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By *rsMoonreturns OP   Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

Our relationship has developed in recent years and my husband now enjoys watching me have sex with other men. He has no interest in sex with other women. Its taken me a while to understand and adapt to this as it felt so wrong to me.

Interested to hear from other couples who have a similar dynamic, how things work for them and any problems encountered....

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Why does it feel wrong? If you enjoy being with other men, and he enjoys watching you with other men, then you are both enjoying yourselves. Pleasure can take all forms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it was all my husband's idea. At first I thought he had another agenda up is sleeve.

I believed that once I'd tried it then it would give him a gold card to sow his seed anywhere

But his persistents and my curiosity gave way and it happened totally by chance while away for a weekend in Manchester. When we got talking to a guy in the hotel bar. Everything seemed right so I told my husband to sort it

But he doesn't sit back and watch he is always involved not a cuck and we are loving this lifestyle if anything it's brought us closer together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our dynamic is absolutely based around Rosie sleeping with other guys and not the other way around. Occasionally I watch or join in, but don’t sleep with other women. If it’s what you like, then embrace it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are very similar to OP, hubby really enjoys watching me with other men, and only occasionally will join in if we meet another couple. He says he gets his pleasure from watching me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From a man’s point of view , I would also love to watch her enjoying with other men. But I haven’t given up on other women

It’s could be many things that give him a kink…

1. Something he posses and the thought of him allowing to use his possession

2. He enjoys live porn

3. He wants to see enjoying in other ways

Etc etc

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By *umagain58Man
over a year ago

London

Unusual in my experience as vast majority of men like opportunity to have other women when sharing wife. It does not matter though if you both like and enjoy. Have met some couples like you and enjoyed

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By *imtoteaseMan
over a year ago

Leeds (Plus some travel)

I have a friend in this situation, she felt the same but he gets a kick from seeing her desired by others and this turns him on. She felt like he didn’t love her at first but understands it more now and enjoys teasing him and letting him have her after she’s seen someone.

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By *liandaCouple
over a year ago

london

There are so many couples like this. We had a few experiences before Ali said she didn’t really like me fucking other women and I said that the thing I really loved was for her to play with other guys, whether I was there or not. And once we had found our thing, wow!!!!

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By *BW_Hotwife_And_HimCouple
over a year ago

South Shields

This works for us too.

I really enjoy watching my wife being fucked by other men and it has a lot to do with enjoying watching her enjoying herself as she loves a good variety of cocks. I also enjoying seeing her with other men's cum on her.

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By *liandaCouple
over a year ago

london


"Why does it feel wrong? If you enjoy being with other men, and he enjoys watching you with other men, then you are both enjoying yourselves. Pleasure can take all forms."

Although part of the thrill is that is does feel wrong, making it all the better xxx

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Why does it feel wrong? If you enjoy being with other men, and he enjoys watching you with other men, then you are both enjoying yourselves. Pleasure can take all forms.

Although part of the thrill is that is does feel wrong, making it all the better xxx"

Yes, but that’s something else. Most of us enjoy the thrill and excitement of doing something socially or morally ‘wrong’ by swinging, in whatever permutations we enjoy. It’s one of the best things about it!

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By *anJXMan
over a year ago

Warrington

Love watching and being watched

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By *eeds fun guyMan
over a year ago

yorkshire


"Why does it feel wrong? If you enjoy being with other men, and he enjoys watching you with other men, then you are both enjoying yourselves. Pleasure can take all forms.

Although part of the thrill is that is does feel wrong, making it all the better xxx"

I define as straight but love bi playful MMF the naughtyness is so dam hot !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair MrsMoon, I can see why he loves to watch you. You are smoking and I bet he loves to show you off. Been watched/ watching has a primal power. It's so good to challenge societies norms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love watching ladies play to

And couples

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

how do you feel about it mrsmoon,, do you enjoy it,

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By *efinitely MaybeCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

As a husband I’m the same, I find other women attractive but have no desire for anything physical.

I’m wired up purely for L’s pleasure, be it directly through me or indirectly through someone else, me present to watch or at home waiting.

It’s all about L’s pleasure and her freedom to experience what is usually off limits. Seeing or hearing how much L enjoyed herself is where I get my pleasure, her reclaiming me is my reward.

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By *reason69Couple
over a year ago

Blackburn

I also love to watch her with guys , massive turn on , I find it makes sex better all round, xxx

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By *teve261970Man
over a year ago

Gateshead

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By *teve261970Man
over a year ago

Gateshead


"This works for us too.

I really enjoy watching my wife being fucked by other men and it has a lot to do with enjoying watching her enjoying herself as she loves a good variety of cocks. I also enjoying seeing her with other men's cum on her."

Believe me, I loved helping you two out

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By *lirtyAndFunCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

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By *lirtyAndFunCouple
over a year ago

Rushden


"Our relationship has developed in recent years and my husband now enjoys watching me have sex with other men. He has no interest in sex with other women. Its taken me a while to understand and adapt to this as it felt so wrong to me.

Interested to hear from other couples who have a similar dynamic, how things work for them and any problems encountered.... "

OMG, that's exactly how our relationship is & how we started on here.

Only been doing it for about a year but he's addicted to seeing videos of me with other guys & I'm really enjoying the variety in my sex life. We love it

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell


"Yes it was all my husband's idea. At first I thought he had another agenda up is sleeve.

I believed that once I'd tried it then it would give him a gold card to sow his seed anywhere "

Funnily enough, I've just heard something very similar from a guy whose been messaging me about his wife...

....that he has to convince her that he wants to watch her being fucked and filled - not him just trying to get the 'green light' so he can then fuck other women...

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By *rnmrs40Couple
over a year ago

plymouth

This sounds like us too. Although we haven’t had a meet yet. Mrs loves the idea but nervous to jump in. I can’t wait to watch her.

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By *eterandJaneadventuresCouple
over a year ago

Sutton

We are on the flip side of this , as Jane has recent liking of watching me in a ( bi oral ) mmf. We technically as involved as a couple in a mmff, though Jane enjoy the watching element .

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

And what about the husbands who like to watch their wives with a couple? We’d be very interested to hear about them!

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By *ustyMilfxxxCouple
over a year ago

Swansea

This is very much our dynamic also.

I did struggle to wrap my head round it for a while. But I completely understand where R is coming from now.

The only issue we come up against is when we look for another Fem for me to play with… it never works as they all want to have sex with R….

I didn’t realise there were so many couples like us x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Our relationship has developed in recent years and my husband now enjoys watching me have sex with other men. He has no interest in sex with other women. Its taken me a while to understand and adapt to this as it felt so wrong to me.

Interested to hear from other couples who have a similar dynamic, how things work for them and any problems encountered.... "
awww bless must have been hard for you not him lol x

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By *ouplecu2015Couple
over a year ago

Reading

he works for us too, I watch my wife with other men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This definitely works for us, I like watching J with other guys, but I do join in at times. Something very hot about the scenario

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By *rankie bricksMan
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Would love to discuss this in more detail with anyone interested

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By *rankie bricksMan
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"Our relationship has developed in recent years and my husband now enjoys watching me have sex with other men. He has no interest in sex with other women. Its taken me a while to understand and adapt to this as it felt so wrong to me.

Interested to hear from other couples who have a similar dynamic, how things work for them and any problems encountered.... "

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By *annibal_LickedherMan
over a year ago

The Side of the Mersey

To be honest. When I was swinging as a couple in a previous relationship, I never had any desire to fuck other women. Just seeing my GF enjoying herself.

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By *ulldipadovaMan
over a year ago

London

I love to fuck a hotwife while the husband watches

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By *aylamoonCouple
over a year ago

Darlington

Hubby loves to invite other men to join us when we play at clubs but he isn’t interested in other women. I’ve mentioned a full swap to him but he’s reluctant because he loves to fuck me while I suck other men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same with us, if shes being naughty then im happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always happy to help....

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By *ussraneCouple
over a year ago

Romford

This is us, I the male have no interest in another woman, I adore my wife and to watch her having fun with another guy and be completely devoted to me at the same time is an unbelievable feeling ! Rane found it hard to understand at first but the more we experiment the more she is into it. Yes like others have said our relationship feels closer

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By *xoncplesCouple
over a year ago

Oxford

We love the flirting bit of the encounter as much as the sex - love it when Mrs Oxoncples flirts with single guys in clubs - it’s the first point in the erotic build up and it’s sometimes the most electric bit. Flirty dancing, hands wandering where they normally shouldn’t and hips grinding. I’ll leave them to it for a while and get a drink or go to the toilet just to see how it develops. When I come back and they hardly notice me is the sexy bit!

We are not cuckold as I love to join in but we love that type of encounter.

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By *randMrs397Couple
over a year ago

durham

It's that dynamic that got us started and one we still do now. As a few have said I get to watch the wife with other guys, sometimes I watch, sometimes I join in. Just run with it. Its great fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is something we would love to try one day.

At the moment i love watching Kate playing with VWE men on the webcam.

Would love to make it so in person one day.

Id be happy just to watch.

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By *unandcuriousCouple
over a year ago

Antrim

Loving this thread good to see others who think alike

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can understand 50 50 playing, but just watching a partner have sex with someone else, not for me, in my mind fairness is key

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We love the flirting bit of the encounter as much as the sex - love it when Mrs Oxoncples flirts with single guys in clubs - it’s the first point in the erotic build up and it’s sometimes the most electric bit. Flirty dancing, hands wandering where they normally shouldn’t and hips grinding. I’ll leave them to it for a while and get a drink or go to the toilet just to see how it develops. When I come back and they hardly notice me is the sexy bit!

We are not cuckold as I love to join in but we love that type of encounter."

Wow can imagine you both having lots of fun... Great pics

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By *helroyCouple
over a year ago

Skegness


"Our relationship has developed in recent years and my husband now enjoys watching me have sex with other men. He has no interest in sex with other women. Its taken me a while to understand and adapt to this as it felt so wrong to me.

Interested to hear from other couples who have a similar dynamic, how things work for them and any problems encountered.... "

We now same after years of swinging Roy likes it much more me with other men he as others in past but now only wants mfm or more sums

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By *ookie_and_NookieCouple
over a year ago

Kent

This is something we’ve been discussing more and more. I really enjoy DP with the husband and a dildo/fuck machine and I know we would love it with a real cock. We also enjoy the idea of me being fucked by multiple men while blindfolded, it turns him on a lot! But neither of us would get off on him fucking anyone else, he has no desire to slide his cock in to anyone else at all and it wouldn’t turn me on either. It’s definitely a strange one. To get beyond the moral stuff you need to assure yourself it is just sex (and he would always be participating so we would both be enjoying it) but then if it is just sex why do we not want him to fuck anyone else? I don’t know the answer but if it works for you, there’s no need to understand it.

C x

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By *ookie_and_NookieCouple
over a year ago

Kent


"This is very much our dynamic also.

I did struggle to wrap my head round it for a while. But I completely understand where R is coming from now.

The only issue we come up against is when we look for another Fem for me to play with… it never works as they all want to have sex with R….

I didn’t realise there were so many couples like us x"

I think we’re likely to have the same issue at some point, we want to find a female for me to play with but it would be soft play only with the husband because he doesn’t want to fuck anyone else and I just can’t see a single woman being happy with not having sex with him. If we go for a couple then we would likely keep it at soft only for everyone for ease. We can’t very well say her husband can fuck me but she can’t fuck mine.

C x

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By *ookie_and_NookieCouple
over a year ago

Kent


"This is very much our dynamic also.

I did struggle to wrap my head round it for a while. But I completely understand where R is coming from now.

The only issue we come up against is when we look for another Fem for me to play with… it never works as they all want to have sex with R….

I didn’t realise there were so many couples like us x

I think we’re likely to have the same issue at some point, we want to find a female for me to play with but it would be soft play only with the husband because he doesn’t want to fuck anyone else and I just can’t see a single woman being happy with not having sex with him. If we go for a couple then we would likely keep it at soft only for everyone for ease. We can’t very well say her husband can fuck me but she can’t fuck mine.

C x"

To be clear - we aren’t at that point yet but just saying IF we were!

C x

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By *oyeur onlyMan
over a year ago

Ilminster

Lots of men a true voyeurs and not just pretend one's hoping it's just a way in, then joining in.

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By *otwife SoireesCouple
over a year ago

Anytown

This is a crude analogy but will serve a purpose but if you have children, then think of it like the emotion and joy you feel from thier joy and excitement upon waking and rushing downstairs Christmas morning. You'll remember that getting all the presents in time, at cost and wrapping them was a headache, but the joy on their faces as they beam at you from across the room is what's known as "compersion. It's basically the joy we get from another's joy without receiving anything in return as that experience and feeling is enough.

Now, imagine your husband doesn't treat you like a possession (because no person is) and now imagine the joy he might receive back from trusting and witnessing you enjoy and fulfill all your sexual desires and fantasies. The person he loves and cherishs and wants to spend his life with is receiving the ultimate trust and experience few woman, men or couples truly ever get to experience.

Now his stance might change and so might yours, sexlives and by extention swinging is dynamic and changing what we want, like and crave. I dare say your fantasies and sexual interests have change over the years, it may change again and you may in the future feel comfortable with multiple guys, or a couple etc. As your trust and communication grows, your boundaries and preferences for trying new things may also change, or they may not. Just communicate your fantasies and dip your toe in a little.

We visited a swinging club in July, so Jade could experience that kind of environment and chat with couples on the scene. A week later we returned and had arranged a yoni massage naked for her at the club, to see how we both felt with her naked and experiencing another man's touch for the first time. When she was relaxed and ready I asked if she wanted to experience more and she did so they had sex, I joined in towards the end and we asked the masseur to leave so we could discuss her feelings and thoughts, along with mine. Because envisioning a scenario as a fantasy is very different to reality and feelings and trust issues you didn't think you had might come bubbling up, so communication is key. I won't go into to much details as our photos and video paint a thousand words on how we/Jade has progressed over the last 5 months, but she now gets that in a rock solid relationship (married 10yrs) that sex and love can be separated, as when we met she knew my previous history on the scene with my first wife and said swinging or sex with others was never something she'd ever want to do, it just wasn't for her, but like I said we change and evolve in a relationship (for better or worse).

In two weeks time she's wanting her second gangbang and also wanting to start dominatrix lessons (cost a fortune, but..)

Best of luck and congratulations on reaching out and taking hopefully your first steps as a couple into a bigger world.

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By *irky_coupleCouple
over a year ago

kirky


"And what about the husbands who like to watch their wives with a couple? We’d be very interested to hear about them! "
Same here!

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By *liandaCouple
over a year ago

london


"We love the flirting bit of the encounter as much as the sex - love it when Mrs Oxoncples flirts with single guys in clubs - it’s the first point in the erotic build up and it’s sometimes the most electric bit. Flirty dancing, hands wandering where they normally shouldn’t and hips grinding. I’ll leave them to it for a while and get a drink or go to the toilet just to see how it develops. When I come back and they hardly notice me is the sexy bit!

We are not cuckold as I love to join in but we love that type of encounter."

I know exactly what you mean. I love the moment when a guy slips his cock into Ali - but sometimes it is the earlier moment- when he slips his hand under her boob to expose her in the club, or slides his hand up her thigh and I see her legs fall open a little to tell him ge can - that really sticks with me. And I love the times that I have wandered off to get a drink or go to the toilet to give ali and a guy some space. In the early days she would usually scooch around so I got a good view as his hands went between her legs. After a while I would be lucky if they were still there!

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By *arlangeCouple
over a year ago

newcastle upon tyne

Love seeing Ange with other men. We also love the build up to the meet. What she is going to wear etc. So fucking horny knowing what she is going to do. Even more so afterwards.

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By *oolman34Man
over a year ago

london

As the guy on the other side of this dynamic i think that couples are very happy. And i am very happy when i am the bull of that couples c

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly what we do, K doesn’t play, just loved seeing me in action and joining in. Thought was a trap at first and felt wrong but now embrace and enjoy together

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By *ottmanMan
over a year ago

Hull

How I envy you. I tried to mail you direct but can’t. I would love my wife to get into this. I too have no interest in other women but just want to see her having fun - maybe holding her hand or kissing her simultaneously as she is occupied. I would be very interested from a woman’s point of view how you got into this and to get any advice on how to go about it

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By *abrina59TV/TS
over a year ago

moved to cuckold land

I have tried to convince my wife to just enjoy the pleasure of others.

Her thought was exactly same as many here that I wanted her to face others so I could face other women.

However I've tried show & convince her that I only want her e joy pleasure of others but without success unfortunately

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By *entcouple78Couple
over a year ago

North Kent

I absolutely love watching Lou with other guys. She still sometimes struggles to understand why, but I just tell her I love watching the pleasure on her face when she has a big cock in her. Plus she really does love sucking cocks so sharing her allows her to indulge her kink

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By *ildmanYorksMan
over a year ago

Doncaster & Bembridge


"I absolutely love watching Lou with other guys. She still sometimes struggles to understand why, but I just tell her I love watching the pleasure on her face when she has a big cock in her. Plus she really does love sucking cocks so sharing her allows her to indulge her kink"

I can see what you mean, she's delectable! A body made for giving and receiving pleasure

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By *jr41Couple
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Absolutely love watching Z enjoy other cock, letting her sexual side out and watching her get horny and then look on her face as a different cock slides in. Even sexier when she grabs my hand and we kiss while she's getting fucked, moaning and panting. Just so horny, my beautiful wife is my sexiest porn star.

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By *itnakedladMan
over a year ago

London Bridge

I love the fantasy and want to make it a reality. Although I think part of the turn on is not even seeing but just knowing she is doing it

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By *ecret fabbersCouple
over a year ago

Castleford

We’re FWB and this dynamic exists with my playmate. We’ve played in front of him and he’s been shocked at how she’s let go and been excited in a whole new way to be like that in front of him.

It’s actually enhanced their connection together and removed frustrations. We’re very much more that FWB and that’s been a big thing. He knows I’m trusted with something extremely precious to him. We now play together and one kink she has, is to see me having sex with another while she watches - kind of come full circle. I wonder what the dynamic would be like if the two halves watched together but did not interact with each other (sexually) while the others indulged?

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By *eatcrusadersCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

I really cannot wait to see this for the first time! She has also asked to watch me with another woman, I’m would like to do it, but would prefer to do another guy’s wife rather than a unicorn.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It works for us… we were apprehensive about it at first but we both love it and if anything we are closer than anything because of it… x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This particular scenario/ dynamic works for us too, we do borrow a husband with permission so to speak , but having said that we do have four way meets too . The joy of swinging if you get it right can be extremely enjoyable

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By *armandwet50Couple
over a year ago

Far far away

It works for us and no hick ups as yet

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

Itis quite a turn on to be honest and plus, I feel quite an honour if a couple invites me over to be a part of their adventurous journey.. even better when we all just connect so well as well

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By *unnyPairCouple
over a year ago

Seminole

We like to dabble in MFM and hubby is/has been always involved, but there are a few on the list that he would be happy to sit back and watch me fuck.

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By *hy52Man
over a year ago

Kinross

we did this with a few friends for years and we both loved it , sadly not happened in ages

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By *unandcuriousCouple
over a year ago

Antrim

Always good to see this thread moving to top of the list

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By *ukesidewaysMan
over a year ago

nuneaton

This is an interesting post

Personally I feel it has more to do with men watching more pornography than women. And maybe because of this theory, they are more comfortable watching their partner play.

It may also be that seeing their partner being pleasured turns them on. I worked with one bloke who said he felt so horny watching his wife being pleasured by a few men.

In hindsight, it is something that I wished my ex and I had discussed.

Happy new year.

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Our relationship has developed in recent years and my husband now enjoys watching me have sex with other men. He has no interest in sex with other women. Its taken me a while to understand and adapt to this as it felt so wrong to me.

Interested to hear from other couples who have a similar dynamic, how things work for them and any problems encountered.... "
does he still have sex with you though?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can’t think of anything more hot than watching j with a guy or guys it’s a big turn on x

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By *ettpairCouple
over a year ago

Kettering

Absolutely love watching l with other guys...from the flirting to the time the guy walks into our home where she takes him by the hand to the bedroom....that first kiss then undressing each other. I rarely join in...not a cuck...just love watching

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By *est kept secretsCouple
over a year ago

Tamworth

I love seeing my wife enjoying herself but must confess that I like to be with another woman whilst she's having fun. She also likes to guide me in and hold me as I slide into someone new so she shares in the experience. Each to their own I suppose..

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"I can understand 50 50 playing, but just watching a partner have sex with someone else, not for me, in my mind fairness is key "

What's unfair about it if that's what they both enjoy?

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By *reen as JadeCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

This was my idea. I told my husband one night after a few drinks that I wanted him to watch me with another guy. He loved the idea xxxx

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester


"This was my idea. I told my husband one night after a few drinks that I wanted him to watch me with another guy. He loved the idea xxxx"
really on my way

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By *unandcuriousCouple
over a year ago

Antrim


"This was my idea. I told my husband one night after a few drinks that I wanted him to watch me with another guy. He loved the idea xxxx"

Mmmmm very lucky hubby

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By *nderlockandkey88Couple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Exactly how it is for us, watching Mrs be pleasured and enjoying herself really gets Mr excited, he has no desire for women it's simply a one way thing and works perfectly for us.

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By *irtybdirtygCouple
over a year ago

Oswestry

We love this, watch g with another guy is a big turn on for us. We've tried to meet with couples recently and it's difficult to all click together where single guys at clubs or away from them is easier to arrange.

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By *ature couple 60Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Our dynamic too love watching wife being fucked have no need to join in my pleasure is watching her being pleasured

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just how we enjoy our meets Jane playing with a guy while I watch and the reclaim sex after is awesome.

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By *atinocoupleCouple
over a year ago

SF, NY, London (in that order)

I've definitely stopped during a party, to pour a glass of wine and watch Mrs on action.

The reclaim later is incredible too.

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By *xstevenxxMan
over a year ago

Ashbourne

Love being that guy who’s invited into a cpls bedroom

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"I can understand 50 50 playing, but just watching a partner have sex with someone else, not for me, in my mind fairness is key

What's unfair about it if that's what they both enjoy?"

Some people don’t understand that what you do in swinging isn’t about establishing a transactional arrangement (ie if the woman is intimate with another man then the man can be intimate with another woman), but about working out how you both derive pleasure and seeking to enjoy those particular experiences.

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By *elrose57Couple
over a year ago

reading

its not just the watching, i love to see my wife enjoying herself to , there is the build up to him coming over, going out shopping getting new sexy undies to wear for him , the wait and excitement , the look on her face when she see,s him, and the knowing just what he is there for , the long lingering snog in the hall way , the way he pulls her on towards him so she can feel how excited he is , then to watch as she offers no resistance to his hand going under her knickers, seeing her take his hand and lead him to the bedroom , her knickers on the floor , i pick them up and follow, pure sex and all 3 enjoying , and not over in five minutes, two hours later we are still in the bedroom , pure joy, and all having fun , can so called normal couples have so much fun

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By *elrose57Couple
over a year ago

reading


"I can understand 50 50 playing, but just watching a partner have sex with someone else, not for me, in my mind fairness is key

What's unfair about it if that's what they both enjoy?

Some people don’t understand that what you do in swinging isn’t about establishing a transactional arrangement (ie if the woman is intimate with another man then the man can be intimate with another woman), but about working out how you both derive pleasure and seeking to enjoy those particular experiences."

well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Our relationship has developed in recent years and my husband now enjoys watching me have sex with other men. He has no interest in sex with other women. Its taken me a while to understand and adapt to this as it felt so wrong to me.

Interested to hear from other couples who have a similar dynamic, how things work for them and any problems encountered.... "

This is why we joined! Lol.

I absolutely love watching Mrs getting fucked, absolutely nothing better! Helping her choose her new guy, helping her choose what to wear for her naughty meet, then meeting together, the flirting, sexual chemistry and then watching as they get it on fully and she becomes his for their time together!

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By *gentprovocateur2013Couple
over a year ago

derby

This is how we love to play, mainly driven by him but something we both absolutely enjoy

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By *one swap cplCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

This is all we are looking for

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

In my experience OP many husbands find it a complete turn on to watch their wife enjoying another man. It doesn’t mean they have another agenda - they just want to watch their wife.

I love being watched by hubbies but in my experience just because he is “passive” doesn’t mean that he doesn’t want to feel left out on the social side. Make sure that whoever you choose to join you also treats hubby with respect from a social perspective.

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By *otwife and Him 69Couple
over a year ago

Preston

Yes this is our dynamic and much more popular than we’d of thought.

Him - I love watching my wife have sex she looks amazing, sometimes I’ll join in other times I take enough pleasure just watching.

Her - although initially similar to the op it felt a little wrong maybe I now enjoy my hubby watching me and love putting on a show for him

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By *ouple_neCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

It works for us… we were very apprehensive about it at first, fantasised about it for ages before we took the plunge, but we both love it and if anything we are closer than anything because of it…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Our relationship has developed in recent years and my husband now enjoys watching me have sex with other men. He has no interest in sex with other women. Its taken me a while to understand and adapt to this as it felt so wrong to me.

Interested to hear from other couples who have a similar dynamic, how things work for them and any problems encountered.... "

It is definitely a thing and something I have come across quite a lot, as a single guy it was a little strange at first just being watched but I got used to it and now find it quite a turn on...

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By *oolman34Man
over a year ago

london

And i love being watched by the cuck hisband while i fuck the wife. X

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By *annibal_LickedherMan
over a year ago

The Side of the Mersey

Love how all the “bulls” are answering a question that wasn’t asked by the OP.

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By *loscouplegl3Couple
over a year ago

Gloucester

We started off with ‘wife swapping’ but over the years we ave become more and more hotwife.

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By *tsonlyfun123Man
over a year ago

Manchester

I don't understand what the husband gets from it, they view there partners has trophies and they must be very secure, there is a huge chance of affairs if he's not getting inolved in the sex and some female partner are then turned off by there hubby and seen as weak for finding other men to satisfy there wife, its risky and totally different to mmf fun abd you will also get some hubbies let there wifes out 1 to 1 with other men, thats very risky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's nice that husbands are secure enough to ensure its all about maximum pleasure for their wives.met a few couples in the past and its all about respecting their scenario and relationship and ensuring the wife is given the attention and pleasure from all that are there .

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By *annibal_LickedherMan
over a year ago

The Side of the Mersey


"I don't understand what the husband gets from it, they view there partners has trophies and they must be very secure, there is a huge chance of affairs if he's not getting inolved in the sex and some female partner are then turned off by there hubby and seen as weak for finding other men to satisfy there wife, its risky and totally different to mmf fun abd you will also get some hubbies let there wifes out 1 to 1 with other men, thats very risky. "

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By *iverpool 2Couple
over a year ago

Liverpool

It’s all about dynamics and kinks, in our normal vanilla life mrs L2 can get really jealous if a woman chats me up in a bar etc, yet when we swing it turns her on massively watching me fuck another woman, I also love seeing her get fucked too

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By *ischiefManaged69Couple
over a year ago

Preston


"I don't understand what the husband gets from it, they view there partners has trophies and they must be very secure, there is a huge chance of affairs if he's not getting inolved in the sex and some female partner are then turned off by there hubby and seen as weak for finding other men to satisfy there wife, its risky and totally different to mmf fun abd you will also get some hubbies let there wifes out 1 to 1 with other men, thats very risky. "

I'd say that depends on how Confident and secure you are in your relationship? There's no concern or worry with us, we love each other and sometimes feel like being inappropriate with others, together or apart. We always share the experience, even if we're not physically together, we share via pics, vids or calls so we're both involved at the time.

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By *annibal_LickedherMan
over a year ago

The Side of the Mersey


"I don't understand what the husband gets from it, they view there partners has trophies and they must be very secure, there is a huge chance of affairs if he's not getting inolved in the sex and some female partner are then turned off by there hubby and seen as weak for finding other men to satisfy there wife, its risky and totally different to mmf fun abd you will also get some hubbies let there wifes out 1 to 1 with other men, thats very risky.

I'd say that depends on how Confident and secure you are in your relationship? There's no concern or worry with us, we love each other and sometimes feel like being inappropriate with others, together or apart. We always share the experience, even if we're not physically together, we share via pics, vids or calls so we're both involved at the time.

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Well said

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By *ischiefManaged69Couple
over a year ago

Preston


"Our relationship has developed in recent years and my husband now enjoys watching me have sex with other men. He has no interest in sex with other women. Its taken me a while to understand and adapt to this as it felt so wrong to me.

Interested to hear from other couples who have a similar dynamic, how things work for them and any problems encountered.... "

We're not quite the same..... We love threesomes, and play together at clubs or with couples sometimes. Sometimes, we just want to do something filthy! Recently I watched T have an MFM on camera while I was in another room, it was insanely hot!

We're completely in love with each other and secure in our relationship, if we weren't, we couldn't do this. If you're both genuinely happy and enjoy the dynamic.....

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By *ischiefManaged69Couple
over a year ago

Preston


"Our relationship has developed in recent years and my husband now enjoys watching me have sex with other men. He has no interest in sex with other women. Its taken me a while to understand and adapt to this as it felt so wrong to me.

Interested to hear from other couples who have a similar dynamic, how things work for them and any problems encountered....

This is why we joined! Lol.

I absolutely love watching Mrs getting fucked, absolutely nothing better! Helping her choose her new guy, helping her choose what to wear for her naughty meet, then meeting together, the flirting, sexual chemistry and then watching as they get it on fully and she becomes his for their time together! "

There is something really hot about helping Vixen get dressed and ready to play with others!

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By *ongueabilityMan
over a year ago

manchester

It’s never wrong to enjoy your life it’s not a practice run and if it excites your hubby then be wild free and live your best life x

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By *d4funtimesMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

What surprised me was how the two feelings were intertwined, the feeling to be watched by her husband and how she enjoyed been free of exploring withhis consent.

I never imagined could be a turn-on, and if you haven't experienced that, my words will probably just don't wait any longer.

What happened was this. We were chating at the hotel bar. We were getting on well. They wee getting flirting between themselves. I was starting that it was probably best to let them continue the evening alone, but he started to give her complement about her red bra. Then he asked my opinion about the colour. She let him open one button. I told them that I like red, and her cleavage looked nice.

They continued to fool around with their words while she started to touch my hand and playing with her hairs.

We finished our drink, and mentioned to get another one, when he mentioned that they had a bottle of prosecco upstairs.

I followed them to their room we opened the bottle, she sat next to me, while we continued chatting about lingerie colour, she removed one more button, to show her cup size. I remember asking if the colour where coordinated. She replied 'I forgot, best to check if you wish'. He was looking smiling, thus I pulled the back of her squirt to look. Oh yes it was red too.

I let my hands where over her breats, started to flirting with her nipples. She layed backwards on the bed, to let me finishing to undo her neck blouse.

Her nipples looked to irresistible, I started suckling and playing with them while my fingers were flirting.

He poored himself another glass and sat watching. When we kisses with our tongues, my hands started to play with her lips and clip. I was feeling her getting wet. She pool off her squirt and I went down on her, it was delicious,

Thereafter, I layer over the bed, she standed up over my mouth, directing my tongue. She was dripping wet, it is when my fingers joined in, it was delightful.

Time to Time, she was touching, checking how hard I was. Her delicate lips were making me dripping of pre-cum. She turned around, to give play and squeezing me to watch how much pre-cum there were.

Somehow, we had no more clothes, she was on top, we were playing in a 69 position. Then, I could not hold on anymore. He was watching me cummings in her mouth while my fingers and tongue where in her pussy and bum. It was an explosion as she has been playing in me too.

Few moments passed, for us to recover, it is when he standed up, it felt it was the time to go, he wanted his reclaim sex, and she called him to come, she wanted him inside her now ...

What a fabulous night

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"It’s never wrong to enjoy your life it’s not a practice run and if it excites your hubby then be wild free and live your best life x"

Well said!

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By *ew_username_timeMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

My wife has the freedom to fuck who she wants and it's such a turn on watching her get ready to go out. Putting on very sexy lingerie, huge heels and a freshly shaved pussy. I have never watched her with another guy but she's sent me videos and photos when with other guys. Whenever she's been chatting to another guy and swapping photos she shows me the chats and photos and then asks "can I fuck him baby?" I've never been able to say now.

Reclaim sex is incredible knowing that another guy had just fucked my wife all night.

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By *verready5000Man
over a year ago

mansfield

I’d love my wife to do this, I told her an ex work mate wanted to shag her and she kinda was leaning to the idea, saying well he can fuck me if he and you want but I’m not bothered etc. her eyes lite up when I said well I haven’t asked him how big his cock is etc. spoke about it for a while but unfortunately she said she didn’t want to do it. It’s a shame as I’d of loved to do this. Would of been good for her as I’m the only one she’s been with.

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By *ew_username_timeMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I’d love my wife to do this, I told her an ex work mate wanted to shag her and she kinda was leaning to the idea, saying well he can fuck me if he and you want but I’m not bothered etc. her eyes lite up when I said well I haven’t asked him how big his cock is etc. spoke about it for a while but unfortunately she said she didn’t want to do it. It’s a shame as I’d of loved to do this. Would of been good for her as I’m the only one she’s been with. "

For us it all came about because a guy was all over her when she was out with a friend. She told me about it the next day and saw that I was turned on. She eventually wanked me off describing what she would do if she got the chance. I told her to go for it so she found him on Facebook (very quickly I might add) and flirted with him for a while. He was right up for it until he found out that I knew. I had to send him a message assuring him that it would be OK and to fuck her.

After that the flood gates opened and she's fucked in the region of 20 guys since.

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By *ustyMilfxxxCouple
over a year ago

Swansea

I’ve met some amazing guys off here, and R enjoyed watching in person, or via video if I wasnt with him.

The next step is me going on a night out, finding a guy/ guys flirting, and seeing what happens next.

However, I feel this is a bit harder to achieve!!

I have never picked a guy up from a bar, so Im inexperienced in that regard. I also struggle with my confidence.

I tried to find a “wing girl” to come out in the pull with me but no luck x

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By *ew_username_timeMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I’ve met some amazing guys off here, and R enjoyed watching in person, or via video if I wasnt with him.

The next step is me going on a night out, finding a guy/ guys flirting, and seeing what happens next.

However, I feel this is a bit harder to achieve!!

I have never picked a guy up from a bar, so Im inexperienced in that regard. I also struggle with my confidence.

I tried to find a “wing girl” to come out in the pull with me but no luck x "

You look absolutely fantastic and I bet that when you find your winegirl your husband will be hearing lots of filthy stories. I think that you'll be able to pull with ease. Go for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Absolutely love watching l with other guys...from the flirting to the time the guy walks into our home where she takes him by the hand to the bedroom....that first kiss then undressing each other. I rarely join in...not a cuck...just love watching "

Now that's a couple I'd love to meet, especially after checking out you profile

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By *allwelshcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Cwmbran

Love seeing Mrs tall enjoying another guy. We like to play as a 3 with him then she can arrange hotwife date nights with sleepovers. Like to get videos sent through the night.

Definitely a mutual decision and agree with other comments that is has brought us closer sexually as a couple. The claim back sex is super hot too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have a m dom f sub marriage. I love watching sub being used but join in too as we only meet bi blokes

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

Been on the lifestyle for a while and this is the thing that I come across most. They mainly want to take pics and film it too.

Of ten wonder How that conversation stRted and whats said after the deed is done.Often wondered how I would feel if the situation was reverend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve met some amazing guys off here, and R enjoyed watching in person, or via

video if I wasnt with him.

The next step is me going on a night out, finding a guy/ guys flirting, and seeing what happens next.

However, I feel this is a bit harder to achieve!!

I have never picked a guy up from a bar, so Im inexperienced in that regard. I also struggle with my confidence.

I tried to find a “wing girl” to come out in the pull with me but no luck x "

Im sure that you will be able to pick any guys you wanted in a bar x just flirt with them and get them excited then have your wicked way with them x

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By *ucelleCouple
over a year ago

Bishops Stortford

This is us. We invite guys to our house and have fun. Mr P loves to watch.

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By *lym4realCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

We have the same kind of dynamic as Mr4 loves seeing Mrs4 enjoying and being enjoyed by others ( male and female) nut Mr4 has played with other fems in the past but our prefered style of play is for Mrs4 top play with others

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By *ew2it.deCouple
over a year ago

Stoke on Trent

We don’t meet couples. Only men. It suits us.

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By *ew2it.deCouple
over a year ago

Stoke on Trent

We don’t meet couples. Only special men. It suits us.

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By *heBlowinsCouple
over a year ago

West Cork

We're mostly like this OP.. I (Mr.( have had some solo meets with women and couples but found I really don't care for anything like sharing K and watching her fuck as many men as she can manage. It's always been the cornerstone of our kink from the start and nothing is hotter to me than her pleasure and slutty consent

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By *ildmanYorksMan
over a year ago

Doncaster & Bembridge


"We don’t meet couples. Only special men. It suits us. "

Looking at her pics she is a special lady!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are the opposite , ive discovered that i get a massive kick out of watching hubby with other women. Would never of thought i would but its all about trust and after 30+ yrs together we both have that in bucket loads

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By *rnypairCouple
over a year ago

south Yorkshire

We started off with just the mrs playing with single guys while I watched but now we enjoy playing with other couples as well and still meet single guys now and again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Our relationship has developed in recent years and my husband now enjoys watching me have sex with other men. He has no interest in sex with other women. Its taken me a while to understand and adapt to this as it felt so wrong to me.

Interested to hear from other couples who have a similar dynamic, how things work for them and any problems encountered.... "

Until I meet Methuselah and buy him a pint of Guinness I will never understand why a man would share such a beautiful woman?

I stand by with a tin hat on to take the flak.......

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By *eedsmale36Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Loving all these positive posts from couples who’s husbands enjoy watching their wives with other men.

As an extra male in a few meets, I love playing with wives as their husbands watch, it’s a great dynamic when all parties have an enjoyable experience.

Keep up the good work

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By *eedsmale36Man
over a year ago

Leeds


"We started off with just the mrs playing with single guys while I watched but now we enjoy playing with other couples as well and still meet single guys now and again."

Added to my hotlist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Loving all these positive posts from couples who’s husbands enjoy watching their wives with other men.

As an extra male in a few meets, I love playing with wives as their husbands watch, it’s a great dynamic when all parties have an enjoyable experience.

Keep up the good work "

FFS "............

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love playing with married women

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By *asons_CarounnCouple
over a year ago

Manchester


"Our relationship has developed in recent years and my husband now enjoys watching me have sex with other men. He has no interest in sex with other women. Its taken me a while to understand and adapt to this as it felt so wrong to me.

Interested to hear from other couples who have a similar dynamic, how things work for them and any problems encountered....

Until I meet Methuselah and buy him a pint of Guinness I will never understand why a man would share such a beautiful woman?

I stand by with a tin hat on to take the flak......."

You might just be missing the point of the lifestyle somewhat there fella.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Our relationship has developed in recent years and my husband now enjoys watching me have sex with other men. He has no interest in sex with other women. Its taken me a while to understand and adapt to this as it felt so wrong to me.

Interested to hear from other couples who have a similar dynamic, how things work for them and any problems encountered....

Until I meet Methuselah and buy him a pint of Guinness I will never understand why a man would share such a beautiful woman?

I stand by with a tin hat on to take the flak.......

You might just be missing the point of the lifestyle somewhat there fella."

Yes you are quite correct!

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By *ueandbillCouple
over a year ago

Leyland

we only meet single guys and I just watch , never join in

To watch another guy give her so much attention and watch her enjoy him is a great feeling

Cant really put my finger on the exact reason, so many emotions run through my head on a meet but we both enjoy it

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By *unseekers1969Couple
over a year ago

South west

Love to watch wifey have fun

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Our relationship has developed in recent years and my husband now enjoys watching me have sex with other men. He has no interest in sex with other women. Its taken me a while to understand and adapt to this as it felt so wrong to me.

Interested to hear from other couples who have a similar dynamic, how things work for them and any problems encountered....

Until I meet Methuselah and buy him a pint of Guinness I will never understand why a man would share such a beautiful woman?

I stand by with a tin hat on to take the flak......."

Maybe because a man and woman in a relationship enjoy pleasure under their own definitions, and are entirely untroubled by traditional norms of morality around relationships, and the sharing of others in their sex lives?

It’s not very complicated really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Our relationship has developed in recent years and my husband now enjoys watching me have sex with other men. He has no interest in sex with other women. Its taken me a while to understand and adapt to this as it felt so wrong to me.

Interested to hear from other couples who have a similar dynamic, how things work for them and any problems encountered....

Until I meet Methuselah and buy him a pint of Guinness I will never understand why a man would share such a beautiful woman?

I stand by with a tin hat on to take the flak.......

Maybe because a man and woman in a relationship enjoy pleasure under their own definitions, and are entirely untroubled by traditional norms of morality around relationships, and the sharing of others in their sex lives?

It’s not very complicated really."

Actually the dynamics are very complicated and extremely intricate.

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Then perhaps you do understand after all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Then perhaps you do understand after all."

Nope never in a million years. Am I in the wrong place?

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By *iss pleasuringWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near


"This is very much our dynamic also.

I did struggle to wrap my head round it for a while. But I completely understand where R is coming from now.

The only issue we come up against is when we look for another Fem for me to play with… it never works as they all want to have sex with R….

I didn’t realise there were so many couples like us x"

This is a reason why i stopped playing with a couple. I felt like the toy for the couple

And I wasn't enjoying it and too false

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By *elshcouple4000Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

I love her fucking others also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is very much our dynamic also.

I did struggle to wrap my head round it for a while. But I completely understand where R is coming from now.

The only issue we come up against is when we look for another Fem for me to play with… it never works as they all want to have sex with R….

I didn’t realise there were so many couples like us x

This is a reason why i stopped playing with a couple. I felt like the toy for the couple

And I wasn't enjoying it and too false "

But not in Northwich next Tuesday?

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By *ifesabeachCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

We both enjoy watching each other with different people so get that bit, but also like partaking ourselves too.

We're all different though so if it works for you and you're all having fun enjoy the ride

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By *erksbadgerMan
over a year ago

Wokingham

One of the many, many things I love about my partner is that she is a highly sexual being. I love seeing her orgasm. I love it when she is horny for cock. I love the look on her face when a cock first slides into her, or when she feels it pulse as it squirts in her.

I'm not afraid of sharing her. Why should I be? I hate to break it to you fellas, but your cock is not some magic wand with the awesome power to break a relationship as strong as ours. It's just a cock. Cocks are for having fun with.

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By *ubcup2Couple
over a year ago

London

That's exactly how it was when we started.

I was convinced that he only wanted to watch me with other guys because I thought he wanted to fuck other women.

How wrong I was.

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By *iss pleasuringWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near


"This is very much our dynamic also.

I did struggle to wrap my head round it for a while. But I completely understand where R is coming from now.

The only issue we come up against is when we look for another Fem for me to play with… it never works as they all want to have sex with R….

I didn’t realise there were so many couples like us x

This is a reason why i stopped playing with a couple. I felt like the toy for the couple

And I wasn't enjoying it and too false

But not in Northwich next Tuesday?"

Why what's happening

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By *ischiefManaged69Couple
over a year ago

Preston


"Then perhaps you do understand after all.

Nope never in a million years. Am I in the wrong place?"

Quite possibly....

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

Love it

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By *tsJustKateWoman
over a year ago

London


"Our relationship has developed in recent years and my husband now enjoys watching me have sex with other men. He has no interest in sex with other women. Its taken me a while to understand and adapt to this as it felt so wrong to me.

Interested to hear from other couples who have a similar dynamic, how things work for them and any problems encountered.... "

We have exactly the same relationship. He used to love watching me with other guys but now he's happy for me to meet alone. He has never shown any desire to be with another woman.

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By *ubmissive Couple4funCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I love watching my wife, we will try a female and couple but we ultimately will probably prefer mfm/cuckold

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By *heahireladMan
over a year ago

crewe

Had 1 experience of being watched fucking a guys wife and it was a real turn on x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love watching my wife, we will try a female and couple but we ultimately will probably prefer mfm/cuckold "

Brilliant to hear that m8.Keep me in mind if yous are ever looking for a good bit of fun x

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By *ewismixedbbcMan
over a year ago

birmingham

Love fucking a guys wife while they watch but turn on makes me stride harder every time I dip my cock in

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By *hosewhomgonakedCouple
over a year ago

Scotland

We mostly play like this too, but partly because it's the easiest to arrange.

We do play with couples, and that can be nice but I find I get distracted by listening to what she is up to, or end up thinking I'm missing seeing her with the guy instead of being able to get into the moment with the other woman.

MMF is usually much more fun and can see and enjoy her having fun and join in when its right.

We do however meet single females too, and that can work out well, think in general for us threesomes work better than two couples, although it gets better again when the group is even larger!

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

Love watching Mrs ct with another woman. She knows how much I enjoy it and it turns us both on so much

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By *blasiansCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

Interesting to read others experiences and makes us realise that watching each other was key part of journey, which we may not have appreciated fully.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've tried to jumble this idea in my head for a while. How would I feel if another man took her while I watch or join. At the current stage, it grosses me out.

At the moment. We both so to say need to make a compromise. If I want a girl and she wants the guy in a couple, then we both give up something I guess.

Currently we're at a point where I can easily watch her with another girl and take no part. It turns me on quite a lot.

The thought of another man though doesn't. I'm not bi but I appreciate a good looking man when I see one and perhaps if we met someone that we both like then we'd explore the option of MFM.

Great to read both sides of the argument though. Each their own. Never know where we'll end up with enough experimentation.

Minds change all the time, see how oura does.

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

Definitely something I like with couples. Quite rare to find but enjoyable for all.

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By *aveing funCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

It’s whatever your comfortable with I enjoy watching as much as taking part

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve had some fabulous MMF meets. Husband watches while i perform what he and she wants. Perfect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How can he have no intreste in sex with you your gorgeous

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By *arried West End CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Hubby loves watching His Hotwife playing with other guys

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"I've tried to jumble this idea in my head for a while. How would I feel if another man took her while I watch or join. At the current stage, it grosses me out.

At the moment. We both so to say need to make a compromise. If I want a girl and she wants the guy in a couple, then we both give up something I guess.

Currently we're at a point where I can easily watch her with another girl and take no part. It turns me on quite a lot.

The thought of another man though doesn't. I'm not bi but I appreciate a good looking man when I see one and perhaps if we met someone that we both like then we'd explore the option of MFM.

Great to read both sides of the argument though. Each their own. Never know where we'll end up with enough experimentation.

Minds change all the time, see how oura does. "

How would you feel if she wanted to play with another guy, but you didn’t watch or join in? Not something you would do?

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By *inks_n_GigglesMan
over a year ago

Basingstoke

I have met couples to enjoy this dynamic and even got to enjoy it as the "Stag" from a long term relationship. There are some pics taken by hubby on my profile for you to enjoy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still yet to experience this but it's our goal !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love seeing Ange with other men. We also love the build up to the meet. What she is going to wear etc. So fucking horny knowing what she is going to do. Even more so afterwards. "

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By *eedsmale36Man
over a year ago

Leeds


"Loving all these positive posts from couples who’s husbands enjoy watching their wives with other men.

As an extra male in a few meets, I love playing with wives as their husbands watch, it’s a great dynamic when all parties have an enjoyable experience.

Keep up the good work

FFS "............"

Hey everybody celebrate Carl’s back with his 65 year old legs, has a bus pass and can travel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love watching my wife take another guy, I'm not a cuck, I do always join in its just the whole experience of seeing and hearing her take us both.

Your husband obviously gets satisfaction from seeing you with other men, as long as your ok with it then go with the flow and enjoy.

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By *9 kisses.Man
over a year ago

clacton on sea

In the summer I met a couple,

I was sitting chatting to her to start with, she began by touching my arm then leg, Very nervous as the husband just sat there watching, then in the bedroom he was encouraging her and she got very turned on as was I,

And I could see the husband was as well, I'm sure they had a great time as I left,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can honestly say from a man's point of view wanting to watch his partner with another guy. I have 0 interest in other women at all or couple swapping I just want to watch my wife. Like watching your favourite porn star in real life!

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By *rsMoonreturns OP   Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

thanks for all your posts and its been good reading through to understand and appreciate other dynamics.

a few people have messaged privately and suggested as long as Im comfortable I should just go for it. Just to be clear this is something we have been doing for quite some time already.

Although my preference is girl girl play I can firmly now say I enjoy fully playing with couples where I get spoiled by both ans my husband gets suitably turned on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve really enjoyed watching my good lady with other guys. She enjoys the experience too. She is a lot wetter than normal, and quite often does things with them which we don’t normally do.

We also have a fiend who she is potentially going to have as a regular. That will be a huge turn on.

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By *ritishAsianMan
over a year ago

Leeds

I am interested in meeting a hotwife couple

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