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By *art_Time_Lover88 OP   Man
over a year ago

Nottingham

What's people max on travelling for private/hotel meets? Personally I set mine to about 100miles. Completely depends on the person.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

About a 40 mins drive. And I would expect the other person to travel as well.The only exception would be if it was someone I already had met or if I was travelling in that direction anyhow .

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

as a woman its local only . and ill never go to a guys place unless i know him well very very well

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By *art_Time_Lover88 OP   Man
over a year ago

Nottingham

Thank you. I agree

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By *art_Time_Lover88 OP   Man
over a year ago

Nottingham


"as a woman its local only . and ill never go to a guys place unless i know him well very very well "

I am coming across this more often and completely understand.

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By *anted by NightMan
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"What's people max on travelling for private/hotel meets? Personally I set mine to about 100miles. Completely depends on the person. "

No distance is too far for the right person. But I’ll only travel if I have met them before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's people max on travelling for private/hotel meets? Personally I set mine to about 100miles. Completely depends on the person. "

All depends on the rail strikes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"About a 40 mins drive. And I would expect the other person to travel as well.The only exception would be if it was someone I already had met or if I was travelling in that direction anyhow ."

Sounds about right. Clubs of course are an exception.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did a 500 mile, 10hr round trip for a meet once. And damn was it worth it!

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By *alleyDaveMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

As I don't own a vehicle, walking distance for me or accommodate.

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By *heBlowinsCouple
over a year ago

West Cork

Within an hour max... If people happen to be rolling through and we're feeling it, sure but really don't care for people driving/flying hours just to meet. Sex is never worth that bollox imo

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By *eterandJaneadventuresCouple
over a year ago

Sutton

For us , any thing above a 60 minute car journey to meet another couple ( unless we’ve meet and played at clubs previously ) becomes a bit of a journey , than a pleasure trip. Longer journeys ( upto two hours) for clubs, we consider ok.

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By *heBlowinsCouple
over a year ago

West Cork


"I did a 500 mile, 10hr round trip for a meet once. And damn was it worth it! "

Legend

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

No more than an hour and I'd expect the woman to meet half way if it was further than that.

I've driven 3 hours each way before and there was an expectation that because I'd done it once there was nothing to stop me doing it again on a regular basis.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I wouldn't go far ,not for someone I'd not met before.

It's a social only anyway first meet.

You only have to look at all the threads about people not showing up ,it would put me off travelling too far.

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By *eat and discreetCouple
over a year ago

somewhere

Up to 3 hours depending on traffic,but that's for a full weekend in Blackpool clubs

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By *art_Time_Lover88 OP   Man
over a year ago

Nottingham


"I did a 500 mile, 10hr round trip for a meet once. And damn was it worth it!

Legend "

True commitment that! Kudos

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By *art_Time_Lover88 OP   Man
over a year ago

Nottingham


"I wouldn't go far ,not for someone I'd not met before.

It's a social only anyway first meet.

You only have to look at all the threads about people not showing up ,it would put me off travelling too far."

Yes that's off putting, I guess a first meet probably isn't ideal, but known or a regular perhaps further afield

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By *art_Time_Lover88 OP   Man
over a year ago

Nottingham

Thank you all for responses, noticing key themes, and changes my outlook of expectation

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

We prefer not to meet near home so we will travel up to an hour. Would do longer for someone we knew well or if we were making a weekend of it anyway, so going to a club or group social.

Kx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We wouldn't have a limit as we like to travel and see new areas, so we'd make a weekend of it with some sightseeing etc.

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
over a year ago

Portstewart

90 mins or 75 miles and half that for a social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want a partner so I have a rule, if it's too far for getting together frequently it's a no.

Early on I had a guy mess me about talking big about distance being no object. How he'd happily drive up from the south for a coffee. No matter how many times I said it was too far or offered to meet halfway he said he'd love to come up. Lots of big talk about how he drives it often for work, not too far, blah blah blah.

Never happened....

Why?

Too far for a coffee social apparently

Ridiculous nonsense... horny head v sensible head

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"What's people max on travelling for private/hotel meets? Personally I set mine to about 100miles. Completely depends on the person.

No distance is too far for the right person. But I’ll only travel if I have met them before."

But if they live a distance away how would you meet in the first instance?

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By *nselfishpleaserMan
over a year ago

kent

Usually 40miles maximum, but willing to travel further for the right offer

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

I did just over a 500 mile round trip before

I see the travel as part of the adventure

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By *un-n-frolicsMan
over a year ago

London


"I did just over a 500 mile round trip before

I see the travel as part of the adventure

"

Bit of a risk, isn’t it? Unless that was the place you intended to spend your next holiday. Or was on the cards.

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru


"I did just over a 500 mile round trip before

I see the travel as part of the adventure

Bit of a risk, isn’t it? Unless that was the place you intended to spend your next holiday. Or was on the cards. "

A risk as in they wouldn’t turn up? Video calls and phone calls beforehand plus a good time chatting so never doubted it but at the end of the day if they hadn’t turned up I would have just explored the city……. Sightseeing, coffee and all that

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London


"I see the travel as part of the adventure"

Damn right, too. If the desire and the trust are both there, why the fuck not?

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By *unthum62Man
over a year ago

Benidorm

I live in the middle of nowhere. Literally.

Its 30 minutes to civilisation so anything up to 3 hours is totally fine.

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

We’ve met a couple from about five hours away a few times. We pick a different place each time that works out about halfway.

If it’s someone new I’d say 30 miles tops

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the people but if we all really get on then we don’t mind a dirty weekend away anywhere in the UK

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I did a 500 mile, 10hr round trip for a meet once. And damn was it worth it!

Legend "

Well if you have nothing better to do lol longest was 3 hours, although I stayed over and went site seeing the next day

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

We often accommodate overnight, when the weather is good not the worst place to be, most folks don’t mind traveling if they can chill and have a drink with there fun.

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