FabSwingers.com forum: New cuckold couple advice

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi.

We are a young couple and looking for some feedback, we signed up here a few months ago to have a browse and get some ideas on this lifestyle.

The reason being ‘he’ is interested in this stuff and mainly the cuckold & threesome fetish, it always seems to come up often over the last few years. ‘She’ is a lot more reserved and never tried anything like this before, although she is open to the idea after joining here and us discussing the actual scenario.

Reading on here it seems like its a lot of fun for most couples but she is still worried about it and generally overthinking it (thinking the other person won’t like it/her, she won’t be very good, it might change things etc etc), the previous is crazy as she is unreal in bed and as you can see from the pics she is stunning.

Its always been a talking point and unless she is 100% sure on it then we won’t proceed as we both want this to be something we enjoy together (whether that be the stuff above or something else) however at the moment it seems like there is always one of us on the losing end.

Just curious to hear if any other couples were in a similar predicament & how it went after a few meets.

Alternatively if you did have these desires and didn't proceed did it cause any issues.

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By *ancs29Man
over a year ago

oldham

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

While there's doubt, don't do anything.

You can't undo it then

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By *idsAndyMan
over a year ago

Worcestershire

Go at a pace that is OK for you both, purely social meets are fun and can be quite sexy too so try a few and see how you both feel then...

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By *8v3nCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

Start with social meet or go to a swingers club together, you don't have to get involved, but at least you will get the taste of it. It is hard if one is still unsure and it will not work if that's not overcome before anything happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The first venture into this is always going to be bumpy. It's hard to work out what your dynamic is as it often becomes apparent that it's different to what was originally in your head. Since starting this lifestyle, mine and my partners rules, boundaries, scenarios, fantasies and general turn ons have changed and evolved as we have gone on.

What hasn't changed is our trust, open communication and respecting each others wishes. As long as you have that, you will be fine. Stick together, talk to each other and make sure you never do anything the other one it's comfortable with. It's a bumpy but a fun ride.

Good luck!

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By *otwifeandcuckCouple
over a year ago

Blackpool

Slow take it slow once its done it can't be undone!

Start with bedroom talk previous partners maybe get her to tell you about her previous lovers whilst your having sex and maybe call out another mans name.

Busy bar flirting is a good test too with you sat watching.

No need to touch just allow her to chat and flirt see how that feels emotionally.

Maybe a swingers club go watch chat maybe a little kiss

See how that feels

The main key is talking setting boundaries and sticking to them.

Personally after the first time it took weeks emotionally to work it out the worry the wondering we came out the other side and now we love it!

Pm us if you want with any questions

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By *amesnplanesMan
over a year ago

Banbridge

If Ms is shy and seeks a more relaxed entry into the lifestyle, you could consider finding someone to massage her.

In an ideal world, you'll also take an active role in the massage later, learning some new techniques etc.

But expect the massage treatment to last at least an hour before anything vaguely interesting will develop.

Naturally there's every chance at the end of the massage that Ms will feel rather receptive etc.

At that time, the massage could become more sensual, and that would be the time you'd then step back, watch the masseur do his thing and take things as far as you both wished.

This approach is less invasive than socials or club nights. Don't get me wrong, club nights and socials are great and have their place, but the fear factor will be higher than a massage.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks everyone. We will take it steady, for now we are just discussing it but getting in to more detail and considering planning something.

We both need to agree to it though before we plan anything, there is no fun in it if one of us is unhappy

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By *otwife and Him 69Couple
over a year ago

Preston

Always regret what you haven’t done rather than what you did… Communication is key xx

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By *ylonattireTV/TS
over a year ago

Radcliffe

You have to be open and honest about what you BOTH want out of it.

Stick to boundaries until you are comfortable in moving on.

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By *efinitely MaybeCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

We were very similar, with L having all the doubts and me being certain. Once she was over them it was game on very quickly to a point where it was me who had doubts and needed things to slow down.

Be prepared to see things that can’t be undone and manage feelings (good and bad) without creating secondary issues. If you want this you have to be man enough to deal with what follows.

What you think now and what you will feel when it actually happens are two very different things. Nothing can prepare you for seeing and/or hearing your wife/gf being fucked by someone else. My legs gave way and I nearly shot my load it was that intense.

It’s amazing, but not easy to figure out immediately so go slow and talk - lots.

As a previous poster put, only regret what you haven’t done…

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

What does that mean, ‘at the moment it seems like there is always one of us on the losing end’ ?

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow

What does that mean, ‘at the moment it seems like there is always one of us on the losing end’ ?"

I think he means hes making her feel guilty about being uncomfortable with the idea

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By *andclangCouple
over a year ago

Swindon

I’m exactly the same … I’m more worried about what comes after and how I will feel!!

Will I feel like he’s given me away, that he doesn’t love me that’s why it was so easy to hand me over! Will I feel like I’m inadequate!(and I’m extremely confident in the bedroom) so that would really knock me !! And what if what we have is nolonger good enough for him, and he’s using this just to get a hall pass to have sex with other people!!

He has been here before with a previous partner and although I’m a complete deviant! A lot of my naughty adventures have been solo ! And I guess haven’t had all the emotions wrapped up in them ….

I know the only way to find these answers is to just do it !!! I’m a serial overthinker (I overthink everything) But I also hear what others have said !! You can’t undo it once it’s done !!!

Be interesting to see what other ladies experiences have been, their first time and how they felt after ??? Mrs C

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

"I’m exactly the same … I’m more worried about what comes after and how I will feel!!

I know the only way to find these answers is to just do it !!! I’m a serial overthinker (I overthink everything) But I also hear what others have said !! You can’t undo it once it’s done !!!

Be interesting to see what other ladies experiences have been, their first time and how they felt after ??? Mrs C "

Crikey, that's a lot of doubt to dabble with

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By *andclangCouple
over a year ago

Swindon

"I’m exactly the same … I’m more worried about what comes after and how I will feel!!

I know the only way to find these answers is to just do it !!! I’m a serial overthinker (I overthink everything) But I also hear what others have said !! You can’t undo it once it’s done !!!

Be interesting to see what other ladies experiences have been, their first time and how they felt after ??? Mrs C

Crikey, that's a lot of doubt to dabble with "

Yep ….. well like I said new dynamic for me !!!

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By *inglecouple14Couple
over a year ago

W.London

I was similar when my other half mentioned it for the first time. Took me a few weeks just to understand it all and realise he was doing it out of love as he loves seeing me happy and also fulfils his desires.

The first time was a worry but we met with a guy on here at a hotel and took it steady but had a lot of fun and we all really relaxed after 5 mins, after the first meet there was no worries at all after that and it’s extremely exhilarating.

We do it quite often now and adding new ideas but if you are both happy with it and trust each other than give it ago and thank us later, it’s like when you first meet each other and are constantly at it but on a permanent basis. We love each other and this has made us stronger in my opinion

Oh and the reclaim sex afterwards is mind blowing, especially with a full load in you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us it was a lot of talking, then socials then being brave and heading to a club - the first visit to one was a disaster but we talked it through A LOT and then started the process again.

We have since found that a lot of the worries are now gone however until you start the experience, you just don’t know 100% how it’ll feel.

But we still stick to the number 1 rule - if during any interaction whether it’s through fab, at a social or in a club, we have a signal that communicates I’m not comfortable. The other can then take the lead to end the interaction… this gives us both confidence that we have an agreed ‘get out’.

Whenever you feel ready, my advice - be brave and have fun. X

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

"I’m exactly the same … I’m more worried about what comes after and how I will feel!!

I know the only way to find these answers is to just do it !!! I’m a serial overthinker (I overthink everything) But I also hear what others have said !! You can’t undo it once it’s done !!!

Be interesting to see what other ladies experiences have been, their first time and how they felt after ??? Mrs C

Crikey, that's a lot of doubt to dabble with

Yep ….. well like I said new dynamic for me !!! "

It doesn't seem worth the potential personal damage

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By *otwife and MasterCouple
over a year ago

Derby

OP we were in exactly same place 13 years ago. I (HW) was very nervous about the whole thing, didn’t understand what M would get out of seeing me with other guys etc.

We tried various dynamics/scenarios, some which didn’t work but our outlook was always try something once and if either of us doesn’t like it, we won’t do it again. Our meets have evolved until we are at a point where we both enjoy it equally, because we have communicated and trusted each other.

I felt that socials (not sexy for me) and clubs (not enough control on who you meet) were a no no for me and arranging meets at our own home allowed me to be most relaxed and uninhibited; that may work for you guys too?

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By *efinitely MaybeCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

L had to deal with those same issues, however all her concerns vanished on her first date very quickly. What was meant to be “just a drink” to shut me up escalated to much more than I expected.

Watching her flirt, kiss and get passionate with another man was something else. That’s when I had the opposite thoughts to manage. I was the one with doubts and she was the one who wanted to go all the way.

It is hard for some women to overcome the obstacle, but the man has to accept the result.

The high’s and low’s for the man take some managing and are tough at times...

Excitement, arousal, desire, pleasure, euphoria, fear, jealousy, regret, shame.

It’s great...

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By *ore4fundevonCouple
over a year ago

West Devon

Although we're not specifically a HW couple we had similar anxieties to overcome original.

We echo some of the above. We enjoy going to clubs, meeting and mixing but prefer meets at home as you can take time to be a bit more choosy and for Mrs she is in an environment she knows and feels comfortable in.

It took her more time than I to get her head around what we were trying to do. Although we had both discussed and had similar thoughts (separately) of what we wanted to achieve I guess it was easier for me to process or something. We were on here for about a year before we actually met anyone. We both agreed we would try it once and if either of us had any concerns during or after we would stop /not do it again.

She was that nervous that she would only meet wearing a blindfold. I was made to choose the guy (actually not something I enjoyed) so that she didn't see the guy we met before, during or after.

Turns out the whole experience was a positive and we both enjoyed it, the blindfold only lasted one more meet after that before it wasn't required.

I do enjoy watching her with another Guy (but also enjoy joining in too.) I quite like the idea of her meeting someone while I'm out with the kids, or her going out to meet someone while I'm at home with the kids but she would have to sign off on it too. The closest we've come to this is me staying downstairs while she entertains two guys upstairs. The whole encounter was video's for me to watch back later - quite enjoyable and surprising to see that side of her with little encouragement from me.

Although we seem to be on an extended break at the moment we're both keen to resume and continue exploring and learning.

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

best advice i can give is if your relationship is not rock solid dont do it ..if you cant talk and be very open dont do it ... if theres any doubt from either side dont do it ... cuckold couples are the strongest of the strong relationship wise and thats why they can do it ..

go the hotwife route for a while get used to fucking other men in front of hubby before any of the cuckold stuff that will soon tell you everything tou need to know ..

the amount of men ive seen change there mind after there first cuckolding encounter is high theyu think they want to be cuck but when it gets very real they realise they dont

i.we are a real lifestyle 24/7 cuckold couple

#justmyopinion

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By *andclangCouple
over a year ago

Swindon

"I was similar when my other half mentioned it for the first time. Took me a few weeks just to understand it all and realise he was doing it out of love as he loves seeing me happy and also fulfils his desires.

Oh and the reclaim sex afterwards is mind blowing, especially with a full load in you

Thank you for giving me some advice

S is very reassuring and I know he loves me, but you’re right I struggle to make sense of it! Maybe because of previous partners!!! They’ve never wanted to share me! even though it was talked about!!! It was a betrayal and a massive No No …. C

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By *andclangCouple
over a year ago

Swindon

"best advice i can give is if your relationship is not rock solid dont do it ..if you cant talk and be very open dont do it ... if theres any doubt from either side dont do it ... cuckold couples are the strongest of the strong relationship wise and thats why they can do it ..

go the hotwife route for a while get used to fucking other men in front of hubby before any of the cuckold stuff that will soon tell you everything tou need to know ..

the amount of men ive seen change there mind after there first cuckolding encounter is high theyu think they want to be cuck but when it gets very real they realise they dont

i.we are a real lifestyle 24/7 cuckold couple

#justmyopinion"

Thankyou for taking the time to reply! I’d consider us as strong!! But for me I’ve never been with anyone that has allowed me to talk and feel the things I do, without making me feel

A little ashamed or them telling me I make them feel Inadequate!.

He has openly embraced all the kinks I have and wants me to explore what makes me happy! …. I suppose I just feel like there’s gotta be a catch somewhere hahaha C

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks everyone!

The advice so far has been helpful.

We are 100% happy in our relationship and we aren’t doing this as some attempt to save it, it’s something we would like to do for fun as a couple.

Perhaps going for a normal MMF threesome would be a better option, the cuckold route does interest us and there is things we would like to try from that but it’s probably going in at the deep end!

We have role played the scenario a few times which is fun, discussed what we would like to do and also done some basic cuckold things like her discussing ex-partners and how much bigger/better that are, places they have done it, making me just watch as she plays with her self and talks about this stuff etc which is a turn on and has broke the ice a bit.

She is also interested in playing with another women and feels less pressure about that so we thought that may also be an easier way in to this lifestyle and getting to see how everything goes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can’t stress enough how important communication is! Talk and talk lots! Set standards and rules. Only go with it when you are both completely ready! Meet someone who understands the lifestyle and not just anyone who wants to fuck your wife. Lots of “bulls” out there who think they know and understand a hotwife/cuckold lifestyle so don’t dive in, take your time and good luck!

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By *d4funtimesMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

Just do whatever and when you are both comfortable with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The first venture into this is always going to be bumpy. It's hard to work out what your dynamic is as it often becomes apparent that it's different to what was originally in your head. Since starting this lifestyle, mine and my partners rules, boundaries, scenarios, fantasies and general turn ons have changed and evolved as we have gone on.

Wow fantastic advice thank you

Good luck!"

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By *ore4fundevonCouple
over a year ago

West Devon

"Thanks everyone!

Perhaps going for a normal MMF threesome would be a better option, the cuckold route does interest us and there is things we would like to try from that but it’s probably going in at the deep end!

Going with an MMF route is a good start. I tend to step in and out so to speak. Play for a bit, sit back and watch/take some pictures or video and join back in again as the mood allows.

The full on Cuckold thing has never really done it for me so we don't go that far but it wouldn't be very hard to add elements of it in as your confidence and mood etc allows

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By *icknHMan
over a year ago

Ilfracombe

Oh and the reclaim sex afterwards is mind blowing, especially with a full load in you

Just curious, would you be ok with a couples swap and seeing him do the same as you or is it just guys for you ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Thanks everyone!

Perhaps going for a normal MMF threesome would be a better option, the cuckold route does interest us and there is things we would like to try from that but it’s probably going in at the deep end!

Going with an MMF route is a good start. I tend to step in and out so to speak. Play for a bit, sit back and watch/take some pictures or video and join back in again as the mood allows.

The full on Cuckold thing has never really done it for me so we don't go that far but it wouldn't be very hard to add elements of it in as your confidence and mood etc allows"

Yeah I think that’s what we will end up doing, I am happy to join in and then step out and watch etc for a bit. There is some cuckold things I will add to it as time goes on but I wouldn’t say we are 100% a cuckold couple as there is also a lot of things involved with that which done interest us.

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By *otwifeandcuckCouple
over a year ago

Blackpool

"Thanks everyone!

Perhaps going for a normal MMF threesome would be a better option, the cuckold route does interest us and there is things we would like to try from that but it’s probably going in at the deep end!

Going with an MMF route is a good start. I tend to step in and out so to speak. Play for a bit, sit back and watch/take some pictures or video and join back in again as the mood allows.

The full on Cuckold thing has never really done it for me so we don't go that far but it wouldn't be very hard to add elements of it in as your confidence and mood etc allows

Do the bits you like.

There is no hard lines in this that means you have to x y or z to be something. Just enjoy the bits you like and add other bits.

Ultimately its about you both enjoying yourselves not being labelled as a stag and vixen or cuckold etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any Scottish cuckolds on forum

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"Hi.

We are a young couple and looking for some feedback, we signed up here a few months ago to have a browse and get some ideas on this lifestyle.

Just curious to hear if any other couples were in a similar predicament & how it went after a few meets.

Alternatively if you did have these desires and didn't proceed did it cause any issues."

It will change things. We did it... I got a bit jealous to start... But we talked it through and we had a few years of great fun after that. Then she lost interest.advise would be to take it slow and enjoy it. There's no 100% guarantee about anything so if you're waiting for that it won't happen.

Oh... And dont drink too much.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for the info.

We have discussed this quite a lot and definitely not rushed in to anything, we are taking our time planning it and making sure we are both happy. I personally dont think I will get jealous but we will see when it happens and if there is any issues we can sort them out.

How did it change things for you as a couple?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our situations are similar, albeit yours is further down the line.

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By *enerifehotwifecplCouple
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

It made us stronger x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She has a lovely body by the way. I am sure she will have no difficulty in pleasing being the centre of attention but remember, 90% of attraction is in the mind. If she feels sexy, she will be sexy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It made us stronger x"

What a lovely curvy figure you have!!

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By *enerifehotwifecplCouple
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Thanks hubby here just now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks hubby here just now "

What lovely, contrastingly dark cock you have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi.

We are a young couple and looking for some feedback, we signed up here a few months ago to have a browse and get some ideas on this lifestyle.

Just curious to hear if any other couples were in a similar predicament & how it went after a few meets.

Alternatively if you did have these desires and didn't proceed did it cause any issues."

Socials and possibly swing clubs could be the best place to start but don't jump into or be pressured to do anything until completely sure and comfortable....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"While there's doubt, don't do anything.

You can't undo it then"

Absolutely agree with this. I have been fortunate enough to have a number of cuck adventures over the years. I met one newbie couple twice socially but didn't go any further because she was very unsure. Lots of "what if" questions. I still think it was the right call.

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By *onlywishiMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

Talking and being honest with each other is the best thing as most have told you

But also finding friends on here who are local will help especially guiding you through your time on here at this point there doesn’t need to be play but having someone who can help you enjoy the experience and maybe take some of the risk out of meeting could help ?

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"Thanks for the info.

How did it change things for you as a couple?"

Assume this is to me... Sometimes you can over think things. As I said you'll never remove all doubts and never be 100 %. Strangely the jealousy was from the intimacy... Not from the sex. Made my heart race and feel alive and I was a bit wobbly for a few weeks after. But it was incredibly horny so we spoke about it.. Made a few changes and tried again and it was all good. As for how did it change things? Not greatly really... It was a bit of horny fun for a while and then she lost interest / got out of the habit / other stuff took priority. Last bit of advice....dont take any of it too seriously. Its just a bit of fun.

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

"As I said you'll never remove all doubts and never be 100 %. "

and yet so many cuckold couples have ???

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"As I said you'll never remove all doubts and never be 100 %.

and yet so many cuckold couples have ???"

I meant for the first time. Not once you've got your feet wet and have experience. Were you guys 100 certain your first time?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"She has a lovely body by the way. I am sure she will have no difficulty in pleasing being the centre of attention but remember, 90% of attraction is in the mind. If she feels sexy, she will be sexy. "

She definitely does

I think being on here, discussing this and other ideas has definitely helped her confidence and opened her mind to other possibilities too which have all helped!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It made us stronger x"

Good to hear, I am 100% sure we would be the same too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She has a lovely body by the way. I am sure she will have no difficulty in pleasing being the centre of attention but remember, 90% of attraction is in the mind. If she feels sexy, she will be sexy.

She definitely does

I think being on here, discussing this and other ideas has definitely helped her confidence and opened her mind to other possibilities too which have all helped!"

In fact. I think I might use her pics to please myself.

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By *ctionman11Man
over a year ago

maldon

"As I said you'll never remove all doubts and never be 100 %.

and yet so many cuckold couples have ???"

Very true that

Love playing with a cuckold couple, it is the bulls duty to make sure everyone enjoys themselves , on what ever level of cuckold the couple desires

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"As I said you'll never remove all doubts and never be 100 %.

and yet so many cuckold couples have ???

Very true that

Love playing with a cuckold couple, it is the bulls duty to make sure everyone enjoys themselves , on what ever level of cuckold the couple desires "

That is one of the things we discussed, at the end of the day we are doing this together and I want to see her 100% happy and satisfied, not just someone to come in and 5 mins later they are done

So that something else we need to consider as a couple too.

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By *inglecouple14Couple
over a year ago

W.London

"Thanks everyone!

Perhaps going for a normal MMF threesome would be a better option, the cuckold route does interest us and there is things we would like to try from that but it’s probably going in at the deep end!

Going with an MMF route is a good start. I tend to step in and out so to speak. Play for a bit, sit back and watch/take some pictures or video and join back in again as the mood allows.

The full on Cuckold thing has never really done it for me so we don't go that far but it wouldn't be very hard to add elements of it in as your confidence and mood etc allows

Do the bits you like.

There is no hard lines in this that means you have to x y or z to be something. Just enjoy the bits you like and add other bits.

Ultimately its about you both enjoying yourselves not being labelled as a stag and vixen or cuckold etc"

We agree with that, when my hubby first brought this up I was looking at all sorts cuckold stuff online, some really fun and others I thought quite bizarre. In the end we just done our own thing, probably more hotwife/S&V with some kinks but we try not to label our self as such and just go with the flow.

Have a look online at some cuckold kinks and see what you really like, there might only be a few things which you like. I felt there was a pressure with the whole cuckold title, expecting me to do all sorts of things so have a chat and work out what you each want to do.

The hotwife set up is great, I love playing alone and sending him videos or telling him how my meets have gone.. but on the other side I also enjoy him licking me clean after a good session so maybe we are a bit cuck

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By *asupforfunMan
over a year ago

Oldbury

Hi all i would love to meet a cuckold couple, I do hope i can find a cuckold couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My.mrs and I wee separated a few years ago and I've spoken to the guy she was seeing for a gew months. He was telling.me what he made her do and kt wasn't what she was doing with me. He's a nice guy but he rely made her a slut

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By *ancs29Man
over a year ago

oldham

Hello guys i am from oldham as you can see i am interested in meeting a cuckhold couple i have done a couple forum topics think i made a bit of a cock of asking the wrong way i am hoping adding to this forum i could possibly be asking it the right way please pm me if any couples would be interested and thanks for reading

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

I'm after a cuckoo clock is this the right thread?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Thanks everyone!

Perhaps going for a normal MMF threesome would be a better option, the cuckold route does interest us and there is things we would like to try from that but it’s probably going in at the deep end!

Going with an MMF route is a good start. I tend to step in and out so to speak. Play for a bit, sit back and watch/take some pictures or video and join back in again as the mood allows.

The full on Cuckold thing has never really done it for me so we don't go that far but it wouldn't be very hard to add elements of it in as your confidence and mood etc allows

Do the bits you like.

There is no hard lines in this that means you have to x y or z to be something. Just enjoy the bits you like and add other bits.

Ultimately its about you both enjoying yourselves not being labelled as a stag and vixen or cuckold etc

lol"

Thanks for the info, this is just like us.

Tbh the last few weeks it has died off and we don’t discuss it much but I think when you add a label to it it seems to add an element of pressure but in reality we are both looking for some fun and to enjoy ourselves. My partner was really unsure originally but has came round to it and I am massively appreciative of that, i think we will probably end up just doing MMF meets and then adding bits to it rather than full on cuckold scenario. There is various things I would try to link to the cuckold fetish but we can add this as we go along, such as verbal stuff, cuckold clean up etc. so far we are taking steps to introduce this lifestyle so we have a long way to go and the mrs is still not 100%!

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow

Do you understand that she probably sees this as you being selfish ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take your time chatting and selecting someone. Always make sure there's an attraction and a connection. Decide on what type of A.N.Other yas want and bide your time until the right person comes along. But I can tell you when you do decide to go for it. The nerves and excitement will be unreal! And when there's another man's cock on front of yas things will take their natural course! Enjoy the moment!

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By *iganpairCouple
over a year ago

Wigan, Lancs.

That's good advice cuckolding full on isn't for everyone

go the hotwife route for a while get used to fucking other men in front of hubby before any of the cuckold stuff that will soon tell you everything tou need to know ..

the amount of men ive seen change there mind after there first cuckolding encounter is high theyu think they want to be cuck but when it gets very real they realise they dont

i.we are a real lifestyle 24/7 cuckold couple

#justmyopinion"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do you understand that she probably sees this as you being selfish ? "

Yeah 100%, we have had plenty of deep discussions about this and its always caused a bit of friction. It was only really until a few months ago we had a proper chat and I explained to her more about the whole thing and suggested we sign up to a site like this to chat and get some other views and it has helped a lot, she fully understands the idea behind it now and has mentioned herself that she would be willing to try it soon/when the time is right so I think being fully open about it all helped but it is 100% on my part and I can see how it does look selfish.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That's good advice cuckolding full on isn't for everyone "

Yeah 100%, I think since signing up here we have definitely changed our views and I would say we are more comfortable with a hotwife scenario and with just some cuckold stuff added to it rather than saying we are a cuckold only couple!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best advice not to listen to any advice! Just go with your feeling and desires x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"L had to deal with those same issues, however all her concerns vanished on her first date very quickly. What was meant to be “just a drink” to shut me up escalated to much more than I expected.

It is hard for some women to overcome the obstacle, but the man has to accept the result.

The high’s and low’s for the man take some managing and are tough at times...

Excitement, arousal, desire, pleasure, euphoria, fear, jealousy, regret, shame.

It’s great...

This hits the nail on the head !! I was in the exact same situation. From talking about it to going through with it, it’s a rollercoaster of emotions ! And needs to be discussed at every level !

The first night, we met the guy in a pub and then it was me having the doubts. We went back to his for a coffee and everything fell into place and a great night was had by all without a doubt xx

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