FabSwingers.com forum: Guys who are cagey about sending a face pic to CD/ TV girls

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If you approach someone on here and you don’t want to send a face pic when asked for one, just don’t send one and stop messaging that person..

No need to belittle and berate, and trying to pressure and persuade someone into changing their minds about what their non negotiable are is not a good look.

If you shouldn’t be on here, or you aren’t 100% comfortable within yourself about speaking to/ meeting CD/ TV girls , trans girls / gay men .. then that is on you. Concentrate on finding people who at happy to proceed without a face pic, or with minimal communication about what you are looking for - don’t criticise people for only being happy to meet when they get whatever they need to feel safe and respected.

Move on to the next one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just ignore or delete messages without a face pic. Easy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I do that of course but I’m allowed to feel annoyed about getting abuse over it and to vent x

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

Red flag, not respecting your wishes.

I can understand some people not being able to show their faces on the profile, but if they won't in a private message, what are they going to do when they meet you, wear a gimp mask?

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By *hloe sussexTV/TS
over a year ago

Larne

"If you approach someone on here and you don’t want to send a face pic when asked for one, just don’t send one and stop messaging that person..

No need to belittle and berate, and trying to pressure and persuade someone into changing their minds about what their non negotiable are is not a good look.

Move on to the next one "

What all this in denial straight guy lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

People can use this site however they want at the end of the day, but if I approached someone first and they said no when I asked for a face pic, which is fine if that’s what they want to do, I would just drop it and accept we won’t be compatible. I wouldn’t try and persuade them, keep badgering them or make out as if they are a massive wrongun

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham

No face pic,no chance of meeting.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Me too- but if someone doesn’t want to send one that’s also fine. What I get sick and tired of is how people respond to me telling them that

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By *laric-DomMan
over a year ago

Chapelhall

I'm more than happy to send a face pic.... but when I do that's normally where the conversation ends ... I must look like quasimodo lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I deliberately send bad ones so I know if they go for it they’ll be pleasantly surprised hahaha. X

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By *laric-DomMan
over a year ago

Chapelhall

"I deliberately send bad ones so I know if they go for it they’ll be pleasantly surprised hahaha. X"

Holly I doubt there is such a thing as a bad pic of you having looked at your profile ...

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