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By *ixey and Copper OP   Couple
over a year ago

Exeter

We often see (and rightfully so) people commenting on couples profiles and photos only focusing on the Ladies...

Is there a correlation to clubs?

The chaps dress in smart casual, however the ladies put absoloute effort into their outfits to look amazing to stand out!

How is this different? The ladies are quite often the usp, in our relationship rightfully so Mrs is hot

We're prepared to be shot down over this....

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By *ouplewanting30Couple
over a year ago

Thetford

Let's not kid ourselves. The women make the decisions lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because you have all the pussy, and half the money. That’s why.

It's all about perspective.

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By *ixey and Copper OP   Couple
over a year ago

Exeter


"Because you have all the pussy, and half the money. That’s why.

It's all about perspective. "

So couples profiles that focus on the lady are right to do so?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your not looking for single men. Think other couples and single women want to know what Mr looks like. Alot of couples and most women will ignore your profile because you have no pics of Mr.

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By *ixey and Copper OP   Couple
over a year ago

Exeter


"Your not looking for single men. Think other couples and single women want to know what Mr looks like. Alot of couples and most women will ignore your profile because you have no pics of Mr. "

Our profile says we aren't looking to meet.

We're just going to clubs at the moment, so the question isn't based on our profile. It's based on what we see on Fab forum and in clubs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because you have all the pussy, and half the money. That’s why.

It's all about perspective.

So couples profiles that focus on the lady are right to do so?"

Not necessarily.

Perhaps it is more acceptable for women to be the center of attention because generally they need it.

When I tell you that women need attention, I mean that women want you to reach out to them, to make the first move, to initiate conversations and ask questions. Women want you to call them out of the blue, just so you can hear her voice. Women want you to ask about their day and listen closely as they talk.

Perhaps that's why the women are the focus of couple profiles. Generally speaking.

Counter question; Why would it be men instead of women?

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By *ixey and Copper OP   Couple
over a year ago

Exeter


"Because you have all the pussy, and half the money. That’s why.

It's all about perspective.

So couples profiles that focus on the lady are right to do so?

Not necessarily.

Perhaps it is more acceptable for women to be the center of attention because generally they need it.

When I tell you that women need attention, I mean that women want you to reach out to them, to make the first move, to initiate conversations and ask questions. Women want you to call them out of the blue, just so you can hear her voice. Women want you to ask about their day and listen closely as they talk.

Perhaps that's why the women are the focus of couple profiles. Generally speaking.

Counter question; Why would it be men instead of women?

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Lovely answer xxx

Apologies but why would what be men instead of women?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because you have all the pussy, and half the money. That’s why.

It's all about perspective.

So couples profiles that focus on the lady are right to do so?

Not necessarily.

Perhaps it is more acceptable for women to be the center of attention because generally they need it.

When I tell you that women need attention, I mean that women want you to reach out to them, to make the first move, to initiate conversations and ask questions. Women want you to call them out of the blue, just so you can hear her voice. Women want you to ask about their day and listen closely as they talk.

Perhaps that's why the women are the focus of couple profiles. Generally speaking.

Counter question; Why would it be men instead of women?

Lovely answer xxx

Apologies but why would what be men instead of women?"

Would you think it's acceptable to be the other way around? Why would men be the focus of a couples profile?

I have seen a fair share of the latter. Perhaps the Mrs is not into it as much as the Mr so he uploads more of himself.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

It's different because in a club you can see both people together ,on many profiles it's just all the lady and a cock shot of the man.

It's your choice how you run your profile, but for us straight women ,it's good to see the male too if the couple seeks to meet other couples .

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By *ixey and Copper OP   Couple
over a year ago

Exeter


"Because you have all the pussy, and half the money. That’s why.

It's all about perspective.

So couples profiles that focus on the lady are right to do so?

Not necessarily.

Perhaps it is more acceptable for women to be the center of attention because generally they need it.

When I tell you that women need attention, I mean that women want you to reach out to them, to make the first move, to initiate conversations and ask questions. Women want you to call them out of the blue, just so you can hear her voice. Women want you to ask about their day and listen closely as they talk.

Perhaps that's why the women are the focus of couple profiles. Generally speaking.

Counter question; Why would it be men instead of women?

Lovely answer xxx

Apologies but why would what be men instead of women?

Would you think it's acceptable to be the other way around? Why would men be the focus of a couples profile?

I have seen a fair share of the latter. Perhaps the Mrs is not into it as much as the Mr so he uploads more of himself. "

The question and post was based purely on what is often mentioned on the forum, and what we see in clubs, we don't recall many posts about the chaps being too much of the focus (not saying there isn't any)

What ever people do is entirely up to them, no right or wrong. Just something we've noticed, and thought we'd start a conversation

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I've not been to a club but have social events both Mr and Mrs on display and usually well dressed.

Profiles vary depending what people want to put, some men seem to not like their photo taken, I find it difficult to meet couples on fab for that reason many are female focused as much as I like the ladies I want to see the other I'm expected to sleep with, clubs and socials are much easier in that respect.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've not been to a club but have social events both Mr and Mrs on display and usually well dressed.

Profiles vary depending what people want to put, some men seem to not like their photo taken, I find it difficult to meet couples on fab for that reason many are female focused as much as I like the ladies I want to see the other I'm expected to sleep with, clubs and socials are much easier in that respect.

Mrs "

Exactly this….we both have to be happy to play with each of the others or it’s not taken further as we don’t play separate.

MrsD

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Let's not kid ourselves. The women make the decisions lol. "

If women genuinely made all the decisions in swinging the men wouldn’t look so mediocre and would make an effort with their appearance.

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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness

Happy to admit that Kiki always looks better dressed than I ever will lol

I don't see why smart casual should be seen as putting less effort in for a club visit though

I would have thought that's how you would want to dress lol

Less formal than suit and tie, bit smarter than donkey jacket and wellies

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

I put the effort in as we mainly attend GG or GB nights. So I'm looking for quantity. I have to dress nuce ect to attract a lot of interest. Mr is there to 'host' the play and be last in. .

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By *iren!Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

OP..... interesting question.

As a unicorn I like to dress up because I don't dress up often and perhaps because I am insecure so I require the validation at a club.

There are guys that make an effort but I think there always has and always will be more pressure on woman.

To be honest we should just do a nudist party no dress down options

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West


"We often see (and rightfully so) people commenting on couples profiles and photos only focusing on the Ladies...

Is there a correlation to clubs?

The chaps dress in smart casual, however the ladies put absoloute effort into their outfits to look amazing to stand out!

How is this different? The ladies are quite often the usp, in our relationship rightfully so Mrs is hot

We're prepared to be shot down over this...."

If I wanted to focus only on the woman I’d meet only the woman lol. I prefer everyone to be into everyone for group play.

If I’m talking to couples profiles I want them to look like couples profiles and show both.

Similarly I won’t speak to single men who’s profile looks like a couple.

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