FabSwingers.com forum: Single men

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Anyone else found that since the site has been featured on local news / press over the past few years it has gone downhill especially with single men who have no idea about the etiquette of swinging and think the site is just for an east fuck (from what I read half of them don’t even turn up for meets anyway)

I think it would be a good idea for single men to have to pay a premium to be on here.

Also what’s with all the men asking to suck straight cock ???? If they let you do that then they ain’t straight

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *oldswarriorMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

"Anyone else found that since the site has been featured on local news / press over the past few years it has gone downhill especially with single men who have no idea about the etiquette of swinging and think the site is just for an east fuck (from what I read half of them don’t even turn up for meets anyway)

I think it would be a good idea for single men to have to pay a premium to be on here.

Also what’s with all the men asking to suck straight cock ???? If they let you do that then they ain’t straight

Absolutely not.

Why penalise others because your finding it difficult.

The site works fine for me, it gives various tools to manage your account to avoid and block the problems you stated above.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *egvisir71Man
over a year ago

Derbyshire

Are you actually being serious??

Us decent single guys already get shafted at clubs and now you’re encouraging Fab to charge us more too!!

Go and give your head a wobble op….

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was first on here around 2009,dont think it's changed drastically tbh.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ilktray manMan
over a year ago

hykeham

Get real, buddy.

As a single man on here, in the area I am, it’s hard to get noticed. But hey ho, it’s a long game.

If I wanted a quick shag, I’d go mopping up at the local club in town.

I’m not desperate, the right connection needs to be found.

Or is it you’re now in competition with more Randy Andys? I’d say most genuine members would see though the veil of bullshit the ‘quick shaggers’ wear.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

Been here years and it’s always been the same.

I love it and it works for me. I only meet single men and talk to lots of them daily.

Don’t think they should be charged more at all.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope don’t agree OP

Just because one man isn’t getting meets doesn’t mean the others aren’t

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

no leave it be ..why ?? well because its so easy to sort the rubbish from the good

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *all Guy 00Man
over a year ago

Dumfries

[Removed by poster at 02/01/23 22:31:10]

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iss pleasuringWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near

Single guys get a hard time on here. I shan't give my opinion as to why they do. Its very much a copy n paste opinion

I also reckon alpt of single guys also are very green to the etiquette of swibgers.

So instead of been nasty rude and bullying

Help and educate them . Who knows then we might be better for doing that

Granted some are not worth the time or effort . And in this instance . I politely say exactly why I'm not interested

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *egvisir71Man
over a year ago

Derbyshire

It was at this point the op realised he had f*cked up

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *illbe9999Man
over a year ago

Holmfirth

"It was at this point the op realised he had f*cked up

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *nly the lonelyMan
over a year ago

Ely

I think it would be a good idea for single men to have to pay a premium to be on here.

Also what’s with all the men asking to suck straight cock ???? If they let you do that then they ain’t straight

"
wow wow wow. So we are penalised because we are single. I have seen plenty of couples that don't even turn up. Or chat and then block. It's a swingers site full stop. So whether you are straight or bi or single or a couple we can all swing.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it would be a good idea for single men to have to pay a premium to be on here.

Also what’s with all the men asking to suck straight cock ???? If they let you do that then they ain’t straight

It would be great if we could get rid of the instashag men. They do spoil it for everyone because people just get pissed off at stupid messages and then they block all men or just give up meeting.

Money isn't the answer as it would just make some men even more entitled and demanding.

Agree about the straight men sucking and fucking other straight men.....!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow, everyone is entitled to their opinion even though it’s totally wrong.

Not every single bloke is here for a quick shag and are polite and respectful.

Don’t tar every fella with your broad brush.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iss pleasuringWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near

"Wow, everyone is entitled to their opinion even though it’s totally wrong.

Not every single bloke is here for a quick shag and are polite and respectful.

Don’t tar every fella with your broad brush."

Opinions are neither right or wrong

In my opinion the sky is green.

It's the way I see it

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

if people was to used there block button more so rather than block all men and miss out just block those whom you have no interest in that way over time you'll find youve blocked all the messer's non swinger and just want to wank crowd ..

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree although there are some guys on here who have got no respect or manners there's a lot of guys like myself who are respectful and are polite etc

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *all Guy 00Man
over a year ago

Dumfries

"I agree although there are some guys on here who have got no respect or manners there's a lot of guys like myself who are respectful and are polite etc

Agreed I'm totally respectful

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *isto99Man
over a year ago

London

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *entleman of FortuneMan
over a year ago

Hull

Yeah there are a lot of dick guys, but there are just a lot of guys in general - like other areas of society they're good, bad or plain fuckin stupid. But I'm single and I get meets, money ain't the answer, when I speak to ladies who've been on a long time it's seeming always been same for them.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

"I agree although there are some guys on here who have got no respect or manners there's a lot of guys like myself who are respectful and are polite etc

not to put you down but those who do fuck up do think they are respectful and are polite too ...

but there are more good guys on here than bad by a big margin ... t

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I think it would be a good idea for single men to have to pay a premium to be on here.

Also what’s with all the men asking to suck straight cock ???? If they let you do that then they ain’t straight

It would be great if we could get rid of the instashag men. They do spoil it for everyone because people just get pissed off at stupid messages and then they block all men or just give up meeting.

Money isn't the answer as it would just make some men even more entitled and demanding.

Agree about the straight men sucking and fucking other straight men.....!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"Wow, everyone is entitled to their opinion even though it’s totally wrong.

Not every single bloke is here for a quick shag and are polite and respectful.

Don’t tar every fella with your broad brush."

Not every....just alot and more so since covid from my experience of fab. I think the clientele has expanded to more and more men wanting instant gratification

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I realise block button and ignore is your best friend here. But not blocking all men makes you endure seeing a million of instashaggers in your inbox.

Had to just keep deleting and blocking the ones who keep messaging you, forgetting you already said no thanks

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that this is just another post by a single guy that has had no luck (like a lot of single guys) and is resorting to forum posts shay how crap all the other guys are just to get people to look at his profile.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

I don't think I've done too bad on here to be honest. I've met some amazing people that are now my friends and I will continue to do so. I get that everyone has their preference and are looking for different things and I will never say I'm everyone's cup of tea lol for one, I'm annoying as hell

it's been quite the journey though and over the years my views over this site is constantly evolving and I'm sure I'm not alone in this.. or maybe it is just me

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

I think it would be a good idea for single men to have to pay a premium to be on here.

Also what’s with all the men asking to suck straight cock ???? If they let you do that then they ain’t straight

"
trying to improve your chances by culling the competition lol

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *glyBettyTV/TS
over a year ago

About 3 feet away from the fence

"Also what’s with all the men asking to suck straight cock ???? If they let you do that then they ain’t straight

Comes with the territory, like spam, timewasters & pic collectors.

It seems like on every dating or hookup site, no matter if the site is gay, straight or whatever, at least 20% of the users are single males either trying to suck a dick or get their dick sucked (by anyone)

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *evonrobMan
over a year ago

Kingsbridge

I don’t agree, but I’m a single man so of course I don’t. As for being unpleasant and disrespectful I can’t see how anyone would think that would work as a strategy when all you need is a block button to nix them?

I really enjoy this site, grateful it’s free and have had many wonderful chats. I think those on it can afford to be pretty discerning too. Am I using its potential to the full?, perhaps not. But the opportunities are there and I definitely intend to grasp them!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men are already penalised in the swinging scene. They are expected to do all the leg work and already have to pay more for the pleasure.

Without men the swinging world would collapse. Treat everyone the same, can't pick and choose equality when it suits us.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't think they need to be punished but I see why you have your opinions.

Some men, not all. Need to learn how to think with their head and not their cocks.

Recent experience of ours at a club for example.

We're with a friend couple, pick up another couple that our friends know. All go in the dungeon to watch the girls have fun in a 3 way while the boys admire the scene.

Some dudes rock up, stand as close as ever nursing their semis expecting to get in on the action clearly knowing who the girls are with seeing us in the bar area.

All is well, watch, but don't get so close that we can smell you. Spoiling the fun, killing the mood etc...

Have had a few messages from couples profile with "Mrs not playing but here is my cock, come suck it now". Really? Not sure who they are trying to impress.

Some people just are like that I guess. Not only men but women too. Each their own but some manners and etiquette would be nice.

I guess that's why there is a block button.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God no the site would be unimaginably worse if men had to pay a premium.

It would then be well I’ve paid x amount to be on here I’m entitled to fuck you mentality…

Also just block men from messaging you if you don’t want those kind of messages.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't think they need to be punished but I see why you have your opinions.

Some men, not all. Need to learn how to think with their head and not their cocks.

Recent experience of ours at a club for example.

We're with a friend couple, pick up another couple that our friends know. All go in the dungeon to watch the girls have fun in a 3 way while the boys admire the scene.

Some dudes rock up, stand as close as ever nursing their semis expecting to get in on the action clearly knowing who the girls are with seeing us in the bar area.

All is well, watch, but don't get so close that we can smell you. Spoiling the fun, killing the mood etc...

Have had a few messages from couples profile with "Mrs not playing but here is my cock, come suck it now". Really? Not sure who they are trying to impress.

Some people just are like that I guess. Not only men but women too. Each their own but some manners and etiquette would be nice.

I guess that's why there is a block button.

"Don't get so close that we can smell you" !!!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

I like the instashag idiots.

Makes me look better by comparison, being able to write a profile and hold conversations.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it would be a good idea for single men to have to pay a premium to be on here.

Also what’s with all the men asking to suck straight cock ???? If they let you do that then they ain’t straight

It has happened many times over the years on various sites with the if you are a member then you must fuck me attitude. (I have been a member in two relationships) Free sites always have this kind of element whether it's Fab or dating. Most women get over 300 emails the first week. My attitude is that if you won't pay to be a member, you won't pay for a date or make any effort in swinging to learn about it. I have run several sites and there are many ways this could be improved. I used to make suggestions but they are always ignored. You get what you pay for.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *hane69Man
over a year ago

Todmorden

I think it would be a good idea for single men to have to pay a premium to be on here.

Also what’s with all the men asking to suck straight cock ???? If they let you do that then they ain’t straight

Why should SINGLE MEN have pay a premium ?

Thats SEXISM right there

We already have to pay more to enter clubs and most clubs limit single men attending

Don't you think single men already hold the shitty end of the stick ?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *hane69Man
over a year ago

Todmorden

"Been here years and it’s always been the same.

I love it and it works for me. I only meet single men and talk to lots of them daily.

Don’t think they should be charged more at all. "

Well said

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I think it would be a good idea for single men to have to pay a premium to be on here.

Also what’s with all the men asking to suck straight cock ???? If they let you do that then they ain’t straight

Why should SINGLE MEN have pay a premium ?

Thats SEXISM right there

We already have to pay more to enter clubs and most clubs limit single men attending

Don't you think single men already hold the shitty end of the stick ?"

But majority taint men's good name...how can we change that? So there's less sexism or inequality. I get a high number of arrogant, self centred, too perverse messages on a daily basis from men. If you were a fab woman for a day, think you would encourage higher prices too! Lol

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

From my experience, single men are no better just because they are select few and pay higher entry fee. They all seem to go around lurching and wanking rather than act normal and be sociable civilised people.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Are you actually being serious??

Us decent single guys already get shafted at clubs and now you’re encouraging Fab to charge us more too!!

Go and give your head a wobble op….

Seconded

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *hil most chillMan
over a year ago

South East & Europe

Oh cool a single guy who doesn't know how to filter messages moaning about single guys who don't use this site properly. Cool

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

I think it would be a good idea for single men to have to pay a premium to be on here.

Also what’s with all the men asking to suck straight cock ???? If they let you do that then they ain’t straight

Account Message Filters Block single males from contacting you

That should ease a lot of your frustration (no pun intended)

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"Oh cool a single guy who doesn't know how to filter messages moaning about single guys who don't use this site properly. Cool

Lol that's sounds the usual deal here

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

Post new Message to Thread