FabSwingers.com forum: How many ladies on here don’t like receiving oral?

By *verready5000 OP Man
over a year ago

mansfield

As per title really ladies.

I’m lucky if my wife lets me give her oral once a year, she also doesn’t like sex toys and fingering .

She does enjoy sucking my cock thankfully but wish she’d let me return the favour as she isn’t keen on four play apart from sucking and licking me.

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By *arried-BBW-LookingWoman
over a year ago

fun town

I enjoy it but not for long my clit gets to sensitive I much prefer a good fucking X

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

Me.

I really don’t like it.

Much prefer fingers and absolutely would 100% never have it if A guy didn’t like it.

Does nothing for me

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By *verready5000 OP Man
over a year ago

mansfield

"I enjoy it but not for long my clit gets to sensitive I much prefer a good fucking X"

That’s pretty much what she says!

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By *erkyPerditaCouple
over a year ago

fareham

Interesting replies already, somewhat surprising

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Certain people I love to receive it from. Most I'd rather they didn't bother.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Certain people I love to receive it from. Most I'd rather they didn't bother."
I love giving it nothing better

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat

Massive fan of oral here - giving and receiving. But when receiving the guy has to be loving his work, good at his craft and responsive to what is working with me - otherwise I'd rather he didn't bother

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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago

Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters

"Certain people I love to receive it from. Most I'd rather they didn't bother."

Interesting. What is it about the certain ones you love it from that is different from the most you'd rather not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Massive fan of oral here - giving and receiving. But when receiving the guy has to be loving his work, good at his craft and responsive to what is working with me - otherwise I'd rather he didn't bother"
hell yes hun I can do it for hours aswell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love it

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I don't enjoy receiving. We've put it on our profile.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I hate face sitting

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

Can't imagine not wanting his tongue and lips on me.. Ever!

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat

As has been pointed out on here before... If you are doing it for hours, you aren't doing it right!

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

"Interesting. What is it about the certain ones you love it from that is different from the most you'd rather not?"

They know my body and how to read my reactions and understand when it's time to move on to something else. Plus with that actual connection it means something and the kisses afterwards are amazing.

Most people are absolutely clueless down there and I honestly get bored. I'm very easily stimulated, it's almost impossible to not make me cum with oral, but it's still just flat and boring for me in general.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As has been pointed out on here before... If you are doing it for hours, you aren't doing it right!

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I do it for hours because I love it and the amount of woman cum from it I’d say I’m doing a damn good job

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s not that I don’t enjoy it, I’ve just never met with anyone who doesn’t value much more time spent on pleasuring him than I do have never had the chance to really see if I enjoy it.

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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago

Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters

"It’s not that I don’t enjoy it, I’ve just never met with anyone who doesn’t value much more time spent on pleasuring him than I do have never had the chance to really see if I enjoy it. "

Wait, seriously? Like, I hear this sort of thing all the time so it must be true, but I still struggle to believe it. Truly boggles the mind!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate it. Does nothing for me

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By *atty CoramWoman
over a year ago

Wimbledon

It's probably my least favourite sex act...right down there alongside completing my tax returns.

The amount of men who lead with their oral prowess ( on any available 'pussy') puts me off even more.

I find it simultaneously intimate and completely not intimate.

I think its because your head and mouth and eyes are so far away from my head and mouth and eyes... I have abandonment issues.

Conversely have a slight oral fixation when it comes to giving oral...and other mouth related activities.

Face sitting is mind numbingly boring for me. I lose my lady boner and just start planning errands and chores in my head. Loathe it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hate it. Does nothing for me"
that’s it I know a few it does nothing for each to there own I guess my ex she use to like it for about 5 mins then wanted to be fucked my last wanted it for hours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would rather go down on a woman than receive. It’s probably my biggest turn on.

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

Really not fussed about it. Mr Fox always makes me feel good no matter what we do, but it doesn't build any sexual crescendo for me!

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Yeah when it's done terribly which of the time it is, it does nothing to me. But when it's done amazingly well, I just can't get enough of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hubby is great at it, wasn't

bothered before we met

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For some reason, for me, it’s either completely mind blowing, or it’s just… quite nice… but can you stop and fuck me now please?

And the ones who’ve been mind blowing, maybe two people.

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By *old HoopsWoman
over a year ago

Near Chester

Not much of a fan to be honest. It doesn't do much for me at all.

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By *ngelsdevilWoman
over a year ago

Merseyside

Not a massive fan, I feel too much pressure to cum. Although with someone who really knows what they're doing it can be amazing.

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By *hataliceinwanderlustWoman
over a year ago

Cambs

Boring af, probably wouldn’t mind it if I could watch tv at the same time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eye opening thread. Where the answer is "nah, you're alright" it seems a mixture of psychology, physiology, and many guys not being as good as they think !

I wonder if the no's are a small minority, or if many aren't that fussed. (This thread is self selective so Cannae use this sample!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love it. Mr is exceptional, makes me cum repeatedly every time.

Now to find a female with the same skills so he can watch the pleasure on my face as I cum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't stand it.

Pxx

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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago

Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters

"For some reason, for me, it’s either completely mind blowing, or it’s just… quite nice… but can you stop and fuck me now please?

And the ones who’ve been mind blowing, maybe two people."

Was there anything in particular that the two mind blowers did that the rest didn’t?

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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago

Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters

"Love it. Mr is exceptional, makes me cum repeatedly every time.

Now to find a female with the same skills so he can watch the pleasure on my face as I cum

You could always set up a camera to film it and show him?

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By *ustus555Couple
over a year ago

This

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By *ustus555Couple
over a year ago

Sorry. Meant this

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

I am not , not a fan.. just I don't enjoy it with a random person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The best oral I have received has always been from another woman.

They know from experience what feels good.

To all you guys who state you love to do it for hours…. I have yet to talk to a woman who wants this.

Clits are sensitive. Too much pressure and it becomes uncomfortable and kills the mood.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both really big fans of giving and receiving! Nothing hotter than seeing them enjoy pleasuring you either

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By *ranfondoMan
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

A BBW FWB loves it...but then I move to rimming while pleasuring her... She cums from both clit and lip play and tonguing both holes.... But we are all different

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By *ogan WillowCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I'm a very lucky lady. Logan is such an expert, I absolutely love him giving me oral! Can't imagine not enjoying it!

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

I hate it, honestly would rather do the ironing, so I know the can breathe through their ears brigade are ones for me to avoid.

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By *aulusMan
over a year ago

Chester

Really interesting and a surprise to see how many ladies aren't fussed or don't like it.

Especially disappointing as it the only really good move I've got

I was fortunate enough to have GF, when I was a younger man, who loved it and spent a long time teaching me how to do it to her required standards!

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By *hataliceinwanderlustWoman
over a year ago

Cambs

"The best oral I have received has always been from another woman.

They know from experience what feels good.

To all you guys who state you love to do it for hours…. I have yet to talk to a woman who wants this.

Clits are sensitive. Too much pressure and it becomes uncomfortable and kills the mood."

Agreed!!

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By *verready5000 OP Man
over a year ago

mansfield

I didn’t realise how common it was not liking it that much, don’t get me wrong she does cum from it but she says her clit is to sensitive so doesn’t really like oral or toys. She just likes the ‘real’ thing!

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

i love oral but ive always found those that want to lick for hours are useless at it so avoid them like the plague

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By *ristinapinkWoman
over a year ago

Staines-upon-Thames

Love oral. But as many said already don’t like it when it goes on and on, I usually say when I’d like to move on from it. Not everyone is good at it, but when it’s well done is really amazing…

Love face sitting too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hate it, honestly would rather do the ironing, so I know the can breathe through their ears brigade are ones for me to avoid."

Pablo, I’ll take yours too, if you’ll do my ironing for me

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By *nly-live-onceMan
over a year ago

Swadlincote

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

This.

It's the responsive to what is working that is the important bit as far as I can tell.

Sorry guys but a whole host of you 'love giving' but you are so focused on your enjoyment of it you don't read the body language or responses of the person you're with...(especially those who say you can do it for hours... Oh no that's torture not fun)

I can count on one hand the ones who have actually picked up on my body movements and my reactions and they have switched up (or carry on to suit).

I married one and the other one knows he's not getting rid of me any time soon.

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By *inballs99Man
over a year ago

Blackheath

I did have some time with a girl a long time ago and she didn't want me to go down on her because she was embarrassed about her quite large labia! I could clearly feel her but she would never like to show herself! I hope she feels more comfortable now!

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

Like anything else, it's a skill and an art, if you find someone that knows exactly how to push the right levers don't ever let them go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s not that I don’t enjoy it, I’ve just never met with anyone who doesn’t value much more time spent on pleasuring him than I do have never had the chance to really see if I enjoy it. "

That shocks me, it’s all about pleasuring the woman for me, make sure she is satisfied before having your pleasure.

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Let’s just say some people are better than others at giving it.

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over a year ago

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

"I hate it, honestly would rather do the ironing, so I know the can breathe through their ears brigade are ones for me to avoid.

Pablo, I’ll take yours too, if you’ll do my ironing for me

Deal, I'll swap your pile of ironing for Mrlovestolickforhours123

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As per title really ladies.

I’m lucky if my wife lets me give her oral once a year, she also doesn’t like sex toys and fingering .

She does enjoy sucking my cock thankfully but wish she’d let me return the favour as she isn’t keen on four play apart from sucking and licking me. "

Wow has she always never liked receiving? And you still married her? What if she decides next she doesn't like blowjobs? You would be screwed and not in a good way!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hate it. It's boring.

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By *ndy man 200Man
over a year ago

hereford

"Yeah when it's done terribly which of the time it is, it does nothing to me. But when it's done amazingly well, I just can't get enough of it

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some guys haven't a clue on how to please...get it right ,the rewards are amazing.x

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat

This.

It's the responsive to what is working that is the important bit as far as I can tell.

I can count on one hand the ones who have actually picked up on my body movements and my reactions and they have switched up (or carry on to suit).

I married one and the other one knows he's not getting rid of me any time soon. "

Agreed. The ones that do as they are told are few and far between! The number of times I have been screaming at a guy not to stop exactly what he is doing.... And what does he go and do? Something different and in an instant that monumental orgasm becomes a frustrated figment of my imagination

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This.

It's the responsive to what is working that is the important bit as far as I can tell.

I can count on one hand the ones who have actually picked up on my body movements and my reactions and they have switched up (or carry on to suit).

I married one and the other one knows he's not getting rid of me any time soon.

Maybe it's not what you are saying, but the way you are saying it. Just a thought.

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By *astesLikeMagicWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

Always. If they don't do oral on me they don't get a repeat meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Always. If they don't do oral on me they don't get a repeat meet. "

Finally, someone that talks sence!

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

I didn't used to like it and then I met Paul and wow...now I love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s not that I don’t enjoy it, I’ve just never met with anyone who doesn’t value much more time spent on pleasuring him than I do have never had the chance to really see if I enjoy it. "
this

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

I'd say roughly 354

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Generally I don't. I love giving, it's more likely to have me aroused and cockdr*nk thinking about nothing but them. On very rare occasions I've really enjoyed it but I'd say the majority of the time I've had it/started to have it, I've found myself drying up despite being under someone else's tongue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *iptonblokeMan
over a year ago

tipton

"As per title really ladies.

I’m lucky if my wife lets me give her oral once a year, she also doesn’t like sex toys and fingering .

She does enjoy sucking my cock thankfully but wish she’d let me return the favour as she isn’t keen on four play apart from sucking and licking me. "

Mine love been licked and fingered but never sucks me off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This. Totally agree

It's the responsive to what is working that is the important bit as far as I can tell.

I can count on one hand the ones who have actually picked up on my body movements and my reactions and they have switched up (or carry on to suit).

I married one and the other one knows he's not getting rid of me any time soon. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow! Absolutely shocked by the amount of women who dislike or hate it! I love giving and receiving. Thought all women liked it lol

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By *aximum_funMan
over a year ago

West Herts

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By *aximum_funMan
over a year ago

West Herts

"Wow! Absolutely shocked by the amount of women who dislike or hate it! I love giving and receiving. Thought all women liked it lol "

It's been a revelation, thanks for starting the thread, OP

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By *nthony_60Man
over a year ago

ipswich

I love giving it and not had any complaints. However you can always improve so for the ladies who love it, or even not getting the satisfaction, what would be your wish?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Always. If they don't do oral on me they don't get a repeat meet.

Finally, someone that talks sence!"

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Wow! Absolutely shocked by the amount of women who dislike or hate it! I love giving and receiving. Thought all women liked it lol "

Similar here mate! Pretty much every woman I’ve met has complained they’ve not met men who lick them, and most have never orgasmed with a head between their legs. They never forget the first time lol…..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I LOVE giving oral to ladies that's my favourite.

I love giving oral to men as well.

I love receiving but only certain people and certain circumstances

Hours? Fuck that I would be bored

Face sitting hard no from me

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By *aramel.desiresMan
over a year ago

Woking

I totally understand and respect women who don’t enjoy receiving oral.

And I also think us men (including myself) could do with understanding more about the clitoris, I t’s size and shape as it’s more like a butterfly with 95% hidden. Using different techniques like blowing on it. Because I’m the end we want to give pleasure right.

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

"Generally I don't. I love giving, it's more likely to have me aroused and cockdr*nk thinking about nothing but them. On very rare occasions I've really enjoyed it but I'd say the majority of the time I've had it/started to have it, I've found myself drying up despite being under someone else's tongue."

Is this a case for the benefits of a 69, where you get hot and horny sucking cock at the same time someone is face deep in you?

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By *rSpriteandMsClitBangCouple
over a year ago

hadleigh

I thought I didn't like it for over a decade...

I met my ex-husband when I was 21, and although I had plenty of sexual partners prior to that, I think it's quite a common experience for women that a lot of younger male sexual partners don't give oral sex, so I hadn't had it often.

Then I met him, and he claimed he couldn't give oral sex because his tongue wouldn't extend far enough. I know how much bollocks this was now, but then, I was young and blinkered.

For the next 13 years he "tried" no more than twice, and when discussing sex lives with friends, when they waxed lyrical about oral, I would say I didn't like it, or wasn't fussed, because a) I was embarrassed, and b) I really didn't remember what it was like, so it couldn't be that good...right?

In the end, for a whole multitude of other reasons we divorced, and my first FWB once I was single was MORTIFIED that I had gone so long without oral, and was extremely quick to rectify that - cue "OMG, I've been missing THIS?!?!"

Now I know I love oral, and Mr Sprite is extremely generous, but for such a long time, I was convinced I hated it.

Ms Clitbang x

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By *verready5000 OP Man
over a year ago

mansfield

Your welcome, I didn’t realise it’s quite common not to love all the time!! Glad I asked.

"Wow! Absolutely shocked by the amount of women who dislike or hate it! I love giving and receiving. Thought all women liked it lol

It's been a revelation, thanks for starting the thread, OP"

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By *ingdong11Man
over a year ago

Eastleigh

If you need to go for hours then

You’re doing it wrong !

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I really enjoy it when the guy knows what he is doing.

The ones that don't and ignore any signals that I give it's boring as hell and does nothing to turn me on.

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