FabSwingers.com forum: What got you into the lifestyle..

By *G8couple OP Couple
over a year ago

Nottm.

Whilst me and my hubby were living together the subject arose as on one occasion when we broke up I had a night with a door knocking insurance man. Felt guilty in the morning as it was a case of getting him out the house asap. Two weeks before our wedding I told my husband that is today about that night when we were not together as I didn't want him marrying me if it was ever known and the questions starts getting asked (yes I know we were at that time not together but I believe in truth which encourages trust). The reaction was only what I can say as positive, he told me that on the night we split he went into town and a lady took him back to hers and he did stay over. His response when we were upfront with eachother was that we had both come out of broken marriages both being cheated on by our previous other halves so how did I feel about maybe a lifestyle such as swinging. I was more than happy with this as we decided we would play as a couple so no secrets. Two months after getting married we had our first mmf meet and a few more followed before then meeting couples. Never looked back you only live once

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

When I was a teenager and bored my friend suggested we go to an orgy. Never looked back.

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By *icknHMan
over a year ago

Ilfracombe

Lived a 10min walk away from a club in Dagenham called the Paradise Spa. Passed it many many times before my curiosity and the horn got the better of me and I popped in one night after a few post-work drinks on the way home.

OMG…..what an eye opener !

Always liked clubs since (except one).

Lovely people, horny times. What more can you ask.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Marriage breakdown during COVID..

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

We met on FL it seemed a natural transition, also my partner is insatiable so helps her out.

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

"When I was a teenager and bored my friend suggested we go to an orgy. Never looked back."

Nothing like a baptism of fire!! I hope you look back occasionally, eye contact is hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We did a naughty wish list one new years eve and going to a sex club was one of them.

We eventually went to OP4F after several months reading reviews on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My parents were old skool swingers, which used to organise parties when my dad was a soldier, then suggested I get on fab after a relationship break up 6 years ago

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

"When I was a teenager and bored my friend suggested we go to an orgy. Never looked back.

Nothing like a baptism of fire!! I hope you look back occasionally, eye contact is hot

Only if I like the face back there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With a previous relationship, she wanted to have experiences with girls, so we started there and it gradually got more saucy from there. Split up and stuff but I still enjoy the lifestyle, so I came back.

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By *aughty VicarMan
over a year ago

Bamber Bridge, P R E S T O N, Lancashire

Contact magazines

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

"When I was a teenager and bored my friend suggested we go to an orgy. Never looked back.

Nothing like a baptism of fire!! I hope you look back occasionally, eye contact is hot

Only if I like the face back there."

Oh. *checks cupboard for celebrity masks…*

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

A Swinger / Naturist cruise .. Florida to Mexico.. went with an open mind .. loved it .. found out swingers came from all walks of life and had many levels of experience and on varied journeys in the lifestyle

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By *irkby coupleCouple
over a year ago

Kirkby

Seen a story in the paper, joined to have a look and it kinda went from there.

We are not hardend swingers, just occasionally arrange something. The amount of wasters put us off.

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By *eregrinosCouple
over a year ago

chorley

A friend we knew went to a club with her fella, asked us if we'd come along..

Out of curiosity we went... a light blue touch paper moment

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I got led astray by the first lady I met after my long marriage ended.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A friend suggested it after I came out of a long marriage.

It was perfect. Lots of fun

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By *lirtyAndFunCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

Over the years J had a few naughty experiences with random guys in nightclubs & I found it turned me on more each time. She was never into the idea of swinging but her sex drive was growing more & more.

Mainly it was the idea of being unfaithful that she struggled with once we saw eye to eye that I want to see her with guys & she gets all the sex she would ever need, we never looked back.

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell

Pre-internet, I used phone chatlines to arrange occasional late-night hook-ups - one evening, the woman who'd just invited me to visit her asked if her husband could watch...

....I wrote a detailed account here:

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/stories/1067833

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

Mainly for the chat and social side nothing better than going to a club and talking to a sexy woman half naked it keeps you at ease and if anything happens that’s a bonus plus you know that they are old enough to be in there

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By *hisismeXXXMan
over a year ago

Welsh Wales

"A friend we knew went to a club with her fella, asked us if we'd come along..

Out of curiosity we went... a light blue touch paper moment

When me and the ex wife were finding our feet in the world (I’d swung previously with an ex and as single guy), the wife was reticent about visiting a a sex club for obvious reasons.

Her best friend was a navy wife in Plymouth and I always remember her coming off the phone one day ‘OMG you’ve got to hear this’.

Her friend and her husband had been to the annual Westward Bound rubber ball in Plymouth with her work friend and husband after they asked if they wanted to go. They had a great time and went regularly to the ball after that. We don’t think they ever swung, but would often talk to us about the ball etc

I think that normalised clubs almost for my wife and encouraged her to attend with me (Xtasia became the club of choice almost 20 years ago now).

We never played with the friends but I’ll always be grateful to them!

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By *edonistalMan
over a year ago

West Herts

A long sexless marriage came to an end and I wanted to meet women who enjoy sex, so went on Adult Hub. Met a hardened swinger lady who just wanted sex, gave me a great review, but then said she'd fallen for me and went all jealous and wanted to settle down and be monogamous. Her review led me to other women and that led me to here!

Being honest, it's hard going on here as a single man though and I would really like to meet a woman who enjoys the lifestyle and explore it together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I was a teenager and bored my friend suggested we go to an orgy. Never looked back."

Wish I had friends that sexually open heh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I was a teenager and bored my friend suggested we go to an orgy. Never looked back.

Wish I had friends that sexually open heh."

I'm just very open minded and love sex, so I guess that's self explanatory really. Just wanna enjoy it with other like-minded people.

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By *ine TimeMan
over a year ago

Grantham

Driving home after some time away with work I stopped overnight with a mate and his mrs. We had a few drinks, not too many, and eventually she disappeared upstairs, I assumed to bed. So I was surprised when she came back downstairs ten minutes later completely naked. She sat with him, they kissed, and then he offered her to me. The next couple of hours were amazing. 18 months later I married my first wife and I returned the favour to my mate, allowing him to screw my wife. We had a few incredibly erotic foursomes after that, fully bisexual all round, mo limits and completely unprotected sex. Unfortunately both our marriages failed but a couple of years ago I regained contact with my mates ex-mrs (funnily enough I lost contact with him years ago). We met, fucked, fucked again, and we still fuck regularly now. She’s one of my best mates, I love her to bits, and I’ve never had sex as good as I do with her. Absolutely amazing lady

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

I dont view my self in a lifestyle .as a single person I just see it simply I am enjoying casual sex with different people ..... just happens that swing sites/events often have easier odds at meeting like minded people than using conventional means ... not always the case though I find these days .. (I find fab quite slow for meeting females inti TS ). where as on another dating style site its been much faster easier .

If I was in a relationship though I would sack it all off to focus on that . I view my time on here simply as just treading water until the time comes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Came on here to sell my car , ended with emptied balls.

I still have the car though

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

"Came on here to sell my car , ended with emptied balls.

I still have the car though "

thats a good result tbh, cars are always needed to get around to next meet to empty your balls ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Came on here to sell my car , ended with emptied balls.

I still have the car though

thats a good result tbh, cars are always needed to get around to next meet to empty your balls .. "

very good point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Badger worked away a lot, and we would often be up late at night texting each other. During one naughty conversation, Pumpkin admitted fantasising about fucking other men when she masturbated. Badger’s response was ‘funnily enough I also fantasise about Pumpkin being fucked by other men’

We haven’t looked back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guilty (male half) , had been on before but with L we were on holiday and she got the attention of a younger guys’ve, we both loved her getting attention and when we got home I told her about fabs and we took some pics etc - here we are back after a wee break again x

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By *umbriaman1962Man
over a year ago

outside of penrith

Long since ex loved reading top shelf mags as much as I did

We read contact mags talked about things at first thought it only be soft swing but at first meet with a couple both had full sex and went from there. Did spit up I just met couple and odd lady since

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By *ice_genuine_guyMan
over a year ago

lincoln

An open mind wishing to explore. And good meets keep me here x

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By *aked2sumCouple
over a year ago

Coast

My mrs dragged me into kicking and screaming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No sex at home

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By *bostCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

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By *bostCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

Mrs wanted to have sex with women. Suggested here. I agreed after I let her twist my arm for half a second.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having been together pretty much from teenagers and knowing that we’ll be together till our dying days. Found it bizarre that we’ll never get to experience sex with anybody else and wondered what we’d be missing. So the seed was planted

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

"Having been together pretty much from teenagers and knowing that we’ll be together till our dying days. Found it bizarre that we’ll never get to experience sex with anybody else and wondered what we’d be missing. So the seed was planted

Exactly the same x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty amazing answer guys x

Exactly the same x"

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By *illloganMan
over a year ago

Essex

I put a profile up on a popular sex worker website (AW) at uni to make extra cash, the only bookings I took were couples, one mentioned this site (although said it was full of time wasters, hence paying me) joined up a few times over the years and here I am over 10 years later

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By *xfordjohnMan
over a year ago

Oxford

Great story, OP.

My then wife and I fantasised about having another man join us; it really turned her on but it remained a fantasy for years until, having had our kids, she was attracted to a guy and we decided to have a go. Never looked back and now I'm the single guy joining a couple and it's still great fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I was a teenager and bored my friend suggested we go to an orgy. Never looked back."

I assume you were just both very open with each other. How did that orgy go when you got to the event??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Contact magazines "

Wow. Remember them!

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By *ugarbearCouple
over a year ago

Tredegar

I got into this lifestyle because i loved fucking

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By *amhorniestMan
over a year ago

Surrey

"We met on FL it seemed a natural transition, also my partner is insatiable so helps her out. "

What's FL ?

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By *ee And MikeCouple
over a year ago

Cannock

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By *ee And MikeCouple
over a year ago

Cannock

We were reading articles on dogging in the Sunday newspapers in the early 1990’s when we were first married, we ventured up Cannock Chase one Saturday evening after a trip out to a couple of pubs, we met two respectful older guys who showed us the ropes and afterwards Dee decided that she enjoyed cocks other than mine !

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