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By *ames250122 OP   Man
over a year ago

Worcester

So since joining here I’ve learnt a lot and just want to say that all the couples that enjoy the above, that I’ve had the joy to chat with. They have a very deep, loving relationship built on mutual love and respect for each other.

One thing though that has stuck in my mind for a few now, was a post a husband shared on another site a few years back about his situation. Assuming for a moment it wasn’t just made up for some kind of rise. He said part of him got really turned on by being cuckholded and helping his wife get ready before she went out to meet other guys. Would masturbate thinking about it while she was out. The way this came about, didn’t really ring true, her saying she kind of demanding to see other men and not wanting to lose her, he went along and in part enjoyed it. Another part of him got insecure, felt sick, shell-shocked and lost.

Now to be me the obvious answer was he really needs to talk to his wife. As mentioned, even during such meets, it’s always filled me with warmth when I see the wife checking their partner is ok and just reaffirming with their partner it is they as a couple, then they love and care about first and nothing else. Where with him, some part of him was struggling with it.

That lead me thinking about power dynamics in couples and to me it’s the cuckhold or the sub that set the rules on what they’re ok with their partner doing? Also for those who partner the cuckhold and they don’t play with others. If they came to you one day and said they wanted to play with someone else alone or you watch, would you be ok with that?

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By *ames250122 OP   Man
over a year ago

Worcester

pushing/ boosting lol

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By *heBlowinsCouple
over a year ago

West Cork

Some people take their cuckold/humiliation kink very seriously, both in and out of the bedroom - entirely depends on the couple.

It might look strange or abusive sometimes to outsiders (and it possibly could be) but often it's part of their agreed upon boundaries.

Checking to see if the husband is ok in the middle of a session isn't necessary for some folks as they have a solid understanding and bond that isn't going to be shaken by a few minutes with someone else in the room.

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By *heBlowinsCouple
over a year ago

West Cork

In a healthy cuckolding relationship, both parties communicate and decide what their boundaries are, just like with any other scenario/dynamic. If one party is not consenting, that's a fault in the relationship and has nothing to do with the cuck kink (or any other kink)

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By *heBlowinsCouple
over a year ago

West Cork

All that being said.. would absolutely love when K tells me she wants to fuck other people.. we're in a stag/vixen dynamic and I wholeheartedly encourage her to be more active

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most strong couples will have private way telling each other there happy not happy etc.

When I was with a ex only problem we ever had was one extra male we met could not or refused to understand we both 100% together on things we did. He fully believed I could not satisfy my partner. I think a lot of single males don't understand relationships how there work

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By *heBlowinsCouple
over a year ago

West Cork


"I think a lot of single males don't understand relationships how there work "

This ^^

They see what's presented to them or see what porn shows them and don't see the behind the scenes stuff that makes the relationship tick

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By *rOralMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"In a healthy cuckolding relationship, both parties communicate and decide what their boundaries are, just like with any other scenario/dynamic. If one party is not consenting, that's a fault in the relationship and has nothing to do with the cuck kink (or any other kink)"

This.

I’ve been lucky enough to met a few Cuck/Hotwife couples in the past and the only thing they have in common is both of them enjoying a third one steping in (male obviously).

I believe What varys between these couples is what boundaries they both set and agreed to interact with the so called Bull.

And that only depends on what each couple enjoy the most.

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

I met a cuckold couple on a regular basis before and their dynamic was he was very sub to both her and me and loved humiliation.

He would be caged a few days before and after the meet.

But from getting to know them both, and I probably chatted to the cuck more between meets than the wife,I could see how much he loved it all and also how strong a couple they were.

It was fantastic to witness and be lucky enough to be part of it all.

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester


"Most strong couples will have private way telling each other there happy not happy etc.

When I was with a ex only problem we ever had was one extra male we met could not or refused to understand we both 100% together on things we did. He fully believed I could not satisfy my partner. I think a lot of single males don't understand relationships how there work "

Again this!

We're not cuckold but understand the dynamic..

Have experienced a guy trying to assert dominance over Mr while involved in an threesome, suggesting I was unsatisfied, he could give me what I was missing etc..

We ignored it initially, but once he became emboldened he was told straight.

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By *heBlowinsCouple
over a year ago

West Cork


"Most strong couples will have private way telling each other there happy not happy etc.

When I was with a ex only problem we ever had was one extra male we met could not or refused to understand we both 100% together on things we did. He fully believed I could not satisfy my partner. I think a lot of single males don't understand relationships how there work

Again this!

We're not cuckold but understand the dynamic..

Have experienced a guy trying to assert dominance over Mr while involved in an threesome, suggesting I was unsatisfied, he could give me what I was missing etc..

We ignored it initially, but once he became emboldened he was told straight."

Oof absolutely hate when a guy tries this.. it's rare but when it happens you're just like... DUDE.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All that being said.. would absolutely love when K tells me she wants to fuck other people.. we're in a stag/vixen dynamic and I wholeheartedly encourage her to be more active "

Yes absolutely! We’re developing a stag/vixen dynamic too and solid communication and boundaries are key. We discuss things on a very regular basis as small things can change after a meet.

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By *heBlowinsCouple
over a year ago

West Cork


"All that being said.. would absolutely love when K tells me she wants to fuck other people.. we're in a stag/vixen dynamic and I wholeheartedly encourage her to be more active

Yes absolutely! We’re developing a stag/vixen dynamic too and solid communication and boundaries are key. We discuss things on a very regular basis as small things can change after a meet."

This is the way

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester


"Most strong couples will have private way telling each other there happy not happy etc.

When I was with a ex only problem we ever had was one extra male we met could not or refused to understand we both 100% together on things we did. He fully believed I could not satisfy my partner. I think a lot of single males don't understand relationships how there work

Again this!

We're not cuckold but understand the dynamic..

Have experienced a guy trying to assert dominance over Mr while involved in an threesome, suggesting I was unsatisfied, he could give me what I was missing etc..

We ignored it initially, but once he became emboldened he was told straight.

Oof absolutely hate when a guy tries this.. it's rare but when it happens you're just like... DUDE. "

Entirely and a far from accurate assumption too as he was shown..

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London


"Most strong couples will have private way telling each other there happy not happy etc.

When I was with a ex only problem we ever had was one extra male we met could not or refused to understand we both 100% together on things we did. He fully believed I could not satisfy my partner. I think a lot of single males don't understand relationships how there work

Again this!

We're not cuckold but understand the dynamic..

Have experienced a guy trying to assert dominance over Mr while involved in an threesome, suggesting I was unsatisfied, he could give me what I was missing etc..

We ignored it initially, but once he became emboldened he was told straight."
Did you show him the door or did he apologise and play the way you both like?

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

He acknowledged and adjusted in fairness, we've had boundaries tested and occasionally crossed on other occasions and while we don't wish start a gender debate, in our opinion it does seem to be a male trait to assume I require an alpha Dom as Mr has a very approachable and endearing persona. His dominant side is private to us

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By *ackieSteveCouple
over a year ago

Newbridge

We live a full cuck/hotwife lifestyle. Steve is locked in chastity 24/7 but our relationship is a full 50/50. No one really dominant. If I didn't want something he wouldn't do it, if he didn't want something I wouldn't do it. Communication is key.

It's just how our dynamic works.

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London


"He acknowledged and adjusted in fairness, we've had boundaries tested and occasionally crossed on other occasions and while we don't wish start a gender debate, in our opinion it does seem to be a male trait to assume I require an alpha Dom as Mr has a very approachable and endearing persona. His dominant side is private to us "
Was this at a club or had youn discussed how you like to play with him before meeting?

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London


"We live a full cuck/hotwife lifestyle. Steve is locked in chastity 24/7 but our relationship is a full 50/50. No one really dominant. If I didn't want something he wouldn't do it, if he didn't want something I wouldn't do it. Communication is key.

It's just how our dynamic works.

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From the cuckold couples I've met, one of the things that has stood out is how well they communicate with each other but to me also. From chatting to them both when getting to know them, to arranging a meet, through to after a meet. How well they communicate has been key to it especially when dicussing dynamic and what both partners like.

You have a fantastic profile and I hope you manage to go the full of 2023!

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By *damsmith12233Man
over a year ago

leicester

Speaking as a single guy It’s a privilege to be invited in to join a couple regardless of the dynamics and clear boundaries should always be spoken about beforehand and those that don’t or try it on are disrespectful (politely put)

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

you have real cuckold couples those that really live the lifestyle ..you have fantasy/roleplay cuckold and then you have the rest who are mainly men pretending to be cuckold couples between the real and the fantasy each and every couples will be different and rightly so as its about 2 people and their kinks ... the rest is rubbish its porn talk men wanking while's pretending he a couple id say anything from 25 to 40% cuckold couples on here are fake or ex couples where the woman no longer plays ...

the only way anyone is going to understand a cuckold couple is in the flesh and then what they learn will apply to that couple only

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple
over a year ago

Cumbria

We have experimented with cuckolding, it's always been a fantasy of mine in particular but she too enjoys the humiliation and intensity aspects as much as me. The trouble we have encountered is that we haven't been able to find a man who is better than I am at sex. Yes, there are men who are bigger but not better.

I think part of this is down to their presence, or lack thereof in some respects. It's more than just having a big cock and suggesting I wear panties (please get some imagination!) there's just a lack of really charismatic dominant men out there who do it for both of us.

I do still enjoy seeing her fucked by another man or woman, holding her in my arms as she orgasms is incredible but we are transitioning more into a stag/vixen sort of thing I suppose.

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

I'm in a Cuckold relationship, and we have enjoyed the lifestyle for many years.

Recently I've experienced the "CuckCake" side of the lifestyle after meeting a Cuckqueen couple.

I've always felt empowered by my own cuckold marriage and now having played the part of the Bull with another couple I've experienced for myself the feeling of power and control that a Bull enjoys with my own cuckold husband .

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By *ames250122 OP   Man
over a year ago

Worcester

Thank you everyone for sharing your Incredible stories and insights. I’m no expert as I’ve only experienced it as the third person. However from that perspective, communication and strength as a couple was what seemed to be key to me too but never really, properly asked. It does sound especially bad when the third person doesn’t get or respect couples as a couple or their boundaries. Though I love reading when those instances does happen they quickly got slapped down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All that being said.. would absolutely love when K tells me she wants to fuck other people.. we're in a stag/vixen dynamic and I wholeheartedly encourage her to be more active

Yes absolutely! We’re developing a stag/vixen dynamic too and solid communication and boundaries are key. We discuss things on a very regular basis as small things can change after a meet."

This is the route we are hoping to go down, when first bringing this up it was along the cuckold line which is still a turn on (certain things) but I think S&V is more for us and since discussing it openly and our boundaries its really helped. Hopefully have our first meet soon and then we can take it from there and see what we liked and/or want to change in the future.

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