FabSwingers.com forum: Successful 'poor me' posts?

By *heBlowins OP Couple
over a year ago

West Cork

When someone posts one of those self-pity forum replies or status updates...

Has that ever worked for anyone?

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

For some people, any reaction is a plus.

Even if it is just people looking at their profile, and then giving constructive criticism (ripping it to shreds)

I'd be interested if those who actually take the advice get an improved fab experience

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By *ed MartinMan
over a year ago

Shefford

"When someone posts one of those self-pity forum replies or status updates...

Has that ever worked for anyone?"

They work for me…that is to say, when someone posts one, I know to block them straight away!

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By *armandwet50Couple
over a year ago

Far far away

we would never meet anyone who put up a "poor me" post but I do encourage people to keep doing it, that way we know who to avoid

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

It's unlikely. The fab forum in general rarely take the time to look behind the words to the frustration and confusion that lies behind them, mainly because its usually single men posting that kind of thing. The advice is normally to accept it and get over it (there's not really an alternative I suppose) although some do take the time to explain why certain things are as they are on fab.

However should a single woman post something similar the collective advice is normally that men are bastards and she is beautiful.

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

"It's unlikely. The fab forum in general rarely take the time to look behind the words to the frustration and confusion that lies behind them, mainly because its usually single men posting that kind of thing. The advice is normally to accept it and get over it (there's not really an alternative I suppose) although some do take the time to explain why certain things are as they are on fab.

However should a single woman post something similar the collective advice is normally that men are bastards and she is beautiful.

We should have this as a pop up when we log in.

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By *heBlowins OP Couple
over a year ago

West Cork

"When someone posts one of those self-pity forum replies or status updates...

Has that ever worked for anyone?

They work for me…that is to say, when someone posts one, I know to block them straight away!"

Brilliant

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By *heBlowins OP Couple
over a year ago

West Cork

"we would never meet anyone who put up a "poor me" post but I do encourage people to keep doing it, that way we know who to avoid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

However should a single woman post something similar the collective advice is normally that men are bastards and she is beautiful.

We should have this as a pop up when we log in. "

I read the reviews from others who had used this site, it was very informative knowing what to expect.

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By *fter dinner delightCouple
over a year ago

bury st edmunds/london

Pass

But poor us lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They all seem to be copied and pasted too....

It just screams attention and hoping for a pity fuck

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