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"I'm one of those guys who takes a while to cum, even in my younger days I often struggled to orgasm with a woman, mainly through nerves. It took a while to gain confidence and relax, then one time in my early 20s I got with a woman a few years older, who really knew how to turn me on. I lasted 2 mins max inside her. She smiled and I breathed a huge sigh of relief, as I was seriously wondering if I'd ever be able to cum during sex. I'm curious if anyone else has had any similar experiences? I've had few meets and the guy has come within seconds of entering me. Very frustrating to say the least." Was it all over or did you manage round 2? | |||
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"I'll admit I've cum fast once or twice, especially in my younger days! " Haha I don't think it's uncommon mate | |||
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"I'm one of those guys who takes a while to cum, even in my younger days I often struggled to orgasm with a woman, mainly through nerves. It took a while to gain confidence and relax, then one time in my early 20s I got with a woman a few years older, who really knew how to turn me on. I lasted 2 mins max inside her. She smiled and I breathed a huge sigh of relief, as I was seriously wondering if I'd ever be able to cum during sex. I'm curious if anyone else has had any similar experiences? I've had few meets and the guy has come within seconds of entering me. Very frustrating to say the least. Was it all over or did you manage round 2?" All over they got dressed and left. | |||
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"All over they got dressed and left. " Unacceptable | |||
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"All over they got dressed and left. Unacceptable" Especially when you make the effort and put sexy underwear on and then nothing. | |||
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"I'm one of those guys who takes a while to cum, even in my younger days I often struggled to orgasm with a woman, mainly through nerves. It took a while to gain confidence and relax, then one time in my early 20s I got with a woman a few years older, who really knew how to turn me on. I lasted 2 mins max inside her. She smiled and I breathed a huge sigh of relief, as I was seriously wondering if I'd ever be able to cum during sex. I'm curious if anyone else has had any similar experiences? I've had few meets and the guy has come within seconds of entering me. Very frustrating to say the least. Was it all over or did you manage round 2? All over they got dressed and left. " Ah sorry to hear that, that sucks | |||
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" Actually, in my own defence - she had gone down on me for a minute when I dropped the towel ..." Lol we'll have no victim blaming here | |||
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"Exactly 34 seconds. To my favourite porn video " That's damn impressive tbh | |||
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"All over they got dressed and left. Unacceptable Especially when you make the effort and put sexy underwear on and then nothing. " Yuck. Grim selfish men | |||
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"Made my first ever fab meet come within 30 seconds...with my hands...super disappointed lol " What happened after? | |||
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"Probably under a minute on my own. Mrs " Mad skills | |||
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"Under a minute after foreplay. It’s only happened twice but it was with my wife so I wasn’t too embarrassed." It is a compliment, to be fair | |||
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"Exactly 34 seconds. To my favourite porn video That's damn impressive tbh" Thanks! Practice makes perfect | |||
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"Under a minute after foreplay. It’s only happened twice but it was with my wife so I wasn’t too embarrassed. It is a compliment, to be fair " Every meet we’ve had they’ve had to keep taking breaks and one even said she had a magical vagina. She’s talented but it’s frustrating for her. | |||
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"Especially when you make the effort and put sexy underwear on and then nothing. " Clearly well over-excited then But at least he could have made an effort, even if he was toast himself! There’s a lot more fun to be had than just penetrative sex… | |||
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"Exactly 34 seconds. To my favourite porn video That's damn impressive tbh Thanks! Practice makes perfect " I've put in plenty of practice but don't think I could get myself off in under 5 mins tbh | |||
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"Age and experience help immensely I’ve found. In my younger days I was pretty useless but I reckon around 30 I got into my stride, relaxed and really started to enjoy sex. I’ve always been a giver and receiver and once I really knew how to pleasure a woman I enjoyed myself far more as well. Might have been more willing and experienced partners too of course!" Quickest at about 30 seconds if very excited! | |||
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"I'm one of those guys who takes a while to cum, even in my younger days I often struggled to orgasm with a woman, mainly through nerves. It took a while to gain confidence and relax, then one time in my early 20s I got with a woman a few years older, who really knew how to turn me on. I lasted 2 mins max inside her. She smiled and I breathed a huge sigh of relief, as I was seriously wondering if I'd ever be able to cum during sex. I'm curious if anyone else has had any similar experiences?" I can take me a long while too, which is a good thing as I love long sessions ! Once when I was very young I am sure I had PE. I don’t know exactly what happened but every time I penetrated one particular gf I would immediately orgasm and come in 2-3 strokes. I was embarrassed & mortified and then after a few weeks just like it appeared it stopped and never happened since. I occasionally wish I could | |||
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"Must confess I cum as soon as I seen my wife put her first new cock in her mouth , she was so excited and horny and really went for it , I shot my load straight away , but luckily I was so horny I had a quick recovery " That sounds like an overload of excitement in that scenario, understandable! | |||
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"I'm one of those guys who takes a while to cum, even in my younger days I often struggled to orgasm with a woman, mainly through nerves. It took a while to gain confidence and relax, then one time in my early 20s I got with a woman a few years older, who really knew how to turn me on. I lasted 2 mins max inside her. She smiled and I breathed a huge sigh of relief, as I was seriously wondering if I'd ever be able to cum during sex. I'm curious if anyone else has had any similar experiences? I can take me a long while too, which is a good thing as I love long sessions ! Once when I was very young I am sure I had PE. I don’t know exactly what happened but every time I penetrated one particular gf I would immediately orgasm and come in 2-3 strokes. I was embarrassed & mortified and then after a few weeks just like it appeared it stopped and never happened since. I occasionally wish I could " I've never had PE myself but can imagine it's frustrating. I'm definitely at the other end of the scale, which is handy because I love long sessions too! | |||
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"cuck can cum is seconds and i mean 5 or 6 seconds " My hubby can be the same, but depends on how long I have teased him for? There has been the odd occasion when we have been kissing etc , he gets a hard on and bam! Cum in his pants I take it as a compliment that I turn him on that much he just can't stop himself lol x | |||
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"Recently 47 seconds by myself in the sunbed. Only know how quick because of the timer. I'd often do a quick one like that on my own I'd say 35 seconds might be the tightest I could do. But it's so so so so much nicer if someone else does it and takes their time xx " Good effort.. I'm a least a couple of minutes | |||
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"Recently 47 seconds by myself in the sunbed. Only know how quick because of the timer. I'd often do a quick one like that on my own I'd say 35 seconds might be the tightest I could do. But it's so so so so much nicer if someone else does it and takes their time xx " The speed-walking women on this thread are eye opening | |||
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"I'm efficient if nothing else " I think it’s called the law of diminishing returns.......... | |||
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"I'm efficient if nothing else " Not a bad superpower to have.. | |||
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"Recently 47 seconds by myself in the sunbed. Only know how quick because of the timer. I'd often do a quick one like that on my own I'd say 35 seconds might be the tightest I could do. But it's so so so so much nicer if someone else does it and takes their time xx " I have this vision of you in goggles trying to beat the timer! | |||
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"Recently 47 seconds by myself in the sunbed. Only know how quick because of the timer. I'd often do a quick one like that on my own I'd say 35 seconds might be the tightest I could do. But it's so so so so much nicer if someone else does it and takes their time xx The speed-walking women on this thread are eye opening " Lol I meant speed-wanking! | |||
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"I'm one of those guys who takes a while to cum, even in my younger days I often struggled to orgasm with a woman, mainly through nerves. It took a while to gain confidence and relax, then one time in my early 20s I got with a woman a few years older, who really knew how to turn me on. I lasted 2 mins max inside her. She smiled and I breathed a huge sigh of relief, as I was seriously wondering if I'd ever be able to cum during sex. I'm curious if anyone else has had any similar experiences? I've had few meets and the guy has come within seconds of entering me. Very frustrating to say the least. Was it all over or did you manage round 2? All over they got dressed and left. Ah sorry to hear that, that sucks " Ironic given the circumstances? | |||
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"I can make myself come pretty quick.. I've had a few meets where they've cum in like 2 minutes which is frustrating & a few that have had to stop just to stop themselves.. compliment I guess " I've had to slow down to keep going sometimes. Varying the pace can be very hot | |||
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"Made my first ever fab meet come within 30 seconds...with my hands...super disappointed lol " They’re some magic hands… | |||
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"I’ve had a few That’s given me a couple of pumps and cum" To be fair, I can see why | |||
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"It normally takes me a long time, that's why I've become brilliant at faking multiple orgasms. Got to stroke their ego, even if they're not stroking my g-spot." Noooooo don't fake it | |||
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"It normally takes me a long time, that's why I've become brilliant at faking multiple orgasms. Got to stroke their ego, even if they're not stroking my g-spot." Amen, sister | |||
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" I've had few meets and the guy has come within seconds of entering me. Very frustrating to say the least." This is me, the last few times I've had sex....I've cum within seconds of being in her | |||
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"It normally takes me a long time, that's why I've become brilliant at faking multiple orgasms. Got to stroke their ego, even if they're not stroking my g-spot." How sad is this post? | |||
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"I’ve had a few That’s given me a couple of pumps and cum" I'll see what I can do hehe | |||
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"It normally takes me a long time, that's why I've become brilliant at faking multiple orgasms. Got to stroke their ego, even if they're not stroking my g-spot." | |||
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"Within a minute. Had been to Rios spa with a gf watching a younger girl in the pool swimming naked. We went in a private room, door open and guys watching. Slipped inside her, she waa a wet as anything. Couple of strokes and we both moaned and came. " I assume it was the gf you went into the room with, not the girl swimming | |||
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"I have a different problem. I struggle to cum and it can be frustrating for the woman / couple I'm sure who want to make me cum and indeed probably got lock jaw from the effort she put it! Don't get me wrong, I absolutely love being on meets and don't mind if I don't cum. It's genuinely my problem not theirs. Having said that, a couple of times when I was younger and extremely turned on,I had to learn immense self control NOT to cum. I think part of it is nerves. When I've been with a long term partner I've found it easier to cum. " This is my issue too. I know ladies can feel defeated if I don't cum, but it doesn't mean I'm not enjoying it. Like you said, it's a me problem, not a them problem | |||
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" you really time the the fucker, and when the timer starts? When the pans are off? Does whole build up, BJ……. Count?" Lol calm down, I never claimed this to be a scientific test or anything... | |||
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"So I've a confession. I didn't time it but I came once giving a blow job." He or she? | |||
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"Sorry She" Nice. Your pics are nice by the way, shame you are so far away. | |||
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"Just over 100 mph. we were on a train and that's deffo the quickest for us" Lol | |||
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"I'm one of those guys who takes a while to cum, even in my younger days I often struggled to orgasm with a woman, mainly through nerves. It took a while to gain confidence and relax, then one time in my early 20s I got with a woman a few years older, who really knew how to turn me on. I lasted 2 mins max inside her. She smiled and I breathed a huge sigh of relief, as I was seriously wondering if I'd ever be able to cum during sex. I'm curious if anyone else has had any similar experiences?" I tend to fair okay but have had the odd quicky, luckily I am blessed with a repeating performance | |||
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"Ive had sex and been unable to cum I've also had sex and cummed within 10 seconds of entering. It's pot luck which one I get! " Adds to the excitement I guess | |||
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"I think for S it was before it was even out " Lol | |||
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"I think for S it was before it was even out " Cant blame him with your boobs | |||
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"I think for S it was before it was even out " I've never had this happen to me luckily! | |||
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"Who cares, usually fat chicks with fat cunts make me cum quicker than a rock hard cunt on a skinny chick I just keep fucking them and fake it later. " There's a lot to unpack here | |||
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"Exactly 34 seconds. To my favourite porn video " What was the video? | |||
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"I think for S it was before it was even out " Jizz in his pants | |||
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"I'm one of those guys who takes a while to cum, even in my younger days I often struggled to orgasm with a woman, mainly through nerves. It took a while to gain confidence and relax, then one time in my early 20s I got with a woman a few years older, who really knew how to turn me on. I lasted 2 mins max inside her. She smiled and I breathed a huge sigh of relief, as I was seriously wondering if I'd ever be able to cum during sex. I'm curious if anyone else has had any similar experiences?" Takes me ages too, think I've psychologically over years of sex (unprotected with an ex and generally wanting it to last long for the ladies) managed to manipulate my brain. Doesn't mean I'm not really into it, just means as I'm getting close I have a failsafe for not spurting. | |||
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"Was in cupids and I made a woman by the name pebble cum in seconds, she was a repeat cummer. I was blown away" Pebble? Sounds made up | |||
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"I'm one of those guys who takes a while to cum, even in my younger days I often struggled to orgasm with a woman, mainly through nerves. It took a while to gain confidence and relax, then one time in my early 20s I got with a woman a few years older, who really knew how to turn me on. I lasted 2 mins max inside her. She smiled and I breathed a huge sigh of relief, as I was seriously wondering if I'd ever be able to cum during sex. I'm curious if anyone else has had any similar experiences? Takes me ages too, think I've psychologically over years of sex (unprotected with an ex and generally wanting it to last long for the ladies) managed to manipulate my brain. Doesn't mean I'm not really into it, just means as I'm getting close I have a failsafe for not spurting. " Brucie boy what’s the fail safe? We gotta knows............. How go you manipulate your brain? | |||
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"Was in cupids and I made a woman by the name pebble cum in seconds, she was a repeat cummer. I was blown away Pebble? Sounds made up " How many seconds exactly? | |||
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"1 second.. I coughed and my fanny liked it." Was this a one off? Or a regular arrangement you have with yourself? | |||
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