FabSwingers.com forum: Geninue question about meets on here

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So I have put up some meets on here and when I do I get inaudated by men looking winking and messaging. Having said in my profile I don’t swing that way I still get loads of it, I don’t mind and have nothing against it just wondering if it’s just me or others experience it?

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By *idan31Man
over a year ago

ashby

"So I have put up some meets on here and when I do I get inaudated by men looking winking and messaging. Having said in my profile I don’t swing that way I still get loads of it, I don’t mind and have nothing against it just wondering if it’s just me or others experience it? "
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You know you can block men from messaging you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i can speak for others, on why they'd message/wink despite knowing they aren't what you're looking for.

however to make your life easier, why don't you just block them from messaging you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I do try be polite and say I not interested and if they keep messaging then I do block but I was only wondering if this is a common occurrence for a guy on here, I know men can be annoying to woman on here as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mean I can see why they would…

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By *aresparkyMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

I get the same thing, some messages aren't bad and don't expect anything but I don't understand when I get asked to meet guys, think they just look at pics and don't look at the profiles

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

As the others said ,use your filters and block men.

It's probably because you've got a cock pic as your avatar ,it does tend to appeal to men over many women.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Why havent you blocked men then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do try be polite and say I not interested and if they keep messaging then I do block but I was only wondering if this is a common occurrence for a guy on here, I know men can be annoying to woman on here as well"

I think you can alter your settings so men can't message you at all.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

From my view point yes it's normal for people not to read my profile or message when they're not what I'm after etc.

Lots see pics and don't read any text ,that's why filters are your friend .

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By *amrachCouple
over a year ago

Ruthin

Definitely make use of the message filters hun

But can definitely see why they do lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I mean I can see why they would…

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Definitely make use of the message filters hun

But can definitely see why they do lol"

Thanks

I can see why they would with you too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I mean I can see why they would…

Thanks

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Google Lens

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By *amrachCouple
over a year ago

Ruthin

Aaahhh thanks sweetie

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Go to your account, select 'message filters', select 'block them' next to 'single males can message me'.

The men who have already messaged will still be able to but new ones won't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Google Lens

Indeed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yet hes using a Google image

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

It's very common. If we post a meet up, for example :- a bi guy, Thursday at ours for 3pm. We get offers for everything but, what we ask for. Eg, straight guy wants a car meet at 8 on Sat.

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By *reudian_slipsMan
over a year ago

Bristol

Yes this happens quite a bit, I get winks and messages from guys too (maybe everyone does?!)

I don’t block guys though just in case they’re hot or lovely (I’m a bit bi…)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there is also the 'fab straight' thing.

lots of guys seem to think it will put women off if their profile says bi, so they say straight.

we get a lot of straight guys who seem to be eager to be fucked in

at a guess, there are simply guys who know this and think its worth a wink anyway, whatever your profile says.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Yes it's really common so it seems. Just seems alot of desperate cock on here lol

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I also heard gay men love converting straight men... it's like a real achievement which they get super turned on by lol

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

"Google Lens

Indeed. "

Surprisingly unsurprising.

I guess the real surprise is when someone meets them, expecting something but receiving the unexpected.

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By *implynaughty1Couple
over a year ago

stockport

JUST BLOCK THEM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I also heard gay men love converting straight men... it's like a real achievement which they get super turned on by lol"

That’s a myth.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

"Google Lens

They obviously recognise the dick and think they're getting the man it belongs to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block men…… simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Google Lens

Tineye too

What happens when and if they get a first meet??

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

"Google Lens

Tineye too

What happens when and if they get a first meet??"

I find they bottle it as they know they can't meet the expectations they have set.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Explains why I'm not getting inundated anymore just either block or delete the messages

shows how pathetic some can be when you have clearly mentioned within the bio like a cock fest free for anyone

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

"there is also the 'fab straight' thing.

lots of guys seem to think it will put women off if their profile says bi, so they say straight.

we get a lot of straight guys who seem to be eager to be fucked in

at a guess, there are simply guys who know this and think its worth a wink anyway, whatever your profile says."

agreed

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By *entleman of FortuneMan
over a year ago

Hull

98% of my messages and profile views are from guys, thank goodness for socials. Having said that my public pics are going to attract them, I've just realised.....might have to change them it's probably my own fault x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Google Lens

Tineye too

What happens when and if they get a first meet??

I find they bottle it as they know they can't meet the expectations they have set."

Crazy. What a complete waste of everyone’s time!

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

It is definitely not just you, don't worry

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

You can set your filters do men can't message you if it bothers you op.

Many men seem to be "fab straight" rather than actually straight.

Mrs

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By *irthy-HornMan
over a year ago

dronfield

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By *irthy-HornMan
over a year ago

dronfield

youre not alone mate , wish women would be like that

i had to set the filter on after a week

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