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By *unny and bare OP   Couple
over a year ago

kent

Is it us or are there an increasing number of time wasters on the site now , especially since covid. It’s mostly single guys it has to be said and making us considering leaving as life is too short !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do you mean time wasters?

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By *rightonfranceMan
over a year ago

brighton - chalais france

yeah I've had plenty and before covid too..

yep.. single guys pretending to be a woman or a couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get a lot of guys who want Snapchat or cyber, but don't want actual meets. Gets pretty dull..

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By *linyMan
over a year ago

Manchester/London


"Is it us or are there an increasing number of time wasters on the site now , especially since covid. It’s mostly single guys it has to be said and making us considering leaving as life is too short !"

I noticed a lot more new people on the site since lockdown and I think therefore the ratio of wankers oooops sorry I meant time wasters and pic collectors has increased. As is said frequently, it just makes us genuine single guys look better but unfortunately it also has a negative effect on others such as your lovely selves whereby they waste your precious time and energies and make you think twice about leaving this wonderful community.

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By *hil most chillMan
over a year ago

South East & Europe

I find couples to be the most timewastery, but I'd never go on the forum to moan about them

There is definitely an increase in people moaning about timewasters though!

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

Stick to verified clubs people (even if outside a club) and it’s rarely a a problem if at all.

As long as people are clear about why they are here… being here just for cyber is fine- people don’t have to meet x

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By * AND R 777Couple
over a year ago

Teesside

It's why we mostly meet at clubs these days and use fab to keep in touch with people we have already met, but if you take your time there is still some very nice genuine people on fab

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Honestly no idea if there are any more than normal because in 6 years here I've never met it chatted to anyone I would consider a timewaster. I've never had a no show or been one and my definition of a timewaster is someone who wastes their own time by not reading my profile. They certainly aren't wasting my time.

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley


"I get a lot of guys who want Snapchat.."

I'm willing to talk someone through snapping his dick in half, if that's his kink...

Should help reduce the competition, including time wasters.

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By *ancs29Man
over a year ago

oldham

i am a guy looking for a woman or couple i am very genuine and can not get aa chance to meet anyone loads chat like they will then just drop off chat

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

This is why I no longer take the conversation off the site, people just want to chat and exchange pics... If you consider that time wasting.

Also had quite a few arrange socials then go silent or not turn up. That's more of an issue if I've set aside time for them.

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

It’s clear some people make pretty poor choices on who to meet. A bit more due diligence and communication might stop no shows happening. I never have a problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s clear some people make pretty poor choices on who to meet. A bit more due diligence and communication might stop no shows happening. I never have a problem "

I agree with these comments, some people on here make poor choices and only have themselves to blame for making that decision.

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham

Seems about the same as before to me. Luckily I'm pretty good at spotting them after several years here.

XX

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By *onnie 90Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"It’s clear some people make pretty poor choices on who to meet. A bit more due diligence and communication might stop no shows happening. I never have a problem

I agree with these comments, some people on here make poor choices and only have themselves to blame for making that decision. "

So, in your opinion as a professional, how do you spot an accomplished time waster? Someone who's probably lied their way through life and, as such, is incredibly talented at it.

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By *ancs29Man
over a year ago

oldham


"This is why I no longer take the conversation off the site, people just want to chat and exchange pics... If you consider that time wasting.

Also had quite a few arrange socials then go silent or not turn up. That's more of an issue if I've set aside time for them."

i agree i have chatted for a few weeks arranged a meet they have agreed then come the excuse and drop off chat or even worse agree to meet at a place or a pub then no show

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

I got accused of being a time waster after my initial hello message... Some just see, think, and assume what they want and project it in to the world.

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By *isfun2023Couple
over a year ago

wakefield

We agree ... you chat lots and then next day goes quiet... too much competition for single women ... your messages get lost in their inbox

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get a lot of guys who want Snapchat or cyber, but don't want actual meets. Gets pretty dull.."

They don’t want to meet you silly guys

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

cant remember the last time i was let down but then i so strict on my selection process and i use the best tool that is the block button..

if you keep getting let down then its down to the way you pick your meet .. 99% of wasters are so easy to spot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s so hard as it is with many many men on here and conversations seem hard as women tend to get an overload of messages

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By *erry2020888Man
over a year ago

stockport

I have arranged to meet a woman twice this week she did not show either time, but always had an excuse

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By *ussieChrisMan
over a year ago

Walsall

Sadly this is where those guys make it harder for us other guys. Personally If i say i'm going to meet, i turn up.. well unless something drastic happens, at which point I msg and let them know.

It does sound like its becoming more, and more prevalent in the last year. Sadly it's making more and more couples and ladies consider leaving.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes unfortunately we have been let down on a few occasions by single guys. It cost us time and money when they didn’t turn up and is very frustrating. We try to pick guys now who have a good few verifications etc to try and out the wasters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sadly this is where those guys make it harder for us other guys. Personally If i say i'm going to meet, i turn up.. well unless something drastic happens, at which point I msg and let them know.

It does sound like its becoming more, and more prevalent in the last year. Sadly it's making more and more couples and ladies consider leaving. "

Yes, this is why I asked the question on my thread.

Good point about it making women/ couples consider giving up.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"It’s clear some people make pretty poor choices on who to meet. A bit more due diligence and communication might stop no shows happening. I never have a problem

I agree with these comments, some people on here make poor choices and only have themselves to blame for making that decision. "

Not sure how much you can do to avoid that... They say the same as the people that show up. Also had men that I've met for socials, exchanged numbers, allegedly been on their way to the meet, not turn up... *Shrugs* that's a them thing, not a me thing. They could just say they've changed their mind at any point!

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By *onnie 90Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I have arranged to meet a woman twice this week she did not show either time, but always had an excuse"

One of my rules. NEVER give a second chance.

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim

Yeah I would agree with Layla that yeah stick to verified people and verified clubs and you won’t get the time wasters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have arranged to meet a woman twice this week she did not show either time, but always had an excuse

One of my rules. NEVER give a second chance."

this!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Funny I get called a time waster if I don’t meet and fuck after a few messages and because I’ve been on the site over a year and have no veri’s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Funny I get called a time waster if I don’t meet and fuck after a few messages and because I’ve been on the site over a year and have no veri’s "

I get you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So even more than when you last raised the same point over a year ago OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We agree ... you chat lots and then next day goes quiet... too much competition for single women ... your messages get lost in their inbox "

I often get lost in the Said box?

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By *ussieChrisMan
over a year ago

Walsall


"Funny I get called a time waster if I don’t meet and fuck after a few messages and because I’ve been on the site over a year and have no veri’s "

I think this is a generalisation for most to be fair.. the amount of profiles that say something along the lines of...

'looking for well verified and recent only' etc...

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Tbf, my filters are on the max now as yes life is too short but there's afew good ones too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Funny I get called a time waster if I don’t meet and fuck after a few messages and because I’ve been on the site over a year and have no veri’s

I think this is a generalisation for most to be fair.. the amount of profiles that say something along the lines of...

'looking for well verified and recent only' etc..."

True valid point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

99% of women only find 20% (or work it out yourself. Out of a hundred messages on average how many are you replying too. Probably lower on here) if you find them attractive most other women do too. So many blanket negative statements about men on here but most of you don't interact with 90% of men on here. There's literally hundreds of men avarage on here that would run naked to your house if you asked them but they don't qualify for a look. This is most of you not just the pretty ones. So many fat girls who only want gym type and complain about the type of guys on here ????????????????????????????

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By *eladeCouple
over a year ago

hull

Av had a lot of fake people making fake accounts talking to me.Just feels like a lot of wasted time really don’t understand the thought processes and point.

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By *ad Bod 2023Man
over a year ago

Beverley


"I get a lot of guys who want Snapchat or cyber, but don't want actual meets. Gets pretty dull.."

It also makes it harder for genuine guys to meet new people.

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By *ussieChrisMan
over a year ago

Walsall


"Av had a lot of fake people making fake accounts talking to me.Just feels like a lot of wasted time really don’t understand the thought processes and point. "

agreed, there is just desperation at that point.. at least thats one way to look at it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Funny I get called a time waster if I don’t meet and fuck after a few messages and because I’ve been on the site over a year and have no veri’s

I think this is a generalisation for most to be fair.. the amount of profiles that say something along the lines of...

'looking for well verified and recent only' etc...

True valid point "

But if peeps actually read my profile I am verified I just choose not to show them

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By *ad Bod 2023Man
over a year ago

Beverley


"Av had a lot of fake people making fake accounts talking to me.Just feels like a lot of wasted time really don’t understand the thought processes and point. "

I've messaged you from a genuine account

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By *ussieChrisMan
over a year ago

Walsall


"Funny I get called a time waster if I don’t meet and fuck after a few messages and because I’ve been on the site over a year and have no veri’s

I think this is a generalisation for most to be fair.. the amount of profiles that say something along the lines of...

'looking for well verified and recent only' etc...

True valid point

But if peeps actually read my profile I am verified I just choose not to show them "

Thats the other issue.. most of these people dont read profiles.. I read, unless i get to something that makes it obvious i'm not their type.. then i just leave it at that...

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By *en88Man
over a year ago

Essex

Tis The "Emotional Damage!" Meme Personified

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By *ustagentMan
over a year ago

wa14

Only been let down once by a couple, think they had drank too much,,anyway meet most in clubs , cant beat a face to face then you meet the real person and get a better idea if you hit it off!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The time wasters you speak of and I’m sure there’s loads of them, make it near on impossible for genuine single guys like me. I’ve only been on Fab a few months. I follow all the rules regards respect etc, but people won’t come near me because of the idiots you’re talking about…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've responded to meet adverts only to be strung along for many messages. We've even come across a single woman posing as a couple. We've noticed than even couples with genuine verifications from the past can be time wasters. We put this down to the male half not checking with the female half as to whether they want to meet or not.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"99% of women only find 20% (or work it out yourself. Out of a hundred messages on average how many are you replying too. Probably lower on here) if you find them attractive most other women do too. So many blanket negative statements about men on here but most of you don't interact with 90% of men on here. There's literally hundreds of men avarage on here that would run naked to your house if you asked them but they don't qualify for a look. This is most of you not just the pretty ones. So many fat girls who only want gym type and complain about the type of guys on here ????????????????????????????"

So "fat" girls should just sleep with anyone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've responded to meet adverts only to be strung along for many messages. We've even come across a single woman posing as a couple. We've noticed than even couples with genuine verifications from the past can be time wasters. We put this down to the male half not checking with the female half as to whether they want to meet or not."

I responded to a meet advert once.

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"Is it us or are there an increasing number of time wasters on the site now , especially since covid. It’s mostly single guys it has to be said and making us considering leaving as life is too short !"

Your profile implies that you’re not really that interested in meeting single guys, so that would put off any single guys who are serious about meeting to even message you. If most of the time wasters are single guys but you’re more interested in females, couples and groups of guys, then why are you considering leaving the site because of it? Why don’t you just focus on the people you’re more interested in meeting?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No im saying they shouldn't complain if the 20% of men on here who are getting free choice of all the women don't choose them. Im just trying to say facts. Most women don't understand 1 in 3 men haven't had sex in the last year. Your obviously a girl that gets a lot of attention and have no idea what it's like. If you think i mean girls your size im talking obese women who probably have health problems who only speak to gym fit men. Should gym fit men have to have sex with them? It works both ways is my point. If your not at that level you have no right to expect it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is one of those threads that worries me..............

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No im saying they shouldn't complain if the 20% of men on here who are getting free choice of all the women don't choose them. Im just trying to say facts. Most women don't understand 1 in 3 men haven't had sex in the last year. Your obviously a girl that gets a lot of attention and have no idea what it's like. If you think i mean girls your size im talking obese women who probably have health problems who only speak to gym fit men. Should gym fit men have to have sex with them? It works both ways is my point. If your not at that level you have no right to expect it."

I’m a bigger girl but I don’t seek out a certain body type. That being said, even if I did, what’s wrong with that? The same way a lot of slimmer/athletic guys love a bbw, some bbw’s love slim/athletic guys…

Just cause we’re fat doesn’t mean we can’t have standards/types and should just fuck anyone who’ll look at us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s why I’m extremely selective and take time to get a feel for someone, to see if they genuinely want to meet.

I’ve been on here 6 years and over time luckily I know what to look for. A lot of them give themselves away, within the first few messages.

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"99% of women only find 20% (or work it out yourself. Out of a hundred messages on average how many are you replying too. Probably lower on here) if you find them attractive most other women do too. So many blanket negative statements about men on here but most of you don't interact with 90% of men on here. There's literally hundreds of men avarage on here that would run naked to your house if you asked them but they don't qualify for a look. This is most of you not just the pretty ones. So many fat girls who only want gym type and complain about the type of guys on here ????????????????????????????"

You haven’t got any pictures on your profile so at least no one’s going to reject you because of the way you look…

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By *nonymous95-2Woman
over a year ago

Northwich


"No im saying they shouldn't complain if the 20% of men on here who are getting free choice of all the women don't choose them. Im just trying to say facts. Most women don't understand 1 in 3 men haven't had sex in the last year. Your obviously a girl that gets a lot of attention and have no idea what it's like. If you think i mean girls your size im talking obese women who probably have health problems who only speak to gym fit men. Should gym fit men have to have sex with them? It works both ways is my point. If your not at that level you have no right to expect it."

Most men quote the 1 in 3 men without looking at the other studies showing an equal number of women also haven't had sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No im saying they shouldn't complain if the 20% of men on here who are getting free choice of all the women don't choose them. Im just trying to say facts. Most women don't understand 1 in 3 men haven't had sex in the last year. Your obviously a girl that gets a lot of attention and have no idea what it's like. If you think i mean girls your size im talking obese women who probably have health problems who only speak to gym fit men. Should gym fit men have to have sex with them? It works both ways is my point. If your not at that level you have no right to expect it.

I’m a bigger girl but I don’t seek out a certain body type. That being said, even if I did, what’s wrong with that? The same way a lot of slimmer/athletic guys love a bbw, some bbw’s love slim/athletic guys…

Just cause we’re fat doesn’t mean we can’t have standards/types and should just fuck anyone who’ll look at us "
im not attacking all fat people thats not the point. Im saying you have choice you even have enough choice to have preferences. There's hundreds of avarage looking men on here who can't even get a reply from anyone no matter what they look like.Any woman on here could have sex in the next hour if they wanted. This isn't a attack on fat people just trying to point out a few things. A lot of girls want superman but will walk past clark kent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No im saying they shouldn't complain if the 20% of men on here who are getting free choice of all the women don't choose them. Im just trying to say facts. Most women don't understand 1 in 3 men haven't had sex in the last year. You’re obviously a girl that gets a lot of attention and have no idea what it's like. If you think i mean girls your size im talking obese women who probably have health problems who only speak to gym fit men. Should gym fit men have to have sex with them? It works both ways is my point. If you’re not at that level you have no right to expect it."

Honestly what are you talking about?

If both parties want to have sex with each other then what’s the problem.

You don’t have to have matching bodies to have sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"99% of women only find 20% (or work it out yourself. Out of a hundred messages on average how many are you replying too. Probably lower on here) if you find them attractive most other women do too. So many blanket negative statements about men on here but most of you don't interact with 90% of men on here. There's literally hundreds of men avarage on here that would run naked to your house if you asked them but they don't qualify for a look. This is most of you not just the pretty ones. So many fat girls who only want gym type and complain about the type of guys on here ????????????????????????????

You haven’t got any pictures on your profile so at least no one’s going to reject you because of the way you look…"
ive literally deleted all of them today its pointless and again people talking about the individual and im talking about in general. I never mentioned myself but i have had a few meets that's why it's 99% obviously there are exceptions but I'm talking in general. Your basing it on im ugly and getting personal with no evidence and making assumptions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No im saying they shouldn't complain if the 20% of men on here who are getting free choice of all the women don't choose them. Im just trying to say facts. Most women don't understand 1 in 3 men haven't had sex in the last year. Your obviously a girl that gets a lot of attention and have no idea what it's like. If you think i mean girls your size im talking obese women who probably have health problems who only speak to gym fit men. Should gym fit men have to have sex with them? It works both ways is my point. If your not at that level you have no right to expect it.

I’m a bigger girl but I don’t seek out a certain body type. That being said, even if I did, what’s wrong with that? The same way a lot of slimmer/athletic guys love a bbw, some bbw’s love slim/athletic guys…

Just cause we’re fat doesn’t mean we can’t have standards/types and should just fuck anyone who’ll look at us

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im not attacking all fat people thats not the point. Im saying you have choice you even have enough choice to have preferences. There's hundreds of avarage looking men on here who can't even get a reply from anyone no matter what they look like.Any woman on here could have sex in the next hour if they wanted. This isn't an attack on fat people just trying to point out a few things. A lot of girls want superman but will walk past clark kent."

That just sounds like mens desperation.

Just because some women could have a meet quicker than a man who is looking could. It doesn’t mean anything quite frankly. Because she most likely wouldn’t find anyone, that quickly to match her preferences. She might get a lot more offers than a man would be she has her right to be as picky as she wants.

I don’t really see your point…

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"No im saying they shouldn't complain if the 20% of men on here who are getting free choice of all the women don't choose them. Im just trying to say facts. Most women don't understand 1 in 3 men haven't had sex in the last year. Your obviously a girl that gets a lot of attention and have no idea what it's like. If you think i mean girls your size im talking obese women who probably have health problems who only speak to gym fit men. Should gym fit men have to have sex with them? It works both ways is my point. If your not at that level you have no right to expect it.

I’m a bigger girl but I don’t seek out a certain body type. That being said, even if I did, what’s wrong with that? The same way a lot of slimmer/athletic guys love a bbw, some bbw’s love slim/athletic guys…

Just cause we’re fat doesn’t mean we can’t have standards/types and should just fuck anyone who’ll look at us im not attacking all fat people thats not the point. Im saying you have choice you even have enough choice to have preferences. There's hundreds of avarage looking men on here who can't even get a reply from anyone no matter what they look like.Any woman on here could have sex in the next hour if they wanted. This isn't a attack on fat people just trying to point out a few things. A lot of girls want superman but will walk past clark kent."

Do you have preferences or would you sleep with anyone? I consider myself average to just below average looking but I still have preferences, and they’re not all to do with looks.

You’ve basically implied that obese women should settle for anything they can get rather than only meeting men they’re attracted to and that average looking men will meet anyone at the drop of a hat…I don’t believe either of those are true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No im saying they shouldn't complain if the 20% of men on here who are getting free choice of all the women don't choose them. Im just trying to say facts. Most women don't understand 1 in 3 men haven't had sex in the last year. Your obviously a girl that gets a lot of attention and have no idea what it's like. If you think i mean girls your size im talking obese women who probably have health problems who only speak to gym fit men. Should gym fit men have to have sex with them? It works both ways is my point. If your not at that level you have no right to expect it.

Most men quote the 1 in 3 men without looking at the other studies showing an equal number of women also haven't had sex. "
but for women it through choice it's not for most men.

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By *nonymous95-2Woman
over a year ago

Northwich


"No im saying they shouldn't complain if the 20% of men on here who are getting free choice of all the women don't choose them. Im just trying to say facts. Most women don't understand 1 in 3 men haven't had sex in the last year. Your obviously a girl that gets a lot of attention and have no idea what it's like. If you think i mean girls your size im talking obese women who probably have health problems who only speak to gym fit men. Should gym fit men have to have sex with them? It works both ways is my point. If your not at that level you have no right to expect it.

Most men quote the 1 in 3 men without looking at the other studies showing an equal number of women also haven't had sex. but for women it through choice it's not for most men."

Not at all. Honestly, the pick of men out there who care about a woman's pleasure and not just a cum dump is very low.

I can't see any man settling for meet if they never got to cum nor got any satisfaction from the meet themselves. Trust me, from experience those who complain don't touch a woman before they fuck her....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No im saying they shouldn't complain if the 20% of men on here who are getting free choice of all the women don't choose them. Im just trying to say facts. Most women don't understand 1 in 3 men haven't had sex in the last year. Your obviously a girl that gets a lot of attention and have no idea what it's like. If you think i mean girls your size im talking obese women who probably have health problems who only speak to gym fit men. Should gym fit men have to have sex with them? It works both ways is my point. If your not at that level you have no right to expect it.

I’m a bigger girl but I don’t seek out a certain body type. That being said, even if I did, what’s wrong with that? The same way a lot of slimmer/athletic guys love a bbw, some bbw’s love slim/athletic guys…

Just cause we’re fat doesn’t mean we can’t have standards/types and should just fuck anyone who’ll look at us

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im not attacking all fat people thats not the point. Im saying you have choice you even have enough choice to have preferences. There's hundreds of avarage looking men on here who can't even get a reply from anyone no matter what they look like.Any woman on here could have sex in the next hour if they wanted. This isn't an attack on fat people just trying to point out a few things. A lot of girls want superman but will walk past clark kent.

That just sounds like mens desperation.

Just because some women could have a meet quicker than a man who is looking could. It doesn’t mean anything quite frankly. Because she most likely wouldn’t find anyone, that quickly to match her preferences. She might get a lot more offers than a man would be she has her right to be as picky as she wants.

I don’t really see your point…"

Men’s desperation!

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"99% of women only find 20% (or work it out yourself. Out of a hundred messages on average how many are you replying too. Probably lower on here) if you find them attractive most other women do too. So many blanket negative statements about men on here but most of you don't interact with 90% of men on here. There's literally hundreds of men avarage on here that would run naked to your house if you asked them but they don't qualify for a look. This is most of you not just the pretty ones. So many fat girls who only want gym type and complain about the type of guys on here ????????????????????????????

You haven’t got any pictures on your profile so at least no one’s going to reject you because of the way you look… ive literally deleted all of them today its pointless and again people talking about the individual and im talking about in general. I never mentioned myself but i have had a few meets that's why it's 99% obviously there are exceptions but I'm talking in general. Your basing it on im ugly and getting personal with no evidence and making assumptions."

I didn’t say I was assuming you were ugly and i didn’t intend it to be a person attack so I’m sorry that it came across like that.

I just thought it was funny that you were talking about people being judged on the way they look when you don’t have any pictures on your profile. I didn’t mean anything other than that.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Never understand why some guys tend to try and ruin anything they come across its not only creepy but extremely weird behaviour. If anything blocking helps to create your own platform on the site leaving most of the genuine ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes loads of them we all suffer from it and we feel sorry for the genuine guys who just get blocked

We now never give a

Phone number or any social media info

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By *eresa_cdslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Bodmin


"It’s clear some people make pretty poor choices on who to meet. A bit more due diligence and communication might stop no shows happening. I never have a problem "
I agree, been on here for years, never had a problem xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This has really become personal attack by a lot of you. Not all though some want genuine discussion. Sorry i tried i'll go now.

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"This has really become personal attack by a lot of you. Not all though some want genuine discussion. Sorry i tried i'll go now."

Just because someone disagrees with you it’s not a personal attack, I haven’t read anything that’s a personal attack. We don’t agree with you and we’re putting across an opposing opinion, that’s how discussions work.

What comments do you regard as being personal attacks?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This has really become personal attack by a lot of you. Not all though some want genuine discussion. Sorry i tried i'll go now.

Just because someone disagrees with you it’s not a personal attack, I haven’t read anything that’s a personal attack. We don’t agree with you and we’re putting across an opposing opinion, that’s how discussions work.

What comments do you regard as being personal attacks?"

It’s an attention seeking thing by the looks of it. Someone who clearly thinks he deserves a fuck more than fat people do and bitter that it’s not worked out that way…

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"No im saying they shouldn't complain if the 20% of men on here who are getting free choice of all the women don't choose them. Im just trying to say facts. Most women don't understand 1 in 3 men haven't had sex in the last year. Your obviously a girl that gets a lot of attention and have no idea what it's like. If you think i mean girls your size im talking obese women who probably have health problems who only speak to gym fit men. Should gym fit men have to have sex with them? It works both ways is my point. If your not at that level you have no right to expect it.

I’m a bigger girl but I don’t seek out a certain body type. That being said, even if I did, what’s wrong with that? The same way a lot of slimmer/athletic guys love a bbw, some bbw’s love slim/athletic guys…

Just cause we’re fat doesn’t mean we can’t have standards/types and should just fuck anyone who’ll look at us im not attacking all fat people thats not the point. Im saying you have choice you even have enough choice to have preferences. There's hundreds of avarage looking men on here who can't even get a reply from anyone no matter what they look like.Any woman on here could have sex in the next hour if they wanted. This isn't a attack on fat people just trying to point out a few things. A lot of girls want superman but will walk past clark kent."

Sounds more like no one replies ever wonder why

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"This has really become personal attack by a lot of you. Not all though some want genuine discussion. Sorry i tried i'll go now.

Just because someone disagrees with you it’s not a personal attack, I haven’t read anything that’s a personal attack. We don’t agree with you and we’re putting across an opposing opinion, that’s how discussions work.

What comments do you regard as being personal attacks?

It’s an attention seeking thing by the looks of it. Someone who clearly thinks he deserves a fuck more than fat people do and bitter that it’s not worked out that way…"

Maybe he should start messaging fat women and explaining to them why they should be less picky and just sleep with anyone who messages them…I’m sure they’d see point and meet up with him.

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim

Jesus I clearly missed something

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