FabSwingers.com forum: Description

By *indathird OP Couple
over a year ago

west midlands

Is it best to be vague about yourself and what you want or be honest and open And descriptive?

Also, do you think when posting events, lots of notice ( which gives people the opportunity to forget or change plans etc ) or do last minute meets.

Been on for a while and there never seems to be a steady trend

All opinions welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always find it best to be honest and open

And if I ever requested a meet it would be a social only

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Is it best to be vague about yourself and what you want or be honest and open And descriptive?

Also, do you think when posting events, lots of notice ( which gives people the opportunity to forget or change plans etc ) or do last minute meets.

Been on for a while and there never seems to be a steady trend

All opinions welcome

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always be vague but honest, show honest pics and turn up smelling good well dressed and showered

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

What will being vague achieve?

I notice a lot of people are wary of actually saying what they want and I don't understand why. I wouldn't go into a coffee shop and just ask for 'a drink'.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"What will being vague achieve?

I notice a lot of people are wary of actually saying what they want and I don't understand why. I wouldn't go into a coffee shop and just ask for 'a drink'."
you give to much detail youre giving opportunity to put them off, dont you think?

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

I on the other hand am never vague you either like me or you dont

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

"Is it best to be vague about yourself and what you want or be honest and open And descriptive?

Also, do you think when posting events, lots of notice ( which gives people the opportunity to forget or change plans etc ) or do last minute meets.

Been on for a while and there never seems to be a steady trend

All opinions welcome

Just be open with who you are and what you want.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"What will being vague achieve?

I notice a lot of people are wary of actually saying what they want and I don't understand why. I wouldn't go into a coffee shop and just ask for 'a drink'.you give to much detail youre giving opportunity to put them off, dont you think?

If they don't want the same as we want there's not much point meeting.

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By *9Karm69Man
over a year ago

plymouth/chesterfield

"Is it best to be vague about yourself and what you want or be honest and open And descriptive?

Also, do you think when posting events, lots of notice ( which gives people the opportunity to forget or change plans etc ) or do last minute meets.

Been on for a while and there never seems to be a steady trend

All opinions welcome

Just be open with who you are and what you want."

Got it in 1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give as much detail as you want. We always message with what we want as soon as a meet could be potentially on the cards too. Saves any undue time wasting

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

Don't overthink it, sure you can be as honest and put as much detail as you like but if there is a wall of text like reading Lord of the Rings a lot of people will just TL;DR and skip past it.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Always best to be open and honest about what you want, otherwise it's just a waste of time for you and others if your vague and both on the wrong page.

Mrs

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

In my opinion, it's always best to be honest and straight to the point on here, leaves hardly anything open to interpretation. Also, don't assume that people who have "can travel" ticked can actually drive or are happy to drive to you (if you are happy to accommodate).

I personally don't like a lot of chatting before arranging to meet (if we seem to get on) as it's not easy to maintain people's interest on here, without camming/cybersex.

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By *nly-live-onceMan
over a year ago

Swadlincote

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By *he_TicklersCouple
over a year ago

Havant & Aberdare

We’ve fallen victim to vague once, chatted for a couple of days on WhatsApp, arranged a social and it was a cuck couple with very specific instructions to what they wanted, all fine but wasn’t what was on profile , or discussed in WhatsApp and ultimately not what we wanted. They were good company so no time wasted but a tad frustrating.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

It's up to you if you want to do last minute meets ,they wouldn't be for me as I chat for a good while before I'd meet someone.

In regards to being open ,it's always best to say what you're looking for /interests are else you risk wasting others and your own time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to think my profile doesn't give anyone any nasty surprises on meeting me!

I don't post meets I invite specific people or accept invitations.

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By *carletnsparksMan
over a year ago

halifax

Would you meet someone who was not honest and vague ?

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