happy.

What would you do if you found your ideal woman on here but she still wanted to fuck around?

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

"Can you find love on this site?

Do you think you could meet someone on here and genuinely trust them in the future?"

OP, forgive me if I have the wrong end of the stick here, but you want to meet someone who is:

On this site

As naughty as you

Will share you

But you won’t allow her to be shared?

Doesn’t that sound a little one-sided and controlling??

Happy to be corrected if I’ve misunderstood.

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By *_EightPlus OP Man
over a year ago

Bedford

If she’s my ideal woman but wanted to carry on then I’d happily be in an open relationship and would no doubt still love her. Would be new to me but would give it a go for the right woman

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By *_EightPlus OP Man
over a year ago

Bedford

No mate I mean could you meet someone on here and move away from swinging or would you just find someone and continue to have an open relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I assumed you'd find a woman and swing together as a couple, that's how I read it anyway.

Miss S x

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By *_EightPlus OP Man
over a year ago

Bedford

I’m open to both to be honest. I don’t think I could meet someone on here and expect them to stop. I’m not sure I would either. I was just curious if it happens

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By *arleyQuinnandTheJokerCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

We met on site as singles, now we meet as a couple

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By *_EightPlus OP Man
over a year ago

Bedford

Miss S, would be a pleasure to swing with you if you are interested x

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By *_EightPlus OP Man
over a year ago

Bedford

I’m glad to see people have found love and can continue in the scene. There is hope for me yet haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Miss S, would be a pleasure to swing with you if you are interested x"

Not to be rude. But you do know how to click a profile and read it right?

Miss S x

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

"No mate I mean could you meet someone on here and move away from swinging or would you just find someone and continue to have an open relationship "

Fair enough. Good luck in your search but I’d say the odds are stacked against you! Finding someone with whom you click enough to see repeatedly is tough, let alone the elusive L. But hope springs eternal!

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By *_EightPlus OP Man
over a year ago

Bedford

I’ll be honest, I just looked at your pictures but i just looked. You do look amazing though and your are a beautiful couple

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By *_EightPlus OP Man
over a year ago

Bedford

Yes I get that mate I do. Hard work being a straight, single guy on here but I meet one couple regularly

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

"Yes I get that mate I do. Hard work being a straight, single guy on here but I meet one couple regularly "

If you hit ‘reply + quote’ we’ll know who you’re replying to

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By *_EightPlus OP Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"Yes I get that mate I do. Hard work being a straight, single guy on here but I meet one couple regularly

If you hit ‘reply + quote’ we’ll know who you’re replying to

Sorry mate my first feed lol. Pretty new to it all really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"aye, it's absolutely possible..

i met the love of my life here

meet too

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By *irkby coupleCouple
over a year ago

Kirkby

Love isn’t all it’s cracked up to be.

I bet most couples (not just on here) if they are brutally honest, are together for the family or can’t afford to move on alone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Love isn’t all it’s cracked up to be.

I bet most couples (not just on here) if they are brutally honest, are together for the family or can’t afford to move on alone."

I don't think that's entirely true. Definitely not for our case anyway.

I'd hope it isn't for "most" as you say either as that's sad.

Miss S x

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By *carletnsparksMan
over a year ago

halifax

"Can you find love on this site?

Do you think you could meet someone on here and genuinely trust them in the future?

I wouldn't trust someone on here for a proper relationship.

Loads of people do meet their partners on here and are very happy.

What would you do if you found your ideal woman on here but she still wanted to fuck around? "

Maybe create a couple's profile and do it together?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I played solo for 13 year's then last August 1 meet and that was that. I would never entertained relationships before on fab, so it can and does happen.

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By *_EightPlus OP Man
over a year ago

Bedford

It’s nice to see it has worked for so many people. Would be nice to find the same

Communication is key in a relationship so as long as you are both clear on your intentions then I don’t see why I can’t work

I wouldn’t say love is over rated but in my case I’ve kind of gave up on the idea and I think any people feel the same. Pain hurts and in this world there’s no of that unless it’s what you’re into haha so I guess it works for a lot of people too

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By *oly Fuck Sticks BatmanCouple
over a year ago

here & there

"No mate I mean could you meet someone on here and move away from swinging or would you just find someone and continue to have an open relationship "

A relationship that includes swinging and an open relationship are 2 different things in my opinion

I love my man and would never entertain an open relationship, I'm too territorial. For us fab is a bonus to our relationship we've met some fantastic people, but i wouldn't be in relationship with anyone else

You can be totally in love with one person and enjoy having sex with others

Sweet xx

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By *oolkoupleCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

We did.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ll be honest, I just looked at your pictures but i just looked. You do look amazing though and your are a beautiful couple "

You need to read profiles, not just look at pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can you find love on this site?

Do you think you could meet someone on here and genuinely trust them in the future?

I wouldn't trust someone on here for a proper relationship.

Loads of people do meet their partners on here and are very happy.

What would you do if you found your ideal woman on here but she still wanted to fuck around?

Maybe create a couple's profile and do it together?"

He said he wasn't sure if he could share his Mrs.

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By *orkshrCplCouple
over a year ago

Ripon

Lots have found love on here

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By *amantMan
over a year ago

Alnmouth

The litmus test would be finding example of a couple, or group, who met on here and are still together many many years later, say 15 years. I'd like to think a couple (or group) who've shared their love for that long would be less likely to break up in future than a couple (or group) that had professed love for a year or two, or whatever. Maybe it has happened but I would personally doubt it. Stranger things have happened though.

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By *_EightPlus OP Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"No mate I mean could you meet someone on here and move away from swinging or would you just find someone and continue to have an open relationship

A relationship that includes swinging and an open relationship are 2 different things in my opinion

You can be totally in love with one person and enjoy having sex with others

Sweet xx "

Yes that makes a lot more sense. I guess I’m just trying to work out what it is I actually want. I’m sure I’ll get there. It’s all part of learning xx

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By *_EightPlus OP Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"I’ll be honest, I just looked at your pictures but i just looked. You do look amazing though and your are a beautiful couple

You need to read profiles, not just look at pics.

I missed that it stated gay in your description but there was nothing but pictures on your profile so didn’t have much to see

Sorry for the misunderstanding x

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By *_EightPlus OP Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"The litmus test would be finding example of a couple, or group, who met on here and are still together many many years later, say 15 years. I'd like to think a couple (or group) who've shared their love for that long would be less likely to break up in future than a couple (or group) that had professed love for a year or two, or whatever. Maybe it has happened but I would personally doubt it. Stranger things have happened though. "

I guess it just genuinely depends on you and the person you are with. If you find a person with the same interest in swinging but you both truly love each other then I don’t have any doubt that it could work

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By *_EightPlus OP Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"We did.

Great news, very happy for you both x

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By *carletnsparksMan
over a year ago

halifax

"Can you find love on this site?

Do you think you could meet someone on here and genuinely trust them in the future?

I wouldn't trust someone on here for a proper relationship.

Loads of people do meet their partners on here and are very happy.

What would you do if you found your ideal woman on here but she still wanted to fuck around?

Maybe create a couple's profile and do it together?

He said he wasn't sure if he could share his Mrs. "

Not sure and not willing to are two different things, we all had these worries I guess when started out.

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By *carletnsparksMan
over a year ago

halifax

I met my partner of 12 years on a site like this one and we are no longer only due to her passing away. We had to give up the life style due to her illness but had a couple of years of fun.

As another poster said open relationship and swinging one together are two different things in my opinion too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can you find love on this site?

Do you think you could meet someone on here and genuinely trust them in the future?

I wouldn't trust someone on here for a proper relationship.

Loads of people do meet their partners on here and are very happy.

What would you do if you found your ideal woman on here but she still wanted to fuck around?

Maybe create a couple's profile and do it together?

He said he wasn't sure if he could share his Mrs.

Not sure and not willing to are two different things, we all had these worries I guess when started out."

Fair point..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ll be honest, I just looked at your pictures but i just looked. You do look amazing though and your are a beautiful couple

You need to read profiles, not just look at pics.

I missed that it stated gay in your description but there was nothing but pictures on your profile so didn’t have much to see

Sorry for the misunderstanding x"

No worries. X

Maybe try socials. If you're not sure about sharing, maybe don't try clubs.

People who meet via Fab can still be monogamous but kinky too.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Yep ,I met my other half here over 7 years ago & trust him

We have a joint profile as well as our single ones .

He's had meets with other women and couples & as long as I know about it ,it's cool with me.

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By *_EightPlus OP Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"I’ll be honest, I just looked at your pictures but i just looked. You do look amazing though and your are a beautiful couple

You need to read profiles, not just look at pics.

I missed that it stated gay in your description but there was nothing but pictures on your profile so didn’t have much to see

Sorry for the misunderstanding x

No worries. X

Maybe try socials. If you're not sure about sharing, maybe don't try clubs.

People who meet via Fab can still be monogamous but kinky too.

I honestly don’t mind sharing I just meant if was in a relationship could I share. Im not sure but I do enjoy a group meet etc.

I suppose it really does matter who you meet

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By *_EightPlus OP Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"Yep ,I met my other half here over 7 years ago & trust him

We have a joint profile as well as our single ones .

He's had meets with other women and couples & as long as I know about it ,it's cool with me."

That is great. It’s something I think I would want. Just asking for options, obviously it boils down to myself but I’m trying to figure it out that’s all

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By *_EightPlus OP Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"I met my partner of 12 years on a site like this one and we are no longer only due to her passing away. We had to give up the life style due to her illness but had a couple of years of fun.

As another poster said open relationship and swinging one together are two different things in my opinion too."

Thank you for your response mate. I’m sorry to hear about your loss but I’m glad you got to make the most of your time together. Sending my love mate

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By *_EightPlus OP Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"Can you find love on this site?

Do you think you could meet someone on here and genuinely trust them in the future?

I wouldn't trust someone on here for a proper relationship.

Loads of people do meet their partners on here and are very happy.

What would you do if you found your ideal woman on here but she still wanted to fuck around?

Maybe create a couple's profile and do it together?

He said he wasn't sure if he could share his Mrs.

Not sure and not willing to are two different things, we all had these worries I guess when started out."

This is exactly where I’m at

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By *ieselJuiceMan
over a year ago

Stratford

I think there is a chance mate. I myself nearly scored on here quite a long time ago, but ever so slightly missed out, turns out that she wanted a visa. So I chipped!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We did! Many years ago, met here as singles, became FWB, fell in love, got married, had children and we’ve now popped back

Not saying it happens often, but it can happen

Mrs

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By *_EightPlus OP Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"We did! Many years ago, met here as singles, became FWB, fell in love, got married, had children and we’ve now popped back

Not saying it happens often, but it can happen

Mrs "

That is honestly great news. It shows it can definitely work. I’m certainly up for the idea of it and do believe it’s something I could do.

People have made some great points and I want to say thank you to you all. I honestly is helping with me working out what I want so thanks again

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By *_EightPlus OP Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"I think there is a chance mate. I myself nearly scored on here quite a long time ago, but ever so slightly missed out, turns out that she wanted a visa. So I chipped!"

Hahahahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Love isn’t all it’s cracked up to be.

I bet most couples (not just on here) if they are brutally honest, are together for the family or can’t afford to move on alone."

i agree bored at home

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