FabSwingers.com forum: 'Meet Today' is posted, and then your message is never read.....Why?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Anyone else find it frustrating, when you send a message on here in response to a 'Meet Today' post, and then your message is never read?? Just makes you wonder whether its worth replying to 'Meet Today' posts or not!!

Moan over. Apologies in advance!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Maybe someone got in first and they are too busy shagging to type a reply.

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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago

with the moon n stars somewhere in gtr manc

They may have already lined someone else up?

Or someone else took their fancy.

Just move on to the next, no need to fret.

Good luck

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

some people put them up for another night

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

One of the last occasions I posted one I got hundreds of nessages. It takes along time to answer all of them and dont bother opening those outside my age range or distance etc x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just because someone advertises a 'meet today' doesn't mean they have to reply to messages any more than they do at any other time.

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

When I have no meet today up, I get about 10 messages a day.

The last time I put a meet today up, I received 96 messages within 2 hours of posting it. That is maybe 1 reason why it doesn't get opened or answered.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for all the comments! I was just having a moan

Patience is a virtue....etc..etc..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"They may have already lined someone else up?

Or someone else took their fancy.

Just move on to the next, no need to fret.

Good luck"

Thanks!

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Perhaps they checked the profile first and decided not for them.

Perhaps they have a particular type in mind more specific than their usual type and they are after a certain age range/body type/race/gender.

Perhaps they said yes to the first message and are tonking like bunnies.

Perhaps they got called into work/their mum turned up unannounced.

Perhaps their period came early.

Perhaps they ended up watching something good on telly.

Perhaps they had a glass of wine while they decided, polished off the whole bottle and are sleeping it off.

Want me to keep going?

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"Just because someone advertises a 'meet today' doesn't mean they have to reply to messages any more than they do at any other time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Perhaps they checked the profile first and decided not for them.

Perhaps they have a particular type in mind more specific than their usual type and they are after a certain age range/body type/race/gender.

Perhaps they said yes to the first message and are tonking like bunnies.

Perhaps they got called into work/their mum turned up unannounced.

Perhaps their period came early.

Perhaps they ended up watching something good on telly.

Perhaps they had a glass of wine while they decided, polished off the whole bottle and are sleeping it off.

Want me to keep going?

...perhaps not.... lol

Point taken!

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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know

"Anyone else find it frustrating, when you send a message on here in response to a 'Meet Today' post, and then your message is never read?? Just makes you wonder whether its worth replying to 'Meet Today' posts or not!!

Moan over. Apologies in advance!

OP can you give us an update was your message read?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yep, The message hasn't been read so maybe the person concerned got a better offer, or just logged out after i'd sent the message

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yep, The message hasn't been read so maybe the person concerned got a better offer, or just logged out after i'd sent the message

...or more likely had a sneaky look at my profile and logged out straight away!!

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"When I have no meet today up, I get about 10 messages a day.

The last time I put a meet today up, I received 96 messages within 2 hours of posting it. That is maybe 1 reason why it doesn't get opened or answered. "

That is enough reason not to post a meet request, let alone then being slated for not responding.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I have posted a meet for Saturday but have specified those on my current friends list. So cue shitloads of friend requests along with messages from total strangers with no face pics. LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have posted a meet for Saturday but have specified those on my current friends list. So cue shitloads of friend requests along with messages from total strangers with no face pics. LOL "

Can't win sometimes, can you...

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