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By *owestoft Man OP   Man
over a year ago

Lowestoft

Hi All

Just putting it out there lol maybe a rant or just interested to know everyones feeling on the subject.

Im interested in knowing why so many couples and single females are always suggesting the single men are fake or not trustworthy.

My personal experience started while still married. My Ex did not enjoy going into chat rooms so it was left up to me to find and organise meets. Most of the couples and single females we met had very old pics on their profiles and were completely different to what we met. On the other hand some of the guys tended to talk the talk and not really want to meet in real. Chicken out lol.

But overall we found that it was the guys that were more reliable and rarely if ever have pics that weren't what we met.

But every guy we ever talked to said they found it very difficult on Adult sits as had a lot of nasty comments made and most would not meet with them.

From learning this when I became single I make sure I put the details of what I'm looking for and as much information about me as possible. This way when trying to find a female or couple we know from the start what we are both into. But saying that Im finding it very difficult to meet up.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

You are honest in your profile so people who arent looking for you won't contact so at least there's no time wasted. You have only had this profile for three weeks and unless you are extremely lucky its going to take some time to find meets on here.

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By *amspoonsMan
over a year ago

North East

I find that a large number of female / couple profiles are actually fake / men. I also find that lots of women on here to be rather strange. Lits of gaslighting and imagining red flags. A couple spring to mind, one who was chatting away to me and we were arranging to meet for a coffee. She wouldn't talk on the phone. Then she suddenly went weird with me, over a grammatical error. She said that was a "red flag" and clearly indicated more than one person was texting her and went batshit about how I am clearly a sexual predator.

Another one asked me how I felt about condoms. I said they are not my favourite but happy to wear one. She said thats great. I said that I do look after my sexual health, and had beeb recently tested. She then said that clearly means I am putting it about and cancelled the meet and called me all sorts of disgusting names.

The list goes on. This is a strange site.

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By *oly Fuck Sticks BatmanCouple
over a year ago

here & there


"

Im interested in knowing why so many couples and single females are always suggesting the single men are fake or not trustworthy.

"

Because it’s a learned experience, just like with everything in life - touch something hot, get burnt, oh don’t do that again.

We only meet single guys in clubs because of daydreamers, time wasters & fakes.

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By *amspoonsMan
over a year ago

North East


"

Im interested in knowing why so many couples and single females are always suggesting the single men are fake or not trustworthy.

Because it’s a learned experience, just like with everything in life - touch something hot, get burnt, oh don’t do that again.

We only meet single guys in clubs because of daydreamers, time wasters & fakes.

"

Works both ways, there are fakes on all sides. Doesnt take much to them out to be fair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't say men are fakes on here, if anything they're far more honest and straightforward than couples and women, but I personally have an issue with about 90% of the men that message due to them either not reading the profile, or just sending lazy or vulgar messages.

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By *oly Fuck Sticks BatmanCouple
over a year ago

here & there


"I wouldn't say men are fakes on here, if anything they're far more honest and straightforward than couples and women, but I personally have an issue with about 90% of the men that message due to them either not reading the profile, or just sending lazy or vulgar messages."

But it wouldn’t be fab without being told that I’m going to have my back doors smashed in at least once a day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't say men are fakes on here, if anything they're far more honest and straightforward than couples and women, but I personally have an issue with about 90% of the men that message due to them either not reading the profile, or just sending lazy or vulgar messages.

But it wouldn’t be fab without being told that I’m going to have my back doors smashed in at least once a day "

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By *iromancergirl1Woman
over a year ago

bolton


"I wouldn't say men are fakes on here, if anything they're far more honest and straightforward than couples and women, but I personally have an issue with about 90% of the men that message due to them either not reading the profile, or just sending lazy or vulgar messages.

But it wouldn’t be fab without being told that I’m going to have my back doors smashed in at least once a day "
or that they are going to ruin you

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We've found 95% of the men and couples we talk to are who they say they are. However being the internet we're wary, it's not mistrust it's sensible caution. If a man or a woman has a single profile for instance and wants is to meet someone who isn't on that profile we're understandably suspicious, if a straight couple want to meet us but won't provide pictures of the guy we're suspicious too.

Caveat emptor and all that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't say men are fakes on here, if anything they're far more honest and straightforward than couples and women, but I personally have an issue with about 90% of the men that message due to them either not reading the profile, or just sending lazy or vulgar messages."

We're happy for those messages, saves any upset in the future... our block button serves us well

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By *aximum_funMan
over a year ago

West Herts


"I wouldn't say men are fakes on here, if anything they're far more honest and straightforward than couples and women, but I personally have an issue with about 90% of the men that message due to them either not reading the profile, or just sending lazy or vulgar messages.

But it wouldn’t be fab without being told that I’m going to have my back doors smashed in at least once a day "

If only they realised how much it costs to replace a good set of back doors these days.

Oh wait, not those kind of back doors?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don’t chat to single men as we’re not looking for them, however, we’ve come across a few “fake” couples and women’s profiles in our time on here. I’d say each is as likely to be fake as the next. It’s a shame as it spoils it for the real people of fab

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single woman I’ve had my share or time wasters and ghosts. Not all on here obvs but it does make you very wary

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple
over a year ago

Cumbria

On our previous profile the first two arranged meets were with single men who backed out at the last minute, thankfully we did eventually find others who didn’t.

It’s not hard to see that there will be fantasists and flakes of all kinds on here, you’re more likely to find them in the type of people you are seeking, that just seems obvious.

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