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Bareback double standards..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

does anyone else find it really funny when guy says its bad how many women are going bareback on here but they are as well and its fine? double standards haha.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

That's not something I've ever seen here

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

Bareback for me equals instant block. Don’t think you can block bareback on the search function but that would be a good idea to be able to choose not to see them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bareback for me equals instant block. Don’t think you can block bareback on the search function but that would be a good idea to be able to choose not to see them. "

It doesn't matter if you could block or bot ad with other things like smoking etc, people will just lie

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim


"Bareback for me equals instant block. Don’t think you can block bareback on the search function but that would be a good idea to be able to choose not to see them. "

I have a rule of thumb I don’t meet those that do bare

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've always hated condoms in our sex life. Just not the same.

Understandably protection is important. Slippery slope, the whole protection deal.

I know where I've been and my partner but you never know where someone else has.

Double edged sword.

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim


"We've always hated condoms in our sex life. Just not the same.

Understandably protection is important. Slippery slope, the whole protection deal.

I know where I've been and my partner but you never know where someone else has.

That’s very true

Double edged sword. "

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By *adysueandneroCouple
over a year ago

witney


"Bareback for me equals instant block. Don’t think you can block bareback on the search function but that would be a good idea to be able to choose not to see them.

I have a rule of thumb I don’t meet those that do bare"

How do you know they don't do bareback?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've always hated condoms in our sex life. Just not the same.

Understandably protection is important. Slippery slope, the whole protection deal.

I know where I've been and my partner but you never know where someone else has.

Double edged sword. "

Great comment x totally agree with you x

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By *lipandSlide777Couple
over a year ago

Bideford

Surprisingly how many you meet when profiles say play safe and they try going bare. It's like no chance. And when they turn up without condoms even worse.

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

people lie many have safe sex ticked and clearly dont do safe sex .... i refuse to tick the box that way they or i have to ask and have that convo ...but if you think your a saint and only go with safe people then your more of a fool than you think just because someone tell you they are safe dont mean they are ..

also those who slag those who go bare why ?? its their bodies their choice same as your choice ..

there no such thing as safe sex only safer sex and those that use condoms tend not to get tested either

me well i play safe apart from 2 regulars ive know for 30 yrs&24 yrs everyone else safe i get tested every 6 weeks no fail im lucky that i volunteer for a safe sex charity to help out its a sad fact that those who play safe rarely think they have to get checked yet they can still catch sti's and spread them..

we are lucky that we live in a country where its still a very low risk for all sexual sti the biggest groups within our charity who are high risk (yet still low risk) are teenagers to mid 20s and married bi sexual men

everyone should test if more than one sexual partner bare or safe

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By *aggy dollsCouple
over a year ago

bradford

Can't say I e personally noticed but any double standards generally get my goat.

Mr Hayes

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Plenty of people on here have safe sex listed yet engage in unprotected sex.

Just look after yourself and get tested!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im a safe sex only person. If you dont like condoms then pass me by. I see so many people say safe sex only but there pictures say different. Some are couples profiles and i understand they wont be with eachother. But lots of singles show different.

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By *iss pleasuringWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near

I'm sure we all have fab friends that we enjoy socials with regardless of their profile bio

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol


"does anyone else find it really funny when guy says its bad how many women are going bareback on here but they are as well and its fine? double standards haha. "

Can't say I've noticed that once.

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth


"people lie many have safe sex ticked and clearly dont do safe sex .... i refuse to tick the box that way they or i have to ask and have that convo ...but if you think your a saint and only go with safe people then your more of a fool than you think just because someone tell you they are safe dont mean they are ..

also those who slag those who go bare why ?? its their bodies their choice same as your choice ..

there no such thing as safe sex only safer sex and those that use condoms tend not to get tested either

me well i play safe apart from 2 regulars ive know for 30 yrs&24 yrs everyone else safe i get tested every 6 weeks no fail im lucky that i volunteer for a safe sex charity to help out its a sad fact that those who play safe rarely think they have to get checked yet they can still catch sti's and spread them..

we are lucky that we live in a country where its still a very low risk for all sexual sti the biggest groups within our charity who are high risk (yet still low risk) are teenagers to mid 20s and married bi sexual men

everyone should test if more than one sexual partner bare or safe"

Interesting post, thx

In the past I have very rarely been asked if I would be happy to not use a condom and always have said I would prefer to ..

In clubs just recently I have noticed more folk not using them...I don't know if it is just coincidence..

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By *d4funtimesMan
over a year ago

Cambridge


"does anyone else find it really funny when guy says its bad how many women are going bareback on here but they are as well and its fine? double standards haha. "

Indeed, you are right

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By *arried-BBW-LookingWoman
over a year ago

fun town

Only had one guy say he wouldn’t meet me without wearing a condom and that’s fine, every other guy wants bareback even though it states on their profile safe sex only

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very rare I go bb only done it a handful of times only with couples on request

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only had one guy say he wouldn’t meet me without wearing a condom and that’s fine, every other guy wants bareback even though it states on their profile safe sex only "

Definitely agree with you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was thinking about this recently. Almost every video I've seen on here is bareback.

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By *olly SwallowsTV/TS
over a year ago

Sexville

You can only trust yourself, whatever you preference you need to look after yourself! Don’t trust others to do it for you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to there own do as you like I say if everyone is happy to

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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago

Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters


"does anyone else find it really funny when guy says its bad how many women are going bareback on here but they are as well and its fine? double standards haha. "

Can’t say that’s something I’ve seen or come across on here, myself. What I have seen quite a bit, however, is having high and mighty and judgemental views on P-in-V bareback yet zero qualms when it comes to oral sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bareback even in my single younger days was a no no even with girl mates of mine even when d*unk I always took condoms with me and I must say usually the girls where like it's fine I'm on the pill...

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset


"people lie many have safe sex ticked and clearly dont do safe sex .... i refuse to tick the box that way they or i have to ask and have that convo ...but if you think your a saint and only go with safe people then your more of a fool than you think just because someone tell you they are safe dont mean they are ..

also those who slag those who go bare why ?? its their bodies their choice same as your choice ..

there no such thing as safe sex only safer sex and those that use condoms tend not to get tested either

me well i play safe apart from 2 regulars ive know for 30 yrs&24 yrs everyone else safe i get tested every 6 weeks no fail im lucky that i volunteer for a safe sex charity to help out its a sad fact that those who play safe rarely think they have to get checked yet they can still catch sti's and spread them..

we are lucky that we live in a country where its still a very low risk for all sexual sti the biggest groups within our charity who are high risk (yet still low risk) are teenagers to mid 20s and married bi sexual men

everyone should test if more than one sexual partner bare or safe

Interesting post, thx

In the past I have very rarely been asked if I would be happy to not use a condom and always have said I would prefer to ..

In clubs just recently I have noticed more folk not using them...I don't know if it is just coincidence..

"

its no differenve now to what it was 30 yrs ago most swingers play bare they always have done the only reason you see safe sex on alot profiles is so people dont get a ear bashing or judged and want to fit in the the click on these tiny tiny forums ... these forum are not the rule book of swinging the vast bulk of swingers dont do forums and especially dont follow them..

safer sex is down to your self and how you go about things you cant trust anyone unless you know them very well ... id rather go with a barebacker who gets regular testing than a safe sexer who dont get tested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"people lie many have safe sex ticked and clearly dont do safe sex .... i refuse to tick the box that way they or i have to ask and have that convo ...but if you think your a saint and only go with safe people then your more of a fool than you think just because someone tell you they are safe dont mean they are ..

also those who slag those who go bare why ?? its their bodies their choice same as your choice ..

there no such thing as safe sex only safer sex and those that use condoms tend not to get tested either

me well i play safe apart from 2 regulars ive know for 30 yrs&24 yrs everyone else safe i get tested every 6 weeks no fail im lucky that i volunteer for a safe sex charity to help out its a sad fact that those who play safe rarely think they have to get checked yet they can still catch sti's and spread them..

we are lucky that we live in a country where its still a very low risk for all sexual sti the biggest groups within our charity who are high risk (yet still low risk) are teenagers to mid 20s and married bi sexual men

everyone should test if more than one sexual partner bare or safe

Interesting post, thx

In the past I have very rarely been asked if I would be happy to not use a condom and always have said I would prefer to ..

In clubs just recently I have noticed more folk not using them...I don't know if it is just coincidence..

its no differenve now to what it was 30 yrs ago most swingers play bare they always have done the only reason you see safe sex on alot profiles is so people dont get a ear bashing or judged and want to fit in the the click on these tiny tiny forums ... these forum are not the rule book of swinging the vast bulk of swingers dont do forums and especially dont follow them..

safer sex is down to your self and how you go about things you cant trust anyone unless you know them very well ... id rather go with a barebacker who gets regular testing than a safe sexer who dont get tested"

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth


"people lie many have safe sex ticked and clearly dont do safe sex .... i refuse to tick the box that way they or i have to ask and have that convo ...but if you think your a saint and only go with safe people then your more of a fool than you think just because someone tell you they are safe dont mean they are ..

also those who slag those who go bare why ?? its their bodies their choice same as your choice ..

there no such thing as safe sex only safer sex and those that use condoms tend not to get tested either

me well i play safe apart from 2 regulars ive know for 30 yrs&24 yrs everyone else safe i get tested every 6 weeks no fail im lucky that i volunteer for a safe sex charity to help out its a sad fact that those who play safe rarely think they have to get checked yet they can still catch sti's and spread them..

we are lucky that we live in a country where its still a very low risk for all sexual sti the biggest groups within our charity who are high risk (yet still low risk) are teenagers to mid 20s and married bi sexual men

everyone should test if more than one sexual partner bare or safe

Interesting post, thx

In the past I have very rarely been asked if I would be happy to not use a condom and always have said I would prefer to ..

In clubs just recently I have noticed more folk not using them...I don't know if it is just coincidence..

its no differenve now to what it was 30 yrs ago most swingers play bare they always have done the only reason you see safe sex on alot profiles is so people dont get a ear bashing or judged and want to fit in the the click on these tiny tiny forums ... these forum are not the rule book of swinging the vast bulk of swingers dont do forums and especially dont follow them..

safer sex is down to your self and how you go about things you cant trust anyone unless you know them very well ... id rather go with a barebacker who gets regular testing than a safe sexer who dont get tested

"

Interesting , I didn't appreciate this.

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