FabSwingers.com forum: Unplanned meets

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So we love the idea and fantasy of swinging 'in the moment', for example meeting another couple on a night out and ending up in bed together, or being approached by guys in a hotel bar.

We see a lot of similar fantasies mentioned, but wondering how common it is with others

Have any of you guys had any great (or not so great!) Spontaneous hookups?!

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By *rodie568Couple
over a year ago

Cambridge

We have had two FFM threesomes that we’re completely unplanned lol. Happened before we joined this site on nights out one was a house party and the other out on the town. One thing lead to another and by the end of the night we all ended up in a taxi heading back to our house for some fun. Such fun night amazing but very rare x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We have had two FFM threesomes that we’re completely unplanned lol. Happened before we joined this site on nights out one was a house party and the other out on the town. One thing lead to another and by the end of the night we all ended up in a taxi heading back to our house for some fun. Such fun night amazing but very rare x "

Amazing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the idea of this scenario too but can't see it ever happening.

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

we had a couple of socials that got naughty

not quite random as you might mean, by nice surprizes any way

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

As we swing mainly in clubs (or at least we did before COVID) almost all our meets have been spontaneous and unplanned - I've fucked plenty of guys without even knowing their names.

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

"As we swing mainly in clubs (or at least we did before COVID) almost all our meets have been spontaneous and unplanned - I've fucked plenty of guys without even knowing their names. "

Wow you going to any clubs soon just asking

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By *lowhands7Man
over a year ago

South Leicestershire / Burton on Trent

"So we love the idea and fantasy of swinging 'in the moment', for example meeting another couple on a night out and ending up in bed together, or being approached by guys in a hotel bar.

Great thread, it too suspect it is mainly fantasy but we can all dream

We see a lot of similar fantasies mentioned, but wondering how common it is with others

Have any of you guys had any great (or not so great!) Spontaneous hookups?!"

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Carlisle

I tried to plan one of these… was a disaster!!

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By *enatton2Couple
over a year ago

West Midlands

We do this a lot, it really is an extra turn on knowing it’s unplanned but you also have to be careful because ‘vanilla’ world people don’t always have the same discretions and boundaries.

Our last night out got really awkward when the guy got very clingy, followed Tani to wait outside the toilets for her and was being very grabby and forceful. We left and it kind of killed our mood.

We have had some great unplanned meets though and we’ll be heading out for more soon.

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Carlisle

"We do this a lot, it really is an extra turn on knowing it’s unplanned but you also have to be careful because ‘vanilla’ world people don’t always have the same discretions and boundaries.

Our last night out got really awkward when the guy got very clingy, followed Tani to wait outside the toilets for her and was being very grabby and forceful. We left and it kind of killed our mood.

We have had some great unplanned meets though and we’ll be heading out for more soon. "

Behaviour like that needs stamping out- as you say its probably someone who has no clue of the acceptable behaviour - puts a lot of couples off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love the thought of this, but imagine the reality is very different...

Plus how the hell could it happen lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I tried to plan one of these… was a disaster!!

Haha this needs more details!

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By *agicroundabout3100Couple
over a year ago

Camberley

Would love to experience that......

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By *Vbi47Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Can’t beat the spontaneous meets

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We do this a lot, it really is an extra turn on knowing it’s unplanned but you also have to be careful because ‘vanilla’ world people don’t always have the same discretions and boundaries.

Our last night out got really awkward when the guy got very clingy, followed Tani to wait outside the toilets for her and was being very grabby and forceful. We left and it kind of killed our mood.

We have had some great unplanned meets though and we’ll be heading out for more soon. "

This is really bad, I guess outside of this world the boundaries are not so clear although I'd say we've had this kind of issue with people who should know better too!

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

This sounds really sexy and I'd love it to happen to me.

One way of achieving this would be, to spot a Fab female or couple that's close using the "who's near" function; then, log out of fab (so that I can't be identified as a Fabswinger) and chat them up without mentioning fab at all and then to see where it leads.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This sounds really sexy and I'd love it to happen to me.

It's a fun idea but I thought the location wasn't as accurate as that... We don't use it so not sure but would worry me if it did!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This sounds really sexy and I'd love it to happen to me.

We're definitely going to try this in the future

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So we love the idea and fantasy of swinging 'in the moment', for example meeting another couple on a night out and ending up in bed together, or being approached by guys in a hotel bar.

We see a lot of similar fantasies mentioned, but wondering how common it is with others

Have any of you guys had any great (or not so great!) Spontaneous hookups?!"

Some of my best nights from here have been last minute, there's something about the spontaneity that makes it more exciting, with long planned meets the excitement can sometimes disappear...

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By *hreesome loverMan
over a year ago

benfleet

My ex wife and me had a code, we used to go away for a lot of weekends in country house hotels, she knew I was always up for swinging but I never pressured her, if she said about a member of staff “I wonder what time they finish” that meant she was up for inviting him or her back to our room, we had a lot of fun!

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By *rKingsmanMan
over a year ago

Sutton

The majority of my meets have been spontaneous! Love a spontaneous meet

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

i would say this is how most real swingers meet ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have done it was really fun

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