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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you find it annoying to put effort into arranging to meet someone, (we'd been chatting most of today, but had been chatting on and off for the last 2 months) come back on line and find he's deleted his account

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prob married.

Bullet dodged.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Prob married.

Bullet dodged. "

Maybe,

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By *andyh78Man
over a year ago

manchester

It happens to me a lot. What is really annoying is when they keep setting up a new account over and over and are clearly doing the same to others. I don’t know why the admin or who is in charge can’t recognise the same email account or IP and automatically stop them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't meet anyone without verifications, sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It hurts doesn’t it? Finding someone you can feel a burgeoning connection with, even over messages, is a heady feeling, and I sympathise with that disappointment. But it is a bullet dodged - imagine if you’d met that person and *then* they’d disappeared.

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By *mids LadMan
over a year ago

West Midlands

It's happened to me a few times .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It happens to me a lot. What is really annoying is when they keep setting up a new account over and over and are clearly doing the same to others. I don’t know why the admin or who is in charge can’t recognise the same email account or IP and automatically stop them "

If he comes back, which I don't think he will, he'll need a good explanation,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you find it annoying to put effort into arranging to meet someone, (we'd been chatting most of today, but had been chatting on and off for the last 2 months) come back on line and find he's deleted his account "
maybe he saved you the bother

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't meet anyone without verifications, sorry "

He had verifications

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It hurts doesn’t it? Finding someone you can feel a burgeoning connection with, even over messages, is a heady feeling, and I sympathise with that disappointment. But it is a bullet dodged - imagine if you’d met that person and *then* they’d disappeared."

That's true, especially if it turned out to be a good meet

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By *nimaginativeUsernameMan
over a year ago

Rochester, Kent

Personally I wouldn’t believe anything about the account(s)

Probably fake pics, fake bio, possibly even fake veris, just a dreamer.

Report and move on to someone who can prove themself.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you find it annoying to put effort into arranging to meet someone, (we'd been chatting most of today, but had been chatting on and off for the last 2 months) come back on line and find he's deleted his account maybe he saved you the bother"

Of what

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin


"It hurts doesn’t it? Finding someone you can feel a burgeoning connection with, even over messages, is a heady feeling, and I sympathise with that disappointment. But it is a bullet dodged - imagine if you’d met that person and *then* they’d disappeared.

That's true, especially if it turned out to be a good meet "

Whats with the rainbow after all your comments?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It hurts doesn’t it? Finding someone you can feel a burgeoning connection with, even over messages, is a heady feeling, and I sympathise with that disappointment. But it is a bullet dodged - imagine if you’d met that person and *then* they’d disappeared.

That's true, especially if it turned out to be a good meet

Whats with the rainbow after all your comments? "

I just like them

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell

It's also annoying when you've received an email notification of a message or wink, but when you later log in here, there's nothing to be found, because the sender's apparently left the site...

....and then there's when you get notification of a wink, but when you log in and try to view the profile, you can't because it's 'hidden' or 'blocked'...

....I've had both happen this week...

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By *eandmrsjones69Couple
over a year ago

Middle England

Not sure people want to use things like 2FA, and you can hide IP addresses or use VPN etc

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's also annoying when you've received an email notification of a message or wink, but when you later log in here, there's nothing to be found, because the sender's apparently left the site...

....and then there's when you get notification of a wink, but when you log in and try to view the profile, you can't because it's 'hidden' or 'blocked'...

....I've had both happen this week... "

It is annoying, but I know it happens

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By *renchy19Man
over a year ago

Stevenage


"It's also annoying when you've received an email notification of a message or wink, but when you later log in here, there's nothing to be found, because the sender's apparently left the site...

....and then there's when you get notification of a wink, but when you log in and try to view the profile, you can't because it's 'hidden' or 'blocked'...

....I've had both happen this week...

It is annoying, but I know it happens"

Unfortunately it does happen. I’ve had women and couples disappear after chatting and arranging to meet. At least it’s not like one woman who I met after a social who stood me up after getting a hotel room

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont want to knock guys because there are so many good ones on this scene but when you have a massive unbalance of gender then add on top of that the number of guys who will then fake womens and couples accounts or are just here to wank or troll then there going to be alot who get led up the garden path ... im not saying women and couples dont do this but again the sheer number of men will unbalance everything including being right or wrong

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By *orfolkmark70Man
over a year ago

Suffolk/Norfolk

Speaking with couples I've met they tell me that they are plagued by people, well blokes mainly, who are either fake fantasists or just idiots.

Makes it bloody hard for the genuine people to be trusted.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"Do you find it annoying to put effort into arranging to meet someone, (we'd been chatting most of today, but had been chatting on and off for the last 2 months) come back on line and find he's deleted his account "

I can see how that would be annoying yeah.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you find it annoying to put effort into arranging to meet someone, (we'd been chatting most of today, but had been chatting on and off for the last 2 months) come back on line and find he's deleted his account

I can see how that would be annoying yeah."

I wonder how long till he's back

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By *orksguy1965Man
over a year ago

Howden


"Do you find it annoying to put effort into arranging to meet someone, (we'd been chatting most of today, but had been chatting on and off for the last 2 months) come back on line and find he's deleted his account "
I've had it happen to me many a time, so annoying when you think you have made a special connection with someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of these people are night worker fakes. Never ever going to meet. Just boored in there security jobs. Sorry to all genuine night workers but its true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I won’t be leaving any time soon

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"Do you find it annoying to put effort into arranging to meet someone, (we'd been chatting most of today, but had been chatting on and off for the last 2 months) come back on line and find he's deleted his account

I can see how that would be annoying yeah.

I wonder how long till he's back "

4 days

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you find it annoying to put effort into arranging to meet someone, (we'd been chatting most of today, but had been chatting on and off for the last 2 months) come back on line and find he's deleted his account

I can see how that would be annoying yeah.

I wonder how long till he's back

4 days "

Maybe

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By *orksguy1965Man
over a year ago

Howden

A lot of wind-up merchants with nothing better to do that play people along.

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By *andyh78Man
over a year ago

manchester

Yep. Just wasted nearly an hour chatting to another one.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yep. Just wasted nearly an hour chatting to another one."

Annoying isn't it, just when you think you're getting to know them

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By *andyh78Man
over a year ago

manchester

Yep. This one was turning out to be a genuinely interesting 2 way conversation for a change.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yep. This one was turning out to be a genuinely interesting 2 way conversation for a change."

They usually are, mine was as well

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Derby

Annoying when you've blocked someone. They then start another account, trying to make another meet with you. If they have been blocked, they are blocked for a reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you find it annoying to put effort into arranging to meet someone, (we'd been chatting most of today, but had been chatting on and off for the last 2 months) come back on line and find he's deleted his account "

Highly irritating! Doesn’t help any of us!

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By *unthum62Man
over a year ago

Benidorm

Sadly it is a feature of sites of an adult nature.

Some people just get off on leading people on and toying with them.

It has happened to me too and some are very convincing. They usually pop up again with a new location, career etc., but its definitely the same people over and over again.

Just mark it down to experience and keep trying.

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