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"I would be open to abuse Didn’t reply to a message bad veri left Had social went home decided it wasn’t for you bad veri left Don’t like the person so just leave a bad veri so other don’t meet them Didn’t come to mine at 2am in the morning bad veri left See how it can be abused " Exactly this plus some would team up with "friends" on here just to leave bad ones on people they don't like | |||
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"Wish we had the option to give someone a bad verification to show on their profile if someone is fake, a time waster or worse. I know we can report profiles… but I think having the ability to say negative about someone could warn others from making a mistake. " I been saying this for years, unfortunately it will never happen Very good idea though | |||
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"I would be open to abuse Didn’t reply to a message bad veri left Had social went home decided it wasn’t for you bad veri left Don’t like the person so just leave a bad veri so other don’t meet them Didn’t come to mine at 2am in the morning bad veri left See how it can be abused Exactly this plus some would team up with "friends" on here just to leave bad ones on people they don't like " Yip they would that | |||
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"I would be open to abuse Didn’t reply to a message bad veri left Had social went home decided it wasn’t for you bad veri left Don’t like the person so just leave a bad veri so other don’t meet them Didn’t come to mine at 2am in the morning bad veri left See how it can be abused " I’d like to think us all as adults and silly play ground tactics wouldn’t be used by being petty with stupid feedback such as what you listed …. But to warn others that someone is fake or a total time waster who plays games by catfishing. Really doesn’t help genuine people out there not knowing because I’m pretty sure so many people have had bad experiences | |||
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"I would be open to abuse Didn’t reply to a message bad veri left Had social went home decided it wasn’t for you bad veri left Don’t like the person so just leave a bad veri so other don’t meet them Didn’t come to mine at 2am in the morning bad veri left See how it can be abused I’d like to think us all as adults and silly play ground tactics wouldn’t be used by being petty with stupid feedback such as what you listed …. But to warn others that someone is fake or a total time waster who plays games by catfishing. Really doesn’t help genuine people out there not knowing because I’m pretty sure so many people have had bad experiences " You would think that But fabs the biggest playground going There’s so much pettiness on fab it’s totally unbelievable it I had to get in to it I am all for it would be a wonderful thing But without a way for it to be poileced then it would just get abused to the high heavens | |||
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"Wish we had the option to give someone a bad verification to show on their profile if someone is fake, a time waster or worse. I know we can report profiles… but I think having the ability to say negative about someone could warn others from making a mistake. " Shellebelle arranged to meet us, we booked a really expensive hotel and train tickets to get there, put our 6 children in private childcare for the weekend, our 14 poodles in the luxury kennels.....and when they turned up at the hotel room...they turned out to be two 80 year old twin brothers from Belgium called Fred and Bertrand. And one had no legs. A *obviously none of that is true....but do you see how open to abuse the system you want would be?  | |||
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"I name and shame on my profile. Sick of guys wasting my time and not turning up. Unfortunately I haven't done this since day 1. But many may not see it,but I feel better about doing it lol." Naming and shaming is against forum rules you will get a ban for doing it | |||
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"Wish we had the option to give someone a bad verification to show on their profile if someone is fake, a time waster or worse. I know we can report profiles… but I think having the ability to say negative about someone could warn others from making a mistake. Shellebelle arranged to meet us, we booked a really expensive hotel and train tickets to get there, put our 6 children in private childcare for the weekend, our 14 poodles in the luxury kennels.....and when they turned up at the hotel room...they turned out to be two 80 year old twin brothers from Belgium called Fred and Bertrand. And one had no legs. A *obviously none of that is true....but do you see how open to abuse the system you want would be? "That!   | |||
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"Agreed - maybe if there was a way to write this to the fab admin, and if they received more than 3, they issue a warning to the person? " You can report profiles already. Admin look at all reports and if a pattern occurs I'm sure they'd act on it. People need to remember they're responsible for their own safety, actions, decisions and doing what they can to minimise the risk of a no show. The site just enables contact. It doesn't manage it, nor is it responsible i any way when things go tits up. We're all adults capable of taking precautions. A | |||
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"Agreed - maybe if there was a way to write this to the fab admin, and if they received more than 3, they issue a warning to the person? You can report profiles already. Admin look at all reports and if a pattern occurs I'm sure they'd act on it. People need to remember they're responsible for their own safety, actions, decisions and doing what they can to minimise the risk of a no show. The site just enables contact. It doesn't manage it, nor is it responsible i any way when things go tits up. We're all adults capable of taking precautions. A"
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"Agreed - maybe if there was a way to write this to the fab admin, and if they received more than 3, they issue a warning to the person? You can report profiles already. Admin look at all reports and if a pattern occurs I'm sure they'd act on it. People need to remember they're responsible for their own safety, actions, decisions and doing what they can to minimise the risk of a no show. The site just enables contact. It doesn't manage it, nor is it responsible i any way when things go tits up. We're all adults capable of taking precautions. A
It's not a babysitting service!"That would actually be more use than the ability to leave negative feedback.....
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"Wish we had the option to give someone a bad verification to show on their profile if someone is fake, a time waster or worse. I know we can report profiles… but I think having the ability to say negative about someone could warn others from making a mistake. Shellebelle arranged to meet us, we booked a really expensive hotel and train tickets to get there, put our 6 children in private childcare for the weekend, our 14 poodles in the luxury kennels.....and when they turned up at the hotel room...they turned out to be two 80 year old twin brothers from Belgium called Fred and Bertrand. And one had no legs. A *obviously none of that is true....but do you see how open to abuse the system you want would be? "That’s brilliant  | |||
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" People need to remember they're responsible for their own safety, actions, decisions and doing what they can to minimise the risk of a no show. The site just enables contact. It doesn't manage it, nor is it responsible i any way when things go tits up. We're all adults capable of taking precautions. A" 100% zillion % this ..admin can do nothing ...thats why they normally just block you from the profile youve reported and nothing else ..how can they act on a one sided report | |||
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"For a second there I thought this thread was going to be about folk who were crap in bed. 'Shit ride, would not recommend. Tried to rub my clit like he was scrubbing the arse of a pan. Couldn't find my hole so dry humped the fold between my vag & leg. Came in 20 seconds'" Have we met? | |||
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"For a second there I thought this thread was going to be about folk who were crap in bed. 'Shit ride, would not recommend. Tried to rub my clit like he was scrubbing the arse of a pan. Couldn't find my hole so dry humped the fold between my vag & leg. Came in 20 seconds'" At least he didn't do the 'wrong hole' thing  | |||
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"I would be open to abuse Didn’t reply to a message bad veri left Had social went home decided it wasn’t for you bad veri left Don’t like the person so just leave a bad veri so other don’t meet them Didn’t come to mine at 2am in the morning bad veri left See how it can be abused " They would just delete the profile. Start a new one and the cycle would continue. As adults we are all responsible for our own time. The site gives us the tools and intuition must surely play a part | |||
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"For a second there I thought this thread was going to be about folk who were crap in bed. 'Shit ride, would not recommend. Tried to rub my clit like he was scrubbing the arse of a pan. Couldn't find my hole so dry humped the fold between my vag & leg. Came in 20 seconds' Have we met? "Yep, back in the day of roman orgies! | |||
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"For a second there I thought this thread was going to be about folk who were crap in bed. 'Shit ride, would not recommend. Tried to rub my clit like he was scrubbing the arse of a pan. Couldn't find my hole so dry humped the fold between my vag & leg. Came in 20 seconds' At least he didn't do the 'wrong hole' thing " oh been there too! | |||
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"I would be open to abuse Didn’t reply to a message bad veri left Had social went home decided it wasn’t for you bad veri left Don’t like the person so just leave a bad veri so other don’t meet them Didn’t come to mine at 2am in the morning bad veri left See how it can be abused They would just delete the profile. Start a new one and the cycle would continue. As adults we are all responsible for our own time. The site gives us the tools and intuition must surely play a part" They would that and yes it dose I was just showing how it could be abused | |||
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"I name and shame on my profile. Sick of guys wasting my time and not turning up. Unfortunately I haven't done this since day 1. But many may not see it,but I feel better about doing it lol." Not a good thing to admit to on a forum as it is against site rules to name and shame anywhere on site. | |||
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"For a second there I thought this thread was going to be about folk who were crap in bed. 'Shit ride, would not recommend. Tried to rub my clit like he was scrubbing the arse of a pan. Couldn't find my hole so dry humped the fold between my vag & leg. Came in 20 seconds' Have we met?
Yep, back in the day of roman orgies!"Oh, the secret is out, that picture on my profile is a sneak peek for the outfit for the end of month Toga party at the Attic. I think it's rather fetching | |||
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" For a second there I thought this thread was going to be about folk who were crap in bed. 'Shit ride, would not recommend. Tried to rub my clit like he was scrubbing the arse of a pan. Couldn't find my hole so dry humped the fold between my vag & leg. Came in 20 seconds' Have we met?
Yep, back in the day of roman orgies!
Oh, the secret is out, that picture on my profile is a sneak peek for the outfit for the end of month Toga party at the Attic. I think it's rather fetching "It's too cold up in my attic for any shenanigans. Too many spiders too | |||
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" For a second there I thought this thread was going to be about folk who were crap in bed. 'Shit ride, would not recommend. Tried to rub my clit like he was scrubbing the arse of a pan. Couldn't find my hole so dry humped the fold between my vag & leg. Came in 20 seconds' Have we met?
Yep, back in the day of roman orgies!
Oh, the secret is out, that picture on my profile is a sneak peek for the outfit for the end of month Toga party at the Attic. I think it's rather fetching
It's too cold up in my attic for any shenanigans. Too many spiders too "I imagine Scotland is always bloody cold
Keep warm by cuddling up with the nearest civis romanus you can find, he'll have your aqueduct flowing in no time | |||
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"open to abuse alway 2 sides to a story" Exactly this. If people want to write bad things about others then they can do it in their own profile text. | |||
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"I would be open to abuse Didn’t reply to a message bad veri left Had social went home decided it wasn’t for you bad veri left Don’t like the person so just leave a bad veri so other don’t meet them Didn’t come to mine at 2am in the morning bad veri left See how it can be abused I’d like to think us all as adults and silly play ground tactics wouldn’t be used by being petty with stupid feedback such as what you listed …. But to warn others that someone is fake or a total time waster who plays games by catfishing. Really doesn’t help genuine people out there not knowing because I’m pretty sure so many people have had bad experiences " oh it would be abused.. there are many that resort to playground games Reports made for nothing etc | |||
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" For a second there I thought this thread was going to be about folk who were crap in bed. 'Shit ride, would not recommend. Tried to rub my clit like he was scrubbing the arse of a pan. Couldn't find my hole so dry humped the fold between my vag & leg. Came in 20 seconds' Have we met?
Yep, back in the day of roman orgies!
Oh, the secret is out, that picture on my profile is a sneak peek for the outfit for the end of month Toga party at the Attic. I think it's rather fetching
It's too cold up in my attic for any shenanigans. Too many spiders too
I imagine Scotland is always bloody cold
Keep warm by cuddling up with the nearest civis romanus you can find, he'll have your aqueduct flowing in no time "Is that the Latin name for hot water bottles? | |||
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"i agree that a negative voting system would be open to abuse, but there should be a way to report people who maliciously arrange meets for the wrong address or similar. Even if they create new accounts there should be enough information on the server logs to make a decent attempt at permanently banning them." There is a way - you report the user to admin. | |||
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"For a second there I thought this thread was going to be about folk who were crap in bed. 'Shit ride, would not recommend. Tried to rub my clit like he was scrubbing the arse of a pan. Couldn't find my hole so dry humped the fold between my vag & leg. Came in 20 seconds' At least he didn't do the 'wrong hole' thing
oh been there too! "It's always awkward when they're balls deep in your belly button..... 
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"Yeah it would be good but too open to abuse. Some men (I say men because it's who I deal most with) think that your fake if you don't want to meet them, and not answering the one and only message they send is ghosting. " | |||
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"For a second there I thought this thread was going to be about folk who were crap in bed. 'Shit ride, would not recommend. Tried to rub my clit like he was scrubbing the arse of a pan. Couldn't find my hole so dry humped the fold between my vag & leg. Came in 20 seconds' At least he didn't do the 'wrong hole' thing
oh been there too!
It's always awkward when they're balls deep in your belly button.....
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" I’d like to think us all as adults and silly play ground tactics wouldn’t be used by being petty with stupid feedback such as what you listed " Urm, you have been on fab before, right? | |||
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"Wish we had the option to give someone a bad verification to show on their profile if someone is fake, a time waster or worse. I know we can report profiles… but I think having the ability to say negative about someone could warn others from making a mistake. " I would love to read bad ones...I would display them too wouldn't care less | |||
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