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By *en1981400 OP   Man
over a year ago

Kettering

Does anyone have a meet that they regret?

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Yes my very first one on here. She crossed some serious boundaries and I left the site a few days later thinking that was how it was always going to be.

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By *en1981400 OP   Man
over a year ago

Kettering


"Yes my very first one on here. She crossed some serious boundaries and I left the site a few days later thinking that was how it was always going to be. "
really what happened lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met up with a girl a while back from another site, she was a student and went to her accomodation and was just chilling. One thing led to another (as it does) and ended up having sex, but she was fairly hairy which doesn't do it for me, nor was she making any sort of effort back. After we was done, we both rolled over and went to sleep. I woke up the next morning and it was one of the most awkward moments i've ever been in. Safe to say i've never spoke or seen her ever since.

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By *en1981400 OP   Man
over a year ago

Kettering


"Met up with a girl a while back from another site, she was a student and went to her accomodation and was just chilling. One thing led to another (as it does) and ended up having sex, but she was fairly hairy which doesn't do it for me, nor was she making any sort of effort back. After we was done, we both rolled over and went to sleep. I woke up the next morning and it was one of the most awkward moments i've ever been in. Safe to say i've never spoke or seen her ever since."
lol feel sorry for ya bro

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Yes my very first one on here. She crossed some serious boundaries and I left the site a few days later thinking that was how it was always going to be. really what happened lol"

We had two socials before meeting at an hotel. She wasn't truthful about what she was expecting and punched me in the face and drove her knee into my balls because she wanted me to retaliate. That was her kink but she hadn't mentioned it before. If she had we wouldn't have met again because that's not something I'd never be interested in.

I walked out and left her in the room I had paid for.

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton


"Yes my very first one on here. She crossed some serious boundaries and I left the site a few days later thinking that was how it was always going to be. really what happened lol

We had two socials before meeting at an hotel. She wasn't truthful about what she was expecting and punched me in the face and drove her knee into my balls because she wanted me to retaliate. That was her kink but she hadn't mentioned it before. If she had we wouldn't have met again because that's not something I'd never be interested in.

I walked out and left her in the room I had paid for. "

Fucking Nora!!!

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By *en1981400 OP   Man
over a year ago

Kettering


"Yes my very first one on here. She crossed some serious boundaries and I left the site a few days later thinking that was how it was always going to be. really what happened lol

We had two socials before meeting at an hotel. She wasn't truthful about what she was expecting and punched me in the face and drove her knee into my balls because she wanted me to retaliate. That was her kink but she hadn't mentioned it before. If she had we wouldn't have met again because that's not something I'd never be interested in.

I walked out and left her in the room I had paid for. "

WHAT that’s a kink I’ve never heard before why would a female want beating up

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Yes my very first one on here. She crossed some serious boundaries and I left the site a few days later thinking that was how it was always going to be. really what happened lol

We had two socials before meeting at an hotel. She wasn't truthful about what she was expecting and punched me in the face and drove her knee into my balls because she wanted me to retaliate. That was her kink but she hadn't mentioned it before. If she had we wouldn't have met again because that's not something I'd never be interested in.

I walked out and left her in the room I had paid for. WHAT that’s a kink I’ve never heard before why would a female want beating up "

Like I said, not my thing so I haven't a clue but she was adamant that was what she hoped would happen.

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By *en1981400 OP   Man
over a year ago

Kettering


"Yes my very first one on here. She crossed some serious boundaries and I left the site a few days later thinking that was how it was always going to be. really what happened lol

We had two socials before meeting at an hotel. She wasn't truthful about what she was expecting and punched me in the face and drove her knee into my balls because she wanted me to retaliate. That was her kink but she hadn't mentioned it before. If she had we wouldn't have met again because that's not something I'd never be interested in.

I walked out and left her in the room I had paid for. WHAT that’s a kink I’ve never heard before why would a female want beating up

Like I said, not my thing so I haven't a clue but she was adamant that was what she hoped would happen. "

yea I don’t blame ya I would of walked out aswell I got brought up to never hit a woman no matter what I’m mean ok I slap there arse but that’s different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes a few but you live and learn

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By *en1981400 OP   Man
over a year ago

Kettering


"Yes a few but you live and learn "
care to share huni

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.


"Does anyone have a meet that they regret?"

The last one we had just over a week ago. Guy was far to rough.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Nope...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes my very first one on here. She crossed some serious boundaries and I left the site a few days later thinking that was how it was always going to be. really what happened lol

We had two socials before meeting at an hotel. She wasn't truthful about what she was expecting and punched me in the face and drove her knee into my balls because she wanted me to retaliate. That was her kink but she hadn't mentioned it before. If she had we wouldn't have met again because that's not something I'd never be interested in.

I walked out and left her in the room I had paid for. WHAT that’s a kink I’ve never heard before why would a female want beating up

Like I said, not my thing so I haven't a clue but she was adamant that was what she hoped would happen. "

Wow, I was never expecting to read that. I feel for you dude. Not putting any labels to that individual or assuming anything, but you hear of incidents where people do things like that and then claim victim. Do you think this could have been her intention if you had retaliated? I'm not saying that was her intention hey, you never know. I'd have done the same as you and got the hell out of there. Sod the money that you paid for the room, it's nothing in the grand scale of things.

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By *anted by NightMan
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"Does anyone have a meet that they regret?"

I can write a book on this.

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By *en1981400 OP   Man
over a year ago

Kettering


"Does anyone have a meet that they regret?

I can write a book on this."

lol share with us all

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By *imply DeeWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

Not a meet as such but I went by myself to the private party, despite everyone advised me against it.

Needless to say I haven’t had the best experience but managed to leave intact, thank goodness.

Put me off fab for a while but lesson learned.

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By *en1981400 OP   Man
over a year ago

Kettering


"Not a meet as such but I went by myself to the private party, despite everyone advised me against it.

Needless to say I haven’t had the best experience but managed to leave intact, thank goodness.

Put me off fab for a while but lesson learned."

well glad your ok and not all are like that babes

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

no no regrets sure had some crap meets but you expect them and to be honest on this scene you learn from crap meets very quickly

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

Had a good social with a woman who I then invited round for the evening later that week.

She turned up with an overnight bag and announced she was staying. Nope! Her next revelation was that she had got chatting to another guy and had given him my address. Apparently he was on his way over!

Double nope and fuck right off.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Yes my very first one on here. She crossed some serious boundaries and I left the site a few days later thinking that was how it was always going to be. really what happened lol

We had two socials before meeting at an hotel. She wasn't truthful about what she was expecting and punched me in the face and drove her knee into my balls because she wanted me to retaliate. That was her kink but she hadn't mentioned it before. If she had we wouldn't have met again because that's not something I'd never be interested in.

I walked out and left her in the room I had paid for. WHAT that’s a kink I’ve never heard before why would a female want beating up

Like I said, not my thing so I haven't a clue but she was adamant that was what she hoped would happen.

Wow, I was never expecting to read that. I feel for you dude. Not putting any labels to that individual or assuming anything, but you hear of incidents where people do things like that and then claim victim. Do you think this could have been her intention if you had retaliated? I'm not saying that was her intention hey, you never know. I'd have done the same as you and got the hell out of there. Sod the money that you paid for the room, it's nothing in the grand scale of things. "

I hadn't a clue what her angle was. She tried to explain it as I was getting dressed but I wasn't listening at that point.

That was 6 years ago and it had a big effect on every interaction since.

I don't meet without at least one social and I'm extremely fussy who I meet at all.

I've turned down more offers to meet than I've accepted because of red flags or not feeling it.

I have had other meets I've regretted but mostly because of drama created by them and others afterwards.

I don't have any regrets over current meets.

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

One or two

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"Does anyone have a meet that they regret?

The last one we had just over a week ago. Guy was far to rough. "

Did you tell him that at the time?

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By *rettyflamingoWoman
over a year ago

Where the flamboyance of flamingos live

OMG I have quite a few, in the early days of fab I did everything wrong. Didn’t have a social first etc etc. you learn by your mistakes , no more pity fucks thank you!

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Does anyone have a meet that they regret?

I can write a book on this."

Then possibly use the story section

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By *aughtyone81Man
over a year ago

wirral

Only regret was not seeing someone I used to be regular with enough, she's left the site as I did few years back, but she was absolute fire

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By *ust Passing ThroughMan
over a year ago

poole

I have a few

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

No - even some of the earlier unwise ones I can smile about now. Luckily I’ve none that I actually regret.

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By *heBlowinsCouple
over a year ago

West Cork

Oh _ealitybites I feel for you dude- that's a very specific kink that comes from trust and communication (we've dabbled).

What an absolute nobhead she was for doing that to you and I'm happy to hear you found your way to a better experience here

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

Yup but not from here, I think I didn't do it for her and the 'gentle' let down was I was too big - don't believe that for a minute

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes my very first one on here. She crossed some serious boundaries and I left the site a few days later thinking that was how it was always going to be. really what happened lol

We had two socials before meeting at an hotel. She wasn't truthful about what she was expecting and punched me in the face and drove her knee into my balls because she wanted me to retaliate. That was her kink but she hadn't mentioned it before. If she had we wouldn't have met again because that's not something I'd never be interested in.

I walked out and left her in the room I had paid for. "

Feel for you, I had a similar experience but not in the Fab / swinging world…. Needless to say I left quicker than I arrived scary considering the thoughts that went through my head immediately afterwards, was this a bait trap kinda thing or a genuine kink? Either way I wasn’t happy or comfortable at all to find out.

Thankfully nothing overly negative here on fab, not that I get that much luck anyway occasional not so great meets but most are amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regrets, I've had a few

But then again, too few to mention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not yet thankfully, but then we've only met three different people. I'm quiet fussy about who I meet and like to have some sort of a connection if that makes sense

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.


"Does anyone have a meet that they regret?

The last one we had just over a week ago. Guy was far to rough.

Did you tell him that at the time?"

Several times. In the end i had to kick him off me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone have a meet that they regret?"

Lamb , it’s just doesn’t agree with me for some reason

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By *9Karm69Man
over a year ago

plymouth/chesterfield


"Regrets, I've had a few

But then again, too few to mention"

Love it, now cannot stop singing it, to myself of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Regrets, I've had a few

But then again, too few to mention

Love it, now cannot stop singing it, to myself of course "

I haven't stopped since I typed it haha

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By *hromosexualsCouple
over a year ago

Near Abercynon


"Yes my very first one on here. She crossed some serious boundaries and I left the site a few days later thinking that was how it was always going to be. really what happened lol

We had two socials before meeting at an hotel. She wasn't truthful about what she was expecting and punched me in the face and drove her knee into my balls because she wanted me to retaliate. That was her kink but she hadn't mentioned it before. If she had we wouldn't have met again because that's not something I'd never be interested in.

I walked out and left her in the room I had paid for.

Fucking Nora!!!"

Dont tell everyone who it was...

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton


"Yes my very first one on here. She crossed some serious boundaries and I left the site a few days later thinking that was how it was always going to be. really what happened lol

We had two socials before meeting at an hotel. She wasn't truthful about what she was expecting and punched me in the face and drove her knee into my balls because she wanted me to retaliate. That was her kink but she hadn't mentioned it before. If she had we wouldn't have met again because that's not something I'd never be interested in.

I walked out and left her in the room I had paid for.

Fucking Nora!!!

Dont tell everyone who it was... "

Oops ! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have many regrets but alas have never had a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had a good social with a woman who I then invited round for the evening later that week.

She turned up with an overnight bag and announced she was staying. Nope! Her next revelation was that she had got chatting to another guy and had given him my address. Apparently he was on his way over!

Double nope and fuck right off."

Bloody hell!

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton


"Met up with a girl a while back from another site, she was a student and went to her accomodation and was just chilling. One thing led to another (as it does) and ended up having sex, but she was fairly hairy which doesn't do it for me, nor was she making any sort of effort back. After we was done, we both rolled over and went to sleep. I woke up the next morning and it was one of the most awkward moments i've ever been in. Safe to say i've never spoke or seen her ever since."

It wasn’t my misses you met was it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yes

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By *ill.willMan
over a year ago

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"Does anyone have a meet that they regret?"

More regret the ones I haven't had, been offered and chickened out. In hindsight it's a silly thing to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes,and that's all I'm saying

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By *fter dinner delightCouple
over a year ago

bury st edmunds/london

No as we move on from that knowing what to look out for next time.

I can say out of our 20 plus years I can say had 2 that come to mind.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"Does anyone have a meet that they regret?

The last one we had just over a week ago. Guy was far to rough.

Did you tell him that at the time?

Several times. In the end i had to kick him off me. "

What was John doing?

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"Does anyone have a meet that they regret?"

Yes, two.

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By *iredhandMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Non, je ne regrette rien….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only 1 so far, and it’s not really a regret but one of those learning moments. Won’t ever happen again like that, that’s for sure.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Yes and no. I regretted trying to see them more than once. Think I prefer 1 night stands

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still awaiting a non-disappointing meet

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By *heAdventurerMan
over a year ago

Bristol

What happened if you would not mind sharing for the kknowledge

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