FabSwingers.com forum: Describe your lifestyle

By *arkhelga OP Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Describe your swinging lifestyle, is it fun is it occasional could you stop?Xx

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Under review would best describe it I think

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

I will inevitably stop in a year or two as age will dictate that, but I'm still attracting enough interest on and off of Fab that suggests an adventurous 2023

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By *ORBCouple
over a year ago

Dundalk

Paused indefinitely for personal reasons but could easily step away at any time as it's a tiny part of both our lives.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

Hi guys. Used to swing a lot and frequent clubs very regularly - but having been there, done that and got a wardrobe full of t-shirts I’ve toned down to the extent that I rarely meet.

I still attend the odd social and most of my best (platonic) friends were met at clubs and socials.

If I fall in love with someone who wants monogamy then monogamy it is - though he’d have to be damned good in bed.

I d much prefer to meet my significant other on here though and swing together occasionally/enjoy clubs and socials etc - but what others have found on here seems to elude me unfortunately - so I’ll probably try other dating sites this year.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"Under review would best describe it I think "

I hope you don’t leave the site if you stop swinging. I find you’re often the voice of reason on many posts - and I think you’d be missed. I’d certainly miss you. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s the cherry on the well iced cake.

Actual swinging - peaks and troughs depending on how we feel. We can take it or leave it but when we’re in a peak we do enjoy it! We do regularly go to a naturist spa where swinging happens but don’t ever go intending to play and hardly ever do.

We have only been to two parties since September and no meets which is very quiet for us but we got married in November so all energies were on that and then well … you’ve got to consummate lol!

Making plans for the next few months though …

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By *IG G77Man
over a year ago

GATLEY

Under review

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Under review would best describe it I think

I hope you don’t leave the site if you stop swinging. I find you’re often the voice of reason on many posts - and I think you’d be missed. I’d certainly miss you. Xx"

Thank you. That is genuinely appreciated

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

My approach to swinging lifestyle is:

It's just a bit of fun with likeminded folks

. Have a laugh, rock the bed, make some awesome memories along the way. Don't take this too serious, people have lifes off fab so no getting attached/clingy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes few and far between. Sometimes a bit more active and fun when it happens... I'll stick around for as long as it suits me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every few weeks, we don't set any rules at all and apart from safe play and we go with whatever we fancy. It's genuinely a fun hobby and nothing more. We see swinging as a team sport and that's exactly how we tackle the world too. Done right It's an amazing escape from the day to day of work and family life.

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

It is under review

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I don't really meet much as a single to be honest..

I hope to meet more and go to a few more clubs/events with my partner this year.He has had health issues that mean we've not been active since COVID started really.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

More poly than swing, happy and sustainable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Needs work is about right

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Occasional and fun, could stop any time it's not a huge part of our relationship just a little extra.

Mrs

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By *rC onlyMan
over a year ago

town

"I will inevitably stop in a year or two as age will dictate that, but I'm still attracting enough interest on and off of Fab that suggests an adventurous 2023"

Why would age dictate it? It’s obviously a personal preference but a more mature woman has so much more about her (generally)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here to chat only for now.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Not a swinger anymore but have open poly relationships , it’s extremely fulfilling sexually and relationally. Attend clubs occasionally for socialising only

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Under construction

Been pretty busy and obviously everything else that has went on didn't exactly help plus ongoing things

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By *uff and FruitCouple
over a year ago

ely

I've been on and off the scene for many years (Fruit here) in the hope to find the right guy but always aware that the right guy coming into my life wouldn't have boobs! Buff has chesticles as I call them and a very Buff shape which I'm attracted to.

Luckily he knows that I still need the feminine side of intimacy and he enjoys seeing me enjoy that.

We will both carry on as this lifestyle has been integral with us getting together and we both enjoy meeting new people.

Fruit xx

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By *rikki1967ukMan
over a year ago

peterborough

Non existence due to just over major illness. Looking to return slowly. Offers local would be appreciated

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

i/we live the lifestyle have done now 30 years its effortless ie it so easy and fits us really well .. we will carry on till such a day that we both or one of us says no .. can we give up ? yes easy because in those 30years nothing has ever been bigger than us for us its just been lots n lots of fun

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By *heffguy48Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

One word , catfish

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By *xfordjohnMan
over a year ago

Oxford

It's been an on and off thing for me over many years, and now I've found a couple who seem very comfortable with me and I with them, and we agree it's long term, I guess it's more poly than swinging as it's been a while since I met anyone else.

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

I'm not sure.. I probably won't for a few years yet. There are still so much I wanna venture and explore.. so for now, I'm gonna say no, i cant stop lol

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

Enjoying the social aspect of things, much too lazy to be properly active

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Love a party. End

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

(*pokes sex life with a stick*)

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By *acDreamyMan
over a year ago

Wirral

A bit poly, and fairly kinky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A cross between the last days of Caligula, Lord Of The Flies, and George & Mildred

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By *uiet confidenceMan
over a year ago

Warrington

Hamstrung is probably the word I’d use to describe my current situation. Being available for two elderly parents has meant I’ve had to cancel several club visits recently.

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By *helamontsCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Since getting back on here after covid ... It is non-existent

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By *ackonceagain321Couple
over a year ago

luton

I wouldn't class us a swingers .

I'd say more like conventional relationship with added occasional benefits ,

Could stop anytime but but the desire and memories wouldn't fade

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By *andk4fCouple
over a year ago

North cotswolds

Currently on hold whilst pregnant, but could step away totally if needed. But brings us both closer and adds a little spice to the relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some interesting answers on this thread.

Our couples profile is far less active than pre Covid times. We’ve found it difficult to muster up the enthusiasm that we used to have. A lot of friends are no longer meeting either.

This solo profile is mainly used for the forums although there’s one or two promising developments

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By *haggydogMan
over a year ago

Brooklands/London

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By *haggydogMan
over a year ago

Brooklands/London

It used to be busy, exciting and the stuff of dreams. These days it's a bit more.......tumble.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can take it or leave it, I do not meet that often really. I am busy all the time and carving out time for fun on fab is difficult.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fast becoming a memory...

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I would say it was a monthly thing. It is definitely an adjunct to my life but something I enjoy. Don’t take it too seriously and it is just a fun way to meet interesting couples and ladies.

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

We met here.

Our friends are here.

Can’t see us stopping.

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By *ucifer And MazikeenCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

We are 2 years into the lifestyle we started off slow with socials and a few clubs. Over our time time in the lifestyle we have had lots of amazing meets in clubs, hotels, bars and private parties. We enjoy the lifestyle the people we have met and we try to go to clubs around 3 times a month and privet meets in between. It’s not always play as we do love the social side as well.

For us we do not see ourselves stopping anytime soon we prefer a swinger night out to just going to the pub or a normal club as there is always trouble or drama.

Mazikeen x

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By *eedsmale36Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Bit of fun especially when away in hotels with work.

2 choices : slip my hand into a hot wife’s knickers as we kiss or 4 hours of Emmerdale, Eastenders and coronation street……shoot me now !

Any hot wife couples in Gloucester, Lancaster, Glenrothes, Glasgow, Edinburgh, Newcastle please feel free to get in touch

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