FabSwingers.com forum: Is it us or ......

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

......are people lately just making a profile and/or expecting to meet on the day but when meets are planned for future you get let down too late to arrange anything!!!! Grrrr

Rant over sorry we feel better now lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had to let someone down today, feel really bad about it . Sometimes shit happens .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"......are people lately just making a profile and/or expecting to meet on the day but when meets are planned for future you get let down too late to arrange anything!!!! Grrrr

Rant over sorry we feel better now lol"

Stuff comes up I suppose - confirmation nearer the date is helpful. The other thing is that people change their minds for a number of reasons ...some not always given. Horny one day; not the next.

Try being a single man in here and you start to really understand the meaning of being let down lol

Nice bum by the way (female half)

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By *obbieCMan
over a year ago

Bridgwater

Not yet let anyone down....proud of my 100% record. I've been quite lucky as well as no one yet has let me down....hope I haven't spoken too soon lol gotta meet set for tomorrow, Sunday and NYE.........xx

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By *entkevMan
over a year ago

Dover

Ive yet to actually attend an arranged meet from this site, as ive had several arranged only to have the couples pull out on the day. I just stick to my club at present, its local, reliable and fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meets on the day aren't always that easy either

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex

We usually give people the benefit of the doubt once & mark them down as time wasters if they let us down again, we lead a busy life so we don't have time for wannabe cyber swingers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we cant make meetings genrally on the spur of the moment cos of various reasons - people we chat to with a view to meeting are more than made aware and mostly seem fine with it - so long as youre clear from the outset nobody can say youre nothing but honest and genuiine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always say kids and work come before swinging so if something comes up like one of us has been called into work at last min or one of kids were ill or if we got let down by a sitter then we wouldn't hesitate to cancel...

They come first to us and totally understand if someone cancels for any of those reasons x

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I think it's good manners to let people know asap if they can't make a meet. Everyone on here knows that unexpected things can get in the way of a meet. I take the 'goldfinger' stance - once is happenstance, twice is coincidence, three times is enemy action.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont arrange meets in advance, i have found that every time i have arranged a meet for in about 2/3 weeks in the future something always comes up and they cancel, i honestly believe its because they carry on looking and take a better offer if they get one, if you arrange a meet the day you want it it dont give them a chance to keep looking so less likely to cancel

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By *oulou45Woman
over a year ago

Bucks

I was let down tonite but as his someone I've met before I understand and know we will meet again. I should sign off as dame vera lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've had that happen to us and when that person cancelled I emailed back jokingly saying oh had a better offer and that person admitted they had.

That's why we tend to do more spur of moment meets x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

think your right kenters.

ive had people plan to meet me and organise the date so it suits them only for them to pull out close to the date.

even worse when you find they were playing you for a fool and had planned other meets that day.

so dont bother now.

ive learnt my lesson the hard way and i do understand now why some guys i know have turned their backs on this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"think your right kenters.

ive had people plan to meet me and organise the date so it suits them only for them to pull out close to the date.

even worse when you find they were playing you for a fool and had planned other meets that day.

so dont bother now.

ive learnt my lesson the hard way and i do understand now why some guys i know have turned their backs on this."

Happens to couples and fems too you know x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i dont arrange meets in advance, i have found that every time i have arranged a meet for in about 2/3 weeks in the future something always comes up and they cancel, i honestly believe its because they carry on looking and take a better offer if they get one, if you arrange a meet the day you want it it dont give them a chance to keep looking so less likely to cancel"

Pfft. No such thing as a better offer.

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